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Remiel Pollard
Aliastra
Gallente Federation
#2541 - 2014-03-26 11:55:35 UTC
Big Lynx wrote:
My closing comment:

id like to quote a comment from Evenews24:

For the people who think that this behavior is excusable because the victim continued voluntarily and could have disconnected any time, your logic is flawed for several reasons.

1.) You fail to understand how psychological manipulation works. The more a person is invested, the more difficult it is for that person to stop. Erotica 1 completely exploited this.
2.) Erotica 1 never intended to follow through with his promise and therefore the victim's participation was precipitated on a lie. This is the very antithesis to "voluntary".
3.) The victim certainly had no idea that this was going to be broadcast all over the internet to further the humiliation. I think it is pretty easy to surmise that such information might have changed the outcome.

Lastly, even granting that yes, despite the above, he physically could have disconnected at any time, it does not make this behavior OK. Even if this was a reasonable outcome given the culture of Eve, it does not make this behavior OK. The actions of the victim can not justify the abuse. It is not OK to abuse a person just because that person may have made himself vulnerable to such abuse.


closing quote from me: Ero you should have stopped after getting his isk. Live with the consequences or get a better human being and see it as a lesson. Try it mate, it is not so hard to let go of a false point of view. It could be very refreshing to admit that one has made a mistake. However, that needs a bit of an integrity and mature personality that I am missing by reading your comments. poor you.


Because Evenews24 says it so it must be true.

“Some capsuleers claim that ECM is 'dishonorable' and 'unfair'. Jam those ones first, and kill them last.” - Jirai 'Fatal' Laitanen, Pithum Nullifier Training Manual c. YC104

Ralph King-Griffin
New Eden Tech Support
#2542 - 2014-03-26 11:55:58 UTC
Fyi , **** and torture comparisons are completely and utterly ridiculous and offensive.
Seriously get your **** together with this.
It's a game, I know a couple of victims, thies comparisons deminish the severity of both and loose the community respect by the letter.
Clara Pond
Never Not Snazzy
#2543 - 2014-03-26 11:56:12 UTC
embrel wrote:

So, basically you do that for the good of the world and not once for a single second you had any fun doing it, did you. Cause you for sure do not feel fun when idiots reveal themselves as such.
No, I do not believe that.


You don't have to believe it, but you should be consistent if you wish to be taken seriously. Many Eve players have fun besting other Eve players at Eve and at Eve's metagame. Vile Rat is venerated, and rightly so, for his social engineering skills in the nullsec metagame as much as his being a good person. Ero is one of Eve's best social engineers in the highsec metagame, and in my limited experience seems a decent person in RL. What's the difference?

Face it, you feel sorry for Sohkar because he got really mad on Soundcloud, and Ripard poked your moral panic button because rather than being an ebil rich BoB person, he was a sweet innocent carebear bigot. I was a bit sorry for Sohkar too, and had I been there may have suggested to Ero to can the bonus round once it emerged that Sohkar was an Air Traffic Controller overdue on his statutory sleep requirement. But then Sohkar started with the all too common racism, abuse and real world threats, and everyone with a shred of decency lost all sympathy for him.

Remember that unstable bigots get really mad about many things that 99% of others don't; and it is not the fault of the person who makes the assumption that they are a stable, consenting adult playing a multiplayer online game for adults where human interaction is inevitable and dystopia is celebrated.
Kyperion
#2544 - 2014-03-26 11:56:45 UTC  |  Edited by: Kyperion
Remiel Pollard wrote:
Big Lynx wrote:
My closing comment:

id like to quote a comment from Evenews24:

For the people who think that this behavior is excusable because the victim continued voluntarily and could have disconnected any time, your logic is flawed for several reasons.

1.) You fail to understand how psychological manipulation works. The more a person is invested, the more difficult it is for that person to stop. Erotica 1 completely exploited this.
2.) Erotica 1 never intended to follow through with his promise and therefore the victim's participation was precipitated on a lie. This is the very antithesis to "voluntary".
3.) The victim certainly had no idea that this was going to be broadcast all over the internet to further the humiliation. I think it is pretty easy to surmise that such information might have changed the outcome.

Lastly, even granting that yes, despite the above, he physically could have disconnected at any time, it does not make this behavior OK. Even if this was a reasonable outcome given the culture of Eve, it does not make this behavior OK. The actions of the victim can not justify the abuse. It is not OK to abuse a person just because that person may have made himself vulnerable to such abuse.


closing quote from me: Ero you should have stopped after getting his isk. Live with the consequences or get a better human being and see it as a lesson. Try it mate, it is not so hard to let go of a false point of view. It could be very refreshing to admit that one has made a mistake. However, that needs a bit of an integrity and mature personality that I am missing by reading your comments. poor you.


Because Evenews24 says it so it must be true.


Attacking the source because you cannot defend your position
Jarod Garamonde
Jolly Codgers
Get Off My Lawn
#2545 - 2014-03-26 11:57:00 UTC
Remiel Pollard wrote:
Jarod Garamonde wrote:
Remiel Pollard wrote:

Tell me, does the whole pandering to radical feminism ever actually work to get you laid?



No, mate, it doesn't, and that's hilarious. We call them "manginas", and real feminists think they're stupid.
Of course, real feminists also think extreme feminists are batcrap loco.

I dig humanism. Just because I'm a man doesn't mean I shouldn't care about women's issues.... but it also shouldn't mean I think I'm superior to women.


I think we just had a bonding moment, Jarod...

I'm scared.

Hold me?


Male bonding isn't scary, and it's supposed to be done with pints of brown ale, not hugs. :p

That moment when you realize the crazy lady with all the cats was right...

    [#savethelance]
Remiel Pollard
Aliastra
Gallente Federation
#2546 - 2014-03-26 11:57:06 UTC
Scipio Artelius wrote:
Remiel Pollard wrote:
Pot, meet kettle.

Mate. At the moment this thread is just going straight back down the rabbit hole of personal attacks it was in earlier.

Is it possible to just not respond and let some of the heat go out?

Let people vent and hopefully the thread will be locked soon. However keeping the attack/counter-attack process going isn't productive or helpful to anyone.

It takes 2 sides to keep arguing, but only 1 to stop.


I'm doing them a service by informing them of their stupidity. If they can handle the criticism, they will then go on to improve themselves and become persons of merit rather than mouth froth. It's a vital service that I quite enjoy providing.

“Some capsuleers claim that ECM is 'dishonorable' and 'unfair'. Jam those ones first, and kill them last.” - Jirai 'Fatal' Laitanen, Pithum Nullifier Training Manual c. YC104

Salvos Rhoska
#2547 - 2014-03-26 11:57:30 UTC  |  Edited by: Salvos Rhoska
Despite being asked 10 times in total by myself and others of where her magical mystery answer is, Erotica1 has not answered or pointed to where her answer is.

Big Lynx wrote:

Fourth attempt:

Ok mate. Let's talk like adults. Concerning self-reflection, do you think you and your friends have gone too far?


This is very dishonest behavior from someone touting to claim to be coming out clean.

There is no answer provided by her to that question, anywhere in this thread.

Furthermore she has deliberately ignored and evaded it, which is extremely disrespectful conduct, especially when the question was presented in respectful and constructive manner, even in its repetitions.

Choosing instead to retire from the thread, after a sequence of transparent evasions and misdirections, rather than answer a simply question that was presented to her in a respectable fashion.

So yeah, her true nature begins to show. Not such a shiny varnish anymore.
Sentamon
Imperial Academy
Amarr Empire
#2548 - 2014-03-26 11:58:28 UTC  |  Edited by: Sentamon
Open racism ... acceptable if situation calls for it.
Threatening violence to remedy perceived financial wrongs ... acceptable if situation calls for it.

Aren't you all justifying Hitler? Ugh

[edit] wtf Adolfs last name is a banned word? Shocked

~ Professional Forum Alt  ~

Remiel Pollard
Aliastra
Gallente Federation
#2549 - 2014-03-26 11:58:35 UTC
Jarod Garamonde wrote:
Remiel Pollard wrote:
Jarod Garamonde wrote:
Remiel Pollard wrote:

Tell me, does the whole pandering to radical feminism ever actually work to get you laid?



No, mate, it doesn't, and that's hilarious. We call them "manginas", and real feminists think they're stupid.
Of course, real feminists also think extreme feminists are batcrap loco.

I dig humanism. Just because I'm a man doesn't mean I shouldn't care about women's issues.... but it also shouldn't mean I think I'm superior to women.


I think we just had a bonding moment, Jarod...

I'm scared.

Hold me?


Male bonding isn't scary, and it's supposed to be done with pints of brown ale, not hugs. :p


****, you're General Tso's alliance. I always get along with you guys. It was one of you that gifted me with my first ever ship loss in EVE Online. Why aren't Tso's and RIGID friends yet? I'm gonna have to talk to Ed about this.

Also, beers are on me if I ever make it to fanfest.

“Some capsuleers claim that ECM is 'dishonorable' and 'unfair'. Jam those ones first, and kill them last.” - Jirai 'Fatal' Laitanen, Pithum Nullifier Training Manual c. YC104

Darek Castigatus
Immortalis Inc.
Shadow Cartel
#2550 - 2014-03-26 11:58:47 UTC
Is it telling that the vast majority of the insults and pseudo psychology are being tossed out by the side trying to claim the moral high ground??

Irony, not just something that happens in a blacksmiths.

Pirates - The Invisible Fist of Darwin

you're welcome

Sturmwolke
#2551 - 2014-03-26 11:58:58 UTC
I'll just leave this here.
Pay attention to 1 Smile

THE HARE PSYCHOPATHY CHECK LIST(Revised) (PCL-R)

1 Glibness/superficial charm
2 Grandiose sense of self-worth
3 Need for stimulation/proneness to boredom
4 Pathological lying
5 Cunning/manipulative
6 Lack of remorse or guilt
7 Shallow affect [i.e. superficial experience and expression of emotions]
8 Callous/lack of empathy
9 Parasitic lifestyle
10 Poor behavioural controls
11 Promiscuous sexual behaviour
12 Early behaviour problems
13 Lack of realistic long-term goals
14 Impulsivity
15 Irresponsibility
16 Failure to accept responsibility for own actions
17 Many short term marital relationships
18 Juvenile delinquency
19 Revocation of conditional release
20 Criminal versatility
Nalelmir Ahashion
Industrial Management and Engineering
Mouth Trumpet Cavalry
#2552 - 2014-03-26 11:59:22 UTC
After over 120 pages I got few points I want to make.

First of all let's take a step back and think what's make Eve > Eve and why people play this game over other games.
Many would argue that "Sandbox" features and Social aspect are what makes it but I'll argue that they are not.
There are probably loads of other games out there (video games or not) which allows you to scam people and take their stuff, hell Even while playing monopoly I used to scam people with "sweet" deals in order to take their money but what do we have here that other games don't?

First Eve Online is an online universe which runs on single server for over 10 years. People forget that investing time in video games can be an emotional thing and you get attached to your fruits of labor as that is your hobby.
I played number of online games but so far only Eve Online (as far as I can tell) will still be here so even when I take a break I can come back exactly to where I left it at.
Secondly Eve is HUGE Space society simulator, what other games have such a huge universe to explore and how many of those are actually in space?
Next is the complexity of things, from training skills to using stuff in the proper way it's not simple ! Let's say I found some nice peace of item I want to sell in other games I would have just sold it on general in game eBay but here from contracts through regional markets and considering reprocessing vs selling vs keeping it while waiting for future patch to change the economy each and every thing is complex enough to keep you interested.
Game is also ever expanding with more expansions packs adding new activities and systems to it, one can never try the full extent of the game with 1 character and that's such an amazing thing people probably don't thing about, I've played other games where I've experienced full game's content in less then 3 months :X
And one of the most important thing is PLEX, on one hand you can use extra unused in game currency t purchase 30 days sub from other players on the other hand if u need some more isks just purchase a plex and sell it for in game currency, this is an ingenious system which many other games lacks or do terribly.

Considering all of those we get the skeleton of Eve Online as a game and why some people would like to play this game over others. Now to the soul of it or what people call "Emergent Gameplay".
In Eve people can abuse the system to do whatever they want within the limitations of the game, which is pretty amazing. Add some RP into it and you get some sick sick things which many people didn't even thought about like corporation spies, suicide gankers, pirates and more. What's common to all of those things are that they takes place within the game and uses the game mechanics.

Now Let's go back to the issue at hand,
I personally find "New Order" thingy an Emergent gameplay... nice RP, decent use of game mechanics and spicing up the mining market in highsec. I personally DO NOT find what we've seen here with Erotica 1 recording as an emergent gameplay or any kind of gameplay at all.
Scamming with doubling scam is pretty much ok by me and I'm sure it's ok by many other eve players as it cleans the gene pool from those born less fortunate but the moment the "Bonus Room" game moved from Eve Client into Teamspeak and the conversation was recorded it's plain sick behavior because the thing here was not an actual gameplay within Eve as a game it was a psychological game on some other method of communication, Worst of it they actually made fun and laughed on that poor not so smart pleb, where is the sporting spirit?
When a ganker tries to gank me and fails we cheer at each other keeping it civil and preparing for the next round learning from it so next time will be more challenging for both parties, When I once tried to gank miners (Boring as it was) I even bought my target new mining ship instead of the one I've blown.... overall you took his stuff and made fun of him after that.

Question is how exactly doing what's done makes it part of Eve Online game? You only met the guy there and once you took all of his stuff everything moved into TS, on same level you could have done this on any other game or even just at random forum or Facebook group or something.
For me it's down to what kind of person are you, we are playing in this online game which allows many activities which are not available in other places.... But even while shooting other people or when other people shoots at me I keep it civil and I do not humiliate people or makes fun of them. There is a line not to be crossed as person to person and in the action displayed here that line was (by my opinion) crossed.
Kaarous Aldurald
Black Hydra Consortium.
#2553 - 2014-03-26 12:01:16 UTC
Some of you all need to start using the thinks, instead of the feels.

"Verily, I have often laughed at the weaklings who thought themselves good because they had no claws."

One of ours, ten of theirs.

Best Meltdown Ever.

Jarod Garamonde
Jolly Codgers
Get Off My Lawn
#2554 - 2014-03-26 12:01:38 UTC
Sentamon wrote:
Open racism ... acceptable if situation calls for it.
Threatening violence to remedy perceived financial wrongs ... acceptable if situation calls for it.

Aren't you all justifying ******? Ugh

[edit] wtf Adolfs last name is a banned word? Shocked


Yes. The EVE forums have built in a method to prevent you from violating Godwin's Law, like you just tried to do :p

That moment when you realize the crazy lady with all the cats was right...

    [#savethelance]
Remiel Pollard
Aliastra
Gallente Federation
#2555 - 2014-03-26 12:02:03 UTC  |  Edited by: Remiel Pollard
Sturmwolke wrote:
I'll just leave this here.
Pay attention to 1 Smile

THE HARE PSYCHOPATHY CHECK LIST(Revised) (PCL-R)

1 Glibness/superficial charm
2 Grandiose sense of self-worth
3 Need for stimulation/proneness to boredom
4 Pathological lying
5 Cunning/manipulative
6 Lack of remorse or guilt
7 Shallow affect [i.e. superficial experience and expression of emotions]
8 Callous/lack of empathy
9 Parasitic lifestyle
10 Poor behavioural controls
11 Promiscuous sexual behaviour
12 Early behaviour problems
13 Lack of realistic long-term goals
14 Impulsivity
15 Irresponsibility
16 Failure to accept responsibility for own actions
17 Many short term marital relationships
18 Juvenile delinquency
19 Revocation of conditional release
20 Criminal versatility



WOOHOO!! I scored 20!!!! I WIN!!

Wait.... is that bad??

“Some capsuleers claim that ECM is 'dishonorable' and 'unfair'. Jam those ones first, and kill them last.” - Jirai 'Fatal' Laitanen, Pithum Nullifier Training Manual c. YC104

Salvos Rhoska
#2556 - 2014-03-26 12:02:13 UTC
Some people should start answering the questions, instead of avoiding them.
Kaarous Aldurald
Black Hydra Consortium.
#2557 - 2014-03-26 12:02:51 UTC
Salvos Rhoska wrote:
Some people should start answering the questions, instead of avoiding them.


Like the so, so many you've ducked in the thread so far? I agree.

"Verily, I have often laughed at the weaklings who thought themselves good because they had no claws."

One of ours, ten of theirs.

Best Meltdown Ever.

Scipio Artelius
Weaponised Vegemite
Flying Dangerous
#2558 - 2014-03-26 12:03:25 UTC
Remiel Pollard wrote:
I'm doing them a service by informing them of their stupidity. If they can handle the criticism, they will then go on to improve themselves and become persons of merit rather than mouth froth. It's a vital service that I quite enjoy providing.

That is written in the style of Divine Entervention (nothing against him. He adds color to the forum as many of us do).

But I bet you don't think you are engaging in stupidity and you can be certain that those you are arguing with don't think they are either.

This kind of language, in addition to just continuing to spiral the thread further, will not be read in the way you think you mean it to be.

No one wins with this sort of discourse.
Jarod Garamonde
Jolly Codgers
Get Off My Lawn
#2559 - 2014-03-26 12:03:45 UTC
Sturmwolke wrote:
I'll just leave this here.
Pay attention to 1 Smile

THE HARE PSYCHOPATHY CHECK LIST(Revised) (PCL-R)

x1 Glibness/superficial charm
x2 Grandiose sense of self-worth
x3 Need for stimulation/proneness to boredom
4 Pathological lying
x5 Cunning/manipulative
6 Lack of remorse or guilt
x7 Shallow affect [i.e. superficial experience and expression of emotions]
x8 Callous/lack of empathy
9 Parasitic lifestyle
10 Poor behavioural controls
x11 Promiscuous sexual behaviour
x12 Early behaviour problems
x13 Lack of realistic long-term goals
x14 Impulsivity
x15 Irresponsibility
16 Failure to accept responsibility for own actions
x17 Many short term marital relationships
18 Juvenile delinquency
19 Revocation of conditional release
20 Criminal versatility



I x'd up next to all the ones I have. How crazy am I?

That moment when you realize the crazy lady with all the cats was right...

    [#savethelance]
Jack Lennox
Grove Street Families
#2560 - 2014-03-26 12:04:03 UTC
PinkPanter wrote:
Jarod Garamonde wrote:
Once again, fellow players.... your ire is misplaced.
We do NOT want to open this can of worms.

This is all I have to say on the subject:

Remember when everybody wanted Tank CEO banned (not for breaking the rules, but just because 90% of the players didn't like him)? Kinda the same thing, here. Tank pointed out loopholes and exploits that other people were using to get past the rules, and his conduct created new rules that have helped to make EVE thrive.
Like it or not, we needed Tank.

Now, Erotica 1 is running a high-stakes gambling event. Nothing more. He's not exploiting bugs, or pointing out flawed rules. He's asking you to risk, and offering a possible reward. End of story.
Erotica's "bonus round" is no different than any real life casino in Vegas. You walk in, and blow every dime you have, that's not the house's problem. You could have stepped away at any time. Nobody forced you to stay. They just made it a little easier for you to choose that option.

I wouldn't call a slot machine a form of bullying. Chances are it WILL take everything you put into it, and give nothing back.
Winners are paid by the "donations" of the losers.


Lol casinos are very much regulated and so are bullying actions.
Deliberate actions that lead to exploit people in any way and then publicly make fun of them well that's a possible criminal case already.




And how do you know the bonus room isn't highly regulated? (Spoiler, Erotica 1 takes them very seriously and adheres to a very strict set of rules) You wouldn't even be calling this bullying if the contestant had won (and yes, there HAVE been winners in the past). The contestant simply decided that he didn't want to show full faith and quit, forfeiting his money

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