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Crime & Punishment

 
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Does anyone feel bad?

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Winchester Steele
#41 - 2013-02-14 20:09:30 UTC
Agustice Arterius wrote:
The moment you take away accountability, the only thing left to govern one's actions is their own integrity.

I would say you passed.

It's completely different when the person isn't an ******* or is clearly sorta new/doesn't understand. True it is still part of the game, but as somebody pointed out, let's not drive them to commiting suicide here.

I have had similar instances, where afterwards, I might send the person money/let them have what was left over after the explosion. Have even made long term friends that way.


See I totally disagree here. It's a game where treachery is encouraged. I have an AWOX alt and I really enjoy kicking peoples sand castles down. IN GAME. In RL, I am happily married with 3 beautiful children, and I live and work with a great deal of integrity every day. To say that *I* as a RL person have no integrity because I awox'd some space pixels is the pinnacle of absurdity.

Accountability?? It's a video game, get over yourself dude.

...

Helican Vamberfeld
Federal Navy Academy
Gallente Federation
#42 - 2013-02-14 20:39:41 UTC  |  Edited by: Helican Vamberfeld
For what its worth:


I was scammed for the first time (and last) by my first CEO for over 2bil isk (Corp investment pyramid scheme to fund his terrible pvp habits.) I have had my hauler ganked (learned to fit shield extenders and invulns and warp-to-0), shown the error of my ways while being horrible at solo PvP (learned not to forget to load cap boosters), killed in a low-sec entry system (learned not to ignore my autopilot route). In 2009 I started an Industry oriented corp from nothing to having over 50 members in hi-sec and had over 13bil in assets stolen by a trusted associated with access to sensitive corp hangars (learned how to better manage Corp roles).

I spent most of my time mentoring my members through the nasty bits of Eve, working and FCing through grief-decs, ganks and scams, passing my experience and knowledge on to my members. Hoping to impart wisdom before they fell victim.

I took that corp and all the miners, carebears and n00bs in it to a null-sec alliance and built it into over 75 members and topped out the killboards four monthes running and made a ton of isk while I was at it. RL took a turn for the absurd and I gave all my members away to another corp in the alliance to be able to manage my time better.

The point is, if you learn, you will profit in this game. If you taught those players anything, your actions, however you may feel about them, may have done some good. I would though offer that the feelings you experienced could very well be used as a catalyst for improving the Eve experience for others as a CEO yourself. Personal code of honor is a good thing and you will find many who are like minded and will return the good works done with loyalty and service.

Just remember, loyalty and service should not necessarily translate into roles and access to corporate hangars. Trust, just not too much.

- HV
Savnire Jacitu
Abysmal Gentlemen
#43 - 2013-02-14 23:35:13 UTC  |  Edited by: Savnire Jacitu
I once found myself in a situation very similar to yours. I joined a corp with intent to kill them all, but they turned out to be pretty cool people. So after a week or so I just said, hey I was actually going to kill you all but I don't want to anymore. Left the corp and still keep in contact with the people.

Now I do my homework and work through alts. If they turn out to be a bunch of dicks flopping around in space then I proceed with my plans, otherwise I just quietly leave without them ever knowing what I was really there for.

Sabriz Adoudel
Move along there is nothing here
#44 - 2013-02-15 05:30:17 UTC  |  Edited by: Sabriz Adoudel
Only situation in which I feel remotely bad for setting a trap and pulling it off is if the target is brand new to the game. (e.g. 96 hour old toon, and I didn't realise that until after setting the trap)

If you have the skills and capital to fly a Hulk you are not brand new.

But this is EVE - a game with two rules.

1) If you can't afford to lose it, don't undock in it.
2) Never trust anyone unless you can punch them in the face IRL.

Your short-term employers broke both. TBH if I were you I'd have shot the pods too.



Edit: You can have a fun playsession in this game where you lose in-game wealth. I remember the first time I suffered a significant ship loss (only a Myrmidron but was a fair bit of my wealth at the time, maybe 20% of what I owned) - I found a highsec to C1 wormhole and thought 'Let's explore this'. Ran three sites, got jumped and popped in the third one by three competent pirates.
That play session was memorable. Had a lot more fun losing ~50m ISK than I would have had making 50m running l3s in the same time.

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IbanezLaney
The Church of Awesome
#45 - 2013-02-15 05:46:54 UTC
The feeling of guilt will pass.

If they undocked - they consent to being blown up.
No need to feel bad as you didn't press undock for them.
+ If they can fly an orca - they can afford the loss.

Remember - isk has no other purpose in eve except to be sploded one day.
You have helped the isk they have earned become meaningful instead of just a number on a screen.
Good work.




dark heartt
#46 - 2013-02-15 06:01:51 UTC
Never feel bad. Eve is a place where people will kill you for .01 isk if they could. It's cold and unforgiving and you need to be.
culo duro
Center for Advanced Studies
Gallente Federation
#47 - 2013-02-15 07:50:53 UTC  |  Edited by: culo duro
Mr Fuego wrote:
he did not appear to have much money left.

So we popped it


That is my favourite part of this thread.

Also it's fun to pop orcas.

I've starting blogging http://www.epvpc.blogspot.comĀ 

Valleria Darkmoon
Imperial Academy
Amarr Empire
#48 - 2013-02-15 11:32:00 UTC  |  Edited by: Valleria Darkmoon
Mr Fuego wrote:
I suppose I will see if I can contact them and give them a bit of isk, I am pretty poor myself. I guess I am not pirate material but that's alright I suppose I will just consider myself a pvper.

If you want to consider yourself a pvper you'll have to get over feeling bad for destroying other people ships, because it will happen a lot. You need to think of it as if you are a boxer, your opponent should not be getting in the ring if being punched in the face in this context is going to seriously bother him (in this case EVE is the ring). If you want to be a pvper in low sec get used to the idea of your sec status getting low, very low. Being -10.0, people often seem to feel like I deserve to lose my ships but I look at it this way: If you came to low with a point fitted you're here to fight, probably to gank some easy target, the fact it didn't go well doesn't entitle you to sympathy. Besides that you and I are in the same boat, the only difference is that if your sec staus is high it's because you care about it (some because it makes them feel they are "good" by having high standing) and I don't care about my sec status. Someone has to get this pvp ball rolling though and I'm willing to give it a shove, whether you're ready or not.

People are often hesitant to engage, I have no idea what is running through their heads but most people even sitting in an obvious place and seeming to me like they want to fight but for some reason will not lock and aggress me until after I attack them. Since I'm -10.0 they do not even face consequences for doing so, so I tend to have to give them some, shall we call it incentive...Being the first to engage will drop your sec status but no pvp happens if someone doesn't start it, so be prepared to open fire on someone who may not "deserve" it so to speak. The line between pirate/non-pirate, good/bad is blurred and often crossed and your security status does not reflect what you are, but don't for one second, think that sitting next to a neutral in low sec is safe because he has 5.0 sec status. Despite my -10 security standing I do live by a code of my own, it basically boils down keeping my word once given, although other than ransoms, I almost never give it. I'm a pvper first and a pirate second. I want the killmail from your ship but I want the ransom from your pod but a ransom demand is not worth a damn if it's not backed up by the threat to follow through if you're not paid. I don't scam and while I won't say I never suicide gank highsec carebears, it is very rare. It's up to you to decide where you draw the line, so what do you consider dirty play?

The alternative is to try your hand at fighting only willing enemies in high sec but in my experience these are often traps or docking games and even though not every fight is a trap a good deal of them are. Suspect flagging may have complicated things but someone else will have to help you there, it doesn't apply to me so I didn't bother to learn it.

Reality has an almost infinite capacity to resist oversimplification.

Agustice Arterius
Deep Core Mining Inc.
Caldari State
#49 - 2013-02-15 11:50:48 UTC  |  Edited by: Agustice Arterius
Winchester Steele wrote:


See I totally disagree here. It's a game where treachery is encouraged. I have an AWOX alt and I really enjoy kicking peoples sand castles down. IN GAME. In RL, I am happily married with 3 beautiful children, and I live and work with a great deal of integrity every day. To say that *I* as a RL person have no integrity because I awox'd some space pixels is the pinnacle of absurdity.

Accountability?? It's a video game, get over yourself dude.


You just proved my point.

You are not held accountable for what your character does, and you even made an alt so you would be held even less accountable, so you feel free to do what ever you want.

Some people play the game with real life emotions attached, others play it as the tough guys they can't be in real life.

I'm not saying it's a bad thing. It's what makes EVE what it is. Otherwise we would all be in high sec refusing to fight.

And EVE is more than just pixels on a screen, otherwise people wouldn't care how many titans are destroyed, or what the current price of a plex is. Clearly the majority of players have a larger tie to it.

Hence why some people flip **** if something is destroyed...others could care less.
culo duro
Center for Advanced Studies
Gallente Federation
#50 - 2013-02-15 12:46:33 UTC
Agustice Arterius wrote:
Winchester Steele wrote:


See I totally disagree here. It's a game where treachery is encouraged. I have an AWOX alt and I really enjoy kicking peoples sand castles down. IN GAME. In RL, I am happily married with 3 beautiful children, and I live and work with a great deal of integrity every day. To say that *I* as a RL person have no integrity because I awox'd some space pixels is the pinnacle of absurdity.

Accountability?? It's a video game, get over yourself dude.


You just proved my point.

You are not held accountable for what your character does, and you even made an alt so you would be held even less accountable, so you feel free to do what ever you want.

Some people play the game with real life emotions attached, others play it as the tough guys they can't be in real life.

I'm not saying it's a bad thing. It's what makes EVE what it is. Otherwise we would all be in high sec refusing to fight.

And EVE is more than just pixels on a screen, otherwise people wouldn't care how many titans are destroyed, or what the current price of a plex is. Clearly the majority of players have a larger tie to it.

Hence why some people flip **** if something is destroyed...others could care less.


Are you refering to Theory666?

I've starting blogging http://www.epvpc.blogspot.comĀ 

Darius Brinn
The Scope
Gallente Federation
#51 - 2013-02-15 13:08:15 UTC
After having been a high sec miner, failed industrialist, mission runner, pet for a now deceased big power block, and being laughed at, killed, chased, insulted, humilliated, lied to, looked down on and ignored, one day I sold all my stuff in our rented space, went out in a frigate, joined a small PvP corp and never looked back.

I hate each and every pilot out there, and would go through great pains to kill a mere shuttle or a pod. I condone blobbing, metagaming, Falcon and logistics abusing, logon trapping, spying, ruining the game for others, Local trashing, being generally uncool and depriving everybody of their toys and their fun and their kills.

I do honor ransoms and I don't scam because I find it boring and I have plenty of Isk, but that's about it. I just want to kill every single ship out there, multiple times, and throw countless frozen corpses to the heap I'm building.


Some men want to see the world burn. But I am not one of them.

I just want to widdle in the ashes afterwards.
Takseen
Federal Defense Union
Gallente Federation
#52 - 2013-02-15 13:32:54 UTC
Valleria Darkmoon wrote:
Mr Fuego wrote:
I suppose I will see if I can contact them and give them a bit of isk, I am pretty poor myself. I guess I am not pirate material but that's alright I suppose I will just consider myself a pvper.

If you want to consider yourself a pvper you'll have to get over feeling bad for destroying other people ships, because it will happen a lot. You need to think of it as if you are a boxer, your opponent should not be getting in the ring if being punched in the face in this context is going to seriously bother him (in this case EVE is the ring).


I feel a lot different opening fire on a wartarget or pirate(or anyone I can legally engage) in lowsec, than I would about ganking someone in highsec, vs shooting a "corpmate".
Its like the difference between Rocky beating up Apollo Creed in the ring, and breaking guy's fingers for a loan shark in a back alley.
Takseen
Federal Defense Union
Gallente Federation
#53 - 2013-02-15 13:38:28 UTC
Winchester Steele wrote:


See I totally disagree here. It's a game where treachery is encouraged. I have an AWOX alt and I really enjoy kicking peoples sand castles down. IN GAME. In RL, I am happily married with 3 beautiful children, and I live and work with a great deal of integrity every day. To say that *I* as a RL person have no integrity because I awox'd some space pixels is the pinnacle of absurdity.

Accountability?? It's a video game, get over yourself dude.


Interesting. Either you think you're not playing with real people, or you'd be ok kicking down people's sand castles down at the local beach too. Perhaps while wearing a pirate mask.
Friggz
Caldari Provisions
Caldari State
#54 - 2013-02-15 15:43:32 UTC
I'm more or less the same way. My first and only scam was in UO, a fake house selling scam before they could be traded securely. I felt like ****, and I've never scammed in game again.

Now, don't get me wrong, I'm not averse to pvp. I'd even be okay with griefing in hi-sec and war deccing mining corps to exploit them and all that fun stuff.

The line for me is I don't enjoy earning the trust of a person then betraying them. To me that crosses a personal line I have. Of course, anything short of that line is fair game...
AquSe PixKha
Perkone
Caldari State
#55 - 2013-02-15 23:46:30 UTC  |  Edited by: AquSe PixKha
Ginger Barbarella wrote:
Feel bad because of pixels on a screen? Hardly.

Feel bad to trying to drive a player to commit suicide while speaking on-stage at a gaming get-together?

Oh, right sorry... can't talk about that here.


I honestly feel like the whole "Pixels on a screen" fiasco is completely stupid.

-You're just a bunch of particles, why should you feel about cutting off a bunch of particles?-
-Your PP account is only a bunch of pixels on a screen, why the **** would you not give these pixels on a screen to me? No need to feel bad about it, it's just some pixels on a screen.
-Or maybe you want me to give me some of your bank notes and coins, those things are only a bunch of paper and metal!

The point I'm trying to say is that everything has value to it, a personal value, or a value that society gives it to the thing. And you feel sad about those pixels on a screen, you really do. These pixels on a screen can drive emotion, and that's what they do. They are a bunch of pixels on a screen, that you care about.


On topic: I didn't ruin anybody's day, just yet.

EDIT: Actually I thought about it, and I did feel bad once. This guy was friendly to me and gave me a fit and told me what I should do. And then one guy from my corp asked me to lure him into low-sec so I can kill him. Being a new player and using my professional SE skills I did lure him in by asking for help with missions. And he got killed, and there was a **** storm between him and the guy who asked me to do this. He didn't say a word to me though, but he is mad I would guess. I still feel bad because he was trying to be helpful, and I just threw him under the bus.
Jaxem Rau
Spatial Anomalies
#56 - 2013-02-16 04:57:57 UTC
Even if you feel bad you probably understand that this "freedom" of action is why a lot of people play the game. This game is famous for its hostile nature. You can decide if you are going to help other people in this hostile game or be part of the group that are in essence its villains. Player villains are what make the game challenging and interesting for the players. Do some people enjoy playing the role too much? Probably. But if noone wanted to play that part, Eve would become very dull fast.

-J
Sabriz Adoudel
Move along there is nothing here
#57 - 2013-02-16 05:55:47 UTC
I can't imagine how boring this game would be if noone ever tried to set devious traps for me.

I support the New Order and CODE. alliance. www.minerbumping.com

0racle
Galactic Rangers
#58 - 2013-02-16 18:43:09 UTC
"The silence is deafening."
Mr Fuego
Doomheim
#59 - 2013-02-17 07:27:11 UTC
Well this has been a very interesting thread in my opinion. I love that everyone has the ability to **** people over so badly. But I do not think I will be doing it anymore, thanks for the stories and helping me come to terms with the evil things I did. See you guys out there.
Sabriz Adoudel
Move along there is nothing here
#60 - 2013-02-17 08:06:45 UTC
Mr Fuego wrote:
Well this has been a very interesting thread in my opinion. I love that everyone has the ability to **** people over so badly. But I do not think I will be doing it anymore, thanks for the stories and helping me come to terms with the evil things I did. See you guys out there.



It's not doing nasty things.

It's creating stories. That's the reason every ship is built - to be exploded in a way that tells a story.


Signed: Someone that found an AFK Slepnir in lowsec last night with a 1400m ISK clone.

I support the New Order and CODE. alliance. www.minerbumping.com