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Arahantius Detache
Arahantius Detache Corporation
#1 - 2016-09-06 04:51:20 UTC  |  Edited by: Arahantius Detache
I keep seeing the term carebear being used which I find odd as it is being used in a derogatory manner obviously.

I asked on local about the meaning and got 2 answers:
1. A person who stays in Highsec.
2. A person who avoids PVP.

If option 1 applys, why is a person who stays in highsec considered a carebear since its obvious that alone they will be ganked EVERY time they enter low security areas. Is it a hate by social people against those who prefer to work alone?

If option 2 applys, why is a person who avoids PVP considered weak since the game mechanics clearly allow a solo player to be overwhelmed by sheer numbers of gangs. Clearly, every PVP encounter will be a loss no matter how well outfitted a solo player is.

Is this really a way for social players to be prejudiced against people who like to be alone?

I work alone but I'm far from scared of anything. I've fought all my own battles and never needed aid from some group of people.
Hardly a weakness.

BTW this is a psychological phenomena called othering used by primitive humans:
https://therearenoothers.wordpress.com/2011/12/28/othering-101-what-is-othering/

Just for those interested in human behaviour Big smile
Shallanna Yassavi
qwertz corp
#2 - 2016-09-06 05:06:07 UTC
No, you won't be sploded every time you wander into lowsec. Some systems (Tama) are seriously good places to get killed.
A lot of lowsec places are just dead: count the number of jumps in the last hour on one hand, probe scanner full of anomalies and signatures, nobody else in local for several jumps.

Once I chased an escalation a few jumps into low. A confessor showed on dscan, and launched core scanners. I asked him if it was a wormhole (or: I mash dscan, you're not going to surprise me). It soon left, returned, and left a couple of times. I finished the site, got out of there, and looked at his killboard. His buddy liked battleships and could drop a carrier on me if he wanted.
I was PvE-fit, so taking the fight wouldn't have been a good idea even if he was alone.

A signature :o

Dracvlad
Taishi Combine
Astral Alliance
#3 - 2016-09-06 05:51:27 UTC
It is just a way to justify having contempt for other players, do what I do and snigger at it being used.

When the going gets tough the Gankers get their CSM rep to change mechanics in their favour.

Blocked: Teckos Pech, Sonya Corvinus, baltec1, Shae Tadaruwa, Wander Prian, Daichi Yamato, Jonah Gravenstein, Merin Ryskin, Linus Gorp

Eternus8lux8lucis
Guardians of the Gate
RAZOR Alliance
#4 - 2016-09-06 06:01:45 UTC
A lot of it is also the PvPers fears of the reality they themselves are carebears as well. Often times the hardcore "I never PvE player" has numerous PvE toons to supply them with isk. But if the illusion that they never PvE is given then the PvP player is never in a 'weak' position to be farmed, hunted, etc in return so dont bother trying to find my alts, etc because I dont have any. When in fact they have many and are just as weak and unguarded, if not more, smug in the assurance that you wont make the connections with their other industrial toons to hurt them in the pocket book.


But the psych implications are fascinating to say the least yes.Big smile

Dracs got a very good idea of what carebearism really is. Its like the Eve idea of racism and segregation all rolled into one really.

Have you heard anything I've said?

You said it's all circling the drain, the whole universe. Right?

That's right.

Had to end sometime.

Blade Darth
Room for Improvement
Good Sax
#5 - 2016-09-06 06:21:47 UTC
3. a person that doesn't avoid pvp even though ship fit is pve



Why do you bother what others think if you prefer play solo

There are more carebears in nullsec than in high, trust me, I'm one. There are even wormhole bears.

Solo pvp exists, as long as you consider flying with a link alt "solo". True solo is doable too. Fit makes a big difference and I'm not talking about how much isk you throw at it, I mean the actual module types. 2b s**tfit is gonna perform worse than a proper 100m fit. Engagement choice is also very important, you don't HAVE to take every fight (most of the time). It's actually really, really hard to kill someone who does not want to engage (and has proper fit).

Those battles you fought were not in eve, were they? Or using an alt to lurk on forums mr. not scared of anything?

ps. autism prince 2012 has good solo tutorials for throwaway t1 frigs (lots of fun for cheap) - https://www.youtube.com/user/eveiseasy/videos
Arahantius Detache
Arahantius Detache Corporation
#6 - 2016-09-06 06:30:03 UTC
Blade Darth wrote:


Those battles you fought were not in eve, were they? Or using an alt to lurk on forums mr. not scared of anything?

ps. autism prince 2012 has good solo tutorials for throwaway t1 frigs (lots of fun for cheap) - https://www.youtube.com/user/eveiseasy/videos


Lol Big smile, no. All the battles I spoke of were in RL. I'm a fiercely independant Asperger dude and can hold my own regardless of consequence. A violent childhood cures fear Blink
Good question though.
FT Cold
Federal Navy Academy
Gallente Federation
#7 - 2016-09-06 07:06:13 UTC
Solo pvp is much harder than it was years ago, but I wouldn't say it's always a loss. You still get wins, and it's still pretty rewarding.
roberts dragon
The Scope
Gallente Federation
#8 - 2016-09-06 07:28:43 UTC
most hide behind a pc and would not dare say something to you face , do as you wish you pay for it for that pleasure
Arkoth 24
Doomheim
#9 - 2016-09-06 07:40:22 UTC
TL;DR: I'm a carebear 'cause there's a Big Scary Wolf at my door. Totally not my fault. You're evil and stupid if you don't understand.
Black Pedro
Mine.
#10 - 2016-09-06 08:11:36 UTC  |  Edited by: Black Pedro
Arahantius Detache wrote:
I work alone but I'm far from scared of anything. I've fought all my own battles and never needed aid from some group of people.
Hardly a weakness.
You are not a carebear, at least as I use the term. Neither are players that fall into your two categories. Many players never or rarely leave highsec but engage in all manner of PvP, while most players try to avoid PvP at some point, usually when they are at a great disadvantage as any rational Eve player would do.

A carebear is someone who rejects the premise that they can be interacted with against their will. They don't accept that it is part of the game for another player to attack them against their will and don't think they should have to adjust their game play to account for this possibility. They whine, agitate and propose ideas that would make them 100% safe in a game that has been specifically engineered so that you feel, and actually are, unsafe at all times.

A miner who tanks their ship, pays attention, or even ventures into dangerous space to ninja resources is not a carebear despite the fact they try to avoid every fight. A missioner who exclusively flies PvE fits to engage in PvE with the full understanding they are a potential target is not a carebear. These players accept the fact they are content and while they'll might not like getting exploded, understand that is part of the game. They are important and valuable Eve players.

A carebear rejects this and feels entitled to complete safety in whatever they do. They use terms like 'blobber', 'ganker', 'unfair' or 'exploit' when they lose a ship (despite that being really the whole point of the game). They moan that they are special and should be allowed to grind or build safe from those nasty "griefers" who just want to ruin their fun. They have no problem interacting with and influencing our shared universe when it is on their terms and they have something to gain, but don't accept that that same shared universe occasionally will come a-calling and interact with them without their permission.

In short, carebears are selfish players whose demands, if met, would smother Eve in a blanket of safety and prevent the player-player interaction the game is built on. If they got their way Eve would die a quick death and thus their self-entitled whining should be firmly met with a rational explanation of how Eve Online works out of game, or with blasters/missiles in-game. They need to be reminded to 'HTFU' and play Eve as the competitive, single-shard PvP game it was built as, not some single-player FarmVille-in-space clone.

Now all that said, many players just throw the term around as a derogatory slur. Eve players love to call each other all manner of insults so I wouldn't try to infer too much about the definition of word used in such a manner.
mrjknyazev
College of Winterhold
Honorable Third Party
#11 - 2016-09-06 08:28:06 UTC
Karen, I'm Daredevil Carebear.
Do Little
Bluenose Trading
#12 - 2016-09-06 08:39:34 UTC
The term carebear is not unique to Eve. It seems to date back to Ultima Online which had separate areas on the servers for PvE and PvP.

In Eve you are competing with other players whatever you do - the value of the ore you mine and the loot you collect in missions depends on the action of other players competing in the same market. That is the essential nature of a sandbox. We don't have segregated areas for PvP and PvE. Even in high security space you are subject to wars and gankers.

One of the balance points in the game is risk vs reward. Safe activities don't pay very well, mostly because they attract a lot of players which leads to an oversupply on the market and drives the price down.

Some people like to make stuff, some like to blow it up. An economy where most items are made by players and nothing wears out or goes obsolete needs both.
Maekchu
Doomheim
#13 - 2016-09-06 09:17:59 UTC
I only tend to call people carebears, when they tell me to die of cancer or some other ****.

When they get so mad, it's pretty obvious they are way too attached to their space pixels. Thus making them a carebear.

Also, I'd take being called a carebear any day, compared to the amount of profanities carebears call people that blow up their stuff.
Infinity Ziona
Sebiestor Tribe
Minmatar Republic
#14 - 2016-09-06 10:06:23 UTC
Arahantius Detache wrote:
I keep seeing the term carebear being used which I find odd as it is being used in a derogatory manner obviously.

I asked on local about the meaning and got 2 answers:
1. A person who stays in Highsec.
2. A person who avoids PVP.

If option 1 applys, why is a person who stays in highsec considered a carebear since its obvious that alone they will be ganked EVERY time they enter low security areas. Is it a hate by social people against those who prefer to work alone?

If option 2 applys, why is a person who avoids PVP considered weak since the game mechanics clearly allow a solo player to be overwhelmed by sheer numbers of gangs. Clearly, every PVP encounter will be a loss no matter how well outfitted a solo player is.

Is this really a way for social players to be prejudiced against people who like to be alone?

I work alone but I'm far from scared of anything. I've fought all my own battles and never needed aid from some group of people.
Hardly a weakness.

BTW this is a psychological phenomena called othering used by primitive humans:
https://therearenoothers.wordpress.com/2011/12/28/othering-101-what-is-othering/

Just for those interested in human behaviour Big smile

The truth is everyone has a bit of carebear in them. Take a look at your F10 key, set it to show pirate ships killed in last 24 hours and look out at nullsec. You'll see a bunch of gleaming stars, go to one of those systems and you'll usually find from 5 to sometimes 50 bubbles on the gate, once you get past those you'll find a whole bunch of people, actually you won't, you'll see a whole bunch of people in local but they're all docked up hiding, you'll find a cynosaural inhibitor as well.

If you hang around for a while you'll see that nobody will come out to fight you unless they first gather a small sized navy flottilla for your one ship and then they'll all kill you with as much prejudice as possible, jams, scrams, nuets, webs, anything and everything they could possible throw at you.

They're as much carebear as anyone else, this applies to 99% of the EvE population imo, I rarely ever find someone confident enough to undock alone or even in duo.

CCP Fozzie “We can see how much money people are making in nullsec and it is, a gigantic amount, a shit-ton… in null sec anomalies. “*

Kaalrus pwned..... :)

The Golden Serpent
A Drunken Squirrels' Conspiracy for Revenge
#15 - 2016-09-06 10:15:58 UTC  |  Edited by: The Golden Serpent
I don't think null is all that bad solo. I do it all the time. I play this game two ways: fleets or boring missions for pirates in nullsec (because they are more dangerous and it is the most difficult rep to grind) and right now I have no corp. I would not enjoy staying in highsec. Those that do are carebears. I do not think about them much I don't think they affect me or my play enjoyment. But some people project onto these people and resent them because their lives are bad or their Eve playtime has gone sour. Sometimes people are just being playful and joking that they hate carebears or whatever. It's nothing to lose sleep over. If your playstyle is fun that is all that matters.

PS I don't agree that anyone roaming null without looking for PvP is a carebear. If you are good at surviving, you are a viable animal, not a bear. Bears are also terrible creatures irl have you ever looked at them? Really ugly, dumb as a walnut and they have beady eyes. There is an ecosystem to Eve and even if you are mining in a cloaky ship in null to me that is not a carebear that is someone willing to play the game of survival.

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Chribba
Otherworld Enterprises
Otherworld Empire
#16 - 2016-09-06 10:30:18 UTC
King of Carebears reporting in!

/c

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Solecist Project
#17 - 2016-09-06 10:39:20 UTC
Chribba wrote:
King of Carebears reporting in!

/c

You're not a carebear.

A carebear is a self-righteous psychopath who can't deal with having his escapist realitybubble popped. A poor sob who flees from reality to ide tify with a videogame character that is - as they perceive it - a hero/important/someone who has a say, while at the same time having nothing to back it up besides words.

This thread is ridiculous.

That ringing in your ears you're experiencing right now is the last gasping breathe of a dying inner ear as it got thoroughly PULVERISED by the point roaring over your head at supersonic speeds. - Tippia

Dibz
Doomheim
#18 - 2016-09-06 10:40:56 UTC
Black Pedro wrote:
A carebear is someone who rejects the premise that they can be interacted with against their will.


I like this.
Major Trant
Brutor Tribe
Minmatar Republic
#19 - 2016-09-06 10:41:07 UTC
Using the word Carebear in a derogotory manner, makes you sound tough and leet at PvP or so the people that use it in that manner seem to think.
Serene Repose
#20 - 2016-09-06 10:53:38 UTC  |  Edited by: Serene Repose
You are seeing the lowbrow eventuality our culture has come to where there are vapid, but vitriolic people who just can't live and let live. They see someone different, bellow that the world is supposed to operate according to their own preferences, and for the different to become like them or they'll be verbally abusive, and attempt to use force (if possible) to "make" people do things the way they do.

Here, we're infested with people who (believed an ill-considered statement by a CCP official) insist EVE is only PvP, and therefore anyone not playing EVE as they do should be forced to. Until that happens, they heap derision on those people who are different. The term "carebear" came into being as a derogatory appellation. (Funny they don't have a corresponding word for themselves. Allow me: Sociopaths.)

This even though a visit to this time-honored and well known website - EVE - Survival: Mission Reports amply demonstrates that not only is there a wealth of PvE content in EVE, the PvE content actually threatens to swamp these self-proclaimed "real EVE players" of PvP.

However, along with the vitriolic name-calling (guaranteed to get threads locked here) comes a "don't confuse me with the facts, my mind is made-up" attitude that beggars belief...that is unless you're aware of this sort of people (who also decorate our daily lives with their form of "manners".)

I wouldn't trouble myself with them. They are no more than would be a fart in an elevator. Something to be endured until the car reaches your floor. Though, I'm sure they themselves relish the scent and will have no compunction about proving so in this thread you started...which is really about them.

We must accommodate the idiocracy.

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