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Who's your family and where are they now?

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Kador Ouryon
The Scope
Gallente Federation
#101 - 2016-01-10 08:11:54 UTC  |  Edited by: Kador Ouryon
Deitra Vess wrote:
Kador Ouryon wrote:

Do I really have to state my disagreement or is that not implied?

Well, ya...... It's kinda' implied isn't it....


Indeed.... and who said we couldn't be civil?

As for my family, this on a more general note, I haven't seen them in years.

My mother was... well still is really adamantly faithful and I can quite clearly remember her quietly reciting passages in our gardens on Marthia V. She suffers from an auto-immune condition which she staunchly refuses to seek advanced medical treatments such as cloning or genetic alteration for, and has also refused to see me since I myself first cloned.

I've never really gotten on with my father and frankly that relationship has only worsened since he has remarried for political reasons. I've nothing personal against my step mother or step brother though, which the arrogant bastard named after himself and named as his heir, and I suppose if it weren't for him we'd probably find some common ground.

What fills the soul? Something that guides a lost child back to it's parents arms. Or waves that dye the shores of the heart gold. A blessed breath to nurture life in a land of wheat. Or the path the Sef descend drawn in ash. In the wake of fire.

Elsebeth Rhiannon
Gradient
Electus Matari
#102 - 2016-01-10 11:11:48 UTC
Clan's on Mikramurka, Matar. Investment business and local trade.

I keep on telling them that since I am technically a ghost, they could just run the Death Rites and let me go free. They think I'm joking.

Diana Kim
State Protectorate
Caldari State
#103 - 2016-01-10 11:47:17 UTC  |  Edited by: Diana Kim
Elsebeth Rhiannon wrote:
Clan's on Mikramurka, Matar. Investment business and local trade.

I keep on telling them that since I am technically a ghost, they could just run the Death Rites and let me go free. They think I'm joking.


I don't think it is very polite and respectful to them to say them such things.
My family knows I have died and I don't plan on spooking them and showing them my body.
"Oh, hello! Don't mind I use your sibling's or daughter's body and memories, right? The duty wills it."

Honored are the dead, for their legacy guides us.

In memory of Tibus Heth, Caldari State Executor YC110-115, Hero and Patriot.

Kador Ouryon
The Scope
Gallente Federation
#104 - 2016-01-10 14:41:27 UTC
Elsebeth Rhiannon wrote:
Clan's on Mikramurka, Matar. Investment business and local trade.

I keep on telling them that since I am technically a ghost, they could just run the Death Rites and let me go free. They think I'm joking.



It's universally tragic of all or perhaps some kind of cosmic joke that a child need explain to their own family the nature of their passing, and that even still present in some small part mind and body yet invariably rejected.

What fills the soul? Something that guides a lost child back to it's parents arms. Or waves that dye the shores of the heart gold. A blessed breath to nurture life in a land of wheat. Or the path the Sef descend drawn in ash. In the wake of fire.

Aria Jenneth
Societas Imperialis Sceptri Coronaeque
Khimi Harar
#105 - 2016-01-10 15:55:24 UTC
Elsebeth Rhiannon wrote:
Clan's on Mikramurka, Matar. Investment business and local trade.

I keep on telling them that since I am technically a ghost, they could just run the Death Rites and let me go free. They think I'm joking.

In a way, it's good to see my predecessor's thoughts echoed by people who have followed such a different paths.

I still don't think it's very healthy to think of ourselves as dead people, though. Our work is alienating enough as it is.
Elsebeth Rhiannon
Gradient
Electus Matari
#106 - 2016-01-10 16:22:41 UTC
I don't exactly consider myself dead; I don't think the dead generally get drunk or laid, say. They are also not very effective as pilots.

But I *have died*, and thus I am technically a ghost, which would give the clan the option to perform a letting-go. It would be a highly practical way for them to remove me from the books, deal with my bloodline inheritance (which is, to say the least, a complete mess), and get rid of the discomfort of trying to fit me into a system I really do not fit in anymore. Moreover, it would do all that without anyone having to go into any sort of clan-split or disowning type of solution, which would only serve to make the property mess even messier.

(They still think I'm joking and that this is one of my phases that I will outgrow. How old does one have to be before Aunties stop considering anything unconventional you do "a phase"? Please tell me this will stop when I turn fifty.)
Valerie Valate
Church of The Crimson Saviour
#107 - 2016-01-10 16:26:44 UTC
Elsebeth Rhiannon wrote:
They still think I'm joking and that this is one of my phases that I will outgrow. How old does one have to be before Aunties stop considering anything unconventional you do "a phase"? Please tell me this will stop when I turn fifty.


Hahahaha, 50?!

If you were Amarr, then Aunts disapproving of "phases" is only just getting started by the age of 50, and you could look forward to at least another 50 to 100 years of being considered to be in a "phase".

Doctor V. Valate, Professor of Archaeology at Kaztropolis Imperial University.

Erica Dusette
Division 13
#108 - 2016-01-10 18:52:16 UTC
Amber Patoria wrote:
They're all dead.


Well you have a new family now.

Jack Miton > you be nice or you're sleeping on the couch again!

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Saede Riordan
Alexylva Paradox
#109 - 2016-01-10 19:02:57 UTC
Elsebeth Rhiannon wrote:
I don't exactly consider myself dead; I don't think the dead generally get drunk or laid, say. They are also not very effective as pilots.

But I *have died*, and thus I am technically a ghost, which would give the clan the option to perform a letting-go. It would be a highly practical way for them to remove me from the books, deal with my bloodline inheritance (which is, to say the least, a complete mess), and get rid of the discomfort of trying to fit me into a system I really do not fit in anymore. Moreover, it would do all that without anyone having to go into any sort of clan-split or disowning type of solution, which would only serve to make the property mess even messier.

(They still think I'm joking and that this is one of my phases that I will outgrow. How old does one have to be before Aunties stop considering anything unconventional you do "a phase"? Please tell me this will stop when I turn fifty.)



Do you really feel like you've become so different from the rest of your clan that you think cutting ties with them in one way or another is the best solution? I'm still close with my clan, maybe even moreso after becoming a capsuleer. A clan isn't a system, its a group of people, a community. Why would you cut yourself away from that? I'm not judging your choice, mind, I'm just curious as to your reasoning.
Elsebeth Rhiannon
Gradient
Electus Matari
#110 - 2016-01-10 20:09:00 UTC
Saede Riordan wrote:
Do you really feel like you've become so different from the rest of your clan that you think cutting ties with them in one way or another is the best solution? I'm still close with my clan, maybe even more so after becoming a capsuleer. A clan isn't a system, its a group of people, a community. Why would you cut yourself away from that? I'm not judging your choice, mind, I'm just curious as to your reasoning.

It's too long and too private a story to tell in detail on the IGS, but shortly: it is a combination of things that has lead to where I am now, not any one single thing, and not just capsuleer estrangement (though that definitely plays into it). It's related to how the Rhiannon (people) are and how Rhiannon (the place) is, and how I grew up, and what my role in the clan was and now suddenly is not, and my shifting loyalties in general, among other things. The end result is that I am fond of the guys (bless their snobbish, power-mongering hearts), but I don't really miss them as kin.

So, I don't really mind being part of the clan - as I said I like them, and it's not really like they can boss a capsuleer and ex-Heir around in any meaningful way. However, since actually treating me as officially dead regarding inheritance and status would settle a whole lot of awkward bureaucracy, I would not really mind doing that either. Everyone would know I'm still in the world and that they actually can talk to this ghost, so it should work out. We don't have a precedence for what happens if the ghosts talk back, so that should prove interesting Tradition-wise too. Blink
Kalaratiri
Full Broadside
Deepwater Hooligans
#111 - 2016-01-10 20:34:55 UTC
I'm honestly quite amazed at the number of people willing to discuss one of the few ways other capsuleers can hurt them in any meaningful fashion.

That aside, my family is large and a long way away.

She's mad but she's magic, there's no lie in her fire.

This is possibly one of the worst threads in the history of these forums.  - CCP Falcon

I don't remember when last time you said something that wasn't either dumb or absurd. - Diana Kim

Elsebeth Rhiannon
Gradient
Electus Matari
#112 - 2016-01-10 20:38:55 UTC  |  Edited by: Elsebeth Rhiannon
I for one haven't revealed anything that cannot be found out in five minutes by anyone remotely competent with an access to tribal records...
Kador Ouryon
The Scope
Gallente Federation
#113 - 2016-01-10 21:17:29 UTC
Kalaratiri wrote:
I'm honestly quite amazed at the number of people willing to discuss one of the few ways other capsuleers can hurt them in any meaningful fashion.

That aside, my family is large and a long way away.


Even if we were on good terms me talking about them in one thing.... finding them and putting yourself in a position to hurt them is entirely different. Fortunately the family I've chosen for myself are very capable people and I don't have to worry about them at all.

What fills the soul? Something that guides a lost child back to it's parents arms. Or waves that dye the shores of the heart gold. A blessed breath to nurture life in a land of wheat. Or the path the Sef descend drawn in ash. In the wake of fire.

Morgan Wulver
SAYR Reserve Guard
SAYR Galactic
#114 - 2016-01-11 01:57:06 UTC  |  Edited by: Morgan Wulver
I guess it was only a matter of time until this question came up on the forums, and I have to say I am honestly facinated by the wide variety in upbringings between us capsuleers. For the longest time I was under the cynical impression at we were all street urchens with daddy issues who by circumstance were given the power of gods to smite who we wish. It's good to know that only holds up about half the time.

As for me I imagine the first few years of my life were similar to any Caldari tube child you talk to. I was born on Oinasiken IX in Black Rise in an effort to populate the area so the Caldari could settle and lay claim to a district of the planet before the Gallente could move in. Even as children we were expected to learn how to operate basic industrial machinery as the colony built up around us.

At some point the Gallente launched an incursion on the area, firebombing factories and military targets while the Marine Expeditionary Forces withdrew further into populated areas. It was decided that the collateral damage in the ensuing firefight would be unacceptable, and a detachment from Mordu's Legion was tasked to aid in the evacuation of civilian personnel. The local commandant however didn't take too keenly to relinquishing us from his ward to a group of pirates, and instead decided to arm a group of us tube orphans and use us to keep the Gallente at bay until he could organize a counterattack before the Legion showed up.

I can't remember what happened after that but by the time the Legion found me I'd practically gone feral, holed up in an apartment complex taking pot shots at them. They could have just leveled the building I was hiding in but the squad leader, a guy by the name of Vârcolac, risked his life to climb up three flights of stairs and disarm me. He picked me up and rushed me to an evac dropship just in time for a sniper to pluck him off when he had his back turned getting me onboard. I later found out that I was one of only a handful of people to actually make it out of that colony after the Gallente started to shell it from orbit. If the commandant had just evacuated civilians like he was ordered to do most of the kids I grew up with wouldn't have been inside the factories when the attack began. I must have gone into shock after surviving that, moving from building to building firing at anything I could while both sides tried to mop up whatever was left of the other. I can't really blame the State or the Federation for my experience. It was just one of those SNAFUs that happens in war.

I guess it's not all dark and edgy though. The Legion took me in from there on out, and started calling me Wulver for how rabid I was when they found me in the field. They couldn't have a child soldier running around their station with nothing to do, so they put my mechanical skills to work by giving me a job repairing dropships for an older veteran. Eventually he introduced me to my best friend Galm, another outcast kid like me who was wandering the station. When I was old enough I signed on with the Legion with him, which eventually lead to me working as a Dragonaur agent in Pure Blind. My time with that unit might be the best years of my life, before circumstances forced me to return to the State where I worked my way to becoming an Empyrian.

My old unit in the Legion has since disbanded, with its old members scattered to the wind with the exception of Galm. He happened to set his sights on becoming one of those immortal clone troopers, and has since forged his own career. Though sometimes I downright hate the guy, he's really the closest thing to family I have.

Kirjuun! Uakan! Teknikiara! Kanpai kameitsamuu! Ra ra ra!

Kador Ouryon
The Scope
Gallente Federation
#115 - 2016-01-11 02:19:48 UTC
Morgan you old sod! Haven't seen you since you and Galm carted me off of Snowfall.

How is your young ward by the way?

What fills the soul? Something that guides a lost child back to it's parents arms. Or waves that dye the shores of the heart gold. A blessed breath to nurture life in a land of wheat. Or the path the Sef descend drawn in ash. In the wake of fire.

Morgan Wulver
SAYR Reserve Guard
SAYR Galactic
#116 - 2016-01-11 03:35:35 UTC
Kador Ouryon wrote:
Morgan you old sod! Haven't seen you since you and Galm carted me off of Snowfall.

How is your young ward by the way?

What? Snowfall? I keep telling you people, I was never in Tenal and I won that scorch bomb fair and square in a poker match!

Wait, no, I remember you now. It's been a while templar, didn't ever think I'd see you again after that misadventure. It's good to see that you made it out of that scrap. I wish I could say the same about our mutual friend. Though he sent me a heartfelt gift thanking me for my assitance, I haven't yet had the chance to speak with him. But you know how he is, the boy carries a lot more on his shoulders than he will ever let on. I'm sure at this point he just hopes to retire to his life in the State with his wife, at least until yet another adventure becomes the object of his fixation. Reckless soul, that one.

Kirjuun! Uakan! Teknikiara! Kanpai kameitsamuu! Ra ra ra!

Arrendis
TK Corp
#117 - 2016-01-11 04:53:14 UTC
Kalaratiri wrote:
I'm honestly quite amazed at the number of people willing to discuss one of the few ways other capsuleers can hurt them in any meaningful fashion.

That aside, my family is large and a long way away.


Anyone who crossed that line would likely find themselves only making far more enemies than the one they'd intended to harm.
Shelby Dusette
Division 13
#118 - 2016-01-11 07:34:44 UTC
Kalaratiri wrote:
I'm honestly quite amazed at the number of people willing to discuss one of the few ways other capsuleers can hurt them in any meaningful fashion.

People only gotta look down the list of targets on field to find my family. Haha.

If they wanna hurt 'em it's just a matter of switching targets! Though ninety six percent of the time it'll fail.

Quattras Peione
Caldari Provisions
Caldari State
#119 - 2016-01-12 00:05:31 UTC
My mother passed away a long time ago. My father is an infantry officer - not one of those clone juggernauts, mind you, but an old-fashioned boots-in-the-mud grunt. Even at his advanced age, he is a formidable combatant, and as such is constantly deployed to some hellhole dirtside conflict zone. We don't speak much.

I have a younger sister and two brothers, all of whom are employed at various levels by the Peione Foundation, as Grandpa Eito intended when he established the organization.

I have an estranged daughter by my first marriage, Hjalmar, who is grown and married to the son of my business partner Deuce Halcyon.

My wife Kathyayini and her two young children Sjon and Yrsa reside on a familial estate at an undisclosed location.

Dr. Quattras Alvar Peione

No, I'm not that kind of doctor.

Diana Kim
State Protectorate
Caldari State
#120 - 2016-01-12 13:49:12 UTC
Morgan Wulver wrote:
For the longest time I was under the cynical impression at we were all street urchens with daddy issues who by circumstance were given the power of gods to smite who we wish.

MY FATHER WAS ONE OF THE GREATEST SOLDIERS EVER LIVED!
If everyone were like him, we would have won this war seven years ago!

(Also I thought you were older... since gallentean swines began their invasion into Black Rise exactly seven years ago).

Honored are the dead, for their legacy guides us.

In memory of Tibus Heth, Caldari State Executor YC110-115, Hero and Patriot.