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Do you hide your EVE addiction

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highonpop
KarmaFleet
Goonswarm Federation
#61 - 2012-02-15 14:51:59 UTC
Elistea wrote:
Nerd and Proud!



People (eve large governments) don't realize it but Nerds run the world.

FC, what do?

Lord Ryan
True Xero
#62 - 2012-02-15 15:09:20 UTC
Jno Aubrey wrote:
I have an Eve-related license plate on my car.Lol



Mine is ENDER1. I don't know if my state has a 6 character minimum or someone had ENDER already. I wanted LORDRYAN, but we do have have a 7 character maximum.

I used Ender all over the net before I started playing. When I signed for EVE I couldn't believe how many variations of Ender were taken.

Do not assume anything above this line was typed by me. Nerf the Truth, it's inconvenient.

Alaric Faelen
Republic Military School
Minmatar Republic
#63 - 2012-02-15 15:52:31 UTC
I bore my wife to tears with babble about Eve. She is subjected to the blather on TS during fleet ops coming from my PC speakers. She doesn't care, but she at least played WoW for a bit and doesn't have an unreasonable hatred of MMO's. (usually I do)
I know one person that is into MMO's, she plays Rift having tried Eve but didn't get into it. She'll chat with me about both games.

Beyond that-- no one I hang out with even knows what an MMO is, much less any specific one.

I tend to reference real life in Eve, not the other way around.............
Lharanai
Fools of the Blue Oyster
#64 - 2012-02-15 15:59:31 UTC
Alaric Faelen wrote:


Beyond that-- no one I hang out with even knows what an MMO is, much less any specific one.............


that was one of the reasons why I started this thread, because recently I got the impression that MMO players are not a complete minority, but many don't talk about it or would never admit it Lol

P.S. please also don't interpret my words literally, English is not my native language and I know that sometimes I chose words which can lead to a misunderstanding, I seriously started this thread just out of curiosity not to make a statement.

Seriously, don't take me serious, I MEAN IT...seriously

March rabbit
Aliastra
Gallente Federation
#65 - 2012-02-15 16:01:08 UTC
gaming itself (as hobby) isn't bad when it is not interfere with your RL and family.

Personally i don't hide it. My wife knows i'm Eve long-life fan. And we both computer addicts. However we keep it away from our family life. So there is no problem here.

The Mittani: "the inappropriate drunked joke"

Gerald Taric
NEO DYNAMICS
#66 - 2012-02-15 16:33:14 UTC
@ OP

I do not hide the fact, that i enjoy playing computer games, even not as one of the mid-thirties. Nowadays it belongs to our culture like going to the movies or playing soccer. On the other hand you would not recognize it on my person. I carry no badges revealing my hobbies. Blink

As someone other already mentioned: As long as it does not harm your (more important) real live, there's nothing wrong with it.

thecunning mrfox
Sebiestor Tribe
Minmatar Republic
#67 - 2012-02-15 16:36:10 UTC
Born in the 70's crew reporting in,

I remember when being a "gamer" was a subject of ridicule, now everyone wants in on the action.

When someone asks me if I've tried angry birds, I can lean back in my seat give them the smug grin and the thousand yard stare and say "I'm a pod pilot, you people wouldn't believe the things I've seen. I've commanded armies and conquered worlds." some of you will remember that advert, it was when the world turned for a lot of us.

I've a few friends who play WoW, Eve is a scary place for some of them and the people who live, fight and die there are even scarier. which is kinda cool. I just wish I could go back and tell little fox stuck in the 70's not to worry it will work out fine.
Wacktopia
Fleet-Up.com
Keep It Simple Software Group
#68 - 2012-02-15 16:43:00 UTC
Ok, right, this ONE TIME I'm out in the real world in some pub somewhere and talking to a friend. We're talking about computers and stuff so I start talking about EVE and how it's all cool and "not really a game" and "hardcore".

And he's saying stuff like "Yeah that sounds cool" but his eyes are saying "you're a ******* loser". I mean, I love playing EVE but you gotta resign yourself to the fact that it's a closet hobby. Unless you're like Mintchip.

True story. Big smile

Kitchen sink? Seriousy, get your ship together -  Fleet-Up.com

Petrus Blackshell
Rifterlings
#69 - 2012-02-15 17:08:17 UTC
I used to tell all my friends about my Eve exploits and actively advertise Eve, but I only ever got a few people to try it, and most didn't stick with it.

Their reasoning? They apparently "have a life".

Accidentally The Whole Frigate - For-newbies blog (currently on pause)

Liang Nuren
No Salvation
Divine Damnation
#70 - 2012-02-15 17:18:12 UTC
Petrus Blackshell wrote:
I used to tell all my friends about my Eve exploits and actively advertise Eve, but I only ever got a few people to try it, and most didn't stick with it.

Their reasoning? They apparently "have a life".


Nonsense. I don't see how its more fun to go out to the bar and get drunk when you can play eve and go on a drunkroam!

-Liang

I'm an idiot, don't mind me.

Petrus Blackshell
Rifterlings
#71 - 2012-02-15 17:22:01 UTC
Liang Nuren wrote:
Petrus Blackshell wrote:
I used to tell all my friends about my Eve exploits and actively advertise Eve, but I only ever got a few people to try it, and most didn't stick with it.

Their reasoning? They apparently "have a life".


Nonsense. I don't see how its more fun to go out to the bar and get drunk when you can play eve and go on a drunkroam!

-Liang


I think it's something about how the former can get you laid or something, while the latter can just end with a Thorax blowing up in your face.

Accidentally The Whole Frigate - For-newbies blog (currently on pause)

Petrus Blackshell
Rifterlings
#72 - 2012-02-15 17:25:26 UTC
Jno Aubrey wrote:
I have an Eve-related license plate on my car.Lol

It's time for me to re-register my car, and I am thinking of changing my license plate to "RIFTR" or something ("RIFTER" appears to be taken Sad).

Accidentally The Whole Frigate - For-newbies blog (currently on pause)

Dragon Outlaw
Rogue Fleet
#73 - 2012-02-15 17:31:41 UTC
I think it all depends on how you describe Eve. My career oriented boss once asked me what I had as hobbies and I did talk to him about this game however, when he asked me to elaborate on it, I sticked to the cooperative aspects of the game. That Eve is a universe that can be extremely competitive, unpredictable and hostile. That it is a game where you absolutly need to work with others to achieve important goals. Basicaly, I told him that it was a great environment where you can learn to work with people you do not know and practice your Leadership and management skills. You can say (and I am sure it is true) that very serious people play this game because it is highly challenging. If you just stick to spaceships blowing up other spaceships I can understand that some people will judge you however, if you carefuly size up the person you are presenting this to, you can always find a way to "sell" this hobby without being judge.

Now let me ask a question here. If you would be a job interviewer and you are looking to fill up a leadership position within your organization. Lets say in a high tech company. You have a candidate that tells you that he play Eve Online. He explains the Eve univers to you and tells you he is a CEO of a coorporation which is also the executive coorporation of a major and very successful alliance. That a lot of people "virtualy" work for, and with him against other alliances to conquer space and accomplish all sorts of complicated stuff. That their alliance name is renowned and praised for their efficiency.

Would you hire such a guy?
Petrus Blackshell
Rifterlings
#74 - 2012-02-15 17:47:33 UTC
Dragon Outlaw wrote:
Would you hire such a guy?


Hell yes. If you can herd cats in a video game where nobody is really accountable for anything, then you will definitely be able to manage employees in the real world -- where consequences matter.

Video games do have a certain stigma though, so there may be some employers that react to a game being mentioned with a resounding "nopenopenope". If you're wondering whether to mention Eve in an interview, I would keep it to myself unless the interviewer asks something about "experience in leadership", particularly if he's asking about it in context of leisure activities.

Accidentally The Whole Frigate - For-newbies blog (currently on pause)

Chandaris
Immortalis Inc.
Shadow Cartel
#75 - 2012-02-15 18:10:38 UTC
IN-MATURE
Liang Nuren
No Salvation
Divine Damnation
#76 - 2012-02-15 18:14:01 UTC
Petrus Blackshell wrote:
Liang Nuren wrote:
Petrus Blackshell wrote:
I used to tell all my friends about my Eve exploits and actively advertise Eve, but I only ever got a few people to try it, and most didn't stick with it.

Their reasoning? They apparently "have a life".


Nonsense. I don't see how its more fun to go out to the bar and get drunk when you can play eve and go on a drunkroam!

-Liang


I think it's something about how the former can get you laid or something, while the latter can just end with a Thorax blowing up in your face.


Meh, I get laid either way. Its one of the advantages of being married. :)

-Liang

I'm an idiot, don't mind me.

Gerald Taric
NEO DYNAMICS
#77 - 2012-02-15 20:47:42 UTC
Chandaris wrote:
IN-MATURE

define "mature"

I think, all people are just grown up childs. We still play, but the toys are different. Blink
Dragon Outlaw
Rogue Fleet
#78 - 2012-02-15 20:55:30 UTC  |  Edited by: Dragon Outlaw
Petrus Blackshell wrote:
Dragon Outlaw wrote:
Would you hire such a guy?


Hell yes. If you can herd cats in a video game where nobody is really accountable for anything, then you will definitely be able to manage employees in the real world -- where consequences matter.

Video games do have a certain stigma though, so there may be some employers that react to a game being mentioned with a resounding "nopenopenope". If you're wondering whether to mention Eve in an interview, I would keep it to myself unless the interviewer asks something about "experience in leadership", particularly if he's asking about it in context of leisure activities.


I agree, I would be careful in mentionning this in an interview.

Another thing I wanted to tell the Op is, of course a lot of people judge with very subjective and superficial values and that you should not focus to much on what people might think of you because you play Eve. For my part, I have seen enough things in life to know that, you can be rich, famous, wear nice suits and even have your face on the cover of Forbes magazine. You could have all that and still be a total d*ck, a crook, or even, a dangerous psycho.
Korsiri
Federal Navy Academy
Gallente Federation
#79 - 2012-02-15 21:06:01 UTC
Ptraci wrote:
Not really. But I find that other people aren't as excited about it as I am and I get the feeling they regret having asked me about it when I start trying to explain it to them. I can see their eyes glaze over. So now I say "oh it's just a multiplayer game".


Pretty much this ^^

I did find out that talking about (MMOs) though can have unexpected consequences in a good way too. Found out two people I know also play (different) MMOs and a couple others either tried Eve, or at least know about it, which I had not at all anticipated.
Jenshae Chiroptera
#80 - 2012-02-15 21:08:19 UTC
Lharanai wrote:
... friends, class mates, colleagues, beau or spouse...


EVE addiction means that you only have vague memories of these things. Besides which, they have nothing about it to relate with you. It is as boring to talk about this game as to inflict your fascination with and your collection of semi-precious gems upon them.

CCP - Building ant hills and magnifying glasses for fat kids

Not even once

EVE is becoming shallow and puerile; it will satisfy neither the veteran nor the "WoW" type crowd in the transition.