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Why are many people on these forums so negative, and so hostile?

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Mandarine
Federal Navy Academy
Gallente Federation
#321 - 2014-02-27 16:17:05 UTC
Benny Ohu wrote:

not an argument


Let me quote myself

Many gankers declare they enjoy the RL rage of their victims much more than anything. They develop glee by witnessing their own selves (i:e. not their character) being the cause of the RL distress of some unknown Joe, which they have created by using a video game as a platform.

Oppose this to the reveries of many gamers imagining their favorite character, whom they impersonate, waging battles, solving puzzles, interacting in some form or another with other player-controlled characters, all in the environment of the game, and all under personas.

Anybody can see which musings are within the magic circle, and which are not.
Jenn aSide
Soul Machines
The Initiative.
#322 - 2014-02-27 16:19:41 UTC
Benny Ohu wrote:
Tippia wrote:
Divine Entervention wrote:
if the griefer is doing it soley for the challenge, it's still considered immoral because he's not taking the targets feelings into account. It's a demonstration of lack of empathy.

When you win a hand in poker, are you taking the opponents' feelings into account? Is it immoral to take their money? Does it demonstrate a lack of empathy to win a challenging game?

i took into account my opponent's desire to play a competitive computer game and took action to compete with them



Now truthfully, the disconnect comes because the 'victim' players don't understand that they are playing a competitive game. They think "i'm just minding my own business mining/missioning/hauling stuff".

While i don't partake, I LIKE that there exists people in the game that will "keep everyone honest". Last week I was running a mission in Barkrik (death to big assed solar systems like Barkrik with the new battleship warp speed changes btw) when a dude in a Cheetah came in. He putted around a bit trying to get me to agress but I had MJD'd off the warp in point and was ready for whatever else could happen. He left and i never had another problem out of him.

If i thought like these 'victims' i'd have run to the forums and demanded CCP stop people from being able to come into my mission. I didn't because while annoying and potentially dangerous, I'm playing a spaceship game, we need 'spice of life' activities like people trying to blow you up to make it worth playing.

The victims misunderstanding of the game they are choosing to play (yet still choosing to play it) is IMO at the root of everything here.. Griefers couldn't exist in an environment of ungreifable , responsible, sane, adult players.
Tippia
Sunshine and Lollipops
#323 - 2014-02-27 16:19:50 UTC  |  Edited by: Tippia
Mandarine wrote:
Many gankers declare they enjoy the RL rage of their victims much more than anything. They develop glee by witnessing their own selves (i:e. not their character) being the cause of the RL distress of some unknown Joe, which they have created by using a video game as a platform.
Do you have anything to support this claim?

Quote:
Let me quote myself
It would be better if you could quote something that provided evidence for your claim.
Benny Ohu
Royal Amarr Institute
Amarr Empire
#324 - 2014-02-27 16:22:16 UTC
Mandarine wrote:
Benny Ohu wrote:

not an argument


Let me quote myself

Many gankers declare they enjoy the RL rage of their victims much more than anything. They develop glee by witnessing their own selves (i:e. not their character) being the cause of the RL distress of some unknown Joe, which they have created by using a video game as a platform.

Oppose this to the reveries of many gamers imagining their favorite character, whom they impersonate, waging battles, solving puzzles, interacting in some form or another with other player-controlled characters, all in the environment of the game, and all under personas.

Anybody can see which musings are within the magic circle, and which are not.

not an argument

and wouldn't support the claim 'a ganker (for example) is an antisocial person irl' or the claim 'a ganker is more likely to be antisocial or display stong antisocial traits than the average' anyway
Mandarine
Federal Navy Academy
Gallente Federation
#325 - 2014-02-27 16:23:09 UTC
Oblivion King wrote:
emm in your link provided the so called "sociopath" is actually offering advice and being friendly about it and how to avoid griefers, and he says he does it for the challenge, or did just read his first reply about the definition of a griefer and assume he does it to make others suffer.

I'm guessing that.


In his own words:

"A griefer is somebody who basically enjoys having fun at other peoples expense" (do note he defines himself as a griefer, while he only acts in the limits of the game rules. Outside of the magic circle, however: this is the problem)

"People in this game want to ruin your experience"

"I don't know why, but something about getting told to get cancer and die just makes my day."


You can also read the linked articles about trolls, or any ganker´s blog, hulkageddon or whatever.
Divine Entervention
Doomheim
#326 - 2014-02-27 16:24:31 UTC  |  Edited by: Divine Entervention
Tippia wrote:
Divine Entervention wrote:
What are the different objectives you can pursue in poker? Whats like, the ultimate goal?

Depends on what you want to get out of it.

So, what do you play? And why do you play EVE?


I don't want to mention the name of other games I play on this forum. I'll PM you the last major MMO I played.

I know i "could" say it's name, but considering this is an EVE forum, I personally feel its direspectful to talk of other games.

I play EVE so I can meet other interesting, good people and go on space adventures.
Jenn aSide
Soul Machines
The Initiative.
#327 - 2014-02-27 16:26:41 UTC  |  Edited by: Jenn aSide
Divine Entervention wrote:
What are the different objectives you can pursue in poker? Whats like, the ultimate goal?


You are basically asking what can you get out of a poker game.

Same things you can get out of eve in a more virtual setting.

Making money.
Displaying skill.
Camaraderie
Enjoyment that comes from watching an overconfident douche who should have known it was a trap deflate when you beat his Straight Flush with a Royal Flush.

And I'm sure there are more.
Mandarine
Federal Navy Academy
Gallente Federation
#328 - 2014-02-27 16:28:25 UTC
Benny Ohu wrote:
Mandarine wrote:
Benny Ohu wrote:

not an argument


Let me quote myself

Many gankers declare they enjoy the RL rage of their victims much more than anything. They develop glee by witnessing their own selves (i:e. not their character) being the cause of the RL distress of some unknown Joe, which they have created by using a video game as a platform.

Oppose this to the reveries of many gamers imagining their favorite character, whom they impersonate, waging battles, solving puzzles, interacting in some form or another with other player-controlled characters, all in the environment of the game, and all under personas.

Anybody can see which musings are within the magic circle, and which are not.

not an argument

and wouldn't support the claim 'a ganker (for example) is an antisocial person irl' or the claim 'a ganker is more likely to be antisocial or display stong antisocial traits than the average' anyway



Indeed. Gankers are already antisocial IRL, they use an online video game as a tool to cause distress in people they don´t even know, in the hope, often fulfilled, that the gankees will pour abuse on them. This is their autistic way to reach out and touch someone.

Or to rephrase, they don´t play a video game by play pretending being a pod pilot, they just use it in a way to cause emotional harm to people, because they see that it works. Which is quite problematic, since it does not fall within the magic circle.


About traits, check out the articles linked that discuss trolls´psychology.
Benny Ohu
Royal Amarr Institute
Amarr Empire
#329 - 2014-02-27 16:28:33 UTC
Mandarine wrote:
In his own words:

"A griefer is somebody who basically enjoys having fun at other peoples expense" (do note he defines himself as a griefer, while he only acts in the limits of the game rules. Outside of the magic circle, however: this is the problem)

"People in this game want to ruin your experience"

"I don't know why, but something about getting told to get cancer and die just makes my day."


You can also read the linked articles about trolls, or any ganker´s blog, hulkageddon or whatever.

first quote is fully within the accepted rules of eve online. 'your expense' simply means that one person suffers a loss. which is part of the computer game. fully advertised.

second quote is part of his 'advice for others' part and can be taken as opinion.

third quote is him describing the mails he's recieved from others. rather antisocial mails. indicates nothing other than some people want him to get cancer.
Benny Ohu
Royal Amarr Institute
Amarr Empire
#330 - 2014-02-27 16:30:34 UTC
Mandarine wrote:
Indeed. Gankers are already antisocial IRL, they use an online video game as a tool to cause distress in people they don´t even know, in the hope, often fulfilled, that the gankees will pour abuse on them. This is their autistic way to reach out and touch someone.

Or to rephrase, they don´t play a video game by play pretending being a pod pilot, they just use it in a way to cause emotional harm to people, because they see that it works. Which is quite problematic, since it does not fall within the magic circle.


About traits, check out the articles linked that discuss trolls´psychology.

there is no support for those claims

you have still not posted an argument

Benny Ohu wrote:

I'll add that there's no logical link between these and the claim of 'a person who plays as a pirate in EVE is an antisocial person in real life'. Until an actual argument is provided, the reasonable assumption is that any identified group or playstyle in EVE Online will have the same percentage of antisocial people or people with strong antisocial traits as the general real-world population, and that these people are equally distributed in EVE Online vOv

The people in this thread making contrary claims have basically been stomping their feet and crying "BUT I SAY" so far
Divine Entervention
Doomheim
#331 - 2014-02-27 16:31:03 UTC
Jenn aSide wrote:
Divine Entervention wrote:
What are the different objectives you can pursue in poker? Whats like, the ultimate goal?


You are basically asking what can you get out of a poker game.

Same things you can get out of eve in a more virtual setting.

Making money.
Displaying skill.
Camaraderie
Enjoyment that comes from watching an overconfident douche who should have known it was a trap deflate when you beat his Straight Flush with a Royal Flush.

And I'm sure there are more.

OK so they share some similar qualities.

They're still really different. I've never seen a poker game in space. Maybe the astronauts are doing it on the ISS, maybe they have already. I dunno.

EvE and Poker are different.
Tippia
Sunshine and Lollipops
#332 - 2014-02-27 16:31:26 UTC  |  Edited by: Tippia
Mandarine wrote:
In his own words:

"A griefer is somebody who basically enjoys having fun at other peoples expense"
"People in this game want to ruin your experience"
"I don't know why, but something about getting told to get cancer and die just makes my day."
…but if you look at the reason why they're doing it, it's “because its good money, obviously. It's also less time consuming than some forms of pvp. Low risk, high reward. It's a lot of fun in that it's also somewhat of a 'hunt' I guess. […] It's all about the hunt, finding out how people tick.”

So even by your own “evidence” it's not all about causing people distress.

Quote:
Indeed. Gankers are already antisocial IRL, they use an online video game as a tool to cause distress in people they don´t even know, in the hope, often fulfilled, that the gankees will pour abuse on them. This is their autistic way to reach out and touch someone.
Do you have anything to support this claim?

Divine Entervention wrote:
EvE and Poker are different.
Not in any way that matters for the discussion at hand.

Quote:
I play EVE so I can meet other interesting, good people and go on space adventures.
You realise, I hope, that in doing so, you're “contributing to a competition that revolves around taking things from others”. Everything you do in this game does.
Jenn aSide
Soul Machines
The Initiative.
#333 - 2014-02-27 16:35:58 UTC
Divine Entervention wrote:


EvE and Poker are different.


EVE is different from every other game if you parse it fine enough, yet you do compare it to other games.

At some point though, a game is a game is a game.
Mandarine
Federal Navy Academy
Gallente Federation
#334 - 2014-02-27 16:38:20 UTC
Benny Ohu wrote:

first quote is fully within the accepted rules of eve online. 'your expense' simply means that one person suffers a loss. which is part of the computer game. fully advertised.

second quote is part of his 'advice for others' part and can be taken as opinion.

third quote is him describing the mails he's recieved from others. rather antisocial mails. indicates nothing other than some people want him to get cancer.


"Your expense" means the emotional response of the gankees. But let´s agree to disagree, since you know full well you pretend it´s not. I don´t have time nor will to argue with blatant dishonesty.

Second quote is describing how he and others behave

Third quote indicates that he loves getting hate mail, just as all gankers do. This is clearly an out-of-game goal, i.e., enjoying the RL rage of other gamers.


The support for the fact that gankers enjoy the disarray of gamers, and care little about ingame narratives, have been stated by the gankers themselves, and posted times and times again. You choose to be oblivious and dishonest about that. What can I say?
Tippia
Sunshine and Lollipops
#335 - 2014-02-27 16:41:23 UTC
Mandarine wrote:
Third quote indicates that he loves getting hate mail, just as all gankers do.
Do you have anything to support this general claim?

Quote:
The support for the fact that gankers enjoy the disarray of gamers, and care little about ingame narratives, have been stated by the gankers themselves, and posted times and times again.
No. It has been stated by some people who gank. You have yet to demonstrate any generalisability to their motivations (or indeed offer any of them stating it outright) and that this is somehow something that sets them apart from the general population.
Divine Entervention
Doomheim
#336 - 2014-02-27 16:41:36 UTC
Tippia wrote:
Mandarine wrote:
In his own words:

"A griefer is somebody who basically enjoys having fun at other peoples expense"
"People in this game want to ruin your experience"
"I don't know why, but something about getting told to get cancer and die just makes my day."
…but if you look at the reason why they're doing it, it's “because its good money, obviously. It's also less time consuming than some forms of pvp. Low risk, high reward. It's a lot of fun in that it's also somewhat of a 'hunt' I guess. […] It's all about the hunt, finding out how people tick.”

So even by your own “evidence” it's not all about causing people distress.

Quote:
Indeed. Gankers are already antisocial IRL, they use an online video game as a tool to cause distress in people they don´t even know, in the hope, often fulfilled, that the gankees will pour abuse on them. This is their autistic way to reach out and touch someone.
Do you have anything to support this claim?

Divine Entervention wrote:
EvE and Poker are different.
Not in any way that matters for the discussion at hand.


As much as I hate to come to this conclusion, but you're not worth my time. You don't even strike me as a real person. The way you conduct yourself screams a disconnection between yourself and your actions.

I've said all I need to say to you regarding anything you've asked me. The answers are there, but you don't want them. You just want to keep presenting the same questions over and over hoping I'll eventually trip myself up so you can say you bested me.

But I've already bested you. You refuse to acknowledge the connections I've stated on a multitude of different occassions.

Also when you speak to other people, you literally do parrot your own catch phrases incessantly.

It was fun while it lasted, but alas I've figured you out. Ultimately it didn't take long considering the only medium of interaction we had was on an internet forum.

I'm sure you'll disagree with me, but you've already proven to me that you're not someone who's opinion I should invest value in. I mean, you stated that the guy who lies to someone and then steals from him is "winning". To me, that's enough proof that you are a broken person. I'm writing you off as lost and putting you on ignore.
Benny Ohu
Royal Amarr Institute
Amarr Empire
#337 - 2014-02-27 16:42:30 UTC
Mandarine wrote:
"Your expense" means the emotional response of the gankees. But let´s agree to disagree, since you know full well you pretend it´s not. I don´t have time nor will to argue with blatant dishonesty.

Second quote is describing how he and others behave

Third quote indicates that he loves getting hate mail, just as all gankers do. This is clearly an out-of-game goal, i.e., enjoying the RL rage of other gamers.


The support for the fact that gankers enjoy the disarray of gamers, and care little about ingame narratives, have been stated by the gankers themselves, and posted times and times again. You choose to be oblivious and dishonest about that. What can I say?

and even if all of this was true (it's not), it doesn't support the claims you make

i have only pointed out the logical faults in what scraps of argument you've provided. there's no dishonesty in that. if you are unable to provide a logical backing to your claims, it doesn't reflect on me. your attacks on me personally are unwarranted and do nothing to support what you're trying to say.
Kimmi Chan
Tastes Like Purple
#338 - 2014-02-27 16:47:44 UTC
Jenn aSide wrote:
Divine Entervention wrote:


EvE and Poker are different.


EVE is different from every other game if you parse it fine enough, yet you do compare it to other games.

At some point though, a game is a game is a game.


... is Mario Kart because:

Anhenka's Law: Everything regarding ethics and morality can be examined through the lens of Mario Kart.

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Tippia
Sunshine and Lollipops
#339 - 2014-02-27 16:50:20 UTC  |  Edited by: Tippia
Divine Entervention wrote:
But I've already bested you. You refuse to acknowledge the connections I've stated on a multitude of different occassions.
That's just it: you have never made any connections. You've only ever stated that you can take the observation of one thing and transpose it into a conclusion about something unrelated.

You have not once demonstrated that such a transposition can be made. You have not once demonstrated that the two characteristics are related. You have not once shown that your conclusions about the character and moral people are based on anything but your own prejudices.

Quote:
Also when you speak to other people, you literally do parrot your own catch phrases incessantly.
I use the same verbiage because it is the most precise I can find to point out what you're doing wrong. If you keep skipping over the same crucial step over and over again, I'm going to keep mentioning that step over and over again, using the same words to describe it.

Quote:
I mean, you stated that the guy who lies to someone and then steals from him is "winning".
What else would you call it when someone achieves a win-condition?

Quote:
To me, that's enough proof that you are a broken person.
…and that is why I keep saying that your claims are prejudiced: because you keep jumping to these nonsensical conclusions based on completely unrelated and irrelevant observations.
Mandarine
Federal Navy Academy
Gallente Federation
#340 - 2014-02-27 16:51:37 UTC  |  Edited by: Mandarine
Benny Ohu wrote:
Mandarine wrote:
"Your expense" means the emotional response of the gankees. But let´s agree to disagree, since you know full well you pretend it´s not. I don´t have time nor will to argue with blatant dishonesty.

Second quote is describing how he and others behave

Third quote indicates that he loves getting hate mail, just as all gankers do. This is clearly an out-of-game goal, i.e., enjoying the RL rage of other gamers.


The support for the fact that gankers enjoy the disarray of gamers, and care little about ingame narratives, have been stated by the gankers themselves, and posted times and times again. You choose to be oblivious and dishonest about that. What can I say?

and even if all of this was true (it's not), it doesn't support the claims you make

i have only pointed out the logical faults in what scraps of argument you've provided. there's no dishonesty in that. if you are unable to provide a logical backing to your claims, it doesn't reflect on me. your attacks on me personally are unwarranted and do nothing to support what you're trying to say.



The logical backing is as follows:
Gankers state time and time again that they´re in it for the tears, (or the lulz)
Those tears are the emotional response of gankees, and the gankers know the best ways to harvest them
Those tears are a word for the RL rage of the gankees
The gankers find this rage delicious, and they see their own, RL, self, as the cause of it
The characters they use to harvest those tears are absolutely irrelevant, and often biomassed so as to render the sec status penalties null and void. They create new ones.

Since they take their delight in picturing their own, RL, self, as having caused RL disarray in some other gamer, through an online video game, this is clearly outside the magic circle, and does not qualify as good video gaming sport.
They do not care one bit about the ingame narrative. All they enjoy is out-of-game rage they have caused in other gamers.

Is that clear enough or do you want me to copy paste this over the course of a dozen pages?