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How many partners makes a woman a "*****"?

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Mukuro Gravedigger
Republic University
Minmatar Republic
#1 - 2012-07-05 00:46:02 UTC  |  Edited by: Mukuro Gravedigger
I work inside a factory where bitching about management, the heat and sweat, and the rampant gossip are part of everyday conditions. Since my job allows mobility, I get to talk to many people daily. So while doing my rounds, the latest gossip concerned a woman in her early 40s is labeled as a "whore" since she (apparently) has had five male partners in her time. Now being in my 40s myself, I always thought a whore was just another term for prostitute. Yet these gossip queens are anywhere from their 30s to early 60s, dropping this term onto other women like sailor's dropping f-bombs.

So am I old fashioned and behind the times?

Let's keep this simple: if you decide to answer, then please state your age bracket as teens, 20s, 30s, 40s, 50, 60s, etc and how many partners a person would have to be called a whore in your definition.

Thanks.

Edit: alright, apparently the word w-h-o-r-e is blanked out in the title and in the body. I figured I better edit in case someone thinks I was talking about another term for a female dog.
Shalia Ripper
#2 - 2012-07-05 01:36:39 UTC
Hourly, nightly, weekly, monthly, yearly or lifetime?

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Jada Maroo
Native Freshfood
Minmatar Republic
#3 - 2012-07-05 02:03:49 UTC  |  Edited by: Jada Maroo
I don't think it matters what number you're given. Going by my own friends, most would probably say 5-10 but that number should be multiplied by about 3 to be more accurate. Especially if they're in their 30s or 40s when nature plays a terrible trick and decides to give middle aged women the sex drive of 16 year old boys along with the fascination with MILFs and cougars in our culture making sleeping around a lot more acceptable.
AzEllenNemVed
Iberians
#4 - 2012-07-05 02:15:08 UTC  |  Edited by: AzellenNemved
Well now a days most women will burn trough 5-10 men in a year in their 20s and more if they consider themselves feminists, "somehow some women confused the feminist movement as a licence to shag like rabbits".

Not that I am against it, since I was the beneficiary of such a activity during my single years.

I have never been able to think of a woman as anything else but that a woman, what ever they want to do its fine with me it is their right and their body, so chicks keep shagging like rabbits there are millions of men out there that love the no ties experience! just dont complain when the guy never calls back because you were too damn easy.
Alara IonStorm
#5 - 2012-07-05 02:34:06 UTC  |  Edited by: Alara IonStorm
Whore is just jealous speak for player. Unless she is in six different relationships and secretly cheating on all of them, then she's a literal whore x6. But if there cool with it then she is just a player covered in man bitches awww yeeeah!

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MotherMoon
Tribal Liberation Force
Minmatar Republic
#6 - 2012-07-05 02:37:53 UTC  |  Edited by: MotherMoon
um. like a **** and proud of it? I don't know 2 new people a month?

I'm 24.


I'm curious why you dislike women who like sex as much as you do... hmmmmm

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Palovana
Inner Fire Inc.
#7 - 2012-07-05 02:59:34 UTC
Just one, if she is taking cash or drugs for the sex.
Jett0
Ministry of War
Amarr Empire
#8 - 2012-07-05 05:20:09 UTC
26.

These days, w**** is just slang for s***.

The stigma comes from an old idea that having many partners somehow devalues the act, and is indicative of low standards. While there are certainly people who fit this description, there are plenty (like MotherMoon here), who see it for what it is: An enjoyable experience two people can share. It can be on par with seeing a movie together, all the way up to one of the closest connections two humans (or more??) can experience. As long as both parties consent and understand each others' intent, I don't see the problem.

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Micheal Dietrich
Kings Gambit Black
#9 - 2012-07-05 05:29:34 UTC
Only five in a lifetime? I knew a girl who could handle that many men in a week. No joke, she was telling me about all her past boyfriends once and five minutes into the conversation the only thought in my head was Jesus **** this ones loose.

The whole thing is still a double edge standard. The guy scores a lot and he's the man. Girl does the same and she's a ****. A man's son gets laid and he high five'n the boy. Somebody lays his daughter and he's pulling out the .45.

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Morgorathi
Euaemon
#10 - 2012-07-05 07:04:44 UTC
You could be a **** and only have ****** one man. Its what you do not how many but with that said i would say you would auto qualify over 4-5 depending on age bracket.


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Sin Pew
Ministry of War
Amarr Empire
#11 - 2012-07-05 09:51:16 UTC
Early 30s here.

If it's 5 in a lifetime, I don't see the problem, if it's 5 at once, I'd say well done Lol
There used to be a time where women would be sought out with torches and pitchforks if they were single past their 20s, it's no longer allowed today, so some people fell back to all sorts of grievances with anyone not matching their standards.
You can't have a group of people fully agreeing on everything, there'll always be someone having a different opinion, whether they state it or not and sometimes, being different is enough to become the subject of all sorts of gossips and petty hatred.

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Copine Callmeknau
Callmeknau Holdings
#12 - 2012-07-05 10:28:15 UTC
5 over a lifetime?
I'd be more inclined to call her a prude than a whore

Of course if any of them actually paid her then ya she's totally a whore lol



edit: I'm 23 ^^

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Alpheias
Tactical Farmers.
Pandemic Horde
#13 - 2012-07-05 10:41:09 UTC
In my 30's and I would honestly be more concerned about males systematic inability to get her off if she literally wades through dozens of guys.

Either way, I really don't see myself having the right to point fingers or anyone else for that matter, especially those self-appointed, self-entitled and self-righteous moral guardians. I have never seen sex as this mythical nirvana that is a sacred rite to procreation or that women are maidens whose soul and body are meant to be innocent and pure.

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AlleyKat
The Unwanted.
#14 - 2012-07-05 11:34:37 UTC
Gossip is gossip, join in and just agree with them.

Next day it'll be somethng else they are gossiping about - it means nothing, just bumping gums is all.

If it were me, I'd make something up to entertain them.

Key to this is to find someone who no one likes and make something up about them, within a few days it will become so discussed and overwritten that the originator of the lie is irrelevant as the original lie would have been twisted to such an extent that it won't matter any longer...

Worked in a similar environment 10+ years ago...happy days.

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Gibbo3771
AQUILA INC
Verge of Collapse
#15 - 2012-07-05 15:02:10 UTC
I would not brand a women that has had 5 partners a whore.

I am 20, I have had one partner and still have. Been together since we were 13.

I brand a whore someone that sleeps with guys every weekend, or sleeps with the popular guy just cause everyone thinks hes cute or whatever.

Theres a big arguement that goes around that if a women sleeps with 5 guys in the space of 5 weeks shes a whore, yet if a guy does the same thing hes a legend. I believe hes an *******, not a legend.
Copine Callmeknau
Callmeknau Holdings
#16 - 2012-07-05 15:03:24 UTC
Gibbo3771 wrote:
I would not brand a women that has had 5 partners a *****.

I am 20, I have had one partner and still have. Been together since we were 13.

I brand a ***** someone that sleeps with guys every weekend, or sleeps with the popular guy just cause everyone thinks hes cute or whatever.

Theres a big arguement that goes around that if a women sleeps with 5 guys in the space of 5 weeks shes a *****, yet if a guy does the same thing hes a legend. I believe hes an *******, not a legend.

They're BOTH legends

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Sidus Isaacs
Center for Advanced Studies
Gallente Federation
#17 - 2012-07-05 15:10:53 UTC
Why keep branding people that like to have sex as something or other?

Just get over yourself :)
Khergit Deserters
Crom's Angels
#18 - 2012-07-05 15:27:19 UTC
Alara IonStorm wrote:
***** is just jealous speak for player. Unless she is in six different relationships and secretly cheating on all of them, then she's a literal ***** x6. But if there cool with it then she is just a player covered in man bitches awww yeeeah!

Cracked Article of interest.

Agreed. It's not the number of partners, but the approach to the whole thing. If the woman is being dishonest about it (for example, keeping one guy as her main, and lying to him that she's not sleeping with other people), then she's a 'ho. Or if she's doing it for some tangible benefit (like sleeping with somebody that she doesn't like, only because he has money or influence), then she's also a 'ho.

But if she's just promiscuous and upfront about doing her thing, then more power to her. Smile
Skippermonkey
Deep Core Mining Inc.
Caldari State
#19 - 2012-07-05 15:42:20 UTC
I think its more a judgement on yourself if you call a woman a whore

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Cutter Isaacson
DEDSEC SAN FRANCISCO
#20 - 2012-07-05 16:34:41 UTC
Damn, I'm 34 in a few months, and I've had a total of 10 partners in my adult life. By the standards of the people you work with that would make me a super whore. And I thought I was doing pretty well What?

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