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EvE Online and Bullying

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Anne Dieu-le-veut
Natl Assn for the Advancement of Criminal People
#81 - 2015-03-10 12:32:29 UTC
Kithrus wrote:
Leto Thule wrote:
Anne Dieu-le-veut wrote:
Another clown that doesn't know what bullying is. What a generation of pussies we're raising. Sad


Goddamm that is so true. I weep for the future.


I fine lets play it your way, where would the limit be then? No one seems to have that answer at all because they are so worried that any admittance of going to far would call for rules they fear so much.


I'm not saying CCP should do anything. I posted this for 'for the record', so that if anyone asked I could point to this. I wanted to see what the community thinks about taking a personal grudge from outside the game and making someone's life hell.

I have had lots **** on me in eve, I don't care it's the game but I have standards and I'd like to think you do too.


I haven't seen anything in your posts in this thread that constitutes bullying. What personal grudge from outside the game are you talking about? Being a jackass on TS isn't "from outside the game". Is anyone contacting him outside the game harassing him? That would be bullying.

Are the people you are talking about even actively hunting this person down constantly in game and killing him? That *might* be harassment, but not bullying. There are people in this thread and certainly in C&P that are watchlisted and constantly hunted...still not bullying.
Tandros Kreel
Native Freshfood
Minmatar Republic
#82 - 2015-03-10 13:48:45 UTC
Complaining about bullying and harassment in EVE is like going swimming and them complaining about getting wet.

Seriously, go play a different game or learn how to deal with knobs like every other player (turn them into space goo).
Kithrus
Brave Newbies Inc.
Brave Collective
#83 - 2015-03-10 13:50:36 UTC
Danalee wrote:
Kithrus wrote:
I'm not saying CCP should do anything. I posted this for 'for the record', so that if anyone asked I could point to this. I wanted to see what the community thinks about taking a personal grudge from outside the game and making someone's life hell.
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Calm down, dear. Please.

A personal grudge from outside the game you say? But you said first that your "friend" was being an arse in game hence the in game repercussions?

Also, making someone's life hell <> being allowed to play in someone's corner of the sandbox.
On top of that, if banning someone from "your space" would be an issue - moral or other - for any reason, a lot of nullsec entities would like to have a word with you Cool

So what is your point again?

D.

Bear


Not an arse in game, they just didn't like his personality. They didn't get his jokes, sarcasm, attitude but he never cause any damage.

So fine he doesn't mesh with the team, GG, kick him and move on with life. It does warrant being an ass about it.

There are plenty of in game reasons to be an ass to someone without bringing personal issue into it is me point.

Darkness is more then absence of light, it is ignorance and corruption. I will be the Bulwark from such things that you may live in the light. Pray so my arms do not grow weary and my footing remain sure.

If you are brave, join me in the dark.

Jonah Gravenstein
Machiavellian Space Bastards
#84 - 2015-03-10 14:57:19 UTC  |  Edited by: Jonah Gravenstein
Kithrus wrote:
Not an arse in game, they just didn't like his personality. They didn't get his jokes, sarcasm, attitude but he never cause any damage.
And you wonder why they want nothing to do with him?

FYI inappropriate or poor humour and sarcasm in any walk of life will get you labelled as an arse, so will having a poor attitude.

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So fine he doesn't mesh with the team, GG, kick him and move on with life.
CVA have, by making sure that anybody they associate with or uses their space also has nothing to do with him

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It does warrant being an ass about it.
CVA aren't being arses, their space, their rules. People can be marked KoS in their space for absolutely any reason, or no reason at all, if they see fit.

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There are plenty of in game reasons to be an ass to someone without bringing personal issue into it is me point.
The point is that you should stop whining about it, nobody outside of the SJW's gives a toss and CVA have done nothing that can be construed as bullying.

TL;DR Everything has consequences in Eve, looks they've caught up with both your "friend" and your corp

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Marlin Spikes
Sebiestor Tribe
Minmatar Republic
#85 - 2015-03-11 16:43:22 UTC
Bullying in bad....mkay.

Bombers Rule!!!

Marlin Spikes
Sebiestor Tribe
Minmatar Republic
#86 - 2015-03-11 16:44:57 UTC
Bullying in bad....mkay.

Bombers Rule!!!

Demerius Xenocratus
The Scope
Gallente Federation
#87 - 2015-03-11 19:03:59 UTC
If you came to C&P looking for sympathy, you've come to the wrong place.

I would like to hear the other side this story because while many EVE players are asshats ingame, I don't see an entire alliance taking that much of a personal dislike to someone without a valid reason.

I suspect that if you, as a friend of this guy, are saying he's basically a bit mental and tends to be obnoxious on comms; then from an objective angle he probably said/did something spectacularly stupid. If the people that run your alliance don't want this individual in their sky then that's their prerogative insofar as they can enforce it.
Tengu Grib
Caldari Provisions
Caldari State
#88 - 2015-03-11 23:04:14 UTC
Leto Thule wrote:
Paranoid Loyd wrote:

Also, damn sibs, you have mastered that character creator. You are absolutely beautiful and that pose is both provocative and intimidating. 10/10


Ill second that.

Agreed, that avatar is awesome. sorry I'm late to the party. *starts speed reading to catch up*

No bullying here. Just a dude who pissed people off now they don't like him. End of story.

Rabble Rabble Rabble

Praise James, Supreme Protector of High Sec.

Tengu Grib
Caldari Provisions
Caldari State
#89 - 2015-03-11 23:05:31 UTC
Marlin Spikes wrote:
Bullying in bad....mkay.


I'm only liking one of your posts. No double like for you you sneak!

Rabble Rabble Rabble

Praise James, Supreme Protector of High Sec.

Raiz Nhell
State War Academy
Caldari State
#90 - 2015-03-12 01:11:43 UTC  |  Edited by: Raiz Nhell
Kithrus wrote:


Not an arse in game, they just didn't like his personality. They didn't get his jokes, sarcasm, attitude but he never cause any damage.

So fine he doesn't mesh with the team, GG, kick him and move on with life. It does warrant being an ass about it.

There are plenty of in game reasons to be an ass to someone without bringing personal issue into it is me point.



How is setting someone red and having an alliance policy not to allow reds being an ass about it...

I am red to provi block due to corp roams blowing up their stuff... (I assume)
If I went to a different corp and they wanted to join provi block we wouldn't be allowed cause I'm red...

That's not bullying, that's actions having consequences...
Same as your friend, he didn't gel with the community, badly enough so they don't want him back...

There is no such thing as a fair fight...

If your fighting fair you have automatically put yourself at a disadvantage.

Dutarro
Ghezer Aramih
#91 - 2015-03-12 01:59:47 UTC
Anne Dieu-le-veut wrote:
Another clown that doesn't know what bullying is. What a generation of pussies we're raising. Sad


Care to add some homophobia and racism to your misogyny?
Marlin Spikes
Sebiestor Tribe
Minmatar Republic
#92 - 2015-03-12 02:55:07 UTC
Tengu Grib wrote:
Marlin Spikes wrote:
Bullying in bad....mkay.


I'm only liking one of your posts. No double like for you you sneak!


Double post was due to my inability to operate an iPhone :)

Bombers Rule!!!

Kiryen O'Bannon
SUNDERING
Goonswarm Federation
#93 - 2015-03-12 03:06:12 UTC
Dutarro wrote:
Anne Dieu-le-veut wrote:
Another clown that doesn't know what bullying is. What a generation of pussies we're raising. Sad


Care to add some homophobia and racism to your misogyny?


Care to add some more SJW to your whine? Calling someone a "pussy" isn't misogyny any more than calling them a **** is misandry.

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Valkin Mordirc
#94 - 2015-03-12 03:51:29 UTC
Dutarro wrote:
Anne Dieu-le-veut wrote:
Another clown that doesn't know what bullying is. What a generation of pussies we're raising. Sad


Care to add some homophobia and racism to your misogyny?



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Orlacc
#95 - 2015-03-12 04:35:36 UTC  |  Edited by: Orlacc
Dutarro wrote:
Anne Dieu-le-veut wrote:
Another clown that doesn't know what bullying is. What a generation of pussies we're raising. Sad


Care to add some homophobia and racism to your misogyny?



Wait....are pussies gay people? Or are pussies a race? Are clowns a gay race? Or are women gay? Confused.

"Measure Twice, Cut Once."

Dutarro
Ghezer Aramih
#96 - 2015-03-12 07:53:46 UTC
Kiryen O'Bannon wrote:


Care to add some more SJW to your whine? Calling someone a "*****" isn't misogyny any more than calling them a **** is misandry.


They're both sad examples of adolescent male rage, par for the course in this community.
Demerius Xenocratus
The Scope
Gallente Federation
#97 - 2015-03-12 07:55:22 UTC
Orlacc wrote:
Dutarro wrote:
Anne Dieu-le-veut wrote:
Another clown that doesn't know what bullying is. What a generation of pussies we're raising. Sad


Care to add some homophobia and racism to your misogyny?



Wait....are pussies gay people? Or are pussies a race? Are clowns a gay race? Or are women gay? Confused.


Well, you clearly offended SOMEONE. That's practically worse than murder these days. Better issue a sincere statement about how apologetic you are.
ISD Ezwal
ISD Community Communications Liaisons
ISD Alliance
#98 - 2015-03-12 08:50:22 UTC
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