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[Serious Discussion] This game's community leaves much to be desired

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baltec1
Bat Country
Pandemic Horde
#361 - 2014-03-15 17:01:28 UTC
Bagrat Skalski wrote:
Jonah Gravenstein wrote:
baltec1 wrote:
Bagrat Skalski wrote:
If you are about to pod or after you gank someone, wish him good luck next time, with smile, is that so much to ask? These people are certainly worth these words.


When ganking there is little time for such things.
It's also likely to be seen as adding insult to injury, and cause more threads like this.


Whoa, those people need a break, or tell them its only a game.


That would cause yet more rageBig smile
Jenn aSide
Soul Machines
The Initiative.
#362 - 2014-03-15 17:05:15 UTC  |  Edited by: Jenn aSide
Antisocial Malkavian wrote:
The community here is nothing. You wanna see ****, look at a game called "Mechwarrior Online".

THEIR subreddit split in two (lol) because there was a really **** moderator and apparent paid shill named Congzilla, who was stifling dissent so the Goons took over (mind you they created the subreddit in the first place, then left as the game was revealed to be more and more ****, and non Goons got mod positions - effectively "taking over") kicked him out, and decided there would be no more moderating comments or bans.

The defenders of all things MWO basically said, "FINE then we're taking our ball home" and threw a hissy fit known as hpgoutreach. One of the mods there made this massive rant on how he was taking all the content creators there and now the Reddit is split in two lol.


The Mechwarrior 4 community (spread across various league forums, Dropshipcommand.com and the Netbattletech forums) was the same way a decade before MWO came out. The various EVE forums are quite tame in comparison.

The problem with some EVE players and especially posters is that they mostly only play EVE/visit EVe related forums and don't have a broad enough perspective to understand what's what.

The EVE community is one of the more stable and mature ones. That's why CCP has fanfest every year and the worst thing you hear about is some dude with bad BO or a couple guys starting a space war because one guy called the other guy's girlfriend "hefty". A Mechwarrior (or Call of Duty or Halo or leage of Legends ect ect) community gathering like that would most likely require actual security planning and increased insurance payments lol.
Bagrat Skalski
Koinuun Kotei
#363 - 2014-03-15 17:05:40 UTC  |  Edited by: Bagrat Skalski
baltec1 wrote:
That would cause yet more rageBig smile


"No hard feelings Bro" too? What times we are living in.... What game we are playing, a monster of a game....
Jonah Gravenstein
Machiavellian Space Bastards
#364 - 2014-03-15 17:07:41 UTC  |  Edited by: Jonah Gravenstein
Bagrat Skalski wrote:
Still you can wish it to the pilot after you gank him and loot the wreck. All what is despised in the whole thing is a sompletely psychopatic effect when you did not bother even to say anything to a man. You look there like a rogue drone not a man. Be a man, not a complete jerk. Is that so hard? Roll
You've obviously never seen the reactions of some people when they get ganked, any attempts to contact or engage with some of them in conversation is generally met with a torrent of abuse including death threats, the wishing of crippling disease and misfortune upon your family (both out of game), vitriol and hatred.

Yes ganking people may seem jerk like, however, wishing death, crippling disease and misfortune on someone and their family in real life over the explosion of some internet spaceships, in a game that revolves around said explosions, falls outside the range of being a jerk and into the realms of being an obnoxious individual with no concept of the difference between what happens in a game and what happens in real life.

Most gankers couldn't give two hoots what people say or threaten in the context of the game, because it's within the game. Take it outside of the game and it becomes a matter for the shrinks and the old bill.

Bagrat Skalski wrote:
Whoa, those people need a break, or tell them its only a game.
Lol, people do, and then we end up with threads like this, and their associated holier than thou, if you do bad in a game you're bad IRL, hangers on.

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baltec1
Bat Country
Pandemic Horde
#365 - 2014-03-15 17:10:28 UTC  |  Edited by: baltec1
Bagrat Skalski wrote:


"No hard feelings Bro" too? What times we are living in....


Bears are the most angry players in EVE and thats the truth, the hatred they can display is unreal at times.
Tippia
Sunshine and Lollipops
#366 - 2014-03-15 17:16:29 UTC  |  Edited by: Tippia
baltec1 wrote:
Bagrat Skalski wrote:


"No hard feelings Bro" too? What times we are living in....

Bears are the most angry players in EVE and thats the truth, the hatred they can display is unreal at times.

I'll put this forward as an illustration of what I got from one: someone wishing me dead for posting on a forum… And I'm not even a ganker — I'm sure those who actually do stuff in game have seen far worse. Ugh
Jenn aSide
Soul Machines
The Initiative.
#367 - 2014-03-15 17:21:27 UTC
baltec1 wrote:
Bagrat Skalski wrote:


"No hard feelings Bro" too? What times we are living in....


Bears are the most angry players in EVE and thats the truth, the hatred they can display is unreal at times.


One of my buddies on this forum mentioned someone sending a picture of his own house after he ganked someone (ie played the game within the rules). Another well known pirate on these forums that I talk with via PMs told me of a similar situation where he had to involve law enforcement because of actual threats. And those of 2 of the tamer examples.

Bagrat Skalski
Koinuun Kotei
#368 - 2014-03-15 17:21:38 UTC
I am a bear and i have been podded and ganked, and i wasn't that mad. But I have some background in PvP in other games and know how pointless it is to throw tantrums. Game isn't over. We all will have our butts kicked repeatedly playing this game. We are all in it together. Lol
Iam The Empress
Doomheim
#369 - 2014-03-15 17:25:20 UTC
baltec1 wrote:
Iam The Empress wrote:
The game is a cess pit of horrible people and i agre with you. The corp i run is based on real life first and anyone who is not a decent person is ejected within 24 hours of joining.

The best thing to do is fine a corp like ours and just stick with them.

Also streaming is never a good idea mate. It truly isnt.

The internet brings out the worst in people and tbh

I have nothing but contempt for around 80% of the eve community.

They are disgusting excuses for humans who take delight in insulting others for the sake of it, and 90% of them are on this game 24/7 and have no lives. It is a sad state of affairs, but a true one.

I will be +1 your post because you are right. We have recruited people from other games straight into our corporation and they have expressed a disgust at the eve forums and reddit.

I 100% agree with you.

It needs to change but as most of the devs and gms are ex null players, they have the same attitudes.

Empress


You come to a PvP focused game and get angry when people PvP you...


If you had seen my corps pvp killboard, you would realise how stupid that comment is since that is ALL WE DO, however, we have strict rules, no smack in loca, no abuse, no stupid behaviour, treat people with respect.

There is no excuse for the behaviour of people in this game
Salvos Rhoska
#370 - 2014-03-15 17:32:54 UTC  |  Edited by: Salvos Rhoska
Iam The Empress wrote:
There is no excuse for the behaviour of people in this game


Nice universal generalisation to every single individual person playing in the entire game.
Including yourself.

Also, as has been anecdotally demonstrated here, it is the people who lose ships to whatever action, that flip their lid and overstep the bounds of general morality by making IRL threats, incredibly personal insults to the other person and their families, poison the community against the game itself and create threads like this one where they propound their own morale superiority, when infact it is they who are the most heinously immoral of all.

Those are the people you should be holding reprehensible for their behavior, on a moral level.
Scrimtar
Aliastra
Gallente Federation
#371 - 2014-03-15 17:38:09 UTC
I feel about eve like I do R/L there are good and bad and that's just the way it is and no measure of interference is going to change that I will say this about eve though I remember when I first started and got my first BC and thought it was bad ass I had a fellow player that was kind enough to help me test my fine fit (Later I learned it was horribly fit).
So we went out and commenced to battling and I noticed he was emitting a strange red like beam at me found out later it was a newt and then nothing worked. He took my ship down to structure then asked for ransom to not blow it up of course I didn't have it so pop went my shiny new BC but afterwards he was kind enough to answer a few questions I had and give me a lot of advise on skills and how to properly fit a ship.
I learned more in that 1/2 hr of him teaching me about the game than I had in the probably 3 months I had played so I don't think all gankers or ppl that ransom are bad ppl there just enjoying the game just as a miner explorer or anyone else is and it would be more of a crime to try to get ppl to conform to one persons or groups way of thinking. Anyhow that's my 2 cents worth fly safe all.Cool
baltec1
Bat Country
Pandemic Horde
#372 - 2014-03-15 17:39:17 UTC
Iam The Empress wrote:


If you had seen my corps pvp killboard, you would realise how stupid that comment is since that is ALL WE DO, however, we have strict rules, no smack in loca, no abuse, no stupid behaviour, treat people with respect.

There is no excuse for the behaviour of people in this game


You must have rather thin skin.

Tossing insults at each other is a art form out in 0.0 and everyone just takes it as banter. There is no meaning behind it but bears just dont understand it.
Arsine Mayhem
Doomheim
#373 - 2014-03-15 17:45:06 UTC
Erotica 1 wrote:
The Mittani is not a bad guy. But it is pretty sickening that there are certain people who want to bring up that event over and over. Give some thought to how keeping that issue alive affects the other person made famous by it. Let it go.


I've never seen anything more pathetic in a video game.
Tippia
Sunshine and Lollipops
#374 - 2014-03-15 17:45:55 UTC
baltec1 wrote:
Tossing insults at each other is a art form out in 0.0 and everyone just takes it as banter. There is no meaning behind it but bears just dont understand it.

To be fair, insults as a dominance game is pretty standard practice in any number of closer communities, so that's hardly a unique phenomenon.
Salvos Rhoska
#375 - 2014-03-15 17:47:03 UTC
Arsine Mayhem wrote:
I've never seen anything more pathetic in a video game.


In a video game?

Wat?
Goe Rilla
Quantum Force Inc.
DammFam
#376 - 2014-03-15 17:47:31 UTC  |  Edited by: Goe Rilla
Salvos Rhoska wrote:
Goe Rilla wrote:
In the real world, Bullying is considered an offense, and cyber-bullying increasingly so these days.

Naturally, the offensive liability of The Mittani's actions never saw light of day as his victim never pressed any complaints, and so it remains based on opinions since then...

However, if people started making a habit of calling their lawyers to check on the liability of some of the **** they go through in this game or the next, a tsunami of charges would come pouring in, without a doubt.


There was no liability. Nobodies rights where violated. Hence, no prosecution.

Infact the moral, and in some sense legal, liability rests on the suicider for trying to blackmail someone else by threatening to take their own life if they did not comply to their demands. But you obviously can't sue someone who is clinically of unsound mind (as a suicidal individual is considered to be).

But returning to topic, I repeat the question a third time to you:

Give me one specific and real example of how your rights have been violated in EVE


More like nobodies rights were officially examined, and so, easy to self-conclude on it like you just did.

Anyway, back on the topic at hand, I countered you for what you were saying about individual rights in general, not just in the Eve universe.

But if you want Eve-specific, i'll give you one:

In my early naive days of Eve I wanted to get into mining, i'd read a bit about the unforgiving nature of the game and its players, so I was a bit informed on precautions to take as a hisec miner.

However, that didnt stop the occasional suicide gank from happening and setting me back several weeks as a penniless starting player with no friends and no resources.

But one day came when the gankings became more repetitive, several times a week, followed by waves of insults in local, tagging, "lolcarebear", "back to wow", and all the likes of abuse we all know and endure in this game.

At this point I realised I would have to make tremendous efforts to remain in the hisec mining activity and keeping it the way I wanted to play the game, but I no later realized those efforts in vain, as ganks became systematic, wherever I went, for nearly a whole damn month. This had tremendous effects on my personal life planning as I would have to dedicate considerably more ammounts of time in the game.

It got to a point where I was forced into making a choice between my life and the game, as I was still paying a monthly subscription at the time (and who cares, it's just my money right ?).

It's at this time I thought on the real motivation behind all this rampant ganking, namecalling, PMs riddled with personal insults and abuse on my person, and all in the prevention of making my own money's worth of what I considered the game to play fun for me.

My right as a paying customer was in having fun with this game using a one of its safest advertised functions to do it with, but I was flat-out denied that right to start the game this way by people desiring nothing else but to stamp over your tracks and **** you, because they could.

At that point I also realized those same people had the choice in themselves not to perform such actions, and so, for a service I paid for, i refused to expose myself and money to actions i'd have next to zero control over, and so that ended up with an non-renewed subscription.

Did I have the choice to continue and choose another starting profession ? Sure.

Did I want to ? Nope.

Was it entirely my fault ? Precisely not one bit, as I was looking for my own way to play and have fun in the game using one of its advertised functions, but got prevented from it by an external force that could not care less about you, or why you joined and paid for this game in the first place.
Moonlit Raid
Doomheim
#377 - 2014-03-15 17:48:40 UTC
Salvos Rhoska wrote:
Moonlit Raid wrote:
I'd say find yourself some help you're in a bad place.


And that is more valid a response than what was given by The Mittani because what exactly?

You did not comply to the demand, and potentially I committed suicide as a result of that.

By your logic and premise, you would be responsible for that, because you did not do what was necessary to prevent me from suicide, which was transfer your assets to my character, or I would commit suicide.

By not transfering your assets, according to your own premise, you did not do what was necessary to prevent my suicide, which would have been transferring your assets.

I said you should seek help. I didn't tell you to kill yourself. I think the two things are different.

If brute force isn't working, you're just not using enough.

Please Note: Any advice given comes with the caveat that nothing will be suitable for every situation.

Tippia
Sunshine and Lollipops
#378 - 2014-03-15 17:53:50 UTC
Moonlit Raid wrote:
I said you should seek help. I didn't tell you to kill yourself. I think the two things are different.
Then again, he didn't say that either…
Jim Era
#379 - 2014-03-15 17:59:58 UTC
Really?
Are we this bored?

Too much seriousness in a game I'm going to implode.

Wat™

Malcanis
Vanishing Point.
The Initiative.
#380 - 2014-03-15 18:00:22 UTC
Goe Rilla wrote:

My right as a paying customer was in having fun with this game using a one of its safest advertised functions to do it with, but I was flat-out denied that right to start the game this way by people desiring nothing else but to stamp over your tracks and **** you, because they could.


Your right to what now?

You have a desire for that, but where on earth did you get the idea that you have a right to it in a game that's openly and explicitly advertised as a single-shard open world with FFA PvP.

You have the following rights in EVE:

You have the right to try doing anything you like

You have the right to try and stop anyone else doing anything you don't like

But you have no right whatsoever to succeed.

"Just remember later that I warned against any change to jump ranges or fatigue. You earned whats coming."

Grath Telkin, 11.10.2016