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Eve Radio Midnight Tonight: This week in review, with Trebor, Seleene, Two Step and... The Mittani

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Zirise
Ministry of War
Amarr Empire
#281 - 2012-04-01 08:10:45 UTC
The funny thing is people can (and do) this sort of thing in game all the time and no one gives a ****. But say it in person and its the end of the ******* world.

I guess it never really takes much for the sheep to bleat; now we just have to convince them to stop caring about their friend dead horse over here.
Alavaria Fera
GoonWaffe
#282 - 2012-04-01 08:19:41 UTC
Zirise wrote:
I guess it never really takes much for the sheep to bleat; now we just have to convince them to stop caring about their friend dead horse over here.

Sheep and horses are both herbivores.

But you shear sheep and ride horses.

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MatrixSkye Mk2
Republic University
Minmatar Republic
#283 - 2012-04-01 11:20:29 UTC
OfBalance wrote:
MatrixSkye Mk2 wrote:
In my opinion and to me saving emails of suicide-inclined players as trophies and sharing them to point and laugh is not arrogance, but rather sadism. And to me he went way over the line with that one. Him asking others to incite suicide was just additional **** to up the ante.


Having been in no less than a dozen corporations with my various alts over the years where this kind of thing was standard fare, color me less than impressed by the bold. Making people extremely mad, upset, and generally unwilling to log in and fight back has been a mainstay of EVE pvp since I created character number one back in 2004.

Because some in Eve consider this behavior "standard fare", as you put it, doesn't make it right. I saw lots of things when I was in middle school that weren't appropriate. But quantity didn't make any of them right.

Quote:
As for the incite to suicide bit, you can characterize the apology as a feint if you like, but the apology was for that action. He may not have fully bent over, gracefully quit EVE of his own volition forever, and whatever other extreme penance the forum-alt community was clamoring for, but he made a public apology and a private one with the guy and even sent him isk.

His apology was for inciting suicide. But his insistance that it was because he was drunk mitigates his sincerity and rather points blame to alcohol. In addition, his powerpoint presentation was planned and premeditated. He says he's not that type of guy in real life. But laughing and attempting to humiliate someone inclined on committing suicide (which I believe was his plan all along) says otherwise. You see, that was done in real life.

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I've been frank from the get-go of this shitstorm that the address was his gaff, premeditated or drunkenly conjured by a fel wizard hat. But, in terms of EVE conduct in general that was a toe-step over the line. Considering the responses from the mittani detractors was not merely mind-games, but direct physical threats (complete with address listing), I think you can extrapolate there's a whole lot more sadism tucked away in the unknown lurker publords than in the mind of one king of space.

I find that behavior also unacceptable. Two wrongs don't make a right and all that. But I also find it ironic that Mr. Gianturco and company's use of meta-game has been his undoing.

Successfully doinitwrong™ since 2006.

Dusty Meg
Echelon Research
Goonswarm Federation
#284 - 2012-04-01 12:02:28 UTC
MatrixSkye Mk2 wrote:

Quote:
As for the incite to suicide bit, you can characterize the apology as a feint if you like, but the apology was for that action. He may not have fully bent over, gracefully quit EVE of his own volition forever, and whatever other extreme penance the forum-alt community was clamoring for, but he made a public apology and a private one with the guy and even sent him isk.

His apology was for inciting suicide. But his insistance that it was because he was drunk mitigates his sincerity and rather points blame to alcohol. In addition, his powerpoint presentation was planned and premeditated. He says he's not that type of guy in real life. But laughing and attempting to humiliate someone inclined on committing suicide (which I believe was his plan all along) says otherwise. You see, that was done in real life.


So how was this premeditated, was the name included with the presentation? No
So he remembers a name, I still remember most of the names of people who have ganked me.

Creater of the EVE animated influence map http://www.youtube.com/user/DustMityEVE

MatrixSkye Mk2
Republic University
Minmatar Republic
#285 - 2012-04-01 12:27:09 UTC
What I am considering premeditated is the preparation of his powerpoint presentation to humiliate and make fun of a suicide-inclined player. Not only that but I'm sure he finds the thoughts of a human being contemplating suicide funny and satisfying. That **** simply isn't normal. That is anti-social behavior.

If someone were to even hint at me the contemplation of suicide THE LAST THING I would do would be to prepare a powerpoint presentation to make fun of and feel good of this individual's issues. I understand that's just me. But I still consider this very inappropriate behavior. And I still maintain that him holding on to this email and preparing the presentation shows that he takes pleasure in doing this kind of stuff.

Successfully doinitwrong™ since 2006.

Thomas Orca
Broski is ded
#286 - 2012-04-01 23:53:42 UTC
RougeOperator wrote:


So mittens threatens someone its ok cause he was drunk etc etc etc

Mittens gets threatened ITS THE END OF THE WORLD.


PRO TIP BOTH ARE FREAKING WRONG AND EVIL. NEITHER IS JUSTIFIED.

But one does not excuse the other just because it happened to them after the fact.


There are a few problems with your argument here. The Wis was never threatened by Mittens, nor did they even has an interaction prior to Mittens apologizing and throwing billions of isk at him because of how bad Mittens felt about what he did.

Mittens does not know The Wis's real identity. However, people do know Mittens's real identity, as well as his address. According to Mittens, people have been sending him death threats, and Mittens is correct in his statement that the label "Cyberbully" may have well ruined his life, if he had not retired early.
OfBalance
Caldari State
#287 - 2012-04-02 00:05:44 UTC  |  Edited by: OfBalance
MatrixSkye Mk2 wrote:

Because some in Eve consider this behavior "standard fare", as you put it, doesn't make it right. I saw lots of things when I was in middle school that weren't appropriate. But quantity didn't make any of them right.


This is EVE, a game, where the rules are the EULA and the words of CCP.

If a practice is common and not met with a response from CCP, that is all that matters. If CCP comes along and says "hey, this is now against the rules," then you can talk about it being wrong in the sense that it is not permitted.

Since we have no right, as in "righteous," cause in EVE aside from giving people at CCP a job; however, there's really no point in talking about right and wrong. There is only legal and illegal.
Beekeeper Bob
Beekeepers Anonymous
#288 - 2012-04-02 00:09:40 UTC  |  Edited by: Beekeeper Bob
Thomas Orca wrote:
RougeOperator wrote:


So mittens threatens someone its ok cause he was drunk etc etc etc

Mittens gets threatened ITS THE END OF THE WORLD.


PRO TIP BOTH ARE FREAKING WRONG AND EVIL. NEITHER IS JUSTIFIED.

But one does not excuse the other just because it happened to them after the fact.


There are a few problems with your argument here. The Wis was never threatened by Mittens, nor did they even has an interaction prior to Mittens apologizing and throwing billions of isk at him because of how bad Mittens felt about what he did.

Mittens does not know The Wis's real identity. However, people do know Mittens's real identity, as well as his address. According to Mittens, people have been sending him death threats, and Mittens is correct in his statement that the label "Cyberbully" may have well ruined his life, if he had not retired early.



Pets of Bee pets have an opinion?

And inciting your rabid, knuckle-dragging followers to hound a person into suicide, is still considered wrong by most rational adults and legal systems.

You need to get over it and move on, be thankful that they didn't ban him permanently.

Signature removed - CCP Eterne

Jessie-A Tassik
Pator Tech School
Minmatar Republic
#289 - 2012-04-02 01:10:28 UTC
DJ FunkyBacon said:
Quote:
First, I haven't used his full name here, but that's hardly of consequence, since he blogs using his full real life name.

You are perfectly entitled to the opinion that the label should stick, and I'm not here to tell you how to think.

You're claiming Brendon was browbeat by the mittani on air, I've had others complain that it was a Dr. Phil session with the two of them just hugging it out and kissing and making up. A lot of people found it very civil, and have commented that they expected it to be abrasive, but were surprised it wasn't.

And I never told any of those people what to think. As I've said before, the purpose was to put the unedited views of those involved out in front of you to make your own mind up. If everyone was responding the same way, then I'd have done a **** poor job at what I set out to do. The fact that responses here and elsewhere have ranged from how you feel, to middle of the road, to the complete opposite, and everyone seems to have taken something different from the coverage tells me things went pretty well.

I'm sorry you're upset.


Well, speaking for myself, you can tell me to think whatever you want, I just won't listen! Lol

But why is it that the most untrustworthy people, people who talk like backstabbing little sneaks, feel the need to constantly claim honesty with nonsense like "unedited views" and such?

I mean really, in other posts you talk about "making sure things remain civil".... which pretty much means everyone does exactly what you want or you hit the edit button. So that would be the opposite of unedited.

Though at least you are bringing the high standards of American and British media to EVE.
MatrixSkye Mk2
Republic University
Minmatar Republic
#290 - 2012-04-02 01:46:59 UTC
OfBalance wrote:
MatrixSkye Mk2 wrote:

Because some in Eve consider this behavior "standard fare", as you put it, doesn't make it right. I saw lots of things when I was in middle school that weren't appropriate. But quantity didn't make any of them right.


This is EVE, a game, where the rules are the EULA and the words of CCP.

If a practice is common and not met with a response from CCP, that is all that matters. If CCP comes along and says "hey, this is now against the rules," then you can talk about it being wrong in the sense that it is not permitted.

Since we have no right, as in "righteous," cause in EVE aside from giving people at CCP a job; however, there's really no point in talking about right and wrong. There is only legal and illegal.

See bold. I have to disagree with this. You are correct that CCP decides on what's legal and what isn't. However, there are certain behaviors that *I* (and maybe many others?) consider to be malicious and ill in nature, especially meta-game ,or, where real life is concerned. Obviously if you don't believe in ethics then there really is no point in discussing this because it's kind of difficult to tell someone where the "line" is drawn when they don't believe in the "line" to begin with.

I believe some people use the game as a tool to grief and bully. And I don't need CCP to tell me when that line is crossed. When I play the game I exercise good reasoning and common sense to keep myself away from that line. But I also understand that CCP will draw the line where they think that line should lie and that is A-OK with me. However, I use my own discretion and you know what? For the most part our lines seem to be drawn in the same place. Figure that!

If you use common sense you will hardly go wrong. Unfortunately there are those that seem to have malfunctioning common sense and reason and need CCP to tell them exactly where not to tread. But even then, just like a 2-year-old, they will test mommy to feel out the consequences regardless of whether what they're doing is right or wrong because as I said before, the line is non-existent to them.

In other words, some feel that grief play is wrong because CCP has deemed it wrong, not because they themselves feel there is something inherently wrong with grief play. And it doesn't take much thought to realize that once the game is used as a tool for grief rather than actual entertainment it has become a form of meta game or, not completely part of the game.

Now the kicker is that goons and test are known for their meta-game I think precisely for the reasons I describe above. And I don't think alcohol is the excuse. Alexander's been playing with fire for a very long time. He got burned. And now he's screaming foul on meta-gaming. Hypocrisy at its best. This podcast reflects this very well, in my opinion. He must have spent 5% of his time admitting to a "drunken mistake" and the other 95% positioning himself as the victim in all this, God forbid he's labeled as a bully in real life. That could ruin his good name.

Successfully doinitwrong™ since 2006.

Hamshoe
Doomheim
#291 - 2012-04-02 02:35:11 UTC
Thomas Orca wrote:
[quote=RougeOperator]

.... and Mittens is correct in his statement that the label "Cyberbully" may have well ruined his life, if he had not retired early.


Not without something to back up that label

That's his real complaint: he got noticed, called out, and it's true.

I have little sympathy for a "victim" of the truth.
Alpheias
Tactical Farmers.
Pandemic Horde
#292 - 2012-04-02 02:53:31 UTC
Oh, the hypocrisy here is so thick that you couldn't even drill through it.

Agent of Chaos, Sower of Discord.

Don't talk to me unless you are IQ verified and certified with three references from non-family members. Please have your certificate of authenticity on hand.

RougeOperator
Sebiestor Tribe
Minmatar Republic
#293 - 2012-04-02 03:39:25 UTC
http://massively.joystiq.com/2012/04/01/eve-evolved-setting-the-record-straight/

Massively responded to the mittanis claims.

And pretty much own him.

**Space wizards are real, they can make 10058 votes vanish. "and for a moment i hurd 10k goons cry out, then silence" **

Frederick Sanger
Viziam
Amarr Empire
#294 - 2012-04-02 04:10:06 UTC
RougeOperator wrote:
http://massively.joystiq.com/2012/04/01/eve-evolved-setting-the-record-straight/

Massively responded to the mittanis claims.

And pretty much own him.


Reading comprehension pretty much owns you.
RougeOperator
Sebiestor Tribe
Minmatar Republic
#295 - 2012-04-02 04:12:43 UTC
Frederick Sanger wrote:
RougeOperator wrote:
http://massively.joystiq.com/2012/04/01/eve-evolved-setting-the-record-straight/

Massively responded to the mittanis claims.

And pretty much own him.


Reading comprehension pretty much owns you.


U Mad

U seem mad


**Space wizards are real, they can make 10058 votes vanish. "and for a moment i hurd 10k goons cry out, then silence" **

Frederick Sanger
Viziam
Amarr Empire
#296 - 2012-04-02 04:15:09 UTC
RougeOperator wrote:
Frederick Sanger wrote:
RougeOperator wrote:
http://massively.joystiq.com/2012/04/01/eve-evolved-setting-the-record-straight/

Massively responded to the mittanis claims.

And pretty much own him.


Reading comprehension pretty much owns you.


U Mad

U seem mad



You obsessed, bro? You seem obsessed.
Rory Orlenard
Eve Pilots Revolutionary Army
#297 - 2012-04-02 04:23:33 UTC  |  Edited by: Rory Orlenard
RougeOperator wrote:
http://massively.joystiq.com/2012/04/01/eve-evolved-setting-the-record-straight/

Massively responded to the mittanis claims.

And pretty much own him.


Take this for what it's worth. Massively says two things. that Eve players are percieved as physcopaths yet the npc corp beginner experience is the best in mmo's.

I'd say he pretty much hit it on the head. I am a professional "restarter"...any of the Eve starter npc corps have some very knowledgable players about pve, ship setup for pve and go out thier way to donate isk, help and guidance.

Then...Then we move to pvp , nullsec and wormholes...a set of sicker bastards in any mmo I don't believe you can find. To call Eve a cesspool is an understatement bordering on monumental. Face facts you rat bastards...you spend hours setting traps to nuke helpless victims...I once spent 5 hours staking out a wh entrance and when a ship came thru 2 other small fleets uncloaked on the target. No one knew who to shoot.
Mr Epeen
It's All About Me
#298 - 2012-04-02 04:31:00 UTC
RougeOperator wrote:
http://massively.joystiq.com/2012/04/01/eve-evolved-setting-the-record-straight/

Massively responded to the mittanis claims.

And pretty much own him.


Interesting bit from the editor at the end of the piece showing how the little bees have, by all definitions, tried to cyber-bully the gaming media into dropping the cyber-bully title given to the mitardi.

Irony much?

Mr Epeen Cool


Frederick Sanger
Viziam
Amarr Empire
#299 - 2012-04-02 04:44:31 UTC
Mr Epeen wrote:

Interesting bit from the editor at the end of the piece showing how the little bees have, by all definitions, tried to cyber-bully the gaming media into dropping the cyber-bully title given to the mitardi.

Irony much?

Mr Epeen Cool



So you can cyber-bully a media organisation with an email writing campaign asking them to post a retraction?
MoyO zOlotse
State War Academy
Caldari State
#300 - 2012-04-02 04:57:09 UTC
Frederick Sanger wrote:
Reading comprehension pretty much owns you.


Smuttens got out EVEd - plain and simple.

You goons obsessing over it are starting to look beyond desperate.

You cant ever hope to beat someone at a game in which, they are vastly superior than you. Real Truth.

Don't CSM what you can't afford to loser.