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iyammarrok
Drunken Beaver Mining
Gnawthority
#41 - 2012-10-07 21:20:44 UTC
Shiroh Yatamii wrote:
iyammarrok wrote:


Freedom is a Birthright.



No, it is not. It doesn't exist in nature. Point to Freedom on the map for me, would you? It is an abstract idea created by human beings of particular societies, enforced by said societies. It doesn't exist as anything other than a social construct. It is a ticking in the minds of some, but not all, individuals. It exists in the mind alone.

If you want freedom, you must enforce it and fight tooth and nail for it. I'm sure even many Matari would agree with this. If I could take a stab at the issue, I'd also say this is where the concept of "freedom" differs between the Federation and the Minmatar: Gallenteans simply expect freedom to already be there, to exist naturally. The Minmatar fight and build for freedom, creating it.

By converse, as I do recall from my studies: the Amarrian concept of being "free" is being free of worldly restraints, being one with God. Enlightened, if you will.


Freedom is not a place, why would it be on a map?
Yes, Freedom is a concept, much like the concept of family, home, or the social and economic contracts required to make a workplace.

It is the concept that everyone, whoever and wherever they may be, is born with the inaliable right to freedom. The hereditary enslavement of any child, is in direct opposition the one of the very founding principles of the Federation, More it is horrific, and, even blasphemous.... Childbirth is often referred to as a miracle. Therefore, by definition, the birth of a new soul is an act of god. yet the amarrians take it upon themselves to punish children born of certain, primarily non-amarrian, heriatages for the simple fact that they were born.

I can understand why a supporter of the Cartel would argue that slavery is good and freedom is not a right... i get that profit is not something you'd want to cut into.

but really. if you intend to argue this particular point, you need to find a more feasible response than the one you have used here.

Yes, freedoms are enforced by law in 3/4 of the empires. arguing that the amarrians are right because in their empire such freedoms are institutionally removed by force is a weak platform to base such a response on, at best.

Not indicative of corporate policy unless otherwise stated.

Shiroh Yatamii
Alexylva Paradox
#42 - 2012-10-07 23:11:26 UTC
iyammarrok wrote:

Freedom is not a place, why would it be on a map?
Yes, Freedom is a concept, much like the concept of family, home, or the social and economic contracts required to make a workplace.

It is the concept that everyone, whoever and wherever they may be, is born with the inaliable right to freedom. The hereditary enslavement of any child, is in direct opposition the one of the very founding principles of the Federation, More it is horrific, and, even blasphemous.... Childbirth is often referred to as a miracle. Therefore, by definition, the birth of a new soul is an act of god. yet the amarrians take it upon themselves to punish children born of certain, primarily non-amarrian, heriatages for the simple fact that they were born.

I can understand why a supporter of the Cartel would argue that slavery is good and freedom is not a right... i get that profit is not something you'd want to cut into.

but really. if you intend to argue this particular point, you need to find a more feasible response than the one you have used here.

Yes, freedoms are enforced by law in 3/4 of the empires. arguing that the amarrians are right because in their empire such freedoms are institutionally removed by force is a weak platform to base such a response on, at best.


I am afraid you misunderstood my statements. I was not even trying to take a position on the subject (and I feel no overwhelming need to take a position, so do not ask me for one). Rather, I was trying to point out the cultural differences which may explain why this topic of debate just spins in endless circles. The four primary cultures of the cluster do not even have the same concept of what "freedom" is, so expecting one side or the other to agree with your definition is a tad arrogant.

For example, you call the Amarrian's instutions as "punishment". I am not trying to defend or deny the Amarr Empire on this particular point, but do realize that they do not view it as punishment. They view it as salvation. It would thus be wise in future debates and acts of diplomacy to keep such cultural differences in mind. If you want to get something from the other party in diplomatic discourse, it is wise to speak in a manner their cultural mindset can understand and is willing to work with. You will win no cards on the table by foaming at the mouth and calling their instutions (which have lasted and prospered for thousands of years) "blasphemous". Those are called "fighting words", and you can see how that has worked...
Amaki Mai
Doomheim
#43 - 2012-10-08 02:03:39 UTC  |  Edited by: Amaki Mai
iyammarrok wrote:

I apologise that it has taken so long for me to respond, but I am honestly astounded by the level of sheer bloody minded stupidity you are showing here.

In your own words you have utterly destroyed your own argument and enforced mine, all the while claiming in your self righteous tone that you have done the opposite.

I have numbered your claims, the IGS seems to dislike numerous quotes.

1)
A child has many rights, protected, even in the amarrian empire, and i daresay in the khanid kingdom, by law.
These rights include, but are not limited to:

Healthcare
Education
Protection from abuse, both domestic and outside the home
Clothing
Emotional support

Would you deny your child these things?

2)
I still remember the day my niece decided she was a vegan. No, children are not forced to eat specific foods, unless you would condone physically restraining your child and force it to eat.

3)
While in certain situations, Ceremonies, Legal proceedings, and a large percentage of school environments, this is true, You must not have spent much time around teenagers in their free time.

4)
Ah... 'submit to education' ... i kind of expected this, but here's the thing... an education is a right, not a chore. some people squander that right, choosing instead to follow different avenues of advancement, or regretting their choice in later life, but the provision for education is granted to any and every child within the federation.


I'm sure you mean well, even though you come over as a pompous, conceited, over-priviliged, clueless ass. I'll try to answer your points as you raised them (even though you were so verbose I can't do so in a single post) and I'll try to limit the sarcasm and offensive tone.

1. The 'rights' you have listed are privileges and not rights at all. Nowhere in this cluster are they universal nor as far reaching as you seem to suggest - not even in the Federation. Would I deny a child these things? I wouldn't, of course. I don't deny my staff these things, in fact I am paying to raise the child of one of them at my own expense, and that child will enjoy all those things - but they are not his right and his mother would not be able to provide them on her own.

2. Are you serious? I still remember Saede Riordan's tales about the starvation riots on Skarkon. I know for a fact that there are children starving to death in refugee camps in the Republic as we have this discussion. I certainly wouldn't have been permitted to waste good protein due to some faddy diet fashion. Physically restraining a child and forcing it to eat? How out of control ARE children in the Federation?
You're just starting to make yourself look ridiculous now, claiming that a child has the legal right to determine its own diet when most of the major societies cannot even guarantee a meal for each child every day!

3. Clothes are provided. Children wear them. Not every child has an 'allowance' they can take to 'the mall' to pursue whatever fashion is deemed socially expedient. I would counter that very few children, indeed, have that ability. My household was very traditional, as many households are. There was, indeed, a dress code at home.

4. Anything above a very basic education is far from a right. Certainly the levels of education you term Secondary and Tertiary education are provided on the basis of a child's performance or, more likely, the parent's ability to pay. Some societies provide a public fund for a gifted child to recieve an education their parents cannot provide for them, some companies have merit based education programs in return for a term of service - but these are provided as part of an exchange of some kind and not as a basic right.
Amaki Mai
Doomheim
#44 - 2012-10-08 02:08:26 UTC
iyammarrok wrote:

5)
You have certainly not spent time around children, teenage or younger. Most of them sleep when they are tired, and at no other time. whether they quietly read, play on the latest holo-box or sneak out for night-time forays with their friends, they rarely sleep 'at the time they are ordered to'
As for chores, yes, they do help with housework, such activities help them to learn responsibility, and are a standard part of any childhood. and yes, they recieve a weekly sum for those activities in many places, this helps them to learn the value of work, both things are intended to help them in later life.

My confusion here is how you would liken this to slavery. a slave recieves, by definition, no pay for their work, and are often abused or even killed for performing at a sub-standard during their given task. Would you condone this behaviour towards a child?

6)
I suppose you had to be at least mostly right in one of your points, even if it was the most irrelevant.
Yes, if they are lucky, a child lives with their parents, should the parents move, the child will, in general, move with them. I don't get your point here, a child cannot be sold to another, moved forcefully from it's family (unless the family is neglectful or abusive) or be forced to live in sub-standard accommodation (see: neglectful).
A slave cannot choose who it is owned by, where it lives, or report it's owner to the authorities for abusive or neglectful behaviour.

7)
Ah.. and this point. yes, at some point, a child gains more responsibility and more rights, and is thereafter referred to as an adult. The age and method of such changes varies from culture to culture, but it basically means the same thing.

However.. 'determined by their station in life' ?
When a child becomes an adult, they are free to begin to forge their place in adult society, There are very few cultures where the 'station' of a person is a function of their parent's place. of those that have such a system, the Jin-Mei caste system and the Amarrian system of slaveholding are the two that stand out the most.

8)
Let's see here. The most basic description of slavery?

The state of one bound in servitude as the property of a slaveholder or household

I've put a little emphasis there just for you.

Honestly, given your claim that childhood is the same as slavery, I sincerely hope you never breed ms Mai. No child deserves such a callous parent. Slavery indeed.


5. You have clearly spent your childhood in some sort of anarcho-commune. I come from a large family, so have spent most of my pre-Capsuleer life surrounded with children. Sleep when you're tired? Not if you're supposed to be worshipping, studying, working you can't! Why do you imagine that it is a universal condition that children have no responsibilities?

6. Children are neglected, sold and moved forcibly all the time. I will agree that this was the weakest point of congruence in my comparison, as most families are required to keep their children with them and under control, but there are many places where transfer of a child to a third party is perfectly legal.

7. Hillarious! Yes, of course a person becomes legally free to chart their own course at adulthood, but to pretend that every child begins equally is folly! Any child's starting socio-economic status is determined, in large part, by the wealth and influence of their parents. The child of a CEO and the child of a short-order cook do NOT begin to forge their future from the same starting point.

8. You have focused on my claiming that childhood is similar to slavery this, of course, was not the point I was trying to make, which is that Slavery has similarities with childhood. At least slavery as it is supposed to be practiced in the Empire. A period of diminished responsibility while a person gains a proper education and is raised to their true position in society which ends when that education is complete.


What have you proven? Only that you had a childhood that I recoil from in horror as an example of parenting that is more well-meaning than well achieved. You also prove that you had so many priviliges and benefits that you have ceased to recognise them as such, value them in anything but a vague way as 'rights' and that you live in blissful ignorance of the living conditions of most of the Cluster.

Honestly, I'm sort of apalled. Whilst you will or have, no doubt, turned out very well-fed and healthy children who know their parents care about them, I wonder whether such a lack of structure, discipline, responsibilities or actual involvement in their lives can have been entirely positive influences.

iyammarrok
Drunken Beaver Mining
Gnawthority
#45 - 2012-10-08 11:14:27 UTC
your argument bounces between extremes so often I'm having trouble believing you're not affected by capsuleer dementia.

The list of rights i stated are rights. set down in the bill of children's rights, and upheld as law throughout the federation.
if your parents did not follow a simillar set of rules, then that does not invalidate my point, it does however, mean your childhood was perhaps less of a childhood than it should have been.

you talk about Saede Riordan's claims of events in an ANGEL CARTEL controlled system, not in the republic. Do a little research.
You also purposefully misconstrue my question regarding physical restraint. I did not state, at all, that it is something that is ever done in Federation society. I merely asked if you condoned such actions, as you seemed adamant that a child should eat exactly what it is told, and be unable to show any level of individual thought or freedom.

you'd be surprised, while perhaps in your culture it is a failing that children do not have the ability to learn value and responsibility by being granted a monetary allowance, In my time with the Caldari, Matari and Federate peoples, i have seem a vast number of those who do. or who, at least, have the ability to personalise their clothing.
It begins to sound like your parents treated your childhood like a term of military service.

Primary and secondary, as you have termed them, educations are provided by the state within the Federation. If this is not the case in the khanid kingdom, then frankly, your system of education is lacking.

you once again misconstrue my meaning, this is either purposeful, or some form of defect on your part.
If you had been around children for your entire pre-capsuleer life, you would realise that until a certain age, (3-5) children nap quite often, and rarely sleep until they are tired enough, as time goes on they may go to their room and lie down 'when ordered to' but once again, they will rarely sleep unless they are tired enough to do so.

children are neglected sold and moved forcibly all the time? if this happens within the khanid kingdom then there are serious sociological problems that we have barely begun to scratch the surface of here. You should perhaps look into that.

While financially, you may be correct, in almost every other sense, should both of those children have performed well within their education, they have very simillar skillsets and knowledge. That is as equal a start as any could expect. You are picking at the smallest problems to attempt to damage my statements, and it is honestly sounding like you barely believe your own words.

yes. i focused on your claim that childhood is like slavery in that final point. that is because, the final point you made, after describing what sounded like a terrible and abusive childhood, was to state that it was the very definition of slavery.
you made the point. I argued against it.
what about this don't you understand?

you know nothing of my personal childhood, and i have at no point referenced my own childhood here. I would suggest that making such assumptions is likely to make you look even worse.
As i stated at the beginning of this post. Those things you mitakenly call privileges, are rights that are protected by law.
Do i live in ignorance of the living conditions in the 'rest of the cluster'? no. I understand fully that there are places where these basic rights are either witheld or unable to be provided. in places where they are incapable of providing such care, I, and many other capsuleers, provide aid and help. In those places where they are witheld, your kind are in power, and i pity those children.

as for a 'lack of stucture, discipline, responsibility [sic] or actual involvement' .... once again you assume too much.
The lives of children in the Federation have structure, school, homework, chores, free time etc all in a set pattern, as for discipline and responsibility, learn how to read. I went over these points in an earlier post.

Finally, actual involvement? while those parents I personally know in the federation are not draconian overlords, demanding that their children follow a military style regieme that makes demands on every aspect of their lives and is apparently designed to destroy their individuality, that does not mean they do not take an active role in their upbringing.
In fact, it is the Caldari and Amarrian peoples who make use of creche facilities and 'nannies' the most.

Before you start throwing stones, ms mai, make sure you are outside your glass house. you happen to have put some holes in it recently.

Not indicative of corporate policy unless otherwise stated.

Saede Riordan
Alexylva Paradox
#46 - 2012-10-08 15:36:57 UTC
I don't particularly have much of an opinion on this, beyond that which Mr. Yatamii has already stated rather eloquently, so I'm going to be just picking at particular statements that I have evidence that factually contradicts. I apologize if I seem to jump around in my quotes, I'm simply responding to the issues I see with your statements.

iyammarrok wrote:

you talk about Saede Riordan's claims of events in an ANGEL CARTEL controlled system, not in the republic. Do a little research.


Actually, the food riots occurred while the system was under Republic control. The Cartel stepped in and saved everyone when a few million people signed a petition asking them to come and help, since the republic had consistently and repeatedly ignored us. Its in the news archives, go look it up.

Quote:
you'd be surprised, while perhaps in your culture it is a failing that children do not have the ability to learn value and responsibility by being granted a monetary allowance, In my time with the Caldari, Matari and Federate peoples, i have seem a vast number of those who do. or who, at least, have the ability to personalise their clothing.


My clothing as a child was mostly second or third hand, given to me by a clan member or relative. While I had the ability to pick what to wear on a day to day basis, if I wore only the clothes I liked, they would quickly wear out and not be replaced. I never had any sort of allowance. Monetary or otherwise, and the majority of the children I interacted with were largely the same.

Quote:
While financially, you may be correct, in almost every other sense, should both of those children have performed well within their education, they have very simillar skillsets and knowledge.


That assumes education is remotely equivalent within different societal strata. It rarely is. In lower social classes, an advanced education is often impossible, and in fact the basic curriculum is often slanted to teach students what they should think, instead of how to think for themselves.

Quote:
The list of rights i stated are rights. set down in the bill of children's rights, and upheld as law throughout the federation.
if your parents did not follow a simillar set of rules, then that does not invalidate my point, it does however, mean your childhood was perhaps less of a childhood than it should have been.


Quote:
As i stated at the beginning of this post. Those things you mitakenly call privileges, are rights that are protected by law.
Do i live in ignorance of the living conditions in the 'rest of the cluster'? no. I understand fully that there are places where these basic rights are either witheld or unable to be provided. in places where they are incapable of providing such care, I, and many other capsuleers, provide aid and help. In those places where they are witheld, your kind are in power, and i pity those children.



The above comments make the classic mistake of natural law theory: it reads a particular set of values into the universe by the process of definition. Rights do not exist in themselves: they are the creations of human thought and action. You cannot state objectively what makes ones childhood 'good' and then assign rights to it, because there is no known objective measure for the best way to raise a child, regardless of the claims of your government. Your stated Rights are in fact privileges afforded to, not even the majority of the population, and I strongly doubt are even universally upheld within your Federation. Certainly I was not raised within adherence to all those 'rights' , and I suspect many, many others could state the same. Does that make the people who raised us wrong or bad? The answer is entirely subjective.
Amaki Mai
Doomheim
#47 - 2012-10-09 18:42:59 UTC
iyammarrok wrote:

While accusing me of hyperbole, makes great use of hyperbole.
While accusing me of making assumptions about his childhood, makes sweeping assumptions about mine.
While admonishing me to do some research before speaking, displays startling lack of knowledge.


See, up until the comment about Capsuleer Dementia, I thought you were simply misguided but now I'm convinced you're simply having fun at my expense.

I should have known when you claimed that not having the ability to determine their own menu was an infringment of a child's civil liberties. I REALLY should have known when you claimed that having a set bedtime and not being allowed to blow an extravagant allowance on clothes of their own choice was equally a breach of inalienable rights - when we both know that no such thing exist throughout the cluster.

But go on. Really. Make the sweeping assumption that the priviliges that pertain to an affluent childhood on a core world in the Gallente Federation are concrete rights that children in mining colonies, agricultural worlds and refugee camps throughout the cluster enjoy as a matter of basis.

I probably just don't understand because I was so horribly abused as a child.
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