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An Announcement Regarding Real Life Harassment

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Big Lynx
#1221 - 2014-03-29 08:19:29 UTC
Dorn Val wrote:
Big Lynx wrote:
Dorn Val wrote:
W space residents frequently evict corporations and alliances that do not PVP. So if we gank some w space dwellers, they cry about it in local, and then we decide to invade their system and evict them are we going to get banned for it? It will take days to get enough ships in system, and grinding down towers will take at least a day, during which we will be "torturing" those poor "victims" who have already let us know that we are doing emotional harm to them...

Sorry CCP, but I think you've set a bad precedent with this one. I don't agree with what Erotica 1, or any of the miner bumping crowd, does -it's the real world equivalent of going to a play ground and beating up special needs kids. But Eve is a sandbox, and if you want to keep it that way then it's tough to set limits on what people do as long as their conduct isn't illegal. Everyone is talking about Erotica 1 like he's some kind of mass murderer, and yet the death threats made by Sokar aren't even mentioned at all by CCP !?

Eve is a tough game and we are all hear because we like to bite the pillow. If people want to play in a theme park MMO then WoW is that way -->


Aching muscles because of permanent facepalming...


Ok, why? I've made a perfectly valid point, and if the community doesn't like how someone is playing them maybe the community needs to get off of its collective backside and do something about it instead of pressuring CCP to take action.


Why? Here!

That makes it perfectly clear. However, I can't use your common sense for you.
Abulurd Boniface
Center for Advanced Studies
Gallente Federation
#1222 - 2014-03-29 08:22:10 UTC
CCP can't open themselves up claims they allow for the kind of behaviour that [I hear, but am not sure of] got E1 banned.

To the point where E1 got someone to give him all his assets, by just handing it over, I stand in awe that someone could do that. Who in their right mind would do something like that? What is the psychology at work here? How can pilot 1 give pilot 2 all his stuff by simple request? I don't get it. They got scammed hard. Eat your lumps, move on.

The way the 'out of client' experience works... I have a big problem with that. It would be something else if it was a bit of a ribbing, that's part of the experience, but to draw out the proceedings to the point where the guy snaps... that's not cool. It really isn't. It shouldn't be about that.

E1 is a skilled operator. Operator being the operating word. The things he does and the way he does them indicates someone who has professional experience in that space. He could either be a psychologist, a psychiatrist or be a [former] CIA operator. Finding people's buttons and then pushing them is what he does for a living. There is something disturbing on a deeper level by the way this was done. And it went one way only.

I heard about the 'sing for ransom' demands and I think they are hilarious, I don't have a problem with that. I have a problem with a need for exacting real emotional pain from people, in a process designed for that purpose only.

It can't be about that, people. That is not what I log on for.

On the other hand, this is an extreme outlier. You hear about it because it is such a unique event. This happens rarely. The EVE population being what it is, maybe the likelihood of sociopaths gathering is what should be expected. Even then there's plenty of nefarious shenanigans to be had inside the client that we don't have to make it about psychological punishment.

Having said that, and it has been mentioned in various places, there was absolutely -nothing- stopping the pilot receiving the treatment from pulling the plug on the experience at any time. Do keep that in mind. E1 never had more control over him than what he allowed for by his own greed. At any point in the experience he could have concluded for himself "I'm doing something really really stupid here and I'm letting my own weakness get the better of me." That would have been a growing experience for him. To see that by his own actions, let's not forget that, he gave 'control' of sorts over what happens in his life over to someone else to exploit. You can sit back, in the moment, and reflect on that and say to yourself "This is not happening to me. It stops right here and now, and I consider the ISK lost as the price of the lesson." The guy has a wife. He should know by now that 'stupid' has consequences.

EVE is about deciding what your future will be like. Your decisions, your choice. If you see that someone is making undue claims about that, it's time to rethink the strategy and do something new.

I don't know really what people expect CCP to do in these circumstances. They can't be the police force, we don't want them to be the police force. Strictu sensu, as far as I can judge with limited information, E1 didn't even break the EULA since what people take offence to happened outside of the environment, admittedly directly related to the environment.

If it had been something that the 'victim' could not get away from, physical hostage taking, hacking the computer, the client, anything with direct access to the other person, I'd have a really big problem with that. Here, all it took was "Ok, I'm sick of this and I had enough. I'm done.", if he wanted to say something at all. What does it say about you as a person if you can't make that decision for yourself as an adult? Is it CCP's fault if you can't handle yourself? Is it, in the end, E1's fault that you go along with absolutely everything he asks for?

I don't know what my future in EVE will be, I hope it's long and full of shenanigans, but I promise you right here and now, and you can copy/paste me on it, that nobody will ever do this to me. There is a limit to my greed, there is a limit to what I will accept as treatment, there are boundaries for myself and others. If I have to explain to an adult that you don't invite someone to your home, give them all your stuff and then tell them "Here, that's everything. Now you decide what happens", I really don't know what to tell you.

As a parting gift I also want to offer the fact that illuminating this issue is also a way to do politics. With shaping the future of EVE. For my part I want it to be as dark as possible. The murky depths of the soul are the sea I want to fish in. I hope EVE does not lose that character to people who only want to fly their spaceships and want to be left alone. These people should visit Star Citizen. You can get a hangar these days, and sit in your shiny ship. You also don't need to worry about lots of bad people attacking you, the server can't handle it.

/He gave him all his assets. All of it. Can you believe that?
Big Lynx
#1223 - 2014-03-29 08:34:52 UTC  |  Edited by: Big Lynx
Abulurd Boniface wrote:

I don't know what my future in EVE will be, I hope it's long and full of shenanigans, but I promise you right here and now, and you can copy/paste me on it, that nobody will ever do this to me. There is a limit to my greed, there is a limit to what I will accept as treatment, there are boundaries for myself and others. If I have to explain to an adult that you don't invite someone to your home, give them all your stuff and then tell them "Here, that's everything. Now you decide what happens", I really don't know what to tell you.



/He gave him all his assets. All of it. Can you believe that?


The main social phenomenon here is, or maybe it's a way of individualism or modern internet forum culture, that 90% of people can only reflect their own point of view on the behaviour of a person who was in a very awkward situation (like sakhor). No sense of empathy; maybe that is something like a gift you have or you don't. Maybe it's something you can't blame anyone who does not seem to have empathic abilities, because you simply can't learn it.

Obviously nowadays it's not modern anymore to have a feeling for social situations and interactions and having the ability to see both sides of the medal. Hey, i am not a teacher or psychologist. I am microbiologist =D . Internet forum culture is very narrow minded and very egoisticly touched.

It's nothing personal against you, if you feel so, I apologize for that.
Salvos Rhoska
#1224 - 2014-03-29 09:14:37 UTC
If you dont like the statement, or the decisions made, you can leave.

Nothing is stopping you.
Isky von Purps
Science and Trade Institute
Caldari State
#1225 - 2014-03-29 09:36:20 UTC
Maybe CCP just got sick of being the guy who crosses the road when they see a dog getting beaten with a stick.

Morality transcends legal responsibility, rights and the provisions of the EULA. It has been interesting to see the almost universal amorality of the comments against CCP's statement.

Big Lynx
#1226 - 2014-03-29 09:42:49 UTC
Isky von Purps wrote:
It has been interesting to see the almost universal amorality of the comments against CCP's statement.



Internet youth culture
Dorn Val
Ministry of War
Amarr Empire
#1227 - 2014-03-29 09:54:31 UTC
Big Lynx wrote:
Dorn Val wrote:
Big Lynx wrote:
Dorn Val wrote:
W space residents frequently evict corporations and alliances that do not PVP. So if we gank some w space dwellers, they cry about it in local, and then we decide to invade their system and evict them are we going to get banned for it? It will take days to get enough ships in system, and grinding down towers will take at least a day, during which we will be "torturing" those poor "victims" who have already let us know that we are doing emotional harm to them...

Sorry CCP, but I think you've set a bad precedent with this one. I don't agree with what Erotica 1, or any of the miner bumping crowd, does -it's the real world equivalent of going to a play ground and beating up special needs kids. But Eve is a sandbox, and if you want to keep it that way then it's tough to set limits on what people do as long as their conduct isn't illegal. Everyone is talking about Erotica 1 like he's some kind of mass murderer, and yet the death threats made by Sokar aren't even mentioned at all by CCP !?

Eve is a tough game and we are all hear because we like to bite the pillow. If people want to play in a theme park MMO then WoW is that way -->


Aching muscles because of permanent facepalming...


Ok, why? I've made a perfectly valid point, and if the community doesn't like how someone is playing them maybe the community needs to get off of its collective backside and do something about it instead of pressuring CCP to take action.


Why? Here!

That makes it perfectly clear. However, I can't use your common sense for you.


Go back and read Trebor's post again and ask yourself if ganking someone again, after they have already gone ballistic in local once, is now against the rules? My common sense tells me that it is, but no one on the CSM or at CCP will spell it out. There are a lot of people playing this game just to get "tears" but it seems to me that pushing someone to the point where they snap is now against the rules. So how long before suicide ganking, scamming in trade hubs, etc. is also banned. Where does it end.

Also keep in mind that the "victim" willingly participated in Erotic 1's twisted game. A real torture victim is restrained and has no choice...

I really think that common sense went completely out the window when Jester made a big deal out of all this on his blog. He wrote that piece on Erotica1 knowing how the high sec care bear community was going to respond, and it was tabloid journalism at its finest -deserving of a slow golf clap...


Sandbox: An enclosed area filled with sand for children engaged in open-ended, unstructured, imaginative play. Also a place for cats to urinate and defecate...

MajorBean
HandelsGilde-De
Outsmarted
#1228 - 2014-03-29 09:56:03 UTC
Salvos Rhoska wrote:
If you dont like the statement, or the decisions made, you can leave.

Nothing is stopping you.



If you dont like emergent gameplay, or the sandbox, you can leave.

Nothing is stopping you.

Salvos Rhoska
#1229 - 2014-03-29 09:58:14 UTC
MajorBean wrote:
Salvos Rhoska wrote:
If you dont like the statement, or the decisions made, you can leave.

Nothing is stopping you.



If you dont like emergent gameplay, or the sandbox, you can leave.

Nothing is stopping you.



I'm ok with this, and happily staying :)
Bunnie Hop
Bunny Knights
#1230 - 2014-03-29 09:59:56 UTC
If this is a game where 'emergent gameplay' is a blanket for any type of anti social destructive behaviour, then there is a problem. The anonymity of the internet sure has eroded morals.
Kaarous Aldurald
Black Hydra Consortium.
#1231 - 2014-03-29 10:01:45 UTC
Dorn Val wrote:


Go back and read Trebor's post again and ask yourself if ganking someone again, after they have already gone ballistic in local once, is now against the rules?


As for me, I honestly don't care. There doesn't get to be a "hissy fit shield".

If you don't want to get ganked, then you know what to do.

"Verily, I have often laughed at the weaklings who thought themselves good because they had no claws."

One of ours, ten of theirs.

Best Meltdown Ever.

Dorn Val
Ministry of War
Amarr Empire
#1232 - 2014-03-29 10:06:19 UTC
Bunnie Hop wrote:
If this is a game where 'emergent gameplay' is a blanket for any type of anti social destructive behaviour, then there is a problem. The anonymity of the internet sure has eroded morals.


Eve is more simulation than game. I firmly believe that if you put people into the same environment as Pod pilots you'd have exactly what we now have in the "game".

Last, but certainly not least, if you do not like what someone in Eve is doing then get together with a group of like minded people and do something in game about it other than cry to CCP to change the rules. Unfortunately crying seems to be the prevalent form of emergent game play lately...

Sandbox: An enclosed area filled with sand for children engaged in open-ended, unstructured, imaginative play. Also a place for cats to urinate and defecate...

Darkopus
Perkone
Caldari State
#1233 - 2014-03-29 10:06:36 UTC  |  Edited by: Darkopus
MajorBean wrote:



If you dont like emergent gameplay, or the sandbox, you can leave.

Nothing is stopping you.



and if you don't like the way CCP, the owners of the sandbox keep it you can leave too and take your tears with you before the sand becomes too wet for the rest of us to continue playing in
Dorn Val
Ministry of War
Amarr Empire
#1234 - 2014-03-29 10:07:35 UTC
Kaarous Aldurald wrote:
Dorn Val wrote:


Go back and read Trebor's post again and ask yourself if ganking someone again, after they have already gone ballistic in local once, is now against the rules?


As for me, I honestly don't care. There doesn't get to be a "hissy fit shield".

If you don't want to get ganked, then you know what to do.


...and that is exactly my point: if you don't like something then do something about it other than cry to CCP...

Sandbox: An enclosed area filled with sand for children engaged in open-ended, unstructured, imaginative play. Also a place for cats to urinate and defecate...

Bunnie Hop
Bunny Knights
#1235 - 2014-03-29 10:14:24 UTC
Dorn Val wrote:
Bunnie Hop wrote:
If this is a game where 'emergent gameplay' is a blanket for any type of anti social destructive behaviour, then there is a problem. The anonymity of the internet sure has eroded morals.


Eve is more simulation than game. I firmly believe that if you put people into the same environment as Pod pilots you'd have exactly what we now have in the "game".

Last, but certainly not least, if you do not like what someone in Eve is doing then get together with a group of like minded people and do something in game about it other than cry to CCP to change the rules. Unfortunately crying seems to be the prevalent form of emergent game play lately...


I never cried, I expressed my view. You are such a clichë though. As for changing the rules, I think CCP merely enforced the rules as they saw them. But keep beating the emergent gameplay drum like the other Mittiminions, do it enough and you will believe it yourself.
Vaju Enki
Secular Wisdom
#1236 - 2014-03-29 10:20:20 UTC
So let me get this straight, a very famous EvE Online blogger that's also a member of the CSM used his influence and power to start a witch-hunt on another player, for something that happened outside of the game that he condemns. In is moral high ground blog he harassed and persecuted the player, until a shitstorm thread started on the EvE Online forums, where he continued the witchcraft trial. The thread was closed and the player got banned.

This makes total sense to me...

The Tears Must Flow

Dorn Val
Ministry of War
Amarr Empire
#1237 - 2014-03-29 10:24:56 UTC  |  Edited by: Dorn Val
Bunnie Hop wrote:

I think CCP merely enforced the rules as they saw them.


...by banning someone who didn't violate an existing rule (Erotica 1), and then did nothing to a player that made death threats (Sokar).

For the record: I am not a griefer, suicide ganker, or scammer on this character or via any alts. I will defend all forms of game play though because Eve is supposed to be a sandbox. The duality of that box of sand is spelled out in my signature...

Sandbox: An enclosed area filled with sand for children engaged in open-ended, unstructured, imaginative play. Also a place for cats to urinate and defecate...

Bunnie Hop
Bunny Knights
#1238 - 2014-03-29 10:27:59 UTC
Vaju Enki wrote:
So let me get this straight, a very famous EvE Online blogger that's also a member of the CSM used his influence and power to start a witch-hunt on another player, for something that happened outside of the game that he condemns. In is moral high ground blog he harassed and persecuted the player, until a shitstorm thread started on the EvE Online forums, where he continued the witchcraft trial. The thread was closed and the player got banned.

This makes total sense to me...


Well that is a subjective way to view it, and a bit limited as well. It was just cause and effect, the cause being a players abuse of another in a way which broke every rule of decency and gameplay, the effect which you elude to happened because of that. Don't put the cart before the horse.
Dorn Val
Ministry of War
Amarr Empire
#1239 - 2014-03-29 10:30:01 UTC  |  Edited by: Dorn Val
Vaju Enki wrote:
So let me get this straight, a very famous EvE Online blogger that's also a member of the CSM used his influence and power to start a witch-hunt on another player, for something that happened outside of the game that he condemns. In is moral high ground blog he harassed and persecuted the player, until a shitstorm thread started on the EvE Online forums, where he continued the witchcraft trial. The thread was closed and the player got banned.

This makes total sense to me...


Pretty much sums it up. I'm now waiting for Rote Kapelle to change their killboard logo.

Sandbox: An enclosed area filled with sand for children engaged in open-ended, unstructured, imaginative play. Also a place for cats to urinate and defecate...

Bunnie Hop
Bunny Knights
#1240 - 2014-03-29 10:32:13 UTC  |  Edited by: Bunnie Hop
Dorn Val wrote:
Bunnie Hop wrote:

I think CCP merely enforced the rules as they saw them.


...by banning someone who didn't violate an existing rule (Erotica 1, and then did nothing to a player that made death threats (Sokar).

For the record: I am not a griefer, suicide ganker, or scammer on this character or via any alts. I will defend all forms of game play though because Eve is supposed to be a sandbox. The duality of that box of sand is spelled out in my signature...


I condone griefers and gankers and any other way people find to blow up spaceships and take ISK, its all part of Eve. But when it goes beyond that, which in this case it clearly did, we need to stand together and say 'not here, not in the game we love' and put an end to it. I find Sohkars reaction a bit puzzling but not shocking, alot of people snap under such strain. But that is aside the point, Eve should remain a game in new eden, not one that spills onto other media forms and turns to harassment. That is just my view, I don't want to argue it, I just wanted to express it.

(by griefers I mean within the CCP ruleset of gameplay, not by directed harassment).