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My Apology

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Roc Wieler
Brutor Tribe
Minmatar Republic
#3221 - 2012-03-28 12:03:17 UTC
I only found out about this situation this morning while getting caught up on Twitter and the Forums.

For what it's worth to you, Alex, I have a few words.

Roc cannot stand The Mittani. I understand roleplay. I appreciate developing a persona.

Having had some time with Alex, not The Mittani, I can also attest to the fact that you are actually a decent person. It was a pleasant surprise. Intelligent, witty, a good sense of humour, sincere, personable, all qualities that speak to your real life character.

There's no need for me to tell you that the line was crossed. The very nature of your apology makes it clear you are self-aware and repentent.

However, I truly believe a man is only as good as his actions. Words are not enough.

The latest words I have heard is that you will be stepping down as CSM Chairman, and making personal restitution to the harassed player. Admirable words.

Should you choose to step down, I do believe that would be a loss to the CSM, and to the community. Before Fanfest, I would not have thought that.

I do believe stepping down is the right and moral choice. I'm not anti-goon.

I'm sure you've had many offline offers should you desire to communicate further with a peer. Consider this mine.

You are not in an enviable position. I hope you do what is right for the harassed player, for you, and for our community.

More than lip service, my friend.

Never start a fight you can win.

Yeep
The Scope
Gallente Federation
#3222 - 2012-03-28 12:07:20 UTC
Rolf Wesselius wrote:

Look Eve is know as a hive of scammers and griefers,Some people can deal with that.
But what Mittani did is even being talked about on kotaku, Even with his apology this Ruined alot if not all goodwill we had with the majority of the gaming community.
This could even **** over Dust 514.
Sony is heavy anti cyber bullying if CCP does not do something about this Sony could not allow Dust 514 on Sen.
Hell this could force heavy anti cyberbullying rules in eve if sony forces it on CCP.


I just looked at the front page of Kotaku, theres a lot of stuff about how anime characters are sexy, a bit of Assassin's Creed III coverage oh and if I scroll way down in a side panel theres one poorly researched (again, twitter as a primary source) article.

The resignation or non-resignation of The Mittani will likely have a negligible impact on any decision Sony makes. The continued spreading of misinformation and outright lies by short sighted morons with a grudge will do way more damage.
Frying Doom
#3223 - 2012-03-28 12:09:37 UTC
Zagdul wrote:
You've spent a lot of time and words in this thread knocking down a man who used his right of freedom to express himself in an inebriated state. You are among the vocal minority who spend a lot of effort on the smear campaign for a personal vendetta against someone who you've been waiting for the opportunity to do exactly this.

Jade, I thought you represented free thought, free speech and freedom as a whole. Aren't you going against the very things you've worked so hard to 'defend' in New Eden?

They have freedom of speech laws in Iceland that let you say what ever you want? Freedom of speech needs boundaries most of the world have them.

Any spelling, grammatical and punctuation errors are because frankly, I don't care!!

ExhumeToConsume
Viziam
Amarr Empire
#3224 - 2012-03-28 12:10:01 UTC
Jade Constantine wrote:
Implying Implications wrote:
People are taking this too far. If it wasn't a goon who said this nobody would have a problem.


Why don't you try to put aside your goonish clan identity for a moment and lets talk as adult players of this game. I'm not saying Alexander Gianturco should be prosecuted in real or extradited to iceland or england or whatnot. I'm not saying eve online should become a politically-correct utopia where nobody says boo to a goose. I once caused a mini scandal myself for saying rude things about Verone when I was CSM chair for heaven's sake - I'm no saint.


See John 8:7 (King James Version is good).

Also, if you don't think he should be prosecuted why post dumb red herrings about a guy going to jail for racial harrassment, mmmm?

Jade Constantine wrote:
But I didn't use my position on stage at fanfest as a bully pulpit to call for the harrassment of a fellow gamer. I think if we were to meet face to face and share a quiet pint and talk this over you'd agree it went too far and now Gianturco needs to resign for the good of the game.


No harrassment was actually performed and the two appear to have settled out of court.

Jade Constantine wrote:
A lot of goon players in this thread seem to be turning it into a persecution complex "its just because he was a goon". It really isn't. Its simply because he had a responsibility to represent this game as an ambassador to the watching media and he flunked it badly.


Fanfest alliance presentations have never been anything other than awful. Also CCP have used the aspergers mentality of the average Eve player as an advertising tool for years to distinguish themselves from cotton wool MMOs like WoW. Maybe they'll perform sobriety tests on the presenters next time.

Jade Constantine wrote:
I personally am happy to see Mittani continue to be allowed to play this game. But there has to be some sanction for what he did and if he's not prepared to take responsibility and do the decent thing as Alexander Gianturco and resign then he needs to be pushed out.


There already has been some sanction (The Mittani is now a spacepoor b***ch and been mocked relentlessly for his unfunny presentation). If you're lucky we might be able to get him to sing on Mumble.
The F Word
Doomheim
#3225 - 2012-03-28 12:10:21 UTC
Yeep wrote:
Rolf Wesselius wrote:

Look Eve is know as a hive of scammers and griefers,Some people can deal with that.
But what Mittani did is even being talked about on kotaku, Even with his apology this Ruined alot if not all goodwill we had with the majority of the gaming community.
This could even **** over Dust 514.
Sony is heavy anti cyber bullying if CCP does not do something about this Sony could not allow Dust 514 on Sen.
Hell this could force heavy anti cyberbullying rules in eve if sony forces it on CCP.


I just looked at the front page of Kotaku, theres a lot of stuff about how anime characters are sexy, a bit of Assassin's Creed III coverage oh and if I scroll way down in a side panel theres one poorly researched (again, twitter as a primary source) article.

The resignation or non-resignation of The Mittani will likely have a negligible impact on any decision Sony makes. The continued spreading of misinformation and outright lies by short sighted morons with a grudge will do way more damage.


That's true, and there are those that would see their agenda through at the expense of the game - and thanks to your fearless leader they now have a mechanism to do so.
Karim alRashid
Starboard.
#3226 - 2012-03-28 12:10:51 UTC



Perhaps you should talk with that wannabe lawyer dude, who was pasting excerpts of the UK law, and fit your versions with one another?

Because he's talking about harassment and you're quoting a case of inciting racial hatred.

Aren't these distinct in the UK legislation?

Pain is weakness leaving the body http://www.youtube.com/user/AlRashidKarim/videos

Zagdul
Federal Navy Academy
Gallente Federation
#3227 - 2012-03-28 12:11:13 UTC
Jade Constantine wrote:
Implying Implications wrote:
People are taking this too far. If it wasn't a goon who said this nobody would have a problem.


Why don't you try to put aside your goonish clan identity for a moment and lets talk as adult players of this game. I'm not saying Alexander Gianturco should be prosecuted in real or extradited to iceland or england or whatnot. I'm not saying eve online should become a politically-correct utopia where nobody says boo to a goose. I once caused a mini scandal myself for saying rude things about Verone when I was CSM chair for heaven's sake - I'm no saint.

But I didn't use my position on stage at fanfest as a bully pulpit to call for the harrassment of a fellow gamer. I think if we were to meet face to face and share a quiet pint and talk this over you'd agree it went too far and now Gianturco needs to resign for the good of the game.

A lot of goon players in this thread seem to be turning it into a persecution complex "its just because he was a goon". It really isn't. Its simply because he had a responsibility to represent this game as an ambassador to the watching media and he flunked it badly.

I personally am happy to see Mittani continue to be allowed to play this game. But there has to be some sanction for what he did and if he's not prepared to take responsibility and do the decent thing as Alexander Gianturco and resign then he needs to be pushed out.

Eve Online now needs to send a message that certain kinds of out of game harrassment and cyber bullying need to be stamped out.


He didn't use his position either.

It was the alliance panel.

The CSM panel he handled himself well.

Dual Pane idea: Click!

CCP Please Implement

Temulkar Blaine
The Scope
Gallente Federation
#3228 - 2012-03-28 12:11:39 UTC
Karim alRashid wrote:
Temulkar Blaine wrote:
Karim alRashid wrote:
Temulkar Blaine,

Your posting clearly shows that not even you're not a lawyer, but also you don't have even a vague understanding of law.

also, lolUK.


Karim your posting clearly shows that you havent understood the serious nature of this issue and you dont even have the vaguest empathy for someone being harrassed. I pity you.


You will have hard time convincing me that blowing up internet spaceships constitutes a harassment.



Duh we all blow up internet spaceships thats a game.

What we dont all do is incite other to harrass sombody so the kill themselves, on a public forum with a live stream on the internet. You see the difference or is basic comprehension of the facts too difficult for you?
Valearx
School of Applied Knowledge
Caldari State
#3229 - 2012-03-28 12:12:06 UTC
Jade Constantine wrote:
So far there seems a majority in favour of Alexander Gianturco being forced to resign


Yeep wrote:
short sighted moron with a grudge
Doddy
Excidium.
#3230 - 2012-03-28 12:12:35 UTC
Karim alRashid wrote:



Perhaps you should talk with that wannabe lawyer dude, who was pasting excerpts of the UK law, and fit your versions with one another?

Because he's talking about harassment and you're quoting a case of inciting racial hatred.

Aren't these distinct in the UK legislation?


Completely, if he had not used racial language there would have been no case against that student whatsoever.
Rolf Wesselius
Doomheim
#3231 - 2012-03-28 12:13:39 UTC
Yeep wrote:
Rolf Wesselius wrote:

Look Eve is know as a hive of scammers and griefers,Some people can deal with that.
But what Mittani did is even being talked about on kotaku, Even with his apology this Ruined alot if not all goodwill we had with the majority of the gaming community.
This could even **** over Dust 514.
Sony is heavy anti cyber bullying if CCP does not do something about this Sony could not allow Dust 514 on Sen.
Hell this could force heavy anti cyberbullying rules in eve if sony forces it on CCP.


I just looked at the front page of Kotaku, theres a lot of stuff about how anime characters are sexy, a bit of Assassin's Creed III coverage oh and if I scroll way down in a side panel theres one poorly researched (again, twitter as a primary source) article.

The resignation or non-resignation of The Mittani will likely have a negligible impact on any decision Sony makes. The continued spreading of misinformation and outright lies by short sighted morons with a grudge will do way more damage.

I dont care about his resignation im talking about the stuff in eve that can be seen as cyber bullying as a whole this just brought it up.
Remember if Sony even feels like it they can kill dust 514 and demand all the development money they invested back from CCP.
Even if this is small they can see not acting against this as not giving a damn about cyber bullying and kill dust 514.
Im just saying.You look like the smartest goon around so just think about it if this debacle even slightly offends Sony Dust 514 is ******.
KanashiiKami
#3232 - 2012-03-28 12:16:31 UTC
Valearx wrote:
Temulkar Blaine wrote:
Karim alRashid wrote:
Temulkar Blaine,

Your posting clearly shows that not even you're not a lawyer, but also you don't have even a vague understanding of law.

also, lolUK.


Karim your posting clearly shows that you havent understood the serious nature of this issue and you dont even have the vaguest empathy for someone being harrassed. I pity you.


Tell me about the serious nature of this issue.

Also tell me about empathy.

Also kill yourself.


so now goons shall be famous for asking people to kill themselves ... ic ... i bet CCP loves the news coverage it gets ...

i have petitioned to CCP for lifetime all account ban for ... this ... alex person ...

WUT ???

Temulkar Blaine
The Scope
Gallente Federation
#3233 - 2012-03-28 12:16:37 UTC
Karim alRashid wrote:



Perhaps you should talk with that wannabe lawyer dude, who was pasting excerpts of the UK law, and fit your versions with one another?

Because he's talking about harassment and you're quoting a case of inciting racial hatred.

Aren't these distinct in the UK legislation?



Yes they are distinct in EU law. the racial harrassment part of ythe charge was due to the use of the N word. The breach of the communications act charge was the use of the internet to do so.

As for me being a wannabe lawyer no Im not but in my proffessional life I do have to deal with the impact of cyberbullying and yes I have had to deal with the fallout of suicide caused by bullying. I dont guve a damn about him being a goon, I give a damn about somthing that is utterly reprehensible.

Rodj Blake
PIE Inc.
Khimi Harar
#3234 - 2012-03-28 12:18:15 UTC
He was elected by the Eve community to represent the Eve community.

As such, it is inappropriate for him to use a public stage to call for the harrassment of a member of that community and he should either resign or be removed.

Dolce et decorum est pro Imperium mori

Jade Constantine
Jericho Fraction
The Star Fraction
#3235 - 2012-03-28 12:18:44 UTC  |  Edited by: Jade Constantine
Yeep wrote:
In my opinion the apology was enough, the isk from his personal wallet was more than needed but if he felt he had to do it then I respect that. If you're unwilling to accept the apology as sincere (which I don't think is the case from your earlier posts but other people will read this) then theres a good chance you're a pitchfork carrying lynchmob and nothing anyone says will convince you until The Mittani hangs.


Well here's the thing: ISK from the wallet, whatever tbh, its small change, I've got more than that in my random faction ship fetish pot. Whether the apology is *enough* will depend on what people personally feel about it. For me it was "enough" as long as he carried through the rest of his twitter pledge and immediately resigned. It stops being "enough" if he goes back on that pledge and tries to cling to power regardless of the stink this will attract to the game as a whole.

Yeep wrote:
I think if people with conflicting political agendas weren't trying their hardest to spread misinformation about this unfortunate event it would all have blown over days ago. Any sweeping game changes CCP has to make will be on their heads, not The Mittani's but again, nothing I say will convince them of that. I'd hope most of them are just too short sighted to see the likely consequences of their actions. Not to mention the extra harassment of the player in question that the publicity over this issue has caused (but thats good harassment right).


Well you are in cloud-cuckoo land to a degree if you think something like this was not always going to blow up. Fanfest had journalists from dozens of online magazines and a technology editor from the BBC present. Those people have a job that involves looking over the video presentations and giving comment. As journalists its their role to seek interesting stories. The fall of an internet spaceship politcian is an interesting story. Combine that with the hot-button issues of cyberbullying, twitter prosecutions, the "fight game" sexism row and you'll see we are in a climate where it was inevitable that Alexander Gianturco was going to make the newsheets. Eve as a game is going big-league, the CCP + SONY partnership and aiming at the world's biggest single universe is going to put it in the spotlight - and you literally can't have some drunken fratboy trust fund princess up on staging calling on people to be harrassed into suicide and that NOT be the story.

Yeep wrote:
I also think (and theres plenty of evidence to support this right here in this thread) that a lot of the people calling for his resignation haven't even taken the time to think about the issues. Theres a massive bandwagon right now and a lot of people just like bandwagons.


People understand the issues. Anyone with a child themselves can see issues with cyberbullying and peer pressure harrassment through email, i-phones, social media and such. And regarding this game - I don't think its a question of whether somebody playing eve will commit suicide - but when it happens. In my nine years playing this game I've met many fellow players with emotional issues, depressions, rl issues from post traumatic stress disorder to marital breakups to terminal disease to the whole spectrum of mental problems. Part of being a good CEO in this game is sometimes being a counciller to people having a pretty hard time in real life. This is more than a bandwagon, its possibly the reawakening of a bit of common sense and feeling that the leader of the player council needs some common sense too.

Yeep wrote:
Finally I think kneejerk resignations are bad for society as a whole despite how trendy they are right now. The Mittani is good at being the chair of the CSM and a good CSM chair makes for a healthier Eve. Sure he should be punished, I'd be pretty chill with a temp ban and never being allowed to speak on the Alliance panel again but his resignation won't solve any actual problems.(


If he gets any kind of ban then he's disbarred from the CSM. Thats one of the rules of running for CSM. If CCP temp banned him 30days for this then he's also out of the CSM for good. But if they give him no kind of punishment whatsoever then anyone who has previously been temp-banned for this kind of harrassment (and there are many) would rightfully point and claim CCP corruption in favour of their CSM chair. Its a horrible situation that CCP have been put in - if they temp ban and kick Mittani off the csm the goons will go nuts and claim they just had 10,000 votes disenfranchised. If they do nothing then everyone else will believe that Goons run CCP by developer corruption and those dodgy contacts Mittani was always boasting of in his addresses.

The sensible solution and decent one is for Alexander Gianturco to simply come out now and resign. And I still hope he does this rather than continuing to drag all our reputations through the mud while doing immense damage to CCP's visibility in the gaming (and soon to be) mainstream media.

The True Knowledge is that nothing matters that does not matter to you, might does make right and power makes freedom

Valearx
School of Applied Knowledge
Caldari State
#3236 - 2012-03-28 12:18:58 UTC
KanashiiKami wrote:


so now goons shall be famous for asking people to kill themselves ... ic ... i bet CCP loves the news coverage it gets ...

i have petitioned to CCP for lifetime all account ban for ... this ... alex person ...


me2:')o7m8
Karim alRashid
Starboard.
#3237 - 2012-03-28 12:19:59 UTC  |  Edited by: Karim alRashid
Temulkar Blaine wrote:
Karim alRashid wrote:
Temulkar Blaine wrote:

Karim your posting clearly shows that you havent understood the serious nature of this issue and you dont even have the vaguest empathy for someone being harrassed. I pity you.


You will have hard time convincing me that blowing up internet spaceships constitutes a harassment.


Duh we all blow up internet spaceships thats a game.

What we dont all do is incite other to harrass sombody so the kill themselves, on a public forum with a live stream on the internet. You see the difference or is basic comprehension of the facts too difficult for you?


Why don't you first settle on a single version and then we'll talk?

Does someone harassed someone else or someone allegedly incited a third party to harass someone else?

You seem to be making both claims, as evident from you first saying "someone being harassed" and then saying "incite other to harass somebody".

Pain is weakness leaving the body http://www.youtube.com/user/AlRashidKarim/videos

Rodj Blake
PIE Inc.
Khimi Harar
#3238 - 2012-03-28 12:20:26 UTC
Temulkar Blaine wrote:
Karim alRashid wrote:



Perhaps you should talk with that wannabe lawyer dude, who was pasting excerpts of the UK law, and fit your versions with one another?

Because he's talking about harassment and you're quoting a case of inciting racial hatred.

Aren't these distinct in the UK legislation?



Yes they are distinct in EU law. the racial harrassment part of ythe charge was due to the use of the N word. The breach of the communications act charge was the use of the internet to do so.

As for me being a wannabe lawyer no Im not but in my proffessional life I do have to deal with the impact of cyberbullying and yes I have had to deal with the fallout of suicide caused by bullying. I dont guve a damn about him being a goon, I give a damn about somthing that is utterly reprehensible.



There was also a recent case of someone in the UK going to jail after posting offensive comments on a dead girl's Facebook tribute
. No racism was involved in this case.

Dolce et decorum est pro Imperium mori

Yeep
The Scope
Gallente Federation
#3239 - 2012-03-28 12:21:29 UTC
Rolf Wesselius wrote:

I dont care about his resignation im talking about the stuff in eve that can be seen as cyber bullying as a whole this just brought it up.
Remember if Sony even feels like it they can kill dust 514 and demand all the development money they invested back from CCP.
Even if this is small they can see not acting against this as not giving a damn about cyber bullying and kill dust 514.
Im just saying.You look like the smartest goon around so just think about it if this debacle even slightly offends Sony Dust 514 is ******.


Its a little insulting to the intelligence of both CCP and Sony to suggest that they don't both already know what kind of game Eve is. Entering into a business agreement with a company where you have to hope they don't do any research into your primary product is a terrible idea.
Jade Constantine
Jericho Fraction
The Star Fraction
#3240 - 2012-03-28 12:22:22 UTC
Zagdul wrote:
Jade Constantine wrote:
Implying Implications wrote:
People are taking this too far. If it wasn't a goon who said this nobody would have a problem.


Why don't you try to put aside your goonish clan identity for a moment and lets talk as adult players of this game. I'm not saying Alexander Gianturco should be prosecuted in real or extradited to iceland or england or whatnot. I'm not saying eve online should become a politically-correct utopia where nobody says boo to a goose. I once caused a mini scandal myself for saying rude things about Verone when I was CSM chair for heaven's sake - I'm no saint.

But I didn't use my position on stage at fanfest as a bully pulpit to call for the harrassment of a fellow gamer. I think if we were to meet face to face and share a quiet pint and talk this over you'd agree it went too far and now Gianturco needs to resign for the good of the game.

A lot of goon players in this thread seem to be turning it into a persecution complex "its just because he was a goon". It really isn't. Its simply because he had a responsibility to represent this game as an ambassador to the watching media and he flunked it badly.

I personally am happy to see Mittani continue to be allowed to play this game. But there has to be some sanction for what he did and if he's not prepared to take responsibility and do the decent thing as Alexander Gianturco and resign then he needs to be pushed out.

Eve Online now needs to send a message that certain kinds of out of game harrassment and cyber bullying need to be stamped out.


He didn't use his position either.

It was the alliance panel.

The CSM panel he handled himself well.


And yet media is reporting this as "CSM chair calls to harrass eve player into suicide." The reality is he has a huge media reputation from his role as CSM chair and its absolutely silly to suggest otherwise. If he was just some random drunken alliance leader calling on somebody to be harrassed into suicide he should still be punished but it wouldn't be as embarrassing for eve online since he wouldn't be directly representing the player base (just his own unfortunate alliance members)

The True Knowledge is that nothing matters that does not matter to you, might does make right and power makes freedom