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A Reminder Regarding Real Life Harassment

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La Rynx
School of Applied Knowledge
Caldari State
#881 - 2014-09-13 09:19:59 UTC  |  Edited by: La Rynx
edit failed to lazy to rebuild

Atomic Virulent : "You can't spell DOUCHE. without CODE."

Remiel Pollard
Aliastra
Gallente Federation
#882 - 2014-09-13 09:26:32 UTC
Ria Nieyli wrote:
Ima Wreckyou wrote:
I see, you clearly have the moral high ground. At least you think you have. You are happy someone lost the privilege to play this game over unknown reasons (because you don't know) just because they play the "bad" guy in a game that encourages such game play? I consider this a rather toxic attitude. Some people just never look into the mirror I guess.


Unknown reasons? We all know what they did. Your tears are delicious.


What? Revelled in the tears of others? You mean like you're doing now?

“Some capsuleers claim that ECM is 'dishonorable' and 'unfair'. Jam those ones first, and kill them last.” - Jirai 'Fatal' Laitanen, Pithum Nullifier Training Manual c. YC104

Ria Nieyli
Nieyli Enterprises
SL33PERS
#883 - 2014-09-13 09:28:24 UTC
Remiel Pollard wrote:
What? Revelled in the tears of others? You mean like you're doing now?


If you think I'm doing something wrong, you know what to do.
La Rynx
School of Applied Knowledge
Caldari State
#884 - 2014-09-13 09:33:37 UTC
Remiel Pollard wrote:
Yeah, go join the army one day.

Bear
Been there, done that.

Remiel Pollard wrote:

No one is talking about provoked reactions. There are a lot of unprovoked attacks that have taken place in this game where the aggressor has not faced CCP policy enforcement. That's what he's saying.

I was specific. I was talking of provoked reactions. thats at least no one (0) + 1 (me).

It gets boring to say it again and again:
unprovoked serious RL threats are criminal acts with out ANY question.

I AM stating that lots of grief players want to play innocent lambs when in fact, they have been provoking their victims over hours.
A big groups is the CLOWNS. Alliance. No wait, the name is CODE.

Atomic Virulent : "You can't spell DOUCHE. without CODE."

Dave Stark
#885 - 2014-09-13 09:43:43 UTC
Ria Nieyli wrote:
Ima Wreckyou wrote:
I see, you clearly have the moral high ground. At least you think you have. You are happy someone lost the privilege to play this game over unknown reasons (because you don't know) just because they play the "bad" guy in a game that encourages such game play? I consider this a rather toxic attitude. Some people just never look into the mirror I guess.


Unknown reasons? We all know what they did. Your tears are delicious.


really? and how do we know?
Remiel Pollard
Aliastra
Gallente Federation
#886 - 2014-09-13 10:03:19 UTC
La Rynx wrote:
Remiel Pollard wrote:
Yeah, go join the army one day.

Bear
Been there, done that.

Remiel Pollard wrote:

No one is talking about provoked reactions. There are a lot of unprovoked attacks that have taken place in this game where the aggressor has not faced CCP policy enforcement. That's what he's saying.

I was specific. I was talking of provoked reactions. thats at least no one (0) + 1 (me).

It gets boring to say it again and again:
unprovoked serious RL threats are criminal acts with out ANY question.

I AM stating that lots of grief players want to play innocent lambs when in fact, they have been provoking their victims over hours.
A big groups is the CLOWNS. Alliance. No wait, the name is CODE.


No, you're just trashing an entire group of people based on the choices of a few bad apples. Where I come from, that's called ignorance and bigotry.

“Some capsuleers claim that ECM is 'dishonorable' and 'unfair'. Jam those ones first, and kill them last.” - Jirai 'Fatal' Laitanen, Pithum Nullifier Training Manual c. YC104

Black Pedro
Mine.
#887 - 2014-09-13 10:04:01 UTC
evepal wrote:
Black Pedro wrote:

Ok I'll bite. The Bonus Room itself. Last November CCP was well aware of this scam Erotica 1 was running. We know this because of the public re-awarding of skill points to a "victim" who consented to multiple poddings in an alpha clone while in the Bonus Room, which is documented in public comments on the forums and on the minerbumping website at that time. In March, CCP responded to an outcry raised by a certain blogger and banned Erotica 1 and presumably the Bonus Room for the same behavior.

Sure, you can argue that CCP didn't actively consent or approve of the Bonus Room last November, but by doing nothing when they were well aware of what was going on, they at least implied that this was within the rules. If a player made that interpretation because of CCP's previous tolerance of these scams and refusal to say one way or another their opinion on them despite being asked, they may have joined a subsequent Bonus Room thinking that it was ok. When CCP later decided the Bonus Room was actually harassment, they were now in violation of the EULA.


It isn't exactly fair or reasonable, you're right. What would you propose in the situation where someone was to do something that general consensus/CCP didn't want, and they introduce a new policy because of it?



As I outlined in my response to Mike Azariah, all CCP has to do is treat "real-life harassment" as it does other EULA violations (botting, linking porn, offensive language, etc.) and provide a temporary ban with a specific explanation of what behaviour is not allowed. Most players do not want to break the EULA and by just letting them know that they are over, or are close to the line, then they will steer clear. The ones that want to push the limits to be asses you just ban the second or third time. Of course, if there is some harassment that is especially egregious (doxxing or the like), they can reserve the right to permaban immediately. This would allow CCP to shape the sandbox and player behaviour with warnings and bans, and allow CCP to change policies without being painted into the corner of having to permban sections of their player base.

It is strange to me that for EULA violations that are much more clearly defined (botting, RMTing and the like) there is a policy of escalating warnings and bans whereas the nebulous "real-life harassment" which is left for the player to interpret, has no leeway or mechanism for CCP to indicate what is acceptable and what is not.

All of this drama may have easily been avoided if after learning of the Bonus Room last November CCP just said "Hey guys, we are uncomfortable of the territory of where this Bonus Room is drifting into, knock it off." People would have perhaps whined and complained, and likely Erotica 1 would still have pushed the limits and eventually got banned, but at least those caught up in the change of policy would have had their warning and I would have no sympathy for them if they continued. As it is, it is not reasonable to expect players to read CCP's mind or predict their future actions with the penalty of a permaban if the player is wrong.

I don't see why CCP appears to be so scared of rule lawyering players. I agree this is a no-win situation for CCP as people will whine, try to push limits and try make continual appeals and this will make more work for GMs, but it is not like this is a court of law. If CCP decides you are just pushing limits to be a jerk, then just ban them anyway - they hold all the cards. That might cause some fallout as well, but it can't be worse than this situation where people are being permabanned for things they in good faith thought were within the rules based on CCP's past enforcement of the EULA.




Remiel Pollard
Aliastra
Gallente Federation
#888 - 2014-09-13 10:04:15 UTC
Ria Nieyli wrote:
Remiel Pollard wrote:
What? Revelled in the tears of others? You mean like you're doing now?


If you think I'm doing something wrong, you know what to do.


You think you're doing something wrong, though. That's my point.

“Some capsuleers claim that ECM is 'dishonorable' and 'unfair'. Jam those ones first, and kill them last.” - Jirai 'Fatal' Laitanen, Pithum Nullifier Training Manual c. YC104

La Rynx
School of Applied Knowledge
Caldari State
#889 - 2014-09-13 10:12:48 UTC  |  Edited by: La Rynx
Remiel Pollard wrote:

No, you're just trashing an entire group of people based on the choices of a few bad apples.


" lots of grief players want to play innocent lambs when in fact, they have been provoking their victims over hours."
this *is* a group only consisting of bad apples.

Remiel Pollard wrote:

Where I come from, that's called ignorance and bigotry.


You mean the CLOWNS...sorry CODE alliance?
for one, thats not just a "few" bad apples.
sadism and griefing as used and supported by the CEOs make them a complete bunch.
You would need to point out some good apples in this bunch.

PS and i think you are a hipocrit.

Atomic Virulent : "You can't spell DOUCHE. without CODE."

Remiel Pollard
Aliastra
Gallente Federation
#890 - 2014-09-13 10:25:29 UTC
La Rynx wrote:
Remiel Pollard wrote:

No, you're just trashing an entire group of people based on the choices of a few bad apples.


" lots of grief players want to play innocent lambs when in fact, they have been provoking their victims over hours."
this *is* a group only consisting of bad apples.

Remiel Pollard wrote:

Where I come from, that's called ignorance and bigotry.


You mean the CLOWNS...sorry CODE alliance?
for one, thats not just a "few" bad apples.
sadism and griefing as used and supported by the CEOs make them a complete bunch.
You would need to point out some good apples in this bunch.

PS and i think you are a hipocrit.


You judge people before knowing anything about them.

I don't care what you think of me. Your opinion is irrelevant, but the fact is you're a demonstrable bigot.

“Some capsuleers claim that ECM is 'dishonorable' and 'unfair'. Jam those ones first, and kill them last.” - Jirai 'Fatal' Laitanen, Pithum Nullifier Training Manual c. YC104

MatrixSkye Mk2
Republic University
Minmatar Republic
#891 - 2014-09-13 10:31:25 UTC  |  Edited by: MatrixSkye Mk2
Ssabat Thraxx wrote:
MatrixSkye Mk2 wrote:
But how much empathy could you have for someone like this? They enjoy making others angry, upset, and miserable for cheap laughs and giggles.


Thats exactly what myl little brother used to do to me when we were kids. Our mother would often tell me, "he's just doing this to make you mad, to get a reaction out of you, so dont let him upset you like that."

In retrospect, Im glad she didnt kick my brother out of the house, and her advice about not letting someone "get to you" has served me well in life. And in EVE Blink



This type of behavior is more acceptable from little children, of course. And I sure hope parents aren't kicking children out of their homes over this. With proper guidance from parents they end up outgrowing it. But we're not dealing with children here. These are adults with sadistic tendencies taking pride and pleasure in making others miserable on purpose. This, no matter how they make it seem, is not normal behavior for an adult.

Eve is a beautiful game. But because of how it works it also tends to attract these types of personalities which are able to use the game as a tool to project ill intent and malice.

I do agree with you in that we need to learn, if we haven't already, to ignore and shake off their interactions.

People like the person behind Erotica 1's avatar are simply incapable of understanding why what they do is wrong and unacceptable behavior. Their brains are not wired to make those connections. Their own actions and consequences will always be someone else's fault. I do my best to minimize exposure to these types of people. Unfortunately, avoiding interaction with them sometimes just tends to make them angrier.

Successfully doinitwrong™ since 2006.

evepal
Scholar of Rationality
#892 - 2014-09-13 10:39:43 UTC  |  Edited by: evepal
Black Pedro wrote:
evepal wrote:
Black Pedro wrote:

Ok I'll bite. The Bonus Room itself. Last November CCP was well aware of this scam Erotica 1 was running. We know this because of the public re-awarding of skill points to a "victim" who consented to multiple poddings in an alpha clone while in the Bonus Room, which is documented in public comments on the forums and on the minerbumping website at that time. In March, CCP responded to an outcry raised by a certain blogger and banned Erotica 1 and presumably the Bonus Room for the same behavior.

Sure, you can argue that CCP didn't actively consent or approve of the Bonus Room last November, but by doing nothing when they were well aware of what was going on, they at least implied that this was within the rules. If a player made that interpretation because of CCP's previous tolerance of these scams and refusal to say one way or another their opinion on them despite being asked, they may have joined a subsequent Bonus Room thinking that it was ok. When CCP later decided the Bonus Room was actually harassment, they were now in violation of the EULA.


It isn't exactly fair or reasonable, you're right. What would you propose in the situation where someone was to do something that general consensus/CCP didn't want, and they introduce a new policy because of it?



As I outlined in my response to Mike Azariah, all CCP has to do is treat "real-life harassment" as it does other EULA violations (botting, linking ****, offensive language, etc.) and provide a temporary ban with a specific explanation of what behaviour is not allowed. Most players do not want to break the EULA and by just letting them know that they are over, or are close to the line, then they will steer clear. The ones that want to push the limits to be asses you just ban the second or third time. Of course, if there is some harassment that is especially egregious (doxxing or the like), they can reserve the right to permaban immediately. This would allow CCP to shape the sandbox and player behaviour with warnings and bans, and allow CCP to change policies without being painted into the corner of having to permban sections of their player base.

It is strange to me that for EULA violations that are much more clearly defined (botting, RMTing and the like) there is a policy of escalating warnings and bans whereas the nebulous "real-life harassment" which is left for the player to interpret, has no leeway or mechanism for CCP to indicate what is acceptable and what is not.

All of this drama may have easily been avoided if after learning of the Bonus Room last November CCP just said "Hey guys, we are uncomfortable of the territory of where this Bonus Room is drifting into, knock it off." People would have perhaps whined and complained, and likely Erotica 1 would still have pushed the limits and eventually got banned, but at least those caught up in the change of policy would have had their warning and I would have no sympathy for them if they continued. As it is, it is not reasonable to expect players to read CCP's mind or predict their future actions with the penalty of a permaban if the player is wrong.

I don't see why CCP appears to be so scared of rule lawyering players. I agree this is a no-win situation for CCP as people will whine, try to push limits and try make continual appeals and this will make more work for GMs, but it is not like this is a court of law. If CCP decides you are just pushing limits to be a jerk, then just ban them anyway - they hold all the cards. That might cause some fallout as well, but it can't be worse than this situation where people are being permabanned for things they in good faith thought were within the rules based on CCP's past enforcement of the EULA.






The EULA/TOS for harassment does state the same style of punishment escalation. Though you mention November as the example of leniency in harassment, which I disagree with being harassment, as that was just the repeated podding of a character -- not the mocking of some ones speech impediment, which is most certainly the player and not the character.

I don't like the idea of CCP having to warn players for something potential that they may do, that's what you're meant to do yourself, when you read the TOS/EULA.

It's entirely possible that all the time players are warned of harassment, but we just don't know that. I think that's why the periodical release of anonymous statistics involving the outcomes of these investigations (much similar to the bot bans) could help provide some context, as well as transparency without impeding into current policies.
Ria Nieyli
Nieyli Enterprises
SL33PERS
#893 - 2014-09-13 10:45:07 UTC  |  Edited by: Ria Nieyli
Remiel Pollard wrote:
Ria Nieyli wrote:
Remiel Pollard wrote:
What? Revelled in the tears of others? You mean like you're doing now?


If you think I'm doing something wrong, you know what to do.


You think you're doing something wrong, though. That's my point.


If I was doing something wrong, I wouldn't be doing it.

Unlike some other people here.

Remiel Pollard wrote:
You judge people before knowing anything about them.


Lol That's rich, considering who it's coming from.
Remiel Pollard
Aliastra
Gallente Federation
#894 - 2014-09-13 11:01:30 UTC  |  Edited by: Remiel Pollard
Ria Nieyli wrote:
Remiel Pollard wrote:
Ria Nieyli wrote:
Remiel Pollard wrote:
What? Revelled in the tears of others? You mean like you're doing now?


If you think I'm doing something wrong, you know what to do.


You think you're doing something wrong, though. That's my point.


If I was doing something wrong, I wouldn't be doing it.

Unlike some other people here.

Remiel Pollard wrote:
You judge people before knowing anything about them.


Lol That's rich, considering who it's coming from.


I've said it before and I'll say it again, I call 'em as I see em, not as I assume 'em. If you don't want to be called a bigot, then don't demonstrate bigotry. Pretty simple.

And you're doing the exact same thing you're having a go at other people for - revelling in the tears of others.

It's amazing how you just blatantly ignore these explanations and throw your own accusations around as if you're perfect. However, I don't want to have to repeat myself again, Ria. If I have to, I'll be calling your babysitter.

“Some capsuleers claim that ECM is 'dishonorable' and 'unfair'. Jam those ones first, and kill them last.” - Jirai 'Fatal' Laitanen, Pithum Nullifier Training Manual c. YC104

Steppa Musana
Doomheim
#895 - 2014-09-13 11:01:43 UTC
Remiel, I just wanted to take a moment to apologize for the amount of times you've seen "Steppa Musana liked your post" appear at the top-right corner of your screen.

If you could perhaps stop being right for a moment, I would be willing to cease these activities immediately.

Hey guys.

Remiel Pollard
Aliastra
Gallente Federation
#896 - 2014-09-13 11:02:50 UTC
Steppa Musana wrote:
Remiel, I just wanted to take a moment to apologize for the amount of times you've seen "Steppa Musana liked your post" appear at the top-right corner of your screen.

If you could perhaps stop being right for a moment, I would be willing to cease these activities immediately.


I'm not trying to be right. If I'm wrong, I'm happy to accept it. It'll have to be proven though.

“Some capsuleers claim that ECM is 'dishonorable' and 'unfair'. Jam those ones first, and kill them last.” - Jirai 'Fatal' Laitanen, Pithum Nullifier Training Manual c. YC104

Josef Djugashvilis
#897 - 2014-09-13 11:03:13 UTC
Ria Nieyli wrote:
Ima Wreckyou wrote:
I see, you clearly have the moral high ground. At least you think you have. You are happy someone lost the privilege to play this game over unknown reasons (because you don't know) just because they play the "bad" guy in a game that encourages such game play? I consider this a rather toxic attitude. Some people just never look into the mirror I guess.


Unknown reasons? We all know what they did. Your tears are delicious.


Actually, I have no idea what the banned players did, nor do I really care as it is between them and CCP.

If a banned player feel that CCP have banned then unfairly, they should use the petition system to seek redress.

If they still feel that they are being treated unfairly, then why on earth would they want to continue paying for a game where the game company is so keen to lose their subscription feel for no good reason.

Dear Mr Stark, If you come up with a set of written rules which cover all variables, they I feel pretty sure CCP would be happy to offer you a job.

You (and others of your ilk) moaning and crying in the forum is so much easier than actually helping to fix what you perceive to be a problem.

To all those whinging about lack the lack of clear rules, come up with a better solution, just moaning for the sake of it does none of you any credit.

This is not a signature.

Remiel Pollard
Aliastra
Gallente Federation
#898 - 2014-09-13 11:05:16 UTC
Josef Djugashvilis wrote:
Ria Nieyli wrote:
Ima Wreckyou wrote:
I see, you clearly have the moral high ground. At least you think you have. You are happy someone lost the privilege to play this game over unknown reasons (because you don't know) just because they play the "bad" guy in a game that encourages such game play? I consider this a rather toxic attitude. Some people just never look into the mirror I guess.


Unknown reasons? We all know what they did. Your tears are delicious.


Actually, I have no idea what the banned players did, nor do I really care as it is between them and CCP.

If a banned player feel that CCP have banned then unfairly, they should use the petition system to seek redress.

If they still feel that they are being treated unfairly, then why on earth would they want to continue paying for a game where the game company is so keen to lose their subscription feel for no good reason.

Dear Mr Stark, If you come up with a set of written rules which cover all variables, they I feel pretty sure CCP would be happy to offer you a job.

You (and others of your ilk) moaning and crying in the forum is so much easier than actually helping to fix what you perceive to be a problem.

To all those whinging about lack the lack of clear rules, come up with a better solution, just moaning for the sake of it does none of you any credit.


I offered one earlier. Everyone seems to be walking past it.

Out of sight, out of mind I guess. Don't know why I even bother.

“Some capsuleers claim that ECM is 'dishonorable' and 'unfair'. Jam those ones first, and kill them last.” - Jirai 'Fatal' Laitanen, Pithum Nullifier Training Manual c. YC104

Steppa Musana
Doomheim
#899 - 2014-09-13 11:05:18 UTC
Remiel Pollard wrote:
Steppa Musana wrote:
Remiel, I just wanted to take a moment to apologize for the amount of times you've seen "Steppa Musana liked your post" appear at the top-right corner of your screen.

If you could perhaps stop being right for a moment, I would be willing to cease these activities immediately.


I'm not trying to be right. If I'm wrong, I'm happy to accept it. It'll have to be proven though.

900 posts later, I wouldn't hold out much hope for that.


Hey guys.

Remiel Pollard
Aliastra
Gallente Federation
#900 - 2014-09-13 11:06:52 UTC
Steppa Musana wrote:
Remiel Pollard wrote:
Steppa Musana wrote:
Remiel, I just wanted to take a moment to apologize for the amount of times you've seen "Steppa Musana liked your post" appear at the top-right corner of your screen.

If you could perhaps stop being right for a moment, I would be willing to cease these activities immediately.


I'm not trying to be right. If I'm wrong, I'm happy to accept it. It'll have to be proven though.

900 posts later, I wouldn't hold out much hope for that.




It's happened before. Wouldn't be the first time I've had to wash the taste of foot out of my mouth.

“Some capsuleers claim that ECM is 'dishonorable' and 'unfair'. Jam those ones first, and kill them last.” - Jirai 'Fatal' Laitanen, Pithum Nullifier Training Manual c. YC104