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Why are many people on these forums so negative, and so hostile?

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Kaarous Aldurald
Black Hydra Consortium.
#81 - 2014-02-24 21:33:37 UTC
Infinity Ziona wrote:

I made a thread regarding how much money you can make in null doing combat sites. I was personally attacked, belittled, insulted, you name it. Nothing at all was done about that.


You were belittled because you lied through your crooked teeth on every sentence.

You were deliberately trying to mislead new players, which if it's not reportable, it certainly should be.

"Verily, I have often laughed at the weaklings who thought themselves good because they had no claws."

One of ours, ten of theirs.

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Kaarous Aldurald
Black Hydra Consortium.
#82 - 2014-02-24 21:37:20 UTC  |  Edited by: ISD Ezwal
Infinity Ziona wrote:

Its also interesting they lack sufficient emotional self control to the extent they're unable to post constructive criticism and would rather be offensive and abusive.

Personally I'd love to go all full ****** like Kalrus.


Now that is hilarious. Especially since you used a word that breaks the forum rules, and is thus censored.

*Snip* Please refrain from personal attacks. ISD Ezwal.

"Verily, I have often laughed at the weaklings who thought themselves good because they had no claws."

One of ours, ten of theirs.

Best Meltdown Ever.

Kimmi Chan
Tastes Like Purple
#83 - 2014-02-24 21:38:00 UTC
Winchester Steele wrote:
Chihiro Chugakusei wrote:
Thats all true. Thanks for the information and sympathy. I will try and bear with it in the future.
Straight



I honestly don't find this community to be hostile at all. Sure shitposting is often nuked from orbit, just to be sure, but legitimate threads are often debated with mutual respect (well...mostly).

The problem with Eve-o is that people keep posting the same stupid crap over and over. If people just observed the following rules of eve-o, they might find that we forum folks aren't such a bad lot:

1. Grr goons is so 2012. Just stop. Yes they own New Eden, we know. Instead of making the 400,000th post about how much you hate goons, just use the search function and add your tears to the collective.

2. No. Ganking is not too easy. No it doesn't follow that the ganker is a psychopath in real. And no, not a single person here gives 2 sh*ts that you lost your 7th untanked hulk this week.

3. Drones are fine. HTFU.

4. WIS is dead. It doesn't matter what you think. It isn't happening.

I may have missed a rule or 2, but basically, by following these simple steps you will find that our community becomes a lot less negative and hostile. Enjoy!


I will give a big nod to this. +1 sir.

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Divine Entervention
Doomheim
#84 - 2014-02-24 21:53:59 UTC  |  Edited by: ISD Ezwal
Mag's wrote:
Divine Entervention wrote:
]People like to pretend that when they sit on a computer the actions they perform aren't them performing those actions. Like some magical wall forms seperating themselves from the things they do.

It's a delusional thought process, to cause actions and believe you're not affected by the reaction.

It's wrong, but whatever, they don't care about right and wrong, they only care about immediate self gratification.

*Snip* Please refrain from personal attacks. ISD Ezwal.
Indeed.
When I play Hungry Hippo, it only goes to solidify the fact that I am fat and eat too much.
When I play Operation, it shows my inclination towards cutting people open and playing with their insides.
You simply do not want to know me when I play snakes and ladders, it's not pretty.

All in all, with each and every game I play, it only goes to show the dark side of my true personality.

Next week I R be mostly playing Risk and I shall rule the world. Muhahahaha


In hungry hungry hippos, the only objective is to eat marbles. You're following the only path the game presents, eat marbles.

People who choose to play with you, are people who join the game understanding that the goal of all players involved is to eat the marbles.

Hungry Hungry hippos is a poor example, and here's why.

Eve is a sandbox. What you want to do, falls upon choice. You don't have to choose to kill an innocent miner. You don't have to choose to try and scam someone for 1 billion isk. There are ways to play this game where you will never inflict any amount of dps against another player. There are ways to play this game where you can PvP without killing people who's goal is to not pvp.

It comes down to the choices you make, and if you're willing to attempt to try and inflict losses on other people who are not looking to competitively wager their resources against yours, then you are also capable of trying to inflict losses on people offline as well.

You're imposing your choices on people who have different goals/objectives and ultimately different choices than your own.

Just because you can do something, doesn't mean you should.

*Snip* Please refrain from personal attacks. ISD Ezwal.
BeBopAReBop RhubarbPie
University of Caille
Gallente Federation
#85 - 2014-02-24 22:27:34 UTC
For better or worse, Eve players take some pride in our HTFU attitude. I've actually found that the vast majority of players are nice people if you show respect and some effort in understanding their point of view. I took the liberty of going through a few of your recent posts to see what you have encountered that leads you to the conclusion that most eve forum goers are hostile.

Most of your recent posts have been in F&I calling for changes to ABC's for a variety of reasons. While it looks like you did some research into the subject and has some statistics backing you up, you showed a lack of understanding of the ships' actual roles, and proceeded to ask for changes without that understanding. There is no quicker way to get people mad on these forums. (Well except for maybe uncovering a new scandal or mentioning the new order). For the most part we like this game the way it is, and lash out at attempts to change it that are not thoroughly reasoned. I personally stay out of F&I because I don't like reading thread after thread of people asking for changes that benefit their play style and mess things up for other people.

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Nerath Naaris
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#86 - 2014-02-24 22:36:40 UTC  |  Edited by: Nerath Naaris
Chihiro Chugakusei wrote:
Why are many people on these forums so negative, and so hostile?


It is actually simple, really, but to understand this, you have to understand that the Universe, all of Existance, is really in balance (ever so slightly tipped towards Entrophy but let´s ignore that for now).
Now, Balance means there are equal parts of good and evil, hostility and friendship, joy and hate, genius and stupidity and so on. That also means that to be happy, someone else must be sad or made sad, to experience joy you must hate someone or make someone hateful, to feel good someone else must feel bad, creation begets destruction begets creation, to live forever you have to die.

The conclusion is that Eve players are really a nice bunch but Karma, Kismet, the Universe itself, whatever you call it, will enforce the Balance and thus negativity and hostility... or rather, the negativity and hostility you experience prove that Eve players are really quite a nice bunch.

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Fredfredbug4
The Scope
Gallente Federation
#87 - 2014-02-24 22:50:56 UTC
It's a video game forum. Video game forums are by far where you will see the worst people in the community represented the most.

To be fair though, the EVE forum isn't as bad as some of the other's out there.

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BeBopAReBop RhubarbPie
University of Caille
Gallente Federation
#88 - 2014-02-24 22:53:47 UTC  |  Edited by: BeBopAReBop RhubarbPie
Divine Entervention wrote:
Eve is a sandbox. What you want to do, falls upon choice. You don't have to choose to kill an innocent miner. You don't have to choose to try and scam someone for 1 billion isk. There are ways to play this game where you will never inflict any amount of dps against another player. There are ways to play this game where you can PvP without killing people who's goal is to not pvp.

It comes down to the choices you make, and if you're willing to attempt to try and inflict losses on other people who are not looking to competitively wager their resources against yours, then you are also capable of trying to inflict losses on people offline as well.

You're imposing your choices on people who have different goals/objectives and ultimately different choices than your own.

The game also enables us to interfere with other player's activities, and reap rewards from doing so. Players need to adapt strategies to defend themselves whether or not they want to participate in "fair" pve. Believe it or not even though I am a ganker, I take part in pve activities. I have a deadspace fit t3 that I move through highsec. I have lost expensive ships to gankers. I took losing an expensive ship as a learning experience, and now make sure I use a mwd and cloak when traveling in any ship that I care about. When I gank people, I expect them to take similar steps to protect themselves. If they do not, I profit. It is as simple as that.

Is it morally wrong to sell minerals on the market because it competes with other players attempts to do so?

You would do a better job of convincing me that eve players are morally bankrupt by claiming that having our computers on kills people by contributing to global warming. There is a huge difference between being a bad person by actually treating someone poorly and blowing up their stuff in a game.

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Victoria Thorne
Science and Trade Institute
Caldari State
#89 - 2014-02-25 01:00:31 UTC
Well, good luck on whatever you do. Just remember to have fun. That's kind of the point of playing a game. Big smile

Salvos Rhoska
#90 - 2014-02-25 02:07:38 UTC
They are, bit by bit, pulling you down to their low level.

Dont fall for it.
Kaarous Aldurald
Black Hydra Consortium.
#91 - 2014-02-25 02:09:24 UTC
Salvos Rhoska wrote:
They are, bit by bit, pulling you down to their low level.

Dont fall for it.


He already has. He subscribed.

"Verily, I have often laughed at the weaklings who thought themselves good because they had no claws."

One of ours, ten of theirs.

Best Meltdown Ever.

Kimmi Chan
Tastes Like Purple
#92 - 2014-02-25 02:10:51 UTC
Kaarous Aldurald wrote:
Salvos Rhoska wrote:
They are, bit by bit, pulling you down to their low level.

Dont fall for it.


He already has. He subscribed.


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Ai Shun
#93 - 2014-02-25 02:14:07 UTC
Salvos Rhoska wrote:
They are, bit by bit, pulling you down to their low level.

Dont fall for it.


This is why, every morning when I wake up, I put on my "Chaotic Evil" ring from Neverwinter Nights. To get into the mood, so to speak, for pulling innocent virgins into my pool of depravity.
mr ed thehouseofed
Pator Tech School
Minmatar Republic
#94 - 2014-02-25 03:01:28 UTC
everyone needs to calm down and have some cake Big smile

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Kimmi Chan
Tastes Like Purple
#95 - 2014-02-25 03:09:57 UTC
mr ed thehouseofed wrote:
everyone needs to calm down and have some cake Big smile


If I take the cake I'm a bad person for real!

Doesn't that just take the cake.

INB4 the guy who likes cake comes to like all the cake.

...and Battleships.

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Remiel Pollard
Aliastra
Gallente Federation
#96 - 2014-02-25 03:11:49 UTC
Kimmi Chan wrote:
mr ed thehouseofed wrote:
everyone needs to calm down and have some cake Big smile


If I take the cake I'm a bad person for real!

Doesn't that just take the cake.

INB4 the guy who likes cake comes to like all the cake.

...and Battleships.


The cake is a lie.

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Joan Greywind
The Lazy Crabs
#97 - 2014-02-25 08:22:53 UTC  |  Edited by: Joan Greywind
I am not a very experienced forum poster, but from my limited knowledge (yea milk that humbleness), I think that the EVE forums are generally very conductive, even with all the hating and trolling.

Yes there is a lot of **** posting, but afterall this is the internet, and where anonymity bring the worst in people, but still I believe in general the forums have improved the game and the community.

I mean just like democracy give votes to idiots, it is still the best system out there, simply because the benefits outweigh the costs. There are many discussions in these forum that directly and indirectly made the game better.

And if you still haven't conducted a decent discussions on the forums, then maybe it is your fault and not the "forum's" fault.

Just my 2 cents
Diamond Zerg
Taking Solo Away.
#98 - 2014-02-25 09:55:36 UTC
What are you talking about, these forums have a lot of nice people.

Sure, there are some negative and hostile ones, but many of them are just stupid.
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Brendan Anneto
Gladiators of Rage
Fraternity.
#99 - 2014-02-25 10:05:50 UTC
Because people like you post that ****!!!

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Kagura Nikon
Native Freshfood
Minmatar Republic
#100 - 2014-02-25 10:42:43 UTC
Chihiro Chugakusei wrote:
I've posted on these forums a few times over the years, and I've never encountered anything but hostility, negativity, insults, etc. What the fk is up with this? I've been vocal in many gaming communities, but have never have I felt so hated as I do on these forums.



Contrary to other games. Eve has its forums as part of the game. A lot of politics and warfare happens in the forums. Eve is a harsh game.. be in space be in its forums.

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