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Game is really boring for me, help please.

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Carl Kowalski
Doomheim
#21 - 2016-11-25 12:36:03 UTC  |  Edited by: Carl Kowalski
Anize Oramara wrote:
Eve isn't WoW (I play both). Eve is, more than any other game, what you make of it. What you get out of Eve is directly equal to how much effort you put in. This includes educating yourself, reading guides, watching youtube videos but also putting in huge amount of effort into the game itself and actually truly understanding the game and it's mechanics. Gaining in game experience on how the game works, what content is available, exploring *every* isk making mechanic to find the one you find enjoyable (not just bearable) is critical.

Find what you enjoy in eve and drop any and all preconceived notions of what the endgame is supposed to be. Joining a huge Corp and becoming an F1 monkey or ratting in Nullsec is *not* the be all and end all Eve endgame. If you enjoy large fleet fights or warping between the same 3 sites killing the same rats from the same spawns for hours on end (been there done that, wasn't that bad ;) ) then sure a big nullsec corp might be for you. If you just want an active coms but no PvP potential maybe start researching into incursions and become part of that community. If you like small corp stuff with PvP and lots of isk, maybe Wormholes is for you? There's also Low sec. Then there's the tons of different solo content. Trading or industry maybe? (spreadsheet woo!) or how about exploration? Solo PvP? Missions?

Apply some initiative! Eve isn't like WoW where everything gets delivered to you on a silver platter. Where you can log in, click a button and be in a dungeon or raid within 3 minutes. Eve requires a huge investment in time (at least initially) if you want to get the most out of it but in the end you can carve out your own little niche, make a name for yourself and actually make an impact in the game even if it is all by yourself.


Every word you wrote is perfectly right ... but not helpful to a newbie.

What I as a newbie wanted was having fun and flying with other people. Which I did. I shot ships, met interesting people, were in a fleet once or twice ... had lots of fun and subscribed. And then I started to look for a corps, and EVE fell apart. After a lot of contacts and beeing in three corps, I learned that, for a newbie (= has finished the tutorial and SoE arc, so about 2 - 3 weeks in, a definition which, I learned, is not universally accepted) there are two kind of corps, who call themself "newbiefriendly" in their sales pitch: one kind will tell you right from the start that they are not interest at pilots with this lack of SP, and the other will let you in and are not interested. All I ever got from a corp was corp chat and a TS channel with half a dozen guys minding their own business. What good is it, to join a corp and becoming a war target, and then not fly with other people? So out of pure boredom I just stopped logging in and let the subsciption ran out.

I don't have real life friends in EVE, and (see above) I have yet to meet people who want to fly with me. So, how do I experience EVE? It feels like playing a single player space sim, while talking about it with other people in a forum. And it felt always like this, whether I was in a corp or not. Except that it is a MMO, so there a other players. Which in fact are only felt as a nuisance: local is full of spam, they camp the gate I want to pass through, they cleared the site I wanted to clear, they undercut my prices, they present a constant danger.

I'm following EVE for years now, but as some other people have said before, it is more entertaining to read about it, than actually playing it.

Or is there another side of EVE? Is the stuff that corps present in their propaganda not just a sales pitch, but does actually happen? Is there a way for a newbie to get involved? If this is true, why does CCP such a good job hiding it?

Looking for assignment: have missiles, will travel ...

Jennifer Starblaze
Fury Transport
#22 - 2016-11-25 14:01:25 UTC  |  Edited by: Jennifer Starblaze
The problem with corps in EvE is that there are just way too many corps out there and the amount of corps which are nothing more than a chat channel also is quite large.

As someone who ran several small corps myself I might be able to give you some insight on why, especially in smaller corps you can get bored fairly quick. The corps I ran were all newbie friendly corps and actually targeted at helping new players to get to know different parts of the game.

Let me explain what I went through and maybe you can get a little bit insight of why so many corps fail.

I started my corporations and usually it first did some ground work like setting up a website, a forum and a Teamspeak or Mumble server. Once I was done with that I started the process of recruiting people. I mostly focussed on combat oriented players both PvE and PvP.

You spend a few days flying around advertising the corp, talking to a lot of different people and at times like now when a lot of people it usually does not take that long to find a good amount of "Rookies" you can work with.

Naturally new pilots have a lot of questions, so besides doing all the administrative stuff you need to handle if you start such a project on your own, you spend a lot of time helping the new members how to actually play the game.

I also always organised things for the corp. I took out completly fresh players and did things like running level 4 missions with them in frigs, gave them one on one PvP lessons if they desired, organised little PvP tournaments for the corp. Planned fleets to go roaming, worked out a lot of newbie friendly frig and destroyer fittings for roams and did all the logistics work as well, since I was always the only one who had the characters available to transport larger quantities of ships and modules to the systems where we needed them.

All well so far, but you will only be able to run a corp like that on your own for a certain amount of time. If you have to do all these things on your own, you will burn out sooner or later.

I tried all kinds of things to motivate people to step up and take over some tasks, like advertising for recruitment, or forming fleets without me. I tried to motivate them with little presents like faction ships, but sadly nobody was ever willing to step up and to actually try to help making the corp successfull.

Nobody would have stopped the people who were online to do the things I did with them without me, but every last one of them always was waiting for me to get online to do stuff. You log in and it does not even take 2 seconds until the first questions come flying in, at the same time 3 people ask if we can do something together and you still keep doing things like kicking people who are completly inactive, have to find replacements and so on. The work for me just kept getting more and more, while everyone else was just sitting back and relying on me to do everything.

That kind of behaviour is something I have also seen in other corporations and even large alliances, where nobody would want to step up or do anything unless the 2-3 main FCs were online. On the other hand site people who complained that nothing would be going on was quite large. Not a single one of the people who liked complaining ever did anything for the corp themselves though.

Which brings me to the end of my little text:

The main problem with many corps out there are the members themselves, people join corps and expect to be entertained by somebody else whenever they are online. If you have a corp where 1 out of 10 members is willing to actually put up some effort to help make the corp being fun and successfull you can really concider yourself lucky.

Sadly I do not have a solution to that problem either, you just can not change people, no matter what you do. You either get lucky and find people for your corp that are willing to step up or you try to keep things running as much as you can but eventually burn out and either disband the corp or just let things run their course, which ends in everyone doing their own thing and treating the corp as nothing other than a shared chat channel.

So whenever you end up in a corp where not much is going on, before you start pointing fingers at others: think about what you can do to make things more fun and don´t rely just on 1 or 2 persons in the corp to do everything. And lack of experience also is not an excuse. Even if you do not know how to do certain things, you can either look them up, just go with learning by doing, or ask people how certain things are done. Even if you fail sometimes, if you do it together with other people it can still be a lot of fun.

tldr: if you are in a corp and you find it boring: think about what you can do to help making it fun to be in the corp and don´t be a part of the problem.
Carl Kowalski
Doomheim
#23 - 2016-11-25 14:24:07 UTC  |  Edited by: Carl Kowalski
Jennifer Starblaze wrote:

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(a very interesting story, read it!)
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I've talked a lot with people about my experience in EVE, and this is a typical reaction. I like to call it the "glorious past syndrome".

Examples are
- Yes, there are corps which try to help newbies, and I led one. But I no longer do it.
- Yes, there were instuctional fleets, and I used to FC them. But I no longer do it.
- Yes, we took newbies in and taught them, how to PvP. But we no longer do that.

In all my time in EVE, I never had a conversation with someone, who was doing this stuff right now and invited me to join.

Looking for assignment: have missiles, will travel ...

Remiel Pollard
Aliastra
Gallente Federation
#24 - 2016-11-25 14:33:55 UTC
In this game, you're not just a content consumer.

You're also a content creator.

“Some capsuleers claim that ECM is 'dishonorable' and 'unfair'. Jam those ones first, and kill them last.” - Jirai 'Fatal' Laitanen, Pithum Nullifier Training Manual c. YC104

Jennifer Starblaze
Fury Transport
#25 - 2016-11-25 14:46:07 UTC
I can not speak for others, but in my case it´s just that running a corp like that is just a lot of work and can quickly lead to frustration.

I always kinda felt bad when I could not be around to do fun stuff as I knew people would most likely just sit around bored instead of doing things together. This quite often would make feel bad, because I did not want people to be in my corp and to be bored.

I still like helping out new players, but instead of running a corp I rather sit in rookie help and help them as much as I can, or explain things in more detail in private conversations. That way I can just do it whenever I feel like and without having the feeling to let people down, when you can not be around.
Carl Kowalski
Doomheim
#26 - 2016-11-25 14:52:50 UTC
Remiel Pollard wrote:
In this game, you're not just a content consumer.

You're also a content creator.


Your are right, but not offering any help to newbies.

To create content as a FC for example, I think one should know at least, how to be a functioning fleet member, how a fleet is working and how it is led. So when you want more FCs, first offer fleets to newbies and help them learn the basics.

Looking for assignment: have missiles, will travel ...

Jennifer Starblaze
Fury Transport
#27 - 2016-11-25 14:58:35 UTC  |  Edited by: Jennifer Starblaze
While experience surely makes it easier, it is not a requirement. We older players did not have anyoneone to teach us as well, as we were the first players around. The difference instead of waiting for people to spoonfeed things to us we just grabbed some ships and worked things out on our own.

Lack of knowledge more ofteh than not is just an excuse for not having to move out of your own comfort zone, or the unwillingness to step up at all.
Cutter Isaacson
DEDSEC SAN FRANCISCO
#28 - 2016-11-25 15:22:13 UTC  |  Edited by: Cutter Isaacson
Norb Nardie wrote:
Anyone have any ideas that can help me? I make 0 isk, last time I was ratting in a VNI i died, somone gave me another for free. Then once I didn't die and made SOME isk, it was looking bleak at only 10m an hour, doesn't help that if you tell people that people assume you're lying or not ratting right. I am ratting right, going to the little systems. Can anyone help me? My main issue is making isk, if I can do that it's like opening a door to do other stuff because I cant even buy a frigate or buy something to pvp without losing half my isk.



There is over a decades worth of information, that would likely take decades upon decades to read, that details every last square millimetre of EVE. Don't only rely on people in game to teach you things. Take matters into your own hands, Google stuff, hit the forums, read the thousands of guides that hundreds of players have built up in the last ten years, watch YouTube videos. Educate yourself, don't expect everyone to hand it to you. At the risk of sounding mean, this is EVE, not kindergarten.

"The truth is usually just an excuse for a lack of imagination." Elim Garak.

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