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Jayem See
Perkone
Caldari State
#1 - 2013-09-04 21:34:28 UTC  |  Edited by: Jayem See
I will preface this by stating that I have some very odd dreams. I dream a LOT. Pretty much every night - though it does go in waves.

I don't dream in the same way that most people do. I can't claim to "lucid" dream - I am not fortunate enough for that. I do however dream hard enough to dream in colour, with all 5 of my sense active, with also some level of awareness. I am not saying that I can control my dreams - merely that I have some influence over them.

If I have a dream that starts getting out of hand I can willingly wake up to avoid any horror.

I have had a couple of dreams that have been very disturbing - some I have gone with and some I have left.

I don't really want to know what people's dreams are - I am more interested to know if anyone else feels they have a level of control over their dreams. If they experience a level of awareness when they are dreaming.

Why am I asking this? Last night I had a dream that really affected me. I haven't been able to stop thinking about it today.

Edit - whilst I have had a couple of dreams that have affected me IRL - this one really stuck out.

Aaaaaaand relax.

Jade III
Sebiestor Tribe
#2 - 2013-09-04 21:39:34 UTC
Jayem See wrote:
I will preface this by stating that I have some very odd dreams. I dream a LOT. Pretty much every night - though it does go in waves.

I don't dream in the same way that most people do. I can't claim to "lucid" dream - I am not fortunate enough for that. I do however dream hard enough to dream in colour, with all 5 of my sense active, with also some level of awareness. I am not saying that I can control my dreams - merely that I have some influence over them.

If I have a dream that starts getting out of hand I can willingly wake up to avoid any horror.

I have had a couple of dreams that have been very disturbing - some I have gone with and some I have left.

I don't really want to know what people's dreams are - I am more interested to know if anyone else feels they have a level of control over their dreams. If they experience a level of awareness when they are dreaming.

Why am I asking this? Last night I had a dream that really affected me. I haven't been able to stop thinking about it today.


Wow, that's intense! I have had dreams that I still remember from many years ago, but I kept telling myself they are not real.

Sometimes I wish they were real. Like flying through space in my wolf, which would be awesome to do, but I have to live with the sad fact that it isn't real.

My adventure blog: http://lonewolfadventures.wordpress.com/

Jayem See
Perkone
Caldari State
#3 - 2013-09-04 21:48:43 UTC
I love dreaming and I am fascinated by it. It is almost as important to me as my real life. The horrible reality is that you can't describe them to anybody else.

It's such a shame - I would love to share some of my dream experiences via the Enterprise holo-deck.

Aaaaaaand relax.

Zimmy Zeta
Perkone
Caldari State
#4 - 2013-09-04 22:09:20 UTC
Back in the old days, I was one of /x/s dedicated dream interpreters on 4chan.
If a dream is recurring, it often holds a certain significance for one's life and we were often able to get quite a lot of information out of those dreams.
But the problem is, interpreting a dream would require very much very personal information (there is no universal meaning for most dream symbols- it is important what the dreamer himself associates with those elements), so whilst the whole thing was running smoothly on an anonymous image board with very satisfactory results, for anonymity's sake it wouldn't work on this forum.
But if a dream really bothers you and you are willing to answer quite a lot of very personal questions in the process, you could just make a throwaway forum alt for this sole purpose and I will try my best to help.

I'd like to apologize for the poor quality of the post above and sincerely hope you didn't waste your time reading it. Yes, I do feel bad about it.

Jayem See
Perkone
Caldari State
#5 - 2013-09-04 22:15:06 UTC  |  Edited by: Jayem See
Zimmy Zeta wrote:
Back in the old days, I was one of /x/s dedicated dream interpreters on 4chan.
If a dream is recurring, it often holds a certain significance for one's life and we were often able to get quite a lot of information out of those dreams.
But the problem is, interpreting a dream would require very much very personal information (there is no universal meaning for most dream symbols- it is important what the dreamer himself associates with those elements), so whilst the whole thing was running smoothly on an anonymous image board with very satisfactory results, for anonymity's sake it wouldn't work on this forum.
But if a dream really bothers you and you are willing to answer quite a lot of very personal questions in the process, you could just make a throwaway forum alt for this sole purpose and I will try my best to help.


Thank you - but no. I don't want this dream assassinating - it was so lovely I don't want it sullying.

From about 25 years worth of awareness of my dreaming, and a lot of them being extremely vivid, this one was very personal.

As I said - I was just interested in other folks experiences of dreaming. It is very important to me. I can't imagine living without it.

Ed: I feel for people who don't dream

Aaaaaaand relax.

Ishtanchuk Fazmarai
#6 - 2013-09-04 22:20:25 UTC  |  Edited by: Ishtanchuk Fazmarai
I barely dream, ever. I know this means that I don't recall my dreams, but that's the case, I dream less than once a month. That's good because when I dream, I am quite tired the next morning, as if I hadn't slept well.

Most of my dreams are aware -I am aware that I'm dreaming, that it's early morning, and I can stop them at will, like a movie. Can't control them, though. Sometimes I can see my room through the dream itself. Usually dream in color and people in my dreams speak without words. I barely dream with persons and usually are strangers. There's a "recurrent" stranger in my dreams, but that's just because it's been to four of them over 20 years.

My most recurrent theme are impossible scapes; streets that lead into buildings, rooms that lead to rooms, often geometrically incoherent and quite convoluted.

I never have erotic dreams, nor horror dreams, nor adventure dreams, nor any other "themed" dreams. Once I had a nightmare, but was very short and incoherent and I was having a high fever at that time. Also once I failed to stop a dream and that was very disturbing, not because of the dream, but because it didn't obeyed me and kept going on albeit my eyes were open and i rolled on the bed (that's how I "turn off" my dreams, usually).

Roses are red / Violets are blue / I am an Alpha / And so it's you

Jayem See
Perkone
Caldari State
#7 - 2013-09-04 22:25:41 UTC  |  Edited by: Jayem See
Thank you that's exactly the sort of answer that I was looking for. What a great answer.

I do have a lot of recurrent dtreams that are so fantistcal they are ridiculous but I have them time and again.

Thanks for sharing that =)

Ed - what I was looking for in terms of someone sharing something they dream about a lot and how they experience it

Aaaaaaand relax.

Jayem See
Perkone
Caldari State
#8 - 2013-09-04 22:33:12 UTC
My dreams are variously erotic, real life, family based (I don't have a very big family) and very much related to flying.

I don't read much into them but I generally enjoy them very much. Again - I am not asking for detail on your dreams but just how you experience them.

Aaaaaaand relax.

Khergit Deserters
Crom's Angels
#9 - 2013-09-05 02:43:26 UTC
If you are aware that you're in a dream, and if you can also sort of consciously act to influence the dream, that's lucid dreaming. That's different than where you're kind of going in and out of the dream, quasi-awake, and thinking "Man, this is one f-ed up dream!" Or, "Crap, I've run into a dead in in this one, the rickety bridge is about to collapse under me... blink, I'm over in a different theme of this one." In a lucid dream, it's like a second reality, fully detailed and in a kind of smooth (but trimmed down and stylized) real time. And you the dreamer interact with the environment and make decisions as a sort of stripped-down, pure essence, archetypical version of yourself. In other words, you're not just having doggy dreams reacting to/sorting through the day's or month's events, you're in a trimmed down world with a trimmed down you, and making meaningful decisions about where you stand about all that. That's my personal interpretation, at least. Smile

Like about everything else, there's no bright line between shallow dreaming, regular dreaming, meaningful dreaming, lucid dreaming, or whatever other category we might think to invent. But, as far as I know, all of the mystical traditions around the world acknowledge lucid-like dreaming as a good sign. That includes charismatic Christian, N. American Native American, C. American Native American, Tibetan Buddhist, Vedic Hindu, Zen Buddhist, Indonesian islands animism with Hinduism or Islam or top, and Japanese Shinto. When you're as in control in your dreams as you are in the mundane daily 4 dimensions world, your mind/spirit is loosening and expanding into less restrictive places. Usually that happens because of taking some responsibility for one's thoughts and impulses, i.e. considering a few other things outside the norm.

Sorry, don't mean to sound professor-like, but OP and other posters went true Out of Pod Experience. Fearless posts deserve an honest post. Smile

NightCrawler 85
Phoibe Enterprises
#10 - 2013-09-05 02:59:27 UTC
Interesting topic, but very hard to answer without being to personal. However, i will do my best.

I dream a lot, as in more or less every single night. If i don't dream its almost a bit...confusing.
Many of the dreams i will remember for a short amount of time, or vague details, luckily most i do forget within a few hours unless i actually "think" about it.

Luckily because i normally have nightmares, and pretty bad ones. Its not uncommon that i wake up with bruises and scrapes on my body (especially my legs for some reason) and the size and placement indicates that i grab my self in my sleep (can outline bruises with my finger tips). Some i will wake up and feel just..sick. As in i feel a very strong need to throw up because the images/emotions are simply to strong, and i have woken up and felt very angry towards others if they happened to be a part of the dreams.

I havent been able to find any "remedy" for the nightmares, they seem to come almost no matter what i do, but it does not really affect my life all that much beyond the fact that i dread going to sleep at night and i feel like i need more sleep then other people.
I used to talk a lot in my sleep as well, and occasional sleep walking but at least the sleep walking seemed to have gone away once i reached adulthood. The talking in my sleep part seems to come and go.

But its been like this since as far back as i can remember, and there are still nightmares that i remember i had as a kid that still makes me go "What on earth was that all about?" Lol

However sometimes i do have dreams that are more like..fever dreams really. I know that its not real, and i can manipulate it to some extent. Like having a dream and suddenly being almost woken up completely by a cat jumping into bed, keeping the memories of the dream in my mind and going back to sleep and basically keep going were i left off. Very hard to describe and its very very rare i can do that. I don't have any control over the dream it self tho, just this..vague awareness that if i was awake i would have done something differently then what i do in the dream, or noting that something looks different then its supposed to (like,that mall is not at that location! or, there should be houses along this road as an example).

But well, interesting topic. Hope this was the kind of response you were aiming for Smile
Kehro Urgus
Dark Nebula Academy
O X I D E
#11 - 2013-09-05 07:47:45 UTC
I am one of those people who are prone to sleepwalking. It was routine when I was young but it still happens occasionally so to me the most disturbing dreams are the ones that seem real and I'm doing everyday sort of things. Everytime I have one of those dreams I wake up in panic mode because, well... somnambulists have been known to start fires, drive cars, injure or even kill people. I never have morbidly violent or unpleasant dreams but there's a recurring theme in my walking dream states. I do things in the kitchen which is potentially dangerous in itself or just plain weird or sometimes I will answer the phone or even phone people. I live alone but last time I woke up to find irrefutable evidence of myself stumbling around in my sleep was nearly two years ago where for some reason I decided to cook my deodorant in the microwave.Shocked Took about a month to get the perfumey smell out of the damn thing. For safety's sake I put a lock on my bedroom door just after that. Oops

Yeeee! 

Ishtanchuk Fazmarai
#12 - 2013-09-05 08:35:46 UTC
Kehro Urgus wrote:
I am one of those people who are prone to sleepwalking. It was routine when I was young but it still happens occasionally so to me the most disturbing dreams are the ones that seem real and I'm doing everyday sort of things. Everytime I have one of those dreams I wake up in panic mode because, well... somnambulists have been known to start fires, drive cars, injure or even kill people. I never have morbidly violent or unpleasant dreams but there's a recurring theme in my walking dream states. I do things in the kitchen which is potentially dangerous in itself or just plain weird or sometimes I will answer the phone or even phone people. I live alone but last time I woke up to find irrefutable evidence of myself stumbling around in my sleep was nearly two years ago where for some reason I decided to cook my deodorant in the microwave.Shocked Took about a month to get the perfumey smell out of the damn thing. For safety's sake I put a lock on my bedroom door just after that. Oops


Man, that deo part just made me laugh out loud. You really hate that bastid, don't you? Lol

My favorite sleepwalking tale is of a friend who had an habit to go sleep at the bathtub. One night, he turned on the faucet (probably just stumbled on it) and had a very frightening and very wet wake up... Lol

Roses are red / Violets are blue / I am an Alpha / And so it's you

Shalua Rui
Rui Freelance Mining
#13 - 2013-09-05 08:44:52 UTC
Uh, dreams... nice topic.

I was prone to very vivid dreams when I was younger... especially in my early 20'ies... some of those dreams did really effect me.... physically, I mean. Heart pounding fear, happyness, exhilaration and... well, other effects Blink... some of which have been the strongest of their sort I ever experienced in my entire life. Funny thing, my dreams never seamed to be coherent in any way, nor was I ever able to control them, but sometimes their emotions would stay with me and set my mood for days.

I contrast, on a few occasions I had dreams that where extremly coherent and detailed... in those I lived through, what seemed an entire life as another person... those are among the dreams I remember best, actually... well, them and fever dreams, which mostly been fantasy/horror stories. Blink

Nowadays I rearly remember what I dream, though... kind of a pitty, I think. The brain is amazing, isn't it?

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Kehro Urgus
Dark Nebula Academy
O X I D E
#14 - 2013-09-05 09:40:52 UTC
Ishtanchuk Fazmarai wrote:


Man, that deo part just made me laugh out loud. You really hate that bastid, don't you? Lol

My favorite sleepwalking tale is of a friend who had an habit to go sleep at the bathtub. One night, he turned on the faucet (probably just stumbled on it) and had a very frightening and very wet wake up... Lol



It's like living with a very strange person but I wouldn't mind if I made some breakfast for myself before I woke up. Just not a pool of melted armpit deodorant. X

Yeeee! 

Alpheias
Farmhouse.
Fraternity.
#15 - 2013-09-05 09:50:01 UTC
In my dreams, I am always happy, always smiling, and never throw a fit at stupid people. Then I suddenly wake up, heart racing, soaked in sweat and hyperventilating.

I have some very strange dreams.

Agent of Chaos, Sower of Discord.

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Eurydia Vespasian
Storm Hunters
#16 - 2013-09-05 16:32:19 UTC
i have stupid dreams.

anything from dinosaurs chasing me. driving my car around while a blanket, with a life of its own tries to blind me or cut off my air or i'm like super cool secret spy chick with night vision sniper rifle and my mission is to kill gerbils. they rarely make any sense. i sometimes have painful ones revolving around my childhood home. but they aren't always bad. sometimes they are bittersweet.

but often i can make no sense of my dreams. i just had one last night where i was at a park and a hispanic guy was trying desperately to show me a tattoo. and i just didn't want to see it. "look tattoo!" and i was all like 'no, thank you." "LOOK AT TATTOO!" i say, "please go away." and he did...but he just went to another bench and he stared at me very sullenly and i woke up feeling bad. lol
Shalua Rui
Rui Freelance Mining
#17 - 2013-09-05 16:40:25 UTC
Woah... that would be fun to analyse... but we don't fdo that here. Blink

When I was a child, I sometimes dreamt of a dog chasing me down the street where our hosue was... I hated that dream, but I guess it's a classic.

"ginger forum goddess, space gypsy and stone nibbler extraordinaire!" Shalua Rui - CEO and founder of Rui Freelance Mining (RFLM)

Alpheias
Farmhouse.
Fraternity.
#18 - 2013-09-05 16:41:39 UTC
Eurydia Vespasian wrote:
i have stupid dreams.

anything from dinosaurs chasing me. driving my car around while a blanket, with a life of its own tries to blind me or cut off my air or i'm like super cool secret spy chick with night vision sniper rifle and my mission is to kill gerbils. they rarely make any sense. i sometimes have painful ones revolving around my childhood home. but they aren't always bad. sometimes they are bittersweet.

but often i can make no sense of my dreams. i just had one last night where i was at a park and a hispanic guy was trying desperately to show me a tattoo. and i just didn't want to see it. "look tattoo!" and i was all like 'no, thank you." "LOOK AT TATTOO!" i say, "please go away." and he did...but he just went to another bench and he stared at me very sullenly and i woke up feeling bad. lol


I have always pictured you more like this :p

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Mizhir
Devara Biotech
#19 - 2013-09-05 16:48:01 UTC
My dreams are quite random. But they often either include something related to what has recently happened (Like last night where I dreamt I drove a planetside 2 tank around in some city) or something from way in the past. Rarely something from in between.

However onething that really bothers me is when I dream of falling. Which results in me waking up with a chock and my entire body making a little jump. I find it quite odd because I am usually not that scared of heights... Only when riding horses. Then suddenly the small Icelandish horses feels pretty tall Lol

Another thing is that I sometimes dream that I am another person. I have even dreamt that I have been Miz a few times.

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Mizhir
Devara Biotech
#20 - 2013-09-05 16:49:18 UTC
Alpheias wrote:
Eurydia Vespasian wrote:
i have stupid dreams.

anything from dinosaurs chasing me. driving my car around while a blanket, with a life of its own tries to blind me or cut off my air or i'm like super cool secret spy chick with night vision sniper rifle and my mission is to kill gerbils. they rarely make any sense. i sometimes have painful ones revolving around my childhood home. but they aren't always bad. sometimes they are bittersweet.

but often i can make no sense of my dreams. i just had one last night where i was at a park and a hispanic guy was trying desperately to show me a tattoo. and i just didn't want to see it. "look tattoo!" and i was all like 'no, thank you." "LOOK AT TATTOO!" i say, "please go away." and he did...but he just went to another bench and he stared at me very sullenly and i woke up feeling bad. lol


I have always pictured you more like this :p


Funny. I just imagined you like that after having a mental breakdown at the dinner with your inlaws P

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