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Do you get tired of it all?

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Ishtanchuk Fazmarai
#41 - 2011-11-08 14:52:51 UTC
To the OP, I can figure a few activites that likely wouldn't bore you, but the best one I can think of is this:

This will never bore you

It's relatively easy to master and even succeed, and success won't bore you for a long while.

Roses are red / Violets are blue / I am an Alpha / And so it's you

Lharanai
Fools of the Blue Oyster
#42 - 2011-11-08 14:55:38 UTC
Jenshae Chiroptera wrote:


I also realised that we believe in evolution, yet we make such efforts to keep the dim and the feeble alive and breeding. Question




sigh, another pseudoscientist who thinks he understoods evolution and misunderstood Darwin, and before you flame, I am an evolutionary biologist researching for now 15 years and I have no clue about evolution, just some poor concepts and theories.

Seriously, don't take me serious, I MEAN IT...seriously

Rishard DuMonte
Maelstrom Crew
#43 - 2011-11-08 15:00:45 UTC  |  Edited by: Rishard DuMonte
Me thinks OP got bored with his Custom Designer "Sexy Bites" vampire fangs and is going through serious Halloween post partum depression (take a shower... that'll get the "Edward Cullen Golden Sunset" glitter off your skin and make you feel soooo much less cranky).

Also...

You're doing the sex thing wrong.


On the off chance you're serious... pick up the phone. Call your doctor and say "I feel depressed and I need help". It's the hardest step to take, but it's the beginning of feeling better.
Carceret Rinah
Federal Defense Union
Gallente Federation
#44 - 2011-11-08 15:00:45 UTC
OP, I think you either have undiagnosed depression (seek psychiatric help, medication) or you are just too risk-averse to take one of your pursuits all the way. "Getting bored" with something you're succeeding at may be your mind's defense mechanism against aiming for the top spot, where people will look at and judge you.

Win ALL the archery tournaments, ballroom dances. Build your own bows, invent new dances. Forget jobs, start your own business. Write your own books. Family? Adopt a poor kid from Africa or SE Asia. People are boring? Raise your child to be interesting, and a game-changer. EVE, aim to dominate it through your own corp or alliance. Or quit, video games may somehow be reinforcing an unhealthy mindset. Try "Go".
Jenshae Chiroptera
#45 - 2011-11-08 15:11:44 UTC
Ishtanchuk Fazmarai wrote:

I prefer the Marilyn Manson version
Rishard DuMonte wrote:
I... and when you die, because we all die someday, it's your kids and the wenches that bear them who will carry on your noble name and sing songs of your deeds in this life. ...

Do you know the names of your great great grand parents maybe not even your great grand parents? Then you might have some portraits, fading photographs, fuzzy stories and ... yet you don't know them. Didn't meet them.
Even the names we all do know; so what? I can name only a few Chinese people of "importance" I am sure they know a good few more but that also comes down to education. I doubt most of the world know more than a few handful of names and probably have busy enough lives not to care.

So that is meaningless.
Carceret Rinah wrote:
OP, I think you either have undiagnosed depression (seek psychiatric help, medication) or you are just too risk-averse to take one of your pursuits all the way. "Getting bored" with something you're succeeding at may be your mind's defense mechanism against aiming for the top spot, where people will look at and judge you.

Not depression, more the thing is ahedonism, which they don't know if it is chemical, some psychological block or physical, which ever it is there aren't enough cases to justify the research and they don't have a treatment for it.

Carceret Rinah wrote:

Try "Go".


I play to a 17K handicap and don't improve. Occasionally, play it socially now.

CCP - Building ant hills and magnifying glasses for fat kids

Not even once

EVE is becoming shallow and puerile; it will satisfy neither the veteran nor the "WoW" type crowd in the transition.

Rishard DuMonte
Maelstrom Crew
#46 - 2011-11-08 15:18:21 UTC
Roll
Yarton Killmore
Federal Defense Union
Gallente Federation
#47 - 2011-11-08 15:27:23 UTC
I love the internet.... it is simply awesome......

Jenshae Chiroptera
#48 - 2011-11-08 15:28:50 UTC
Yarton Killmore wrote:
I love the internet.... it is simply awesome......


It was better.

CCP - Building ant hills and magnifying glasses for fat kids

Not even once

EVE is becoming shallow and puerile; it will satisfy neither the veteran nor the "WoW" type crowd in the transition.

Temujins
Center for Advanced Studies
Gallente Federation
#49 - 2011-11-08 16:01:45 UTC
The only thing you are good at is spending lots of time being a forum ho Big smile

Am I hating on you? Probably, mainly for coming off as a very annoying armchair general.
Jenshae Chiroptera
#50 - 2011-11-08 16:04:55 UTC
Temujins wrote:
The only thing you are good at is spending lots of time being a forum ho Big smile

Am I hating on you? Probably, mainly for coming off as a very annoying armchair general.


Do you think there are too many people that might as well be in wheel chairs for all the time that they spend on the computer? As for lots of time, I read quite quickly, (comes with reading books for leisure) and I touch type. Blink

CCP - Building ant hills and magnifying glasses for fat kids

Not even once

EVE is becoming shallow and puerile; it will satisfy neither the veteran nor the "WoW" type crowd in the transition.

Temujins
Center for Advanced Studies
Gallente Federation
#51 - 2011-11-08 16:11:12 UTC
Lets see...
Fast reply: check
Multiple quotations for internet argument: check
Inflated Ego: check

I rest my case. Have a nice day. I'm done here.
Jenshae Chiroptera
#52 - 2011-11-08 16:15:46 UTC  |  Edited by: Jenshae Chiroptera
Temujins wrote:
Lets see...
Fast reply: check
Multiple quotations for internet argument: check
Inflated Ego: check

I rest my case. Have a nice day. I'm done here.


Fast reply - forum tells you when someone has replied to your thread.
Multiple quotations - since I was busy with other things and replied to multiple people in one post.
Inflated Ego - you don't have one when you realised you are squandering your life.

You didn't answer the question, just seem to have made a post as bait to justify your own perceptions. assumptions.

CCP - Building ant hills and magnifying glasses for fat kids

Not even once

EVE is becoming shallow and puerile; it will satisfy neither the veteran nor the "WoW" type crowd in the transition.

Caerulean
no smoking allowed
#53 - 2011-11-08 16:45:34 UTC  |  Edited by: Caerulean
I've been playing Eve for years, largely because it's one of the few games out there that provides a challenge and doesn't follow the formula, "follow prearranged path, execute action, continue along path(s), gain sense of achievement, buy new game." From time to time I burn out on Eve after having tried most of the possibilities. I go away for a bit, come back, resub, repeat. The only other games that I really enjoy and come back to consistently are the complex grand strategy games like Victoria 1 and 2, Hearts of Iron, etc. You could try those.

Boredom is one of the modern world's most powerful motivators I've recently learned. We bend over backwards to avoid it, even if dealing with it would be far simpler. It's the reason for much of the world's ignorance, apathy, general nihilism, and perhaps even malnutrition. When we are not stimulated or entertained we either frantically search for something to return to that state, or we feel that we lose some kind of meaning or enjoyment in life, when the reality is that meaning and joy are created or found by us and what we choose to place them in or into them.

There will always be books, and I've found there are too many to read in a single lifetime, even if just read once - and the best ones deserve to be read more than a single time, or perhaps in their native tongue, which takes years of preparation and brings an entirely new reading.

Explore the dying world of music which few people really actually delve into these days. Most people don't realize that art music is still alive, let alone the intricacies involved in it, and tend to shirk it for arbitrary reasons: ignorance, boredom, difficulty, lack of perceptual grounding, etc.

Some people, when they find that there's something missing in the world, create something to fill in the gaps. Gaps they fill, not only in the world or in others, but in themselves that they feel must absolutely, unequivocally be dealt with. It's from this that meaning and purpose are derived. And it's a difficult path that takes dealing with adversity, boredom, and even death, but those bring more meaning still. It's all about choices and the perception of choices.

I was once told that the two most important questions ever asked were Plato's "What is a human being?" and Kierkegaard's "Why should I get out of bed in the morning?" I've realized over the years, that those questions are one in the same, with the same ambiguous, protean, amoebic answer that you have to nail down to the floorboards daily with spikes of sweat and sinew and brain matter just to even get a glimpse of it. You may search and search for it and never find it, but one day, unexpectedly, there it is again, come out of hiding to slap you in the face to remind you that you're a fool and that it only matters when you choose to be open to seeing it.
Nu Wa
Backyard United
#54 - 2011-11-08 16:56:10 UTC
Jenshae Chiroptera wrote:
Temujins wrote:
Lets see...
Fast reply: check
Multiple quotations for internet argument: check
Inflated Ego: check

I rest my case. Have a nice day. I'm done here.


Fast reply - forum tells you when someone has replied to your thread.
Multiple quotations - since I was busy with other things and replied to multiple people in one post.
Inflated Ego - you don't have one when you realised you are squandering your life.

You didn't answer the question, just seem to have made a post as bait to justify your own perceptions. assumptions.


I believe you are walking into his trap there m8. Any further direct argument from you further cements his point in the eyes of rest of us.

Interesting topic you have here. I would like to echo the point already made by others here: it isn't about the magnitude of your achievements or how glorious it is in respect to the social norm. Personal happiness, I think, is a state of mind.
Maybe you have to figure out what that is....
For some people it is simple like finishing painting a tree house..other getting a degree....maybe some find fulfillment in getting recognition/respect from other people (which in my opinion is the case here, but I could be wrong)

My point is that only you can figure out what makes you fulfilled.
Wish you the best.
Opertone
State War Academy
Caldari State
#55 - 2011-11-08 17:02:30 UTC
to OP, yes, you do get tired of all this

if you IQ is >>130

you can't read if you are a chimpanzee

This post sums up why the 'best' work with DCM inc.

WARP DRIVE makes eve boring

really - add warping align time 300% on gun aggression and eve becomes great again

David Grogan
University of Caille
Gallente Federation
#56 - 2011-11-08 17:13:06 UTC
Jenshae Chiroptera wrote:
I have been getting tired and bored of EVE lately.

Didn't log in all of last week. Logged in yesterday and was ganked then last night our POS was robbed. Just makes me so weary.
I tend to get bored and move on to something else as soon as the intellectual challenges and learning are mostly over. For example, I got to the top level of amateur ball room & Latin dancing before quitting that, while my art got to a point where people were hanging it on their walls but in that case I knew if I kept practising it, I would become technically sound but never exceptional as I didn't have that feel for it. Archery? Won a tournament, did culling, bored. I could bore you with the list of different things that I have done, probably easier to list the things that I haven't done.
I have no interest in getting married, having children and such. I had a job that remunerated me well enough that I paid off a relative's farm for them and grew up in a family that was challenging on one side and wealthy on the other. Jobs too, get bored, dissatisfied, fired or quit. I have never felt a sense of accomplishment.
I used to read about 250 books a year, some 40% of them were non-fiction.
People bore me, they have the same pet topic, the same lives they live week after week (I do this too, since I opted out, so not saying I am better than them) and most of them just regurgitate the media.

So what is next?
I don't see any games that call to me any more. Just version # of game Y. The mechanics are all the same, organising volunteers to do things in MMOs is a nuisance (I have run a large and successful group / "guild" before). I have done most things in EVE, made final products from PI items, I have positive standing with a NPC null sec faction, I have made things, mined, PVPed, et cetera.

Anyone doing anything interesting that they can recommend?


if you so good at mastering stuff... try solo an incursion site :P

Everytime you buy something that says "made in china" you are helping the rising unemployment in your own country unless you are from china, Buy locally produced goods and help create more jobs.

Jenshae Chiroptera
#57 - 2011-11-08 18:03:14 UTC
Caerulean wrote:
... and Kierkegaard's "Why should I get out of bed in the morning?" ...


Reminded me of this.
Good post, thanks.

David Grogan wrote:
if you so good at mastering stuff... try solo an incursion site :P


BlinkP

CCP - Building ant hills and magnifying glasses for fat kids

Not even once

EVE is becoming shallow and puerile; it will satisfy neither the veteran nor the "WoW" type crowd in the transition.

Akrasjel Lanate
Immemorial Coalescence Administration
Immemorial Coalescence
#58 - 2011-11-08 18:31:57 UTC
If you tired...

Can i have your stuff ?

CEO of Lanate Industries

Citizen of Solitude

Evei Shard
Shard Industries
#59 - 2011-11-08 19:20:55 UTC
Seems you are looking for something to do in life in general, not just Eve.

Within Eve, I'd suggest helping out newbies. The tutorials still aren't the greatest, and they still have tons to learn when they are truly new.

Write your experiences into your own book or "Isk" type information dump. Focus it on the subjects you know the most about, and detail why you feel your opinions formed and then provide facts to back them up.
Visit every system in Eve (I hear it takes two months).
Create a program that is a hybrid between Evemon and EFT that allows users to put together a ship fitting and then shows them what skills they need to train to fly that exact fit (and if it is possible at all in the first place).
I realize that EFT does this, but having a program that does that and then creates the skill queue's etc like EveMon could benefit a lot of people. Heck, make it web-based.

Outside of Eve: Learn to work with metal and stone. Make small ornate display pieces that use copper, brass, and silver. Incorporate semi-precious gemstones into the piece (brass tree, jade leaves. LOTS of them). This of course is a heavy startup fee. If you want cheap-er, get a Dremel or similar tool, some hand size pieces of Jasper (not JaspeT, JaspeR) or Agate, a five dollar box of diamond carving tips, a tub of water, and learn to carve and polish stone.

Beyond that and the other suggestions that people might make, examine your reaction to each suggestion. If you find you are making excuses for every single one as to why you can't, then you need to look a bit further into your attitude/state-of-mind.
It doesn't matter what people suggest, if you believe you can't do anything, you're going to find you are right.

Profit favors the prepared

Mystical Might
Eclipse Pulsar
Fraternity.
#60 - 2011-11-08 19:25:39 UTC
I don't believe you've ever felt the satisfaction of giving me everything you own, EvE Wise.
Try it some time.