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Why are many people on these forums so negative, and so hostile?

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Divine Entervention
Doomheim
#441 - 2014-02-27 19:30:26 UTC
Anhenka wrote:
Mandarine wrote:
~Another moral superiority rant which Divine would be proud of~ ~decrying of people who play differently than him and demanding GM's IP ban them~ ~Comparison of gameplay to ****~


Ok, that's it, thread's twitching less than the revamp POS thread.

Go home people, sort out your life, and decide if you actually want to log in again. If all you want to do is sit around proclaiming your personal superiority to others, then this is not the place for you. The game is not always happy, not always fun. You signed up knowing of the stories told of theft, sabotaging, awoxing, and grand plots, and now want the game to change because you find yourself disliking those same draws. There are MMO's with will allow you perfectly safe solo play. This is not one of them.

Frankly, this thread cannot be locked fast enough. What started out as a whiny rant and appeal for pity turned into a pit of abuse and trolling, got purged of 75% of the posts, then has rapidly skyrocketed back up to a posting frequency and shitslinging pace far beyond that of previous.


Help me ISD whoeverthefuckison, you're my only hope.




Where did I say I want to be safe? I never said I want anyone to stop what they're doing.

I've simply said that I'll make judgements based on my observations. If someone wishes to lie and steal from someone, then I'm going to label him as a bad person.
Kimmi Chan
Tastes Like Purple
#442 - 2014-02-27 19:30:30 UTC
Anhenka wrote:
Mandarine wrote:
~Another moral superiority rant which Divine would be proud of~ ~decrying of people who play differently than him and demanding GM's IP ban them~ ~Comparison of gameplay to ****~


Ok, that's it, thread's twitching less than the revamp POS thread.

Go home people, sort out your life, and decide if you actually want to log in again. If all you want to do is sit around proclaiming your personal superiority to others, then this is not the place for you. The game is not always happy, not always fun. You signed up knowing of the stories told of theft, sabotaging, awoxing, and grand plots, and now want the game to change because you find yourself disliking those same draws. There are MMO's with will allow you perfectly safe solo play. This is not one of them.

Frankly, this thread cannot be locked fast enough. What started out as a whiny rant and appeal for pity turned into a pit of abuse and trolling, got purged of 75% of the posts, then has rapidly skyrocketed back up to a posting frequency and shitslinging pace far beyond that of previous.


Help me ISD whoeverthefuckison, you're my only hope.




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Jonah Gravenstein
Machiavellian Space Bastards
#443 - 2014-02-27 19:31:37 UTC
Mandarine wrote:

Do you know why the vast majority of MMOs are not sandboxes? Because MMO devs saw what happened with UO. This attracts the griefer type, and they´d rather hardcode limitations from the start rather than have to deal with balancing griefing.
Money, pure and simple. Most gamers don't like permanent loss of their stuff, hence the majority of MMOs cater to the majority, Eve does not, which is what's known as a niche game

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So, quite bluntly, we now have crappy non-sandboxy MMOs because a minority of gamers enjoy being jerks online. Do you find it amusing? I don´t.
We have crappy non sandbox MMOs because the majority of gamers can't cope with a true sandbox like Eve.

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I don´t think sandox games have to be watered-down, I think that the type of gamer who develops glee by witnessing his own self (i:e. not his character) being the cause of the RL distress of some unknown Joe, which he has created by using a video game as a platform, has no place in an online game. Three strikes and he should be IP banned, so the sandbox can accommodate "regular" gamers who enjoy having fun with each other instead of at each other´s expense.
Sandbox means that you can try and play any way that you please, it also means that someone else can try and stop you from doing so, because that's the way they want to play.

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And having fun with each other does not mean there´s no PvP, quite the contrary. But PvP that is seen as an ingame action and goal, rather as a means to make some dude mad.

Griefers can use legitimate gameplay to experience Schadenfreude, but what matters is what they are after: ingame fantasies, or the feeling of impure joy because their RL self has made somebody rage IRL?
When you can come up with irrefutable evidence to back up this claim then maybe people will listen to you, until then you're urinating into the wind. Your opinion is not irrefutable evidence, it's your opinion. Opinions are like arseholes, everyone has one.

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PvP is awesome when players want to play pretend. Ganking is an abomination, as it falls outside the magic circle and is just online sadism.
CCP disagree, ganking is considered normal gameplay, if it wasn't they'd have put a stop to it sometime in the last decade.


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Worthless Carebears
The Initiative.
#444 - 2014-02-27 19:31:41 UTC
Anhenka wrote:


Help me ISD whoeverthefuckison, you're my only hope.




The rest of the post was good, but this one actually made me spit a little Big smile
Tippia
Sunshine and Lollipops
#445 - 2014-02-27 19:33:58 UTC
Divine Entervention wrote:
Where did I say I want to be safe?
Where did he say that you did?

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I've simply said that I'll make judgements based on my observations. If someone wishes to lie and steal from someone, then I'm going to label him as a bad person.
…which makes you prejudiced since all you're doing there is making baseless assumptions.
Divine Entervention
Doomheim
#446 - 2014-02-27 19:34:47 UTC
Jonah Gravenstein wrote:
Sandbox means that you can try and play any way that you please, it also means that someone else can try and stop you from doing so, because that's the way they want to play.


Being a person who's goal it is to cause misery in others, others are allowed to conclude the people who do that, since they're real people hurting other real people, are bad people unworthy of respect and trust.
Mandarine
Federal Navy Academy
Gallente Federation
#447 - 2014-02-27 19:35:39 UTC  |  Edited by: Mandarine
Jenn aSide wrote:
Mandarine wrote:



Do you know why the vast majority of MMOs are not sandboxes? Because MMO devs saw what happened with UO. This attracts the griefer type, and they´d rather hardcode limitations from the start rather than have to deal with balancing griefing.

So, quite bluntly, we now have crappy non-sandboxy MMOs because a minority of gamers enjoy being jerks online. Do you find it amusing? I don´t.


This part is telling, because it's what politicians do: Blame the group of people they don't like for a situation they couldn't possibly have been responsible for.

Show me ONE game maker who said they made their MMORPG a themepark type game because of UO (or any other) griefers.




What do you think is easier: constantly create PvE and arena-based PvP content, or let the players create stories amongst themselves?

While you´d have to ask a MMO dev about that, because I don´t think any has ever reflected on this: it has just become common sense that themeparks with hardcoded PvP limitations are the way to go for mass appeal, but why has it?

Because UO set a unconscious standard, that you can´t have nice things in a sandbox: Trammelization due to gankers.

Watch what will happen with EvE when computing technology allows for a million concurrent users, or even half of that.
Tippia
Sunshine and Lollipops
#448 - 2014-02-27 19:38:01 UTC  |  Edited by: Tippia
Divine Entervention wrote:
Being a person who's goal it is to cause misery in others
How do you determine that this is their goal?

Mandarine wrote:
While you´d have to ask a MMO dev about that, because I don´t think any has ever reflected on this: it has just become common sense that themeparks with hardcoded PvP limitations are the way to go for mass appeal, but why has it?

Because UO set a unconscious standard, that you can´t have nice things in a sandbox: Trammelization due to gankers.
Do you have anything to support this claim?
What makes you think that it has anything to do with UO at all, and not to do with the simple fact that the general public prefers the themepark experience?
Tesco Ergo Sum
#449 - 2014-02-27 19:38:51 UTC  |  Edited by: Tesco Ergo Sum
Anhenka wrote:
Mandarine wrote:
~Another moral superiority rant which Divine would be proud of~ ~decrying of people who play differently than him and demanding GM's IP ban them~ ~Comparison of gameplay to ****~


Ok, that's it, thread's twitching less than the revamp POS thread.

Go home people, sort out your life, and decide if you actually want to log in again. If all you want to do is sit around proclaiming your personal superiority to others, then this is not the place for you. The game is not always happy, not always fun. You signed up knowing of the stories told of theft, sabotaging, awoxing, and grand plots, and now want the game to change because you find yourself disliking those same draws. There are MMO's with will allow you perfectly safe solo play. This is not one of them.

Frankly, this thread cannot be locked fast enough. What started out as a whiny rant and appeal for pity turned into a pit of abuse and trolling, got purged of 75% of the posts, then has rapidly skyrocketed back up to a posting frequency and shitslinging pace far beyond that of previous.


Help me ISD whoeverthefuckison, you're my only hope.




You Sir, win this thread and many thanks for your superior forum-fu in showing constructive threads with new ideas far too many pages ago.

I rarely get down that far as I read top to bottom in the forum index and so many threads like this clog the forums and slow people down reading valuable threads like you pointed me to.

Can we at least reorder the forum indexs with GD at the bottom?

With 30 pages done I feel so proud of many others providing valuable content in proving the thread title repeatedly to the point of GD deletion.

Reach around and give yourselves all a pat on the back, you know you deserve it...
PotatoOverdose
School of Applied Knowledge
Caldari State
#450 - 2014-02-27 19:39:46 UTC  |  Edited by: PotatoOverdose
Oh look, this thread has turned into another 'bad people in eve are bad people IRL', oh joy. Roll

lf I kill a bunch of people in skyrim, it doesn't mean I'm a bad person IRL.
If I shoot a bunch of people in counter strike, still not a bad person.
If I cause someone's ship to go boom in eve, still not a bad person.

If you disagree with that last bit, you obviously haven't realized that eve is a game.
Krixtal Icefluxor
INLAND EMPIRE Galactic
#451 - 2014-02-27 19:40:16 UTC
Jonah Gravenstein wrote:
While I disagree with Krixtal on a number of things, I can safely say that he's overall a pretty nice guy, he accepts Eve for what it is, and plays despite that.



Seriously. The past 18 months of missioning, Low sec PI with 5 toons and 30 planets, and hauling crap to Rens, and Ice Mining periodically, and I've only lost that one Bustard 18 months ago. And I know exactly what happened there, and it was my fault.

It's not really that hard.

"He has mounted his hind-legs, and blown crass vapidities through the bowel of his neck."  - Ambrose Bierce on Oscar Wilde's Lecture in San Francisco 1882

Jonah Gravenstein
Machiavellian Space Bastards
#452 - 2014-02-27 19:41:07 UTC
Divine Entervention wrote:
Jonah Gravenstein wrote:
Sandbox means that you can try and play any way that you please, it also means that someone else can try and stop you from doing so, because that's the way they want to play.


Being a person who's goal it is to cause misery in others, others are allowed to conclude the people who do that, since they're real people hurting other real people, are bad people unworthy of respect and trust.

Once again, a reality disconnect.

If people get so upset about the loss of their imaginary space pixels, why are they playing a game that revolves around the loss of said imaginary space pixels?

My Eve persona is completely separate from my real life persona, as I would hope that any healthy individuals is. You can judge people by their ingame actions all you like, that doesn't make your judgement correct, it just makes you judgemental.

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Worthless Carebears
The Initiative.
#453 - 2014-02-27 19:42:40 UTC
Mandarine wrote:


What do you think is easier: constantly create PvE and arena-based PvP content, or let the players create stories amongst themselves?

While you´d have to ask a MMO dev about that, because I don´t think any has ever reflected on this: it has just become common sense that themeparks with hardcoded PvP limitations are the way to go for mass appeal, but why has it?

Because UO set a unconscious standard, that you can´t have nice things in a sandbox: Trammelization due to gankers.

Watch what will happen with EvE when computing technology allows for a million concurrent users, or even half of that.


You're offering an opinion about something you can't prove based on how you think you'd do things is you were in those shoes (ie you think it's easier to make a sandbox game than it is to keep creating content for a themepark, an assertion you have no proof of). "Common Sense" doesn't apply to complex things like business models, because there are so many factors that interact in strange ways.

Rational thinking demands that you question your own motives before subscribing to an opinion. You didn't do that here in any way, shape or form. When an opinion fits too closely into you personal biases, it's time to rethink.
Krixtal Icefluxor
INLAND EMPIRE Galactic
#454 - 2014-02-27 19:43:03 UTC
Divine Entervention wrote:


Maybe it's your truth, but you being a person who condones and supports people acting like dicks to each other is proof that your goal is to upset others, removing validity from your statements and classifying you as a person unworthy of having their opinion respected.



WTF are you even talking about ????

Again, alcohol is bad for you m'kay. You are confusing posters now.

Time for beddy-bye.

"He has mounted his hind-legs, and blown crass vapidities through the bowel of his neck."  - Ambrose Bierce on Oscar Wilde's Lecture in San Francisco 1882

Divine Entervention
Doomheim
#455 - 2014-02-27 19:44:16 UTC
Krixtal Icefluxor wrote:
Divine Entervention wrote:


Maybe it's your truth, but you being a person who condones and supports people acting like dicks to each other is proof that your goal is to upset others, removing validity from your statements and classifying you as a person unworthy of having their opinion respected.



WTF are you even talking about ????

Again, alcohol is bad for you m'kay. You are confusing posters now.

Time for beddy-bye.

I agree.

Don't drink alcohol. It's bad for you.
Marsha Mallow
#456 - 2014-02-27 19:44:22 UTC
Mandarine wrote:
PvP is awesome when players want to play pretend. Ganking is an abomination, as it falls outside the magic circle and is just online sadism.

Regarding sex, if you can´t make it good for your partner, you have no place in a relationship. Much like you have no place in a game environment if you don´t want others to have fun.

It´s like I´m debating with randroids. Are you people capable of empathy?

It's not sadism towards other people from my end, it's indifference. Pew-pew, boom, next! If you want to stop and chat inbetween about how upset that ship loss made you, go ahead, I'm here for you.

Re sex, honestly I think the person involved can usually provide helpful feedback, which can be replied to with "stop your whining and look a bit more grateful". Although the judgement of random strangers on forums is also crucial to successful real life relationships.

Ripard Teg > For the morons in the room:

Sweets > U can dd my face any day

Divine Entervention
Doomheim
#457 - 2014-02-27 19:46:43 UTC
Jonah Gravenstein wrote:
Divine Entervention wrote:
Jonah Gravenstein wrote:
Sandbox means that you can try and play any way that you please, it also means that someone else can try and stop you from doing so, because that's the way they want to play.


Being a person who's goal it is to cause misery in others, others are allowed to conclude the people who do that, since they're real people hurting other real people, are bad people unworthy of respect and trust.

Once again, a reality disconnect.

If people get so upset about the loss of their imaginary space pixels, why are they playing a game that revolves around the loss of said imaginary space pixels?

My Eve persona is completely separate from my real life persona, as I would hope that any healthy individuals is. You can judge people by their ingame actions all you like, that doesn't make your judgement correct, it just makes you judgemental.


Well I dunno, no one griefs me. some people might get mad at the loss of pixels. I wouldn't.

What would upset me if you lied to me and then stole from me, is the fact that you're a person who chooses to lie and steal.

i would be like, Man that jonah gravenstein guy is the type of person who gets his enjoyment trying to upset others. That guy's got problems if he doesn't take into consideration the potential impact he could have on others feelings. I'll make sure I not trust him and I'll warn others not to trust him either.

Mad over pixels? hahahaha no, you! maybe. not me though.
Divine Entervention
Doomheim
#458 - 2014-02-27 19:48:01 UTC
Marsha Mallow wrote:
Mandarine wrote:
PvP is awesome when players want to play pretend. Ganking is an abomination, as it falls outside the magic circle and is just online sadism.

Regarding sex, if you can´t make it good for your partner, you have no place in a relationship. Much like you have no place in a game environment if you don´t want others to have fun.

It´s like I´m debating with randroids. Are you people capable of empathy?

It's not sadism towards other people from my end, it's indifference. Pew-pew, boom, next! If you want to stop and chat inbetween about how upset that ship loss made you, go ahead, I'm here for you.

Re sex, honestly I think the person involved can usually provide helpful feedback, which can be replied to with "stop your whining and look a bit more grateful". Although the judgement of random strangers on forums is also crucial to successful real life relationships.


indifference. So you're capable of seperating yourself from the impact your actions could have on others. That's selfish.

From what you've described, you're a selfish person.
SKINE DMZ
The Scope
Gallente Federation
#459 - 2014-02-27 19:48:24 UTC
Don't be mad at the person, he is just playing the character, be mad at the character. Smile

I disagree

Mandarine
Federal Navy Academy
Gallente Federation
#460 - 2014-02-27 19:49:05 UTC
Anhenka wrote:
Mandarine wrote:
~Another moral superiority rant which Divine would be proud of~ ~decrying of people who play differently than him and demanding GM's IP ban them~ ~Comparison of gameplay to ****~


Ok, that's it, thread's twitching less than the revamp POS thread.

Go home people, sort out your life, and decide if you actually want to log in again. If all you want to do is sit around proclaiming your personal superiority to others, then this is not the place for you. The game is not always happy, not always fun. You signed up knowing of the stories told of theft, sabotaging, awoxing, and grand plots, and now want the game to change because you find yourself disliking those same draws. There are MMO's with will allow you perfectly safe solo play. This is not one of them.

Frankly, this thread cannot be locked fast enough. What started out as a whiny rant and appeal for pity turned into a pit of abuse and trolling, got purged of 75% of the posts, then has rapidly skyrocketed back up to a posting frequency and shitslinging pace far beyond that of previous.


Help me ISD whoeverthefuckison, you're my only hope.





I´ve been playing since 2003. I remember that around those times, attacking a naked player doing a corpse run in an Everquest PvP server was considered as a total jerk move. You probably think it´s an awesome one.

Who talks about superiority? I´m simply stating that people who log with the clear purpose of emotionally harming others have no place in a videogame.

Do you have feelings of inferiority because of some moral shortcomings?


Jonah Gravenstein wrote:
CCP disagree, ganking is considered normal gameplay, if it wasn't they'd have put a stop to it sometime in the last decade.


Money. Ganking requires alts, defending against, also.

The commercial choices of CCP have no impact on the fact that many gankers and scammers plainly say that they enjoy the emotional distress they cause, more than any ingame asset or narrative.

The links proving this have been posted time and time again in this thread, and statements from said gankers are all over their blogs.

Marsha Mallow wrote:

It's not sadism towards other people from my end, it's indifference. Pew-pew, boom, next! If you want to stop and chat inbetween about how upset that ship loss made you, go ahead, I'm here for you.

Re sex, honestly I think the person involved can usually provide helpful feedback, which can be replied to with "stop your whining and look a bit more grateful". Although the judgement of random strangers on forums is also crucial to successful real life relationships.



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