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Pay It Forward New Eden

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Aquiileia
Mors et Vectigalia
#1 - 2016-03-20 03:17:05 UTC
In the few months I've been back in New Eden I've been victim to and witnessed some pretty painful situations.
New Eden is a hard, unforgiving place where only the strong prosper while the rest struggle in angst.

Recently, I've been hitting combat sites and was ninja'ed 3 times in a row, which, though expected, is still upsetting.

I just came across a site where someone was down to the last 3 mobs of the site while I was on TheDamned, and while the pilot was concerned if I was planning to kill steal, I left. After being kill stolen multiple times just before, I honestly considered it, and realized, I wouldn't let the game change who I am. Not even in a virtual world.

He then sent me a thankful email explaining that he too does the same thing.

Pilots of New Eden, I make a humble suggestion.

There are and always will be those with whom morality finds itself lost on them, but I know New Eden could be a more decent place to prosper with just a little common decency.

I propose anyone who reads this thread, do something positive and selfless for another pilot in New Eden, even if only once, should the burn of decency cause scars. :)

Those who have received such an act, post your story here and pay it forward to another. I would love to see just how long it's possible for this thread to become.

Gate camping? Give someone a pass. You'll become a hero!
Scamming a newbie? Give their money back with a warning and a lesson. You'll be respected.

Whatever you normally do in New Eden that isn't decent, honest or nice, try the opposite and let them know to Pay It Forward and post their story on this thread.

Is it possible for this thread to reach 10 pages? 25? 100?

Thanks for reading and considering.

Shae Tadaruwa
Science and Trade Institute
Caldari State
#2 - 2016-03-20 03:28:32 UTC
Funny thing about morality is its often used as a yardstick to beat others with.

Even in RL there is no one single correct morality and New Eden is far from RL.

Dracvlad - "...Your intel is free intel, all you do is pay for it..." && "...If you warp on the same path as a cloaked ship, you'll make a bookmark at exactly the same spot as the cloaky camper..."

Aquiileia
Mors et Vectigalia
#3 - 2016-03-20 03:35:34 UTC
Well, not everyone has it in them to be more than they are. *shrug*

I will say, instant Karma just paid me a visit as the pilot I left earlier just came into another system, asked if I was doing the site and proceeded to help me wipe everything while leaving me the final boss. Just because.

That is the point. While you may not get instant gratification at the expense of others, you can earn a friend and unasked favors later. And, contrary to the beliefs of some, your actions in EVE or any other game are easily a reflection of who you are in the real world. Don't kid yourself.

Shae Tadaruwa
Science and Trade Institute
Caldari State
#4 - 2016-03-20 04:13:12 UTC
Aquiileia wrote:
And, contrary to the beliefs of some, your actions in EVE or any other game are easily a reflection of who you are in the real world. Don't kid yourself.

Correct.

Anyone that cheats the rules, RMTs or otherwise breaks the EULA is making some questionable choices, since they already agreed when they signed up for the game, not to do that.

Anyone playing within the rules? They are just playing a game and your morals are not somehow superior because you play differently to them. You are both playing the way the game allows and encourages.

No judgement on anyone as superior or inferior as a person in that situation.

Dracvlad - "...Your intel is free intel, all you do is pay for it..." && "...If you warp on the same path as a cloaked ship, you'll make a bookmark at exactly the same spot as the cloaky camper..."

Aquiileia
Mors et Vectigalia
#5 - 2016-03-20 04:23:05 UTC
So, by your compass, cheating on a girlfriend or boyfriend is ok, because it isn't illegal?

Hmm, glad we dont know eachother in RL. I could give you endless examples of how flawed your views are on morality and decency. My thread however, isnt about judging others, but to inspire them to do something outside the norm that may benefit someone else for nothing in return.

For some reason, that struck a chord in you...
Shae Tadaruwa
Science and Trade Institute
Caldari State
#6 - 2016-03-20 04:27:04 UTC
Aquiileia wrote:
So, by your compass, cheating on a girlfriend or boyfriend is ok, because it isn't illegal?

Hmm, glad we dont know eachother in RL. I could give you endless examples of how flawed your views are on morality and decency. My thread however, isnt about judging others, but to inspire them to do something outside the norm that may benefit someone else for nothing in return.

For some reason, that struck a chord in you...

Really, what are my views on morality other than, in a game where everyone is playing in the rules, no one style of play is superior to any other.

Where did I say cheating is ok in RL? and what are the other endless examples of how flawed my views are?

The awesome reason for your thread aside, so far it has very much been about judging others.

Dracvlad - "...Your intel is free intel, all you do is pay for it..." && "...If you warp on the same path as a cloaked ship, you'll make a bookmark at exactly the same spot as the cloaky camper..."

Aquiileia
Mors et Vectigalia
#7 - 2016-03-20 04:30:11 UTC
Shae Tadaruwa wrote:
Aquiileia wrote:
So, by your compass, cheating on a girlfriend or boyfriend is ok, because it isn't illegal?

Hmm, glad we dont know eachother in RL. I could give you endless examples of how flawed your views are on morality and decency. My thread however, isnt about judging others, but to inspire them to do something outside the norm that may benefit someone else for nothing in return.

For some reason, that struck a chord in you...

Really, what are my views on morality other than, in a game where everyone is playing in the rules, no one style of play is superior to any other.

Where did I say cheating is ok in RL? and what are the other endless examples of how flawed my views are?

The awesome reason for your thread aside, so far it has very much been about judging others.


Very true. The threads direction was oddly hijacked a bit.

I'll just leave this alone. I'm sure if you read what you said, and my responses, you'll understand my point.
According to you, playing within the rules means, anything goes based on your personal preferences, regardless of the effect on others. That's not good. Morality isn't synonymous with legal...
Shae Tadaruwa
Science and Trade Institute
Caldari State
#8 - 2016-03-20 04:35:41 UTC  |  Edited by: Shae Tadaruwa
Aquiileia wrote:
Shae Tadaruwa wrote:
Aquiileia wrote:
So, by your compass, cheating on a girlfriend or boyfriend is ok, because it isn't illegal?

Hmm, glad we dont know eachother in RL. I could give you endless examples of how flawed your views are on morality and decency. My thread however, isnt about judging others, but to inspire them to do something outside the norm that may benefit someone else for nothing in return.

For some reason, that struck a chord in you...

Really, what are my views on morality other than, in a game where everyone is playing in the rules, no one style of play is superior to any other.

Where did I say cheating is ok in RL? and what are the other endless examples of how flawed my views are?

The awesome reason for your thread aside, so far it has very much been about judging others.


Very true. The threads direction was oddly hijacked a bit.

I'll just leave this alone. I'm sure if you read what you said, and my responses, you'll understand my point.
According to you, playing within the rules means, anything goes based on your personal preferences, regardless of the effect on others. That's not good. Morality isn't synonymous with legal...

You hijacked your own thread. You could have easily just included the positive message and left it at that, without claiming morality is lost on some people, that some people don't have it within themselves to be decent because of how they play a game, or that you can personally list examples of how my own beliefs in morality and decency are flawed.

Like I said in my original reply, funny how morals are often used just to bash other people. But I guess that's how morals work. It's ok for those that believe they are superior to judge others because they play a video game differently, but perfectly within the rules and spirit of the game.

Dracvlad - "...Your intel is free intel, all you do is pay for it..." && "...If you warp on the same path as a cloaked ship, you'll make a bookmark at exactly the same spot as the cloaky camper..."

Aquiileia
Mors et Vectigalia
#9 - 2016-03-20 04:48:06 UTC
As I said.. "lost" on some.

Be well.
Yarosara Ruil
#10 - 2016-03-20 10:03:18 UTC
Doesn't have the same ring as "killing it forward" though.

EVE is designed to be harsh, unforgiving and cold. And being good, selfless and helpful despite of it is commendable. But if everyone was a new age hippie, EVE would be dull as bricks, so...
Cien Banchiere
Extrinsic Arcadia Distribution
#11 - 2016-03-20 10:22:37 UTC
It could have one decent people. There could be less scamming and stealing. But then where is the fun?
Sustrai Aditua
Intandofisa
#12 - 2016-03-20 10:40:32 UTC  |  Edited by: Sustrai Aditua
In swarmed the moral relativists whose limited experience revolves around movies they saw, or the nervous in the service confines of a narrow set of orders while confined to quarters. "There is no morality, unless we make it up ourselves."

In Do The Right Thing, Radio Raheem showed a set of brass knucks. One said "LOVE". One said "HATE," and it struck me. It's a sentence. Love hate. Or, hate love. But, no matter how you phrased it, it was negative. This of course put me in mind of the math; a positive plus a negative equals a negative.

Love hate. Hate love. Those are reactions. Positives are only reached by agreement, at least with regard to our own human behavior. There will be "knowledgeable" hot shots who'll take this opportunity to bleat how "EVE is ... blah blah blah" NOT a place where we show our "REAL" selves, as though some spirit (which we don't believe exists) takes over our keyboards and punches all these dastardly keys despite our best intentions.

But, you know, and they know, and we all know (so don't kid yourselves or US) that when you do dirty, be it in a game, or in other endeavors in life, you do dirty. You aren't excused. You aren't immune because it's a "game." You chose to do dirty. You did dirty. If you can't live with that, or people knowing that about you...simple solution...don't do dirty.

A guy whom shall remain nameless, bought me eight (8) Arbalest Heavy Missile Launchers when I was but a noob. We met in noob corp. He was a helpful guy. Is a helpful guy. Not a fairy guy. Not a carebear. Just a helpful guy. I, in turn, have been helpful to others. This guy's act to me doesn't put any good in me. I'd do it just the same. Yet, when I think highly of someone it's a lot more beneficial than when I think poorly of someone. I have this memory to recall. It's a good thing.

Thanks for this thread, OP.

If we get chased by zombies, I'm tripping you.

Dani Gallar
Doomheim
#13 - 2016-03-20 11:02:38 UTC
I think this thread could have been interesting if it hadn´t been for the follow up morality posts of the OP.

There is a reason why it can be good for any new player who looses a ship in PvP-combat to send a friendly mail (or initiate a convo) with the perpetrator and ask how they killed them ... what the newbie did wrong in the situation and so on.

Now granted some perps won´t answer or even gloat at their victim but I believe most of them actually care enough to give some pointers since they should know how daunting it can be for a new player to loose ships. Now I know that EVE is a very different game compared to others when it comes to how you should value your ships but for a new player that does take a while to adjust to.
Chopper Rollins
Republic Military School
Minmatar Republic
#14 - 2016-03-20 11:06:51 UTC
I travel under a black flag and let fury be my guide.
People can roleplay when they are comfortable, but under any pressure they revert to type.
This is why i will encourage my kids to play EvE when they hit their teens because of the relatively painless way it can teach you real lessons about trust and risk.
I've been described as helpful and friendly, yet i shoot nerds and even the odd blue, am i a bad person?



Goggles. Making me look good. Making you look good.

Jonah Gravenstein
Machiavellian Space Bastards
#15 - 2016-03-20 11:23:07 UTC  |  Edited by: Jonah Gravenstein
Dani Gallar wrote:
There is a reason why it can be good for any new player who looses a ship in PvP-combat to send a friendly mail (or initiate a convo) with the perpetrator and ask how they killed them ... what the newbie did wrong in the situation and so on.

Now granted some perps won´t answer or even gloat at their victim but I believe most of them actually care enough to give some pointers since they should know how daunting it can be for a new player to loose ships.
Good advice right there, a willingness to learn from your mistakes and to seek out answers tends to go down well in Eve.

As for the OP and the "lessons" about morality, moral standards differ between cultures, because they are influenced by the culture that gives rise to them. Morality is not absolute, nor is it objective, what some consider to be moral others may consider to be immoral.

I'll quite happily shoot people in the face online, I certainly wouldn't do it the real world.

In the beginning there was nothing, which exploded.

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Bumblefck
Kerensky Initiatives
#16 - 2016-03-20 12:40:19 UTC  |  Edited by: Bumblefck
Aquiileia wrote:
Well, not everyone has it in them to be more than they are. *shrug*




This thread is so eye-wateringly pretentious it's unbelievable, but this quote is a piece of cod-superhero narrative par excellence.



e: The cluster presumably always needs more White Knights though, so good luck with this thread :)

Perfection is a dish best served like wasabi .

Bumble's Space Log

Darth Terona
Horde Vanguard.
Pandemic Horde
#17 - 2016-03-20 12:45:44 UTC  |  Edited by: Darth Terona
ive donated over 300 usd to a player so he could make vids of dust with a ps3 (google my name)

ive also scammed over 40bil from a single player. whom probably paid for his isk with plex.

universe in balance?

ive cut several people loose in a solo engagement where I clearly have the upper hand.
ive ganked helpless miners and not given it two thoughts.

ive given away free ships.
ive stolen ships.

I forged alliances and broke others.


there is no good without evil.. no evil without good. no dark without light yada yada yada.
Aquiileia
Mors et Vectigalia
#18 - 2016-03-20 15:46:46 UTC
Chopper Rollins wrote:
I travel under a black flag and let fury be my guide.
People can roleplay when they are comfortable, but under any pressure they revert to type.
This is why i will encourage my kids to play EvE when they hit their teens because of the relatively painless way it can teach you real lessons about trust and risk.
I've been described as helpful and friendly, yet i shoot nerds and even the odd blue, am i a bad person?





I like this post actually. Very true.
Aquiileia
Mors et Vectigalia
#19 - 2016-03-20 15:51:14 UTC
Guys/Gals,
the whole point of this thread is to see how long it could get from recent positive stories of pilots paying it forward.

It was sidetracked, but look, I gank in low and WH. Well, I have, once. It was fun!

I've also made good friends with someone that ganked me. hah

I understand the nature of EVE and accept and appreciate it. I felt I was being challenged a bit so I expressed my personal beliefs.

Nothing more.

Lets have some fun with this and see what can be accomplished instead of making excuses for why you wont bother. I mean, really?

It's just a way to try and have a surprising and brighter week in New Eden.
Cien Banchiere
Extrinsic Arcadia Distribution
#20 - 2016-03-20 16:07:51 UTC
But why? What is the whole purpose of this? Other than to make yourself a target of the people you think are terrible human beings.

Good things do happen in this game. Do we really need a thread of feel good stories to get warm fuzziness though?
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