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Eve-Online Dating.

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highonpop
KarmaFleet
Goonswarm Federation
#141 - 2012-02-15 17:25:23 UTC
Kuning wrote:
Ladies, ladies.

I will rock you like a hurricane.

Cause, cause I fly hurricanes.

Get it?

Also I'll put my HIC in your hole.



please traverse the void to high sec and pod yourself

FC, what do?

Zyress
Caldari Provisions
Caldari State
#142 - 2012-02-15 17:37:45 UTC
Spineker wrote:
Man has the world become this pathetic. Just ask the girl out at work you have been scared to ask for months or years.

That sort of $hit can get you fired in this country.
Zyress
Caldari Provisions
Caldari State
#143 - 2012-02-15 17:44:08 UTC
Nephilius wrote:
Ananke Liroj wrote:
I read several pages of this, and I'm both depressed and distressed that a large portion of responding males seem to believe that not one single woman who plays EVE is attractive in any way. On the other hand, I'm beyond enraged when I see other women using their gender in a perverted corruption of its elegance and beauty; they con, swindle, and manipulate men in a fashion only befitting of the basest females of society. I have been called a prude, but surely some of the hostility being flung in my face by men is a direct result of these tramps, who so flippantly toy with very deep-seated urges and emotions? I assure you, gentlemen and not-so-gentle men, that there are those of us who are neither homely nor histrionic, who aspire to grace and poise in all things... even Internet space ships.


Generally speaking, yeah, there is a mindset that if you are female and playing an MMO, you are not attractive. I know better, but any females I meet (if they are truly of the fairer sex) I give a relatively average appearance in my head. Just makes it easier if they all look the same. Then again, I also assume every person behind the toon is a male unless otherwise corrected. This allows me to operate on a professional level without worrying about other distractions.

On your point of harlotry, I think that it's unfair to assume that all women who use their charms are of the basest classification. Only a fool does not use the tools given to him to advance and succeed in life. History is rife with the mechinations of beautiful women who, through a twist of gender fate, could not seize power for themselves and thus used a man to do it for them. I do not begrudge them for that, rather I applaud them. I do not think that it lowers their value as a person, because they are making use of what they have. If anything, I view with contempt the men that can so easily be manipulated. At my age, I see the games for what they are, but ten years ago would have been another matter.

I have a demotivational poster that reads; SEXISM - Only ugly women complain about it. Whether a true stereotype or not is irrelevent (Of course, I have another that says STEREOTYPES - They exist for a reason...take that as you will), and I am actually surprised someone hasn't fired that grapeshot in response to what you posted. Nevertheless, how you view things doesn't make them any more right or wrong then how I view things. If using your tools is abhorrent and offensive to you, then by Jupiter's Crack, don't use them. You can't change others who will use them, to greater or lesser effect. Rather, you should take pride in how you conduct yourself and go about your life.

As for the WGoE, seems like a nice bunch. Visited their channel last night, had a goofy chat with a guy named Deuce and then went about my merry way. The rest of them reminded me of cats when you let the dog in...very wary and quiet, with that lurker mode on. Good times.


hmmmm harlotry.... new skill book?
Trainwreck McGee
Doomheim
#144 - 2012-02-15 17:52:03 UTC
i would never date an EVE player you are all ******

CCP Trainwreck - Weekend Custodial Engineer / CCP Necrogoats foot stool

Zyress
Caldari Provisions
Caldari State
#145 - 2012-02-15 17:54:51 UTC
I once saw a post on here from someone claiming to be the mother of children she forced to mine for her for disciplinarian reasons, I was enchanted.
Mintchip
Catocalypse Meow
ZOMBIE KITTY FORCE
#146 - 2012-02-15 21:13:07 UTC
highonpop wrote:
Julyan Fox wrote:
Eve has girls?



if you count mintchip as a female, then... yes.



I am female. I know you may haven't seen many - so it can be hard to tell. :P

Check out my Youtube Channel Mintchiplol Join My ingame Channel:  Mintchip's Channel

shannon johanson
The Scope
Gallente Federation
#147 - 2012-02-15 23:49:24 UTC
Demonfuge Malevolent wrote:
Because:

1. Over 95% of players are male
2. Long distance
3. How do you know what s/he looks like?

And most importantly, this game mostly breeds evil, scum-sucking douchebags, so would you really want to be with a girl like that?

Actually, forget that last bit. I have yet to date a girl who isn't an evil, scum-sucking douchebag...



amen BROTHER!!! Hallelujah!!!! lmao =)

In my life , I know only the female members of my family and two other non-family members women that aren't evil, scum-sucking douchebag women.
BTW, one of my mains is a girl and the very first Alliance she was in, I was getting hit on by a native CCP (Iceland) individual.
when I got on comms, he **** in his pants and I told him, he needs to learn how to spell his country with a small suffix added to it. lmao
Most of my characters are girls.
Don't ya think, I'm sexy, baby? LolPTwistedEvil
you buy me a TITAN and I'll love you long time. Lol
shannon johanson
The Scope
Gallente Federation
#148 - 2012-02-15 23:59:15 UTC
Zixie Draco wrote:
Nope...I don't expect any new stalkers...nor is this a troll attempt.

After all, when Laedy single handedly won last year's alliance tourney, CCP Soudwave actually let her put in a plug for the public channel. At any given time there are around 20 - 40 "certified" ladies playing EVE. They have gone through a rather rigorous interview (voice and questions to eliminate imposters etc.)

Anyway, we occasionally put up an advert to any ladies interested and also for guys wanting to meet "real" girls. That's all. :)



I want a pretty kitty, Zixie. Big smile
shannon johanson
The Scope
Gallente Federation
#149 - 2012-02-16 00:04:42 UTC
Shawnm339 wrote:
I have seen pics of someo of the girls that inhabit EVE not a pleasant experience




c'mon Shawn, they can't be as bad as some of the women that I've seen pictures of that play World of Tanks (WOT) Lol
The pics of some of the women I've seen that play WOT make trolls look like bloody Cinderella.
someone pod my a** please. Lol
Ismol Mond
Doomheim
#150 - 2012-02-16 01:28:59 UTC
Zyress wrote:
I once saw a post on here from someone claiming to be the mother of children she forced to mine for her for disciplinarian reasons, I was enchanted.

That is enchanting and just the type of woman Eve needs more of. I think. Girls and Eve Online? I just don't know what would attract more female gamers to this awesome sandbox. Vampires? No. A farm in every CQ? No. The Nex? No.
It is a tough call but just as there are very few women who play rugby perhaps Eve is mostly a guys game and to try and draw more female gamers in without diluting the confrontational and risk elements that makes this game so unique and addicting might not be possible. It's not that hopeless though, women are acting more and more as self-absored and brutish as most men have always acted so they may make their way here yet. In the meantime the bigger the breasts of the avatar the more likely it is a guy behind the screen. Remember that.
PS Mintchip is a hottie so quit pretending she's not
Richter Enderas
Kaesong Kosmonauts
#151 - 2012-02-16 01:49:42 UTC
find me a woman that plays eve, can enjoy goofy internet humor, is mildly pretty, and isn't shallow or boring

and i will trade you all my shorefront properties in tucson for it
Nemesis Factor
Deep Core Mining Inc.
Caldari State
#152 - 2012-02-16 02:35:59 UTC
Lyrrashae wrote:
Spineker wrote:
Man has the world become this pathetic. Just ask the girl out at work you have been scared to ask for months or years.



Meh: In-office romances = baaaaaaad idea.

Because if/when things go pear-shaped, then you'll still have to see and deal with that person everyday, and that's notwithstanding the results of whatever office-gossip may arise thereby.



Doesn't have to be in your office. I will frequently go to an office a couple floors away and ask the ladies if they would like to transfer to my staff. Works every time sometimes.
Berke Negri
Deep Core Mining Inc.
Caldari State
#153 - 2012-02-16 02:46:33 UTC
shannon johanson wrote:
Demonfuge Malevolent wrote:
Because:

1. Over 95% of players are male
2. Long distance
3. How do you know what s/he looks like?

And most importantly, this game mostly breeds evil, scum-sucking douchebags, so would you really want to be with a girl like that?

Actually, forget that last bit. I have yet to date a girl who isn't an evil, scum-sucking douchebag...



amen BROTHER!!! Hallelujah!!!! lmao =)

In my life , I know only the female members of my family and two other non-family members women that aren't evil, scum-sucking douchebag women.


tell me more about what you read on the men's rights subreddit, eve nerd
Cajunspitfire
Thunderwaffe
Goonswarm Federation
#154 - 2012-02-16 08:06:04 UTC
Mintchip wrote:
highonpop wrote:
Julyan Fox wrote:
Eve has girls?



if you count mintchip as a female, then... yes.



I am female. I know you may haven't seen many - so it can be hard to tell. :P



Eve Toon is female + actual female with a pulse = unheard of. Most impressive and I am just excited at the prospect of getting interstellar harassment charges laid by concord.
Brunmunde Hildegaard
The Green Machine
That Escalated Quickly.
#155 - 2012-02-16 10:30:28 UTC
What a stupid thread.

Everyone taking this topic seriously please just /wrists along with all the RP'ers and carebears

"Sings me a dances of wolfs, who smells fear and slays the coward. Sings me a dances of mans, who smells gold and slays his brother."

Khanh'rhh
Sparkle Motion.
#156 - 2012-02-16 11:31:50 UTC
There is no more awkward an experience than sharing voice comms in Eve with a female.

Why? Because without fail you'll get the guys doing one of two things:

1) OMG GURL LAWLLLL **** OR GTFO LAWRLLLL

2) OMG I don't want to be like 1) .. lets all be artificially nice and fluffy because girls are sugar and spice and BAN THAT GUY FOR LINKING TO FUKUNG.

It's sad guys, really. If you stop trying to treat women like women (i.e. any differently than anyone else before you know their gender either way) then you just might find more playing.

The small handful of women I do know who play eve are largely indistinguishable in their humour and Eve etiquette from the guys.

"Do not touch anything unnecessarily. Beware of pretty girls in dance halls and parks who may be spies, as well as bicycles, revolvers, uniforms, arms, dead horses, and men lying on roads -- they are not there accidentally." -Soviet infantry manual,

Red Teufel
Calamitous-Intent
#157 - 2012-02-16 13:51:49 UTC
The club dating service. grantee you get any woman you want. for only 19.99 you will recieve "The Club." how it works you go outside, find a woman, hit her with the club, and now you got a girl. This has been used in ancient times and there is no reason it wouldn't work today. order now and for only 25.99 you will recieve not one but two clubs!
Jafit
Caldari Provisions
Caldari State
#158 - 2012-02-16 13:59:04 UTC
Khanh'rhh wrote:
There is no more awkward an experience than sharing voice comms in Eve with a female.

Why? Because without fail you'll get the guys doing one of two things:

1) OMG GURL LAWLLLL **** OR GTFO LAWRLLLL

2) OMG I don't want to be like 1) .. lets all be artificially nice and fluffy because girls are sugar and spice and BAN THAT GUY FOR LINKING TO FUKUNG.

It's sad guys, really. If you stop trying to treat women like women (i.e. any differently than anyone else before you know their gender either way) then you just might find more playing.

The small handful of women I do know who play eve are largely indistinguishable in their humour and Eve etiquette from the guys.


We have at least 4 known girls in our 5460 member alliance.

#swag

CoolCoolCoolCoolCoolCoolCool

Two of them do hang out in the Bacon Bar on our mumble, there is an occasional awkward moment where someone behaves like a colossal neckbeard, but mostly we're fine.
seany1212
M Y S T
#159 - 2012-02-16 14:03:26 UTC
Mintchip wrote:
highonpop wrote:
Julyan Fox wrote:
Eve has girls?



if you count mintchip as a female, then... yes.



I am female. I know you may haven't seen many - so it can be hard to tell. :P


Ohhhhhhh, is that what you were meant to be? i just thought you were a terrible troll Roll

Also, INB4Mintchip/Garmon-eskincidents Lol
Vertisce Soritenshi
The Scope
Gallente Federation
#160 - 2012-02-16 14:18:07 UTC
Julyan Fox wrote:
DeMichael Crimson wrote:


Yeah, there's a few of em but for the most part in Eve:

GIRL = Guy In Real Life.


ROFL

And even then, the ones that are really girls look like guys in real life.

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