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What makes a "Carebear"?

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Alexi Drakenovic
Doomheim
#1 - 2015-02-10 05:37:26 UTC
First off, before i start, i have dyslexia so i apologize if some of the stuff i write makes no sense, but i was wondering..

What makes a "Carebear"?

Because i hear people insulting them all the time, among other forms of insults and the like, and it got me thinking, cause some kid called me a pathetic "carebear" and all that the other day cause i was mining.. But i have tried PvP in the past and loved it (only once, granted, but man was my heart racing) and i am am currently working on a PvP skill plan, i haven't tried PvE yet with this character, might get into it till i get a bit more proficient and skill for PvP, I'm aiming to get 7mil SP in this skill plan, so yeah.. If someone could please define what makes a "carebear" and why vets take it as such an affront that people are them.. It is confusing me.. Sorry for the stupid question..
ShahFluffers
Ice Fire Warriors
#2 - 2015-02-10 05:49:28 UTC  |  Edited by: ShahFluffers
A "Carebear" is a very specific term. Here is how I define it;

Anyone who does everything they can to avoid ship-on-ship PvP and...
- proceeds to whine about being "forced" into such a situation (usually on the forums and/or petitions)
- refuses to learn from the experience and adapt accordingly.
- wants the game be changed to suit their needs and perceptions.

So you can be an Industrialist or Miner or Mission Runner... but not be a "Carebear."


edit: in general... it is used as a "catch all" term for any activity or playstyle that others perceive as "without risk" or "non-PvP"... or merely as a derogatory term to either make people mad or show affection (similar to "nerd" or "geek" or "dweeb" in real life).


tldr; in my eyes... as long as you do not fulfill the three criteria I listed above the edit... you are not a "Carebear." Carry on.
Alexi Drakenovic
Doomheim
#3 - 2015-02-10 05:55:25 UTC
Ah.. Okay that makes more sense, cause this guy started bumping me so i locked onto him and launch my drones to get him to back off and then he started calling me a "Carebear" among other things and i always thought they were people who didnt PvP, but that makes a lot more sense, well I'm definitely not that kind of player, i personally can't wait to get to PvP! Got my mad skill plan for a Garmur and a Blackbird, its going to be sweet! :D
Chainsaw Plankton
FaDoyToy
#4 - 2015-02-10 05:58:50 UTC
bumping a miner and then running away is a bigger carebear act than mining Lol

@ChainsawPlankto on twitter

ShahFluffers
Ice Fire Warriors
#5 - 2015-02-10 06:01:02 UTC
Alexi Drakenovic wrote:
Ah.. Okay that makes more sense, cause this guy started bumping me so i locked onto him and launch my drones to get him to back off and then he started calling me a "Carebear" among other things and i always thought they were people who didnt PvP, but that makes a lot more sense, well I'm definitely not that kind of player, i personally can't wait to get to PvP! Got my mad skill plan for a Garmur and a Blackbird, its going to be sweet! :D

You will do fine in this game. Keep up that attitude... though... don't wait for you skills. Just try it and figure it out in cheap ships. Blink
Alexi Drakenovic
Doomheim
#6 - 2015-02-10 06:06:09 UTC
ShahFluffers wrote:
Alexi Drakenovic wrote:
Ah.. Okay that makes more sense, cause this guy started bumping me so i locked onto him and launch my drones to get him to back off and then he started calling me a "Carebear" among other things and i always thought they were people who didnt PvP, but that makes a lot more sense, well I'm definitely not that kind of player, i personally can't wait to get to PvP! Got my mad skill plan for a Garmur and a Blackbird, its going to be sweet! :D

You will do fine in this game. Keep up that attitude... though... don't wait for you skills. Just try it and figure it out in cheap ships. Blink


I have to wait for my skills, they are all in Orca stuff at the moment.. It was what i was training for before my girlfriend got mad.. So i wanted to finish that up so i can support my Corporation a bit more, but that skill plan is basically complete in 6 days, then after that i am focusing 7mil SP on the PvP stuff, then back to Orca (i know it is going to take a long time to get 7mil SP.. But i prefer to have somewhat of a plan so i can have a guide) but ill be involved in PvP after 9 hours of my Orca finishing, already got the fit ready and waiting in my hanger (Condor, not going to expensive for my first few rounds).

Quote:
bumping a miner and then running away is a bigger carebear act than mining Lol


Haha! Thanks! That is what i thought :P

And thank you both for my first too likes :P haha! I'm already on the road to greatness :P haha!
ShahFluffers
Ice Fire Warriors
#7 - 2015-02-10 06:21:04 UTC
Alexi Drakenovic wrote:
I have to wait for my skills, they are all in Orca stuff at the moment.. It was what i was training for before my girlfriend got mad.. So i wanted to finish that up so i can support my Corporation a bit more, but that skill plan is basically complete in 6 days, then after that i am focusing 7mil SP on the PvP stuff, then back to Orca (i know it is going to take a long time to get 7mil SP.. But i prefer to have somewhat of a plan so i can have a guide) but ill be involved in PvP after 9 hours of my Orca finishing, already got the fit ready and waiting in my hanger (Condor, not going to expensive for my first few rounds).

Well... the reason I say you should experiment with cheaper ships before using a Garmur is because...

- having "good skills" won't teach you the "skills" necessary for PvP (i.e. fitting your ship properly, using the Directional Scanner, knowing what kinds of ships you can engage, what tactics to use, etc).
- your first experiences in PvP are going to be explosive... for you. When I was a nub I went through a stack of 20 something frigates in the space of a month.
- Garmurs are expensive

Here is something I would recommend you tinker with (note: this is ONLY a template, modify it as you see fit).

[Kestrel, Newbie Kiter]

Damage Control I
Nanofiber Internal Structure I

EM Ward Amplifier I
Small Capacitor Booster I, Cap Booster 25
1MN Microwarpdrive I
Warp Disruptor I

Light Missile Launcher I, Scourge Light Missile
Light Missile Launcher I, Scourge Light Missile
Light Missile Launcher I, Scourge Light Missile
Light Missile Launcher I, Scourge Light Missile

[empty rig slot]
[empty rig slot]
[empty rig slot]


Notes:
- the tactic with this fit is simple; stay within warp disruption range (20km) but don't get too close (under 12km), always keep moving, apply damage.

- this fit's strength is its speed.

- as your capacitor and navigation skills improve, you can trade the capacitor booster for another tanking mod (like a shield extender).

- this whole fit should not cost more than 1 million ISK... even with meta/named modules.
erg cz
Federal Jegerouns
#8 - 2015-02-10 09:01:24 UTC
ShahFluffers wrote:
A "Carebear" is a very specific term. Here is how I define it;


- refuses to learn from the experience and adapt accordingly.
- wants the game be changed to suit their needs and perceptions.



That is a very definition of a n00b, not a carebear, IMHO. Carebear is just plain non-PvP fighting character.
DeMichael Crimson
Republic University
Minmatar Republic
#9 - 2015-02-10 09:54:10 UTC
ShahFluffers wrote:
A "Carebear" is a very specific term. Here is how I define it;

Anyone who does everything they can to avoid ship-on-ship PvP and...
- proceeds to whine about being "forced" into such a situation (usually on the forums and/or petitions)
- refuses to learn from the experience and adapt accordingly.
- wants the game be changed to suit their needs and perceptions.

So you can be an Industrialist or Miner or Mission Runner... but not be a "Carebear."


edit: in general... it is used as a "catch all" term for any activity or playstyle that others perceive as "without risk" or "non-PvP"... or merely as a derogatory term to either make people mad or show affection (similar to "nerd" or "geek" or "dweeb" in real life).


tldr; in my eyes... as long as you do not fulfill the three criteria I listed above the edit... you are not a "Carebear." Carry on.

Actually a 'Carebear' is anyone who personally avoids taking any risks.

The term 'Carebear' also applies to PvP players as well.



DMC
Sabriz Adoudel
Move along there is nothing here
#10 - 2015-02-10 10:13:31 UTC
ShahFluffers wrote:
A "Carebear" is a very specific term. Here is how I define it;

Anyone who does everything they can to avoid ship-on-ship PvP and...
- proceeds to whine about being "forced" into such a situation (usually on the forums and/or petitions)
- refuses to learn from the experience and adapt accordingly.
- wants the game be changed to suit their needs and perceptions.

So you can be an Industrialist or Miner or Mission Runner... but not be a "Carebear."


edit: in general... it is used as a "catch all" term for any activity or playstyle that others perceive as "without risk" or "non-PvP"... or merely as a derogatory term to either make people mad or show affection (similar to "nerd" or "geek" or "dweeb" in real life).


tldr; in my eyes... as long as you do not fulfill the three criteria I listed above the edit... you are not a "Carebear." Carry on.



A non-carebear is someone that takes action to protect themselves from predators.

A carebear is someone that whines to CCP whenever someone tries to prey on them.

I'd also add that carebears generally feel a sense of solidarity with each other, while non-carebears see someone else losing as an opportunity. A carebear might see a Hulk killmail linked and think "why did those bad gankers harass a harmless miner?". A non-carebear (that mines) will think "Excellent. Less competition for my ore, and so I'll get more ISK for it. Their loss, my gain. Now, do I offer to sell the ganker a replacement ship, or is there too much risk that will make them notice me?"

I support the New Order and CODE. alliance. www.minerbumping.com

Gregor Parud
Imperial Academy
#11 - 2015-02-10 10:28:09 UTC
What Fluffers said.


Being a carebear has nothing to do with your play style, it has to do with your attitude. Many PVPers are carebears, not all miners are carebears.
Kitty Bear
Deep Core Mining Inc.
Caldari State
#12 - 2015-02-10 10:54:29 UTC
An example of pvp-carebears are some gate-campers

they'll stomp lone pilots all day
but as soon as a small roaming fleet appears ... they are gone



it's why coalitions in nulsec are formed, the more people you have with you, the less individual risk you take

Max Godsnottlingson
Viziam
Amarr Empire
#13 - 2015-02-10 11:22:41 UTC  |  Edited by: Max Godsnottlingson
ShahFluffers wrote:
A "Carebear" is a very specific term. Here is how I define it;

Anyone who does everything they can to avoid ship-on-ship PvP and...
- proceeds to whine about being "forced" into such a situation (usually on the forums and/or petitions)
- refuses to learn from the experience and adapt accordingly.
- wants the game be changed to suit their needs and perceptions.

So you can be an Industrialist or Miner or Mission Runner... but not be a "Carebear."


edit: in general... it is used as a "catch all" term for any activity or playstyle that others perceive as "without risk" or "non-PvP"... or merely as a derogatory term to either make people mad or show affection (similar to "nerd" or "geek" or "dweeb" in real life).


tldr; in my eyes... as long as you do not fulfill the three criteria I listed above the edit... you are not a "Carebear." Carry on.


I think that ShahFluffers summed up the 'Carebear' exactly. And has been mentioned before, a Carebear does not just have to be a high sec industrialist/mission runner, a lot of low sec gate camping player pirates meet all three conditions as set here.

It's all about attitude mainly, which I interperate as "Eve is dangerous, even in high sec **** happens!" Take it from me, I know as Max here does often venture into low sec and I have had run-ins with player pirates. But that's what Eve is about. I find the best attitude to take is, accept your 'lunps' with good grace when things go wrong and you are in your pod or worse. If you are going to convo whoever killed you be polite. See Eve for what it is, a game and nothing more, ask what you did wrong. I have actually added a number of player pirates to my friends list through this attitude.
And even if the guy who attacked you is being an idiot, keep being nice, because that annoys the crap out of them when they don't get a rise out of you.
Baneken
Arctic Light Inc.
Arctic Light
#14 - 2015-02-10 15:35:21 UTC
Carebear guide Bear
Vimsy Vortis
Shoulda Checked Local
Break-A-Wish Foundation
#15 - 2015-02-10 15:46:27 UTC  |  Edited by: Vimsy Vortis
Carebears are the people who threaten to murder your family or insist that you were abused as a child because you blew up their mining barge or pve battleship.
Bagatur I
Caldari Provisions
Caldari State
#16 - 2015-02-10 15:49:08 UTC
the so-called peeveepee crowd has more carebears %wise than the whole EVE population.
Vol Arm'OOO
Central Co-Prosperity Union
#17 - 2015-02-10 16:01:36 UTC
Alexi Drakenovic wrote:
First off, before i start, i have dyslexia so i apologize if some of the stuff i write makes no sense, but i was wondering..

What makes a "Carebear"?

Because i hear people insulting them all the time, among other forms of insults and the like, and it got me thinking, cause some kid called me a pathetic "carebear" and all that the other day cause i was mining.. But i have tried PvP in the past and loved it (only once, granted, but man was my heart racing) and i am am currently working on a PvP skill plan, i haven't tried PvE yet with this character, might get into it till i get a bit more proficient and skill for PvP, I'm aiming to get 7mil SP in this skill plan, so yeah.. If someone could please define what makes a "carebear" and why vets take it as such an affront that people are them.. It is confusing me.. Sorry for the stupid question..


Carebear is a broad term - which basically refers to anyone who plays the game differently then you. Generally, it is used by folk who pvp to refer to folk who avoid pvp, but it can also refer to others who pvp. For instance, "I had that carebear dead to rights, then he uncloaked his falcon alt." Or "those carebears dont know how to play all they can do is blob." Or the always fun - "those carebears are too scared to shoot structures in real ships, all they use is sb's."

I don't play, I just fourm warrior.

Baggo Hammers
#18 - 2015-02-10 17:08:19 UTC
Chainsaw Plankton wrote:
bumping a miner and then running away is a bigger carebear act than mining Lol



Indeed these High-sec "PvPers" are very much like Georgy Porgy if you recall the rhyme. I like to kill reds and suspects in High and notice that many will commit an act and then hide in station til the flag wears off.

If you don't know where you're going, any road will take you there.

Phig Neutron
Starbreaker and Sons
#19 - 2015-02-10 20:10:48 UTC
Someone who laughs when he hurts you, but cries when you hurt him.
ergherhdfgh
Imperial Academy
Amarr Empire
#20 - 2015-02-10 21:18:49 UTC
carebear is a term used to refer to someone that avoids PvP pure and simple.

A lot of people like to put other stuff into it but you can look up definitions for it on google or urban dictionary and come to your own conclusions.

If you want to look at it from a philosophical stand point the continuum or duality that has carebear and hyper competitiveness at it's extremes is the old ego versus universal oneness. Or maybe empathy versus selfishness. I like to call it the little me versus big me duality.

The way that I break it down is into competitive game play versus cooperative game play. In that duality as other's have said it's not so much what you do as it is why you are doing it. Carebear is a mindset or a perspective not a way of acting although there are certain traits that typically go along with the mindset the doing aspect in my opinion is not part of the definition.

Many people who are hyper competitive assume that people who don't like competition do not like loosing or that people who are competitive really like winning and neither of those can be said as truisms. From my personal experience as a carebear I can say that my most negative experiences that I can recall in competitive situations in very early childhood are situations where I "won". On the other end of that if you look into the psychology of gambling addiction you will find that while the typical gambling addict will claim that they like winning they don't actually feel a sense of satisfaction until they have lost everything. So I don't think you can say it comes down to winning and loosing.

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