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Why are many people on these forums so negative, and so hostile?

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Divine Entervention
Doomheim
#181 - 2014-02-27 03:39:55 UTC
Scipio Artelius wrote:
Divine Entervention wrote:
As a male, if you choose to play a female character, that is justifiable proof that at some times, you like to pretend you are a woman.


Oh I don't know, it's no more realistic than assuming if you choose to be a forum hardcase, that is justifiable proof that at some times, you like to pretend you are a man.

I don't think either is realistic really.


So we're in agreement that we're allowed to make judgements based on our observations.

to you, I pretend I'm a man.

To me, you support people stealing and lying to each other.
Victoria Thorne
Science and Trade Institute
Caldari State
#182 - 2014-02-27 03:41:43 UTC
I like to pretend that people don't argue for the sake of arguing. Make believe is fun! Big smile
Remiel Pollard
Aliastra
Gallente Federation
#183 - 2014-02-27 03:42:48 UTC
Divine Entervention wrote:
Scipio Artelius wrote:
Divine Entervention wrote:
As a male, if you choose to play a female character, that is justifiable proof that at some times, you like to pretend you are a woman.


Oh I don't know, it's no more realistic than assuming if you choose to be a forum hardcase, that is justifiable proof that at some times, you like to pretend you are a man.

I don't think either is realistic really.


So we're in agreement that we're allowed to make judgements based on our observations.

to you, I pretend I'm a man.

To me, you support people stealing and lying to each other.


Of course I agree with that, however, you make up most of your observations, so your conclusions are flawed. See, you don't observe the behaviour of anyone in real life, you just make circumstantial correlations. That's not observation. I, on the other hand, actually observed you make a transphobic comment.

“Some capsuleers claim that ECM is 'dishonorable' and 'unfair'. Jam those ones first, and kill them last.” - Jirai 'Fatal' Laitanen, Pithum Nullifier Training Manual c. YC104

Scipio Artelius
Weaponised Vegemite
Flying Dangerous
#184 - 2014-02-27 03:43:05 UTC  |  Edited by: Scipio Artelius
Divine Entervention wrote:
So we're in agreement that we're allowed to make judgements based on our observations.

to you, I pretend I'm a man.

To me, you support people stealing and lying to each other.


That was just a relevant quote. Whether you feel the comparison to being a forum hardcase applies to you or not is for you to judge.

I didn't make any specific judgment.

Yeah sure to the rest. Whatever knocks your socks off.
Divine Entervention
Doomheim
#185 - 2014-02-27 03:51:59 UTC  |  Edited by: Divine Entervention
Remiel Pollard wrote:
Divine Entervention wrote:
Scipio Artelius wrote:
Divine Entervention wrote:
As a male, if you choose to play a female character, that is justifiable proof that at some times, you like to pretend you are a woman.


Oh I don't know, it's no more realistic than assuming if you choose to be a forum hardcase, that is justifiable proof that at some times, you like to pretend you are a man.

I don't think either is realistic really.


So we're in agreement that we're allowed to make judgements based on our observations.

to you, I pretend I'm a man.

To me, you support people stealing and lying to each other.


Of course I agree with that, however, you make up most of your observations, so your conclusions are flawed. See, you don't observe the behaviour of anyone in real life, you just make circumstantial correlations. That's not observation. I, on the other hand, actually observed you make a transphobic comment.


If I see someone join a corporation, lie to the director saying he wishes to help and asks for and is given roles, and then he takes over the corporation by removing every one else's roles and calling a CEO vote, and attempting to extort isk from the people he's stolen from, that is not me making up an observation.

That is a real observation. Now based off of witnessing an action like that, I am allowed to conclude that the person who chose to lie and steal is a person who chooses to lie and steal.
Scipio Artelius
Weaponised Vegemite
Flying Dangerous
#186 - 2014-02-27 03:53:48 UTC
Seems we are off topic again. My bad.

Sorry everyone. No more food from me.
Divine Entervention
Doomheim
#187 - 2014-02-27 03:54:14 UTC
Scipio Artelius wrote:
Divine Entervention wrote:
So we're in agreement that we're allowed to make judgements based on our observations.

to you, I pretend I'm a man.

To me, you support people stealing and lying to each other.


That was just a relevant quote. Whether you feel the comparison to being a forum hardcase applies to you or not is for you to judge.

I didn't make any specific judgment.

Yeah sure to the rest. Whatever knocks your socks off.


Cool thanks man, glad we're on the same page.
Remiel Pollard
Aliastra
Gallente Federation
#188 - 2014-02-27 03:59:14 UTC
Divine Entervention wrote:
Remiel Pollard wrote:
Divine Entervention wrote:
Scipio Artelius wrote:
Divine Entervention wrote:
As a male, if you choose to play a female character, that is justifiable proof that at some times, you like to pretend you are a woman.


Oh I don't know, it's no more realistic than assuming if you choose to be a forum hardcase, that is justifiable proof that at some times, you like to pretend you are a man.

I don't think either is realistic really.


So we're in agreement that we're allowed to make judgements based on our observations.

to you, I pretend I'm a man.

To me, you support people stealing and lying to each other.


Of course I agree with that, however, you make up most of your observations, so your conclusions are flawed. See, you don't observe the behaviour of anyone in real life, you just make circumstantial correlations. That's not observation. I, on the other hand, actually observed you make a transphobic comment.


If I see someone join a corporation, lie to the director saying he wishes to help and asks for and is given roles, and then he takes over the corporation by removing every one else's roles and calling a CEO vote, and attempting to extort isk from the people he's stolen from, that is not me making up an observation.

That is a real observation. Now based off of witnessing an action like that, I am allowed to conclude that the person who chose to lie and steal is a person who chooses to lie and steal.


But you didn't observe them doing this in reality, hence you are basing your conclusions of their character in reality on circumstantial correlations. I said that. I said that in very plain language. So plain that the only way for you to miss it was to ignore it. Based on that observation, I would say you're a pretty ignorant person.

“Some capsuleers claim that ECM is 'dishonorable' and 'unfair'. Jam those ones first, and kill them last.” - Jirai 'Fatal' Laitanen, Pithum Nullifier Training Manual c. YC104

Divine Entervention
Doomheim
#189 - 2014-02-27 04:12:21 UTC  |  Edited by: Divine Entervention
Remiel Pollard wrote:


But you didn't observe them doing this in reality, hence you are basing your conclusions of their character in reality on circumstantial correlations. I said that. I said that in very plain language. So plain that the only way for you to miss it was to ignore it. Based on that observation, I would say you're a pretty ignorant person.


In reality, that guy sat on his computer and stole from people.

He did steal.

The only point of contention is if anything he stole was of real value. But he did lie and steal. Which lets me believe that judging since he chooses to lie and steal from other people, that he is a person capable of choosing to lie and steal from other people.

CCP just locked this thread and deleted alot of posts because people were insulting other people, which is against the forum rules. I do not wish for this thread to be locked because people choose to ignore the rules and insult each other. Once was bad enough, lets not let it happen again.

Please stop insulting me.

Thanks.
Divine Entervention
Doomheim
#190 - 2014-02-27 04:14:38 UTC  |  Edited by: Divine Entervention
Is what he stole real? No.

Is his act of stealing it real? Yes it is.

Also, we get to choose what we attribute value to. I may not care if I lose a merlin, but I may care when I lose a griffin. I get to pick and choose where my values lie, just like you.
Scipio Artelius
Weaponised Vegemite
Flying Dangerous
#191 - 2014-02-27 04:17:14 UTC
Remiel Pollard wrote:
But you didn't observe them doing this in reality, hence you are basing your conclusions of their character in reality on circumstantial correlations. I said that. I said that in very plain language. So plain that the only way for you to miss it was to ignore it. Based on that observation, I would say you're a pretty ignorant person.
Wrong topic Remiel. It's just going to stay off topic while any of us respond.

Maybe it should just be contained in it's own thread.
Gyromite
AWE Corporation
Intrepid Crossing
#192 - 2014-02-27 06:47:10 UTC
@ Divine Entervention: Hi, I'm a typical RPG thief class character, are my values in real life morally reprehensible?

My absolute love on Ultima Online was to be a thief, stealing was the bees knees back in the old days...

However to my utmost core I despise stealing in real life. Am I doomed as a person in real life to go to hell because I've stolen someones' pixel crack?
Ai Shun
#193 - 2014-02-27 06:53:00 UTC
Gyromite wrote:
@ Divine Entervention: Hi, I'm a typical RPG thief class character, are my values in real life morally reprehensible?


Mate, please. We've had three good threads ruined by that discussion. All that will happen is he'll fill the thread with insults and arguments and go on and on without a real point. Don't go there again, please. If you really want to see what he has to say, use eve-search and read it there. Please.



Mag's
Azn Empire
#194 - 2014-02-27 06:55:37 UTC
Divine Entervention wrote:
Is what he stole real? No.

Is his act of stealing it real? Yes it is.
For it to be stealing, wouldn't the owners need to be asked first if it actually was?

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Gogela
Epic Ganking Time
CODE.
#195 - 2014-02-27 06:59:33 UTC
I am spaceship.

Signatures should be used responsibly...

Divine Entervention
Doomheim
#196 - 2014-02-27 07:14:59 UTC
Gyromite wrote:
@ Divine Entervention: Hi, I'm a typical RPG thief class character, are my values in real life morally reprehensible?

My absolute love on Ultima Online was to be a thief, stealing was the bees knees back in the old days...

However to my utmost core I despise stealing in real life. Am I doomed as a person in real life to go to hell because I've stolen someones' pixel crack?


Do you lie to people to gain their trust, then use their trust to stab them in the back then steal?

if so, then yes, you're a bad person.
Scipio Artelius
Weaponised Vegemite
Flying Dangerous
#197 - 2014-02-27 07:38:02 UTC
Ai Shun wrote:
Mate, please. We've had three good threads ruined by that discussion. All that will happen is he'll fill the thread with insults and arguments and go on and on without a real point. Don't go there again, please. If you really want to see what he has to say, use eve-search and read it there. Please.


That one is one to encourage. He's a priest in real life.
Mandarine
Federal Navy Academy
Gallente Federation
#198 - 2014-02-27 07:58:23 UTC  |  Edited by: Mandarine
Kimmi Chan wrote:

Well there is the problem. You don't want to have to be "suspecting". You want good clean fun.

I have good clean fun in the game or I wouldn't be playing it.

If you're not having good clean fun in the game, don't play it.

Why in the name of all that is good and pure in the universe would you play a game that isn't fun?




I find EvE to be fun, because I have fun play pretending being a space pilot, as should be, in a MMORPG involving space pilots.

This is when it´s good clean fun, when players impersonate the character they created. This is within the magic circle, to use to the bone this analogy.

In the course of this impersonating, they can do whatever they want, but it has to make sense in, and be related to, the context of the play-pretend universe, otherwise it´s immersion-breaking, and the fun is reduced for everybody. Of course, this doesn´t apply to people considering that EvE is made of chatrooms called systems.

Now, let´s adress gankers, scammers, etc


Victoria Thorne wrote:


Personally, I'd find a game with no risk, no danger of losing, no conflict & no goals to be very boring.

There are games out there that do not have conflict, or a danger of losing, but they normally have some sort of goal to achieve, or they have some sort of other open ended purpose (Minecraft, outside of survival mode, for instance).

EVE, not having a goal or end game, depends on player interaction to create conflict & interesting circumstances. I don't consider that to be a bad thing. This game needs villians & heroes. And which are which depend completely on your in-game perspective. It doesn't make the people taking those roles good or bad, it just makes them players of EVE.



A MMORPG in which there is virtual violence absolutely needs villains for it to have a narrative, nobody is saying that it should not.

Now,. where there is a point of disagreement, is on what constitutes a narrative, and what doesn´t. It is self-evident that gankers and many scammers are not out to create a narrative developing within the magic circle, even though some of their deeds are relayed by press and fora as part of the EvE story. But what those deeds really are, are players using an online game as a platform to revel in the joy of having humiliated someone accross the internet. They say it themselves, they like to harvest tears. They, being their out of game selves, tears, being the out of game rage of others gamers (magic circle again, how does it work?)

They develop glee by witnessing their own RL selves (i:e. not their ingame character) being the cause of the RL distress of some unknown Joe.

Oppose this to the reveries of many gamers imagining their favorite character, whom they impersonate, waging battles, solving puzzles, interacting in some form or another with other player-controlled characters, all in the environment of the game, and all under personas.
This would be the category of players who enjoy the narrative, the ingame happenings, the play pretending, the imagining their character interacting in whatever way they choose in this sandbox universe. Those players know that EvE is a game, and they know that games are more fun when everybody is having fun, much like parties or sexual intercourse. This is basic human communication.

The other category of players does not care one bit about the narrative, nor the play pretending. What they most enjoy is being empowered by having made someone mad across the internet, and the characters involved or ingame circumstances are quite irrelevant. They get their kick by cherishing the picture of their own RL self causing distress to the RL self of somebody else.

This clearly does not fit any New Eden narrative I know of.


And concerning the negativity on this forum, it´s hardly surprising that this second category of players also use this forum as an online tool to lash at people in an attempt to get high on their subsequent rage.
Riyria Twinpeaks
Perkone
Caldari State
#199 - 2014-02-27 08:25:09 UTC  |  Edited by: Riyria Twinpeaks
Mandarine wrote:
(...)


I am new here, so you may disregard my opinion, but I have to agree that it's outside the scope of gaming when people have the explicit goal of causing other, real people, pain.

But I do not think the majority of people, even those who talk about "harvesting tears" as you express it, are like that.

From the few weeks I've read these forums before deciding to sign up, I've come to the following conclusion:
I think it is entirely within the "rules", within the "expected" of this game that people seek the destruction of other people's ships. For income, or fun, for example. According to the forums the victims of such actions occasionally feel mistreated, as real person, and complain a lot.
I think all the "harvesting tears" talk is just a coping mechanism. The ship-destroying person, while experiencing such complaints the first time, probably was shocked at how a harmless action within the normal gameplay of this game caused such accusations. Even if people think (edit: or know) they are in the right, such accusations can get to them, I know that to be true for me at least.
So the attitude of the pirates may just be to reassure themselves and their likes that what they are doing is not wrong.

From a possibly small start it probably escalated over time to the situation we see now.


Ok, that was pretty long for "I doubt most of them are that bad, they're just big-mouthed".



I've just realized this was off-topic, haha XD
On-topic I can only say I've seen worse on other forums, though in the end it's always the same. People disagreeing with each other, repeating the same arguments over and over. It's not even really escalating much here, from what I've seen so far.
Erica Dusette
Division 13
#200 - 2014-02-27 08:38:25 UTC
Riyria Twinpeaks wrote:
I am new here, so you may disregard my opinion, but I have to agree that it's outside the scope of gaming when people have the explicit goal of causing other, real people, pain.

I think that cuts both ways really. If someone allows a mere game to become a conduit that results in them experiencing real-world pain or heartache easily then I'd argue that person is actually the one with the bigger issue.

Also, welcome to EVE. Smile

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