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Problems in real life, and eve scams

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Handsome Hussein
#21 - 2011-10-14 15:10:58 UTC
I'm with Morganta, nail the ******* to the wall. That's a horrible way to handle other people's money and trust. Your suspicion is entirely natural in this case.

Leaves only the fresh scent of pine.

Herzog Wolfhammer
Sigma Special Tactics Group
#22 - 2011-10-14 15:15:13 UTC
CCP Wrangler wrote:
I don't trust anyone when it comes to money, or verbal promises. However that comes from other things than EVE Online or other games. Keep in mind that everyone here role plays a bit. They don't all run around and think they're really space ship pilots or anything, but in a game like this you take on a persona that's not necessarily who you are in real life. Granted, it can be who you'd like to be in real life. But if you meet players in real life at Fanfest or player gatherings and such, the guy who smack talks worse than anyone else in game or the guy who scammed people out of a billion ISK will usually turn out to be a quite friendly person. Some wont of course but that's life.

So in short, EVE Online shouldn't make you distrust people more than is healthy anyway. But never trust anyone in EVE, ever. Big smile



Sometimes I like to play this strange game were we are simple regular people living on Earth 23000 years ago. It's easy to get into, just CTRL-Q and you are there.


What I learned from Eve is NOT to have distrust, but HOW to have distrust.

There is a very very big difference. And from relationships to business, the inability to regulate trust and suspicion is a cause of much sorrow in the world.

Bring back DEEEEP Space!

Barakkus
#23 - 2011-10-14 15:24:44 UTC
In regards to your CC problem, you need to keep that number valid until all the refunds are processed, then you need to get a new CC number.

If you are using credit cards/debit cards for purchases on the internet, you absolutely should get your numbers changed every other year or so, if not more often. A lot of financial institutions offer temporary numbers now for online purchases. The amount of credit card information stolen annually from companies processing online transactions is staggering. No matter how large the institution, it will happen, and you should be taking preventative steps to avoid that kind of stuff yourself.

I limit my online transactions to 1 or 2 cards and get a new number once a year or once every other year. It's a good practice to get in the habit of.

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Sable Moran
Moran Light Industries
#24 - 2011-10-14 15:32:10 UTC
rodyas wrote:
Eve has destroyed that natural trust thing I usually have had.


From the tone of your post I take you consider that as a negative development. Trust me it isn't, you're finally growing up.

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Lord Ryan
True Xero
#25 - 2011-10-14 15:32:49 UTC
CCP Wrangler wrote:
I don't trust anyone when it comes to money, or verbal promises. However that comes from other things than EVE Online or other games. Keep in mind that everyone here role plays a bit. They don't all run around and think they're really space ship pilots or anything, but in a game like this you take on a persona that's not necessarily who you are in real life. Granted, it can be who you'd like to be in real life. But if you meet players in real life at Fanfest or player gatherings and such, the guy who smack talks worse than anyone else in game or the guy who scammed people out of a billion ISK will usually turn out to be a quite friendly person. Some wont of course but that's life.

So in short, EVE Online shouldn't make you distrust people more than is healthy anyway. But never trust anyone in EVE, ever. Big smile



Used to be part of a large Myspace Star Wars group, met some of the members at CIV in LA. If I could have took a picture of their faces! You know they expected obnoxious neckbeard. One guy actually logged in to tell everyone how nice I was, kind of ruined my image. For the most part they were a bit more normal than I expected too.

CIV is something like fanfest. Probably wouldn't do it again, was pretty much just a really expensive shopping trip. Really expensive shopping! I had to ship so much crap back home after I filled my suit cases.

Do not assume anything above this line was typed by me. Nerf the Truth, it's inconvenient.

RAW23
#26 - 2011-10-14 16:35:50 UTC
Eve has caused me to re-evaluate certain areas of my views on political philosophy but hasn't really had any impact on my views about people in society as it currently is. My political views lean towards anarcho-libertarianism, so the ideal state for me is one in which there is no formal governing structures and certainly no formal legal system or police. I know that this will end up being a messy and/or dangerous place to live but I'm more than willing to swap neatness and security for genuine liberty.

My views have solidified over the years partly due to reflection on the thought of a controversial American philosopher by the name of Leo Strauss. Strauss thinks that Western liberal democracy has an inevitable tendency towards 'descending' into anarchy but he also thinks that the inevitable next step from anarchy is tyranny. Out of the bloody chaos will arise nihilistic tyrants who will secure their positions both by brute force and by offering the safety and community that people will crave. His primary example for this whole trend of the decandence of liberalism leading to nihilistic tyranny is the fall of Weimar Germany and the rise of the Nazis. Now, details aside, I think his analysis has a lot going for it but I disagree with him on one key point. Strauss thinks that humans simply cannot, in general, be trusted to not **** each other over (and especially to not **** over the intellectuals - Strauss' own tribe). As such, he thinks the way to avoid the terrible consequences is to ensure that liberal democracies are controlled from behind the scenes by an intellectuall elite who will propagate various codes of conduct and ethics that will not be true but which the masses will take to be true, thus mitigating the dangers of giving them free rein.

Like Strauss, I don't believe in any objectively real values but I don't think his picture pans out fully because I also don't think that humans need fake values in order to not slaughter each other viciously. So, to summarise, Strauss and I both think that there are no real values but we disagree about how we think people would handle that realisation. Strauss thinks that genuine understanding of this shocking truth would unleash the worst actions mankind has to offer whereas I think that, in general, this realisation is a necessary one for human development and I trust humanity as a whole to get on with things in the absence of divine or state-mandated rules.

Obviously, playing eve was a bit of a wake-up call on that front. Big smile

Whilst I still have a general trust for the rest of humanity I must admit to having become rather more nervous about the initial results of removing morals and the legal system at the same time. I have been surprised by how many people in eve lack empathy for their fellows and relish causing them pain and discomfort, even when there is no direct benefit for themselves. Of course, the setup in eve amplifies any such tendencies and the player base is also narrow and self-selecting. But even so, I have to admit to being a little less comfortable with my views on liberty and values and a little more sympathetic to some of Strauss' fears.

There are two types of EVE player:

those who believe there are two types of EVE player and those who do not.

Bloodpetal
Tir Capital Management Group
#27 - 2011-10-14 17:34:49 UTC



I think you need to study some Buddhism.


It will pass. Nothing is permanent. Release.



It's just money. Money is just time. And your time is yours to spend.

Where I am.

Ammzi
Dreddit
Test Alliance Please Ignore
#28 - 2011-10-14 17:39:08 UTC
Zagam wrote:
CCP Wrangler wrote:


So in short, EVE Online shouldn't make you distrust people more than is healthy anyway. But never trust anyone in EVE, ever. Big smile


Especially people with vowels or consonants in their name.


numbers are cool?
Metal Icarus
Star Frontiers
Brotherhood of Spacers
#29 - 2011-10-14 17:41:31 UTC
I find that the people who accept scam contracts in EVE are the same type of people who would take a loan out from a bank without looking at the fine print.

You can blame trust all you want, but I think I.Q has more to do with it.
Zagam
Caldari Provisions
Caldari State
#30 - 2011-10-14 18:27:08 UTC
Ammzi wrote:
Zagam wrote:
CCP Wrangler wrote:


So in short, EVE Online shouldn't make you distrust people more than is healthy anyway. But never trust anyone in EVE, ever. Big smile


Especially people with vowels or consonants in their name.


numbers are cool?

Numbers are ok. But if your name is made entirely of numbers, you have other more significant issues.
gfldex
#31 - 2011-10-14 18:28:27 UTC
Ammzi wrote:
numbers are cool?


They are. So if you kindly write my name out in binary.

EVE made me think about and read up on trust. Astounding findings I had! Trust is just a feeling and thus synthesised in our brains. Some do it more then other. Some have problem doing it when folk don't look like them (poor hateful losers they are).

You can trust and you should. It's a healthy feeling. Just don't expect that trust to be justified for any long time. If somebody hurts your feelings get over it. Humans make good decisions and bad ones. Life will go on (until a clown with to much power starts a war ofc).

In EVE trust has very little meaning. It's all just numbers in a database. How strange that some whine and ***** about changed numbers! It's all about feeling,ain't it? Changing the itemid of ones ship can cause very strong feeling. Hail our new binary overloads!

If you take all the sand out of the box, only the cat poo will remain.

Comrade Sesk
Kitsune Holdings Inc.
#32 - 2011-10-14 18:31:10 UTC  |  Edited by: Comrade Sesk
EVE has just been preparing you for the real world.

Tell me you think EVE ruined your trust after you go buy a pack of 24 at some corner store at 11pm and the clerk "accidentally" charges you 300$ instead of 32$ on a credit card bill. (Thinking you wouldn't notice the price in the little terminal thing you swipe your card through). And otherwise, the whole world is a scam-circle-jerk.

Reminds you of contract scams doesn't it? Read 400million but it's actually 400k.
Tanya Powers
Doomheim
#33 - 2011-10-14 18:37:04 UTC
CCP Wrangler wrote:
So in short, EVE Online shouldn't make you distrust people more than is healthy anyway. But never trust anyone in EVE, ever. Big smile


I don't trust you. Lol


Astrid Stjerna
Sebiestor Tribe
#34 - 2011-10-14 18:39:05 UTC
rodyas wrote:
So recently a company charged my credit card, everytime someone purchased from their store. I found out about and called them up. They said they would of course refund my money and I could get likea few free deliveries from them as well.

Worked in food services before, so I knew this was standard and from him talking could tell most likely they would.

But I have been scammed a few times in eve and usually dont believe it when I see a real contract in eve anymore.

So I realized I dont realy trust him as much as I should. Eve has destroyed that natural trust thing I usually have had.

He propably will give my money back since its real life and not a video game, but who knows.

Was wondering if anyone else has had this problem before as well. Like before going into work or at a meeting. Like thought of a recent scam from eve, then looked at that person, and said to themselves can I really trust this guy.



Call the agencies (Equifax, TransU, and...that other one that I can't remember) and ask them to put a credit-block on your card. They can set up a warning in the system that you, personally, must be contacted at a phone number you specify (and only at that number), and verify your identitiy before any charges can go through.

I can't get rid of my darn signature!  Oh, wait....

Grimpak
Aliastra
Gallente Federation
#35 - 2011-10-14 18:44:56 UTC
to be honest in these days, a healthy dose of paranoia goes a looooooooooooooooong way.

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[quote]The more I know about humans, the more I love animals.[/quote] ain't that right

Barbelo Valentinian
Federal Navy Academy
Gallente Federation
#36 - 2011-10-14 18:57:15 UTC
Deopheel Dalonne wrote:
rodyas wrote:
So recently a company charged my credit card, everytime someone purchased from their store. I found out about and called them up. They said they would of course refund my money and I could get likea few free deliveries from them as well.

Worked in food services before, so I knew this was standard and from him talking could tell most likely they would.

But I have been scammed a few times in eve and usually dont believe it when I see a real contract in eve anymore.

So I realized I dont realy trust him as much as I should. Eve has destroyed that natural trust thing I usually have had.

He propably will give my money back since its real life and not a video game, but who knows.

Was wondering if anyone else has had this problem before as well. Like before going into work or at a meeting. Like thought of a recent scam from eve, then looked at that person, and said to themselves can I really trust this guy.

What you are saying is that playing EvE has destroyed in you what makes our real life possible: implicit trust.

Tribal societies do not have implicit trust. By default, the position is: do not trust anyone who is not of your immediate family or clan.

Our modern society relies on the opposite position: by default, trust people and then start to distrust them only if you have material proof that they were dishonest. The massive increase in quality of life that we have experienced over the past 3 centuries entirely depends on that.

Where does that put EvE ?


Great post. There's a lot of silly bravado about EVE. Either it's just a ******* game or it's a miniature laboratory of the human condition.

Guess what? It's a ******* game.

It says absolutely NOTHING about the human condition. First of all, the human condition is largely based on trust, and most of the time that works because in the real world a) permadeath holds, and b) identity is trackable. Neither is the case in EVE, so it doesn't say a damn thing about "what people are really like" or any such nonsense.

It's the abnormal conditions of EVE (no permadeath, no trackable identity) that bring about the abnormal behaviour. And why not? It's a roleplaying game.
Tear Miner
Doomheim
#37 - 2011-10-14 18:59:41 UTC
LOL @ all the man children's comments about growing up.

"When I was a child, I spoke as a child, I understood as a child, I thought as a child: but when I became a man, I put away childish things."

Still playing Eve? Check.

rodyas
Tie Fighters Inc
#38 - 2011-10-14 19:00:55 UTC  |  Edited by: rodyas
Well thanks for the advice, it kind of is a funny story and could learn alot from it. Hopefully its not too off topic for the forums.

Well I usually keep tabs on finances alot through ATM machine reciepts. I was noticing alot of money was taken from it more then usual. So I thought I was hacked, and angry and messed up over, it can be hassle getting ne card I thought. So I call up the company and told them I thought I was hacked. So they go over my purchases. I had ordered from this company on friday, so he saiys this company then gas station then atm. I said ya those are my charges, he goes well you are not being hacked then. (He failed to mention that there were 12-20 purchases made not the 1 I had made.) So I live life with my money drastically being reduced.

A few weeks later, a letter from bank arrives. It is pretty thick, so I think the bank is mad at me, and not sure really why. So inside, I open the letter, and there are a TON of pos charges listed. I had no idea what those were and how they were made. I called the number on the bank statement. They said I needed a password, made one, which they quickly rejected. So I had to make an online account right then. On that it showed the companys name (culptrit) instead of pos charges. So I called them they were closed, so I wrote them an email, sayin card was stuck and they were making charges off of it. Go to bank, they said been too long since this happened wont deny any of them. You have to talk to comany.

They called me before they opened, and said they got the mail, and that I actually owe them money. They said people had ordered but their cards weren't charged for the purchase. So my two purchases werent charged and they were hoping I would pay for them.

I told then how my card was being charged 12-20 times a day from their company. He said uhm wait a moment, let me tell ya how credit cards company works. (tells me his wonderful story of taking family to walt disney world, making purchases and CC company denying the card) He said that applied to me, the CC would cancel my card if that happened. I said well dude the CC company thought it was perfectly normal for me to order food 12-20 times a day from you, and didnt cancel my card. He said well I see, we wil return you money once we get it straightened out, and I could get a few free orders. (Have had 1 so far.)

Also funny I emailed him, but he doesnt respond to them. Call him up he says he tried emailing back, with outlook, So I suppose I never recieved them.

Well hopefully it gets sorted out. Would be really nice. I still dont know how it happened, never heard of this before, so wanted to tell as well, not everything means you CC was hacked, sometimes this could happen as well.

Signature removed for inappropriate language - CCP Eterne

rodyas
Tie Fighters Inc
#39 - 2011-10-14 19:02:56 UTC
Tear Miner wrote:
LOL @ all the man children's comments about growing up.

"When I was a child, I spoke as a child, I understood as a child, I thought as a child: but when I became a man, I put away WoW."

Still playing Eve? Check.



had to do a slight edit

Signature removed for inappropriate language - CCP Eterne

Caulk H0lster
Kazakh Ministry of Wealth Redistribution
#40 - 2011-10-14 19:11:38 UTC
I'd say EVE didn't destroy your psyche in any way, it has in fact made you a better person. There is NOTHING WRONG with carefully protecting your interests in real life, even if it borders on paranoia. That is how you avoid getting screwed over by the shady mechanic, or the con-artist "investor" or the slimy car dealer.

At least where I live, in the United States, my experience has been that people are afraid to exercise their rights as consumers, or even as employees, because they feel they will lose the deal, or face some other sort of retaliation. These things do happen, and those fears can be justified. That is why it is very important to educate yourself, not just on your rights, but what your alternatives are when someone violates those rights. If you don't do these things, all the caution and/or paranoia in the world won't protect you indefinitely.

So if EVE is teaching you to be more cautious in your dealings with people, and encouraging you to educate yourself in how to protect yourself from scams and the like, even if that doesn't immediately extend into the real world for you, these are good things.

When this change happens to you IRL, some people might look at you differently, even friends ("...Wait, you're actually going to READ the contract...?"), but really that's ok. Chances are they just don't understand, but they might one day, when they find they really should have read something before they signed and get screwed because they didn't. All you gotta tell them is "I'm just protecting everyone's interests by making sure there are no errors." Or something to that effect, and they'll probably shrug and leave you alone.
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