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How accepting is the EVE community about age?

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Yarda Black
The Black Redemption
#41 - 2015-01-18 10:57:46 UTC
Sylveria Relden wrote:
I don't think physical age is relative- it's mainly maturity (or the lack thereof) that people are concerned about.


This basically. Also it leads to stuff like; "REKT" and such.

Most established players already raised kids. Including teens. Having to do so again in a virtual environment they're looking to relax in, is rather "unrewarding".

If you want to be a teen, join a teencorp. If you're looking to play EVE at its finest, behave like an adult. Then laugh at adults behaving like teens.
Varathius
Enlightened Industries
Goonswarm Federation
#42 - 2015-01-18 13:15:52 UTC
Age is an issue of mind over matter. If you don't mind, it doesn't matter. - Mark Twain

Sylveria Relden
#43 - 2015-01-18 13:50:55 UTC
Varathius wrote:
Age is an issue of mind over matter. If you don't mind, it doesn't matter. - Mark Twain



Or- if you don't have a mind, it doesn't matter. :)

TL;DR If you didn't read the entire post perhaps you're probably ADHD. (seek help)

Sol Jing Ko
Doomheim
#44 - 2015-01-18 14:34:05 UTC
Hi OP I'm 17 maybe we should hang out sometime!!
Pok Nibin
Doomheim
#45 - 2015-01-18 14:41:47 UTC  |  Edited by: Pok Nibin
You have to admit, it's sort of confusing visa vis what is meant by "behave" in EVE - the place where the most treacherous, vile, immoral and murderous behavior is a social norm. What is meant by "behave yourself" in EVE? I'm really very curious. Does it mean don't say anything naughty in local, fleet or corp chat? (Don't bust a gut yet, there's more.) Does it mean only post relevant and polite things on the forum? (The chortles fly!) Does it mean don't cheat your corp mates, or steal from the corp? Does it mean always do what you say you're going to do, and never be deceitful?

PLEASE. TELL ME. What is this "BEHAVE" you expect from KIDS but not from YOURSELVES? HMMMM?????

Really. This thread is hilarious.

The right to free speech doesn't automatically carry with it the right to be taken seriously.

Ashlar Maidstone
MoonFyre BattleGroup Holdings
#46 - 2015-01-18 14:49:46 UTC
Rain6637 wrote:
RE: Age. You have a better chance of not making it an issue by not bringing it up at all.


I agree, age is not so important only if you can show restraint under fire in combat. However one must be careful as was already said about child predators maybe around preying on the innocent among us. So better to keep quiet about your age and not make it public knowledge.
Sylveria Relden
#47 - 2015-01-18 14:51:25 UTC
Pok Nibin wrote:
You have to admit, it's sort of confusing visa vis what is meant by "behave" in EVE - the place where the most treacherous, vile, immoral and murderous behavior is a social norm. What is meant by "behave yourself" in EVE? I'm really very curious. Does it mean don't say anything naughty in local, fleet or corp chat? (Don't bust a gut yet, there's more.) Does it mean only post relevant and polite things on the forum? (The chortles fly!) Does it mean don't cheat your corp mates, or steal from the corp? Does it mean always do what you say you're going to do, and never be deceitful?

PLEASE. TELL ME. What is this "BEHAVE" you expect from KIDS but not from YOURSELVES? HMMMM?????

Really. This thread is hilarious.


While I cannot speak for everyone else, I'll speak for myself- I treat others with respect, maturity and dignity. Does that make me "better" than or "less" than anyone else? That's subjective to the person who's interpreting it thus.

I live (IRL and in-game) by the principle of treat others the way you'd like to be treated. It's really not "rocket science", folks. IMO we're all in the same boat, IRL and in-game- we're all trying to make a living, all trying to "get ahead" in some form or fashion, and although I'm not "ambitious" I don't begrudge those who are.

TL;DR If you didn't read the entire post perhaps you're probably ADHD. (seek help)

J'Poll
School of Applied Knowledge
Caldari State
#48 - 2015-01-18 17:06:04 UTC
Pok Nibin wrote:
You have to admit, it's sort of confusing visa vis what is meant by "behave" in EVE - the place where the most treacherous, vile, immoral and murderous behavior is a social norm. What is meant by "behave yourself" in EVE? I'm really very curious. Does it mean don't say anything naughty in local, fleet or corp chat? (Don't bust a gut yet, there's more.) Does it mean only post relevant and polite things on the forum? (The chortles fly!) Does it mean don't cheat your corp mates, or steal from the corp? Does it mean always do what you say you're going to do, and never be deceitful?

PLEASE. TELL ME. What is this "BEHAVE" you expect from KIDS but not from YOURSELVES? HMMMM?????

Really. This thread is hilarious.


To me:

Don't do to another what you don't want people to do to you. If you are upset when people call you names, don't do it to another person too.

If you want to do be a pilot that does "commonly less accepted activities" that's perfectly fine. But don't rage to people if something doesn't go as you expect it should be going.

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Ralph King-Griffin
New Eden Tech Support
#49 - 2015-01-18 17:18:17 UTC
im in my twenteens, dont be intimidated by the aging player base, Just poke back about if they have their Pension as full as they would like.

and remember, everyone here is playin spacepixel captain PEWPEWPEW! DAKADAKAKDAKA! zzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzZZZZZZZZZZZZZAP! (Ye have all done it and ye know it!).

just dont get wound up over it and you should be fine.
ISD Dorrim Barstorlode
ISD Community Communications Liaisons
ISD Alliance
#50 - 2015-01-18 19:36:52 UTC
Removed an off topic post.

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DaReaper
Net 7
Cannon.Fodder
#51 - 2015-01-18 22:28:07 UTC
I had a few 14 years olds in my corp over the years, it really depend son the type you are.

i had two players who were 14 and they would not shut up. I did not use voice cooms so it was all txt, but it was irritating, instead of typing a full thought they wrote in broken lines. So like instead of saying: Hey reap, i think i might be ready for a drake, what sort of setup do you think i could get and what type of targets should i shoot? Also are we going to pvp soon?

it would be:

Hey Reap

I think i'm ready for a drake

what kind of setup should i get

tanget here

etc

It gets bothersome. But they were alright people so never bugged me. I had one that was a complete ****, annoying as ****, and i wound up kicking him. One was mature and played till 18 then went mia for a few years.

I've also had a 17 year old that by his voice i swore was in his 40's

so it depends

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Chopper Rollins
Republic Military School
Minmatar Republic
#52 - 2015-01-18 23:01:20 UTC
Pok Nibin wrote:

PLEASE. TELL ME. What is this "BEHAVE" you expect from KIDS but not from YOURSELVES? HMMMM?????

Really. This thread is hilarious.


Thanks for asking, the expectation is the same for young and old: generally be more of a fountain than a drain.
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Malcanis
Vanishing Point.
The Initiative.
#53 - 2015-01-18 23:17:29 UTC
Jimmy Ronson wrote:
I recently got into EVE about a month ago and have been having a whale of a time. Recently I started doing some factional warfare and the more I look around the internet, the more it seems that joining a corp is the best way to get the most out of EVE in general.

The problem is, I am only 14 years old and most online gaming communities hate teens. Normally this wouldn't be a problem but the vast majority of corps seem to have comms as a requirement. This makes me a bit cautious about joining one so I'm wondering if most corps in EVE are against having an adolescent among their ranks due to the sound of their voice or a bias.


One of my oldest friend in EVE started playing when he was about 14 or 15.

Basically if you're a good person to talk to, keep your promises and don't talk too much bullshit (some is OK) then you're good. We see the things you say and do, not your birth certificate.

"Just remember later that I warned against any change to jump ranges or fatigue. You earned whats coming."

Grath Telkin, 11.10.2016

Hasikan Miallok
Republic University
Minmatar Republic
#54 - 2015-01-19 00:30:25 UTC
I have friends whose 1 year old played D&D.

She needed help with the rules but was very good at rolling 20s on the dice when she needed it.
Mr Epeen
It's All About Me
#55 - 2015-01-19 01:32:32 UTC
I see a lot of prejudice in this thread and I'm not sure why.

Most 14 year olds will come into a game like this and kick your ass. They've been gaming since birth. They live for the kill. They're not worried about losing ships. Nor do they cry in the forum when they don't get their way.

Unlike the 'vets' in here, they adapt and continue making the oldsters look like a bunch of useless tools.

They didn't grow up on MMOs like most here. They grew up on FPS and have no fear. The first thing they do when they start their first character is undock and shoot something.

In my opinion, CCP should be actively reaching out to younger players. They are the future of this game. Not the whiny, semi adult players coming from other lame MMOs and spending the rest of their EVE career crying over every little thing, like most of the vets that I see in this forum.

It wouldn't take much for some teen equivalent of Something Awful to put together the next unbeatable alliance. The only reason I'm guessing it hasn't happened yet is because this is a subscription game.

Mr Epeen Cool
Ria Nieyli
Nieyli Enterprises
When Fleets Collide
#56 - 2015-01-19 03:07:46 UTC
Mr Epeen wrote:
I see a lot of prejudice in this thread and I'm not sure why.

Most 14 year olds will come into a game like this and kick your ass. They've been gaming since birth. They live for the kill. They're not worried about losing ships. Nor do they cry in the forum when they don't get their way.

Unlike the 'vets' in here, they adapt and continue making the oldsters look like a bunch of useless tools.

They didn't grow up on MMOs like most here. They grew up on FPS and have no fear. The first thing they do when they start their first character is undock and shoot something.

In my opinion, CCP should be actively reaching out to younger players. They are the future of this game. Not the whiny, semi adult players coming from other lame MMOs and spending the rest of their EVE career crying over every little thing, like most of the vets that I see in this forum.

It wouldn't take much for some teen equivalent of Something Awful to put together the next unbeatable alliance. The only reason I'm guessing it hasn't happened yet is because this is a subscription game.

Mr Epeen Cool


Man, you made me feel like I'm 14 again, thanks.

Caveat: You can pay your sub with ingame money if you're good enough.
Jenshae Chiroptera
#57 - 2015-01-19 03:10:07 UTC
There is a well known Fleet Commander, who is 19 now and has been leading fleets for five years. Smile

CCP - Building ant hills and magnifying glasses for fat kids

Not even once

EVE is becoming shallow and puerile; it will satisfy neither the veteran nor the "WoW" type crowd in the transition.

Rowells
Pator Tech School
Minmatar Republic
#58 - 2015-01-19 03:24:28 UTC
I was 14 when I started too. Afaik nobody knew or thought I was immature.
Pok Nibin
Doomheim
#59 - 2015-01-19 04:07:45 UTC
Uh huh. 9 years in the BF franchise. 7 in TWL and CAL competition. 4 professonally. Yeah. 14-year olds. Right.

The right to free speech doesn't automatically carry with it the right to be taken seriously.

SoCal Stoli Rotsuda
Science and Trade Institute
Caldari State
#60 - 2015-01-19 04:14:38 UTC
I wish I could offer some perspective...but we didn't have PCs when I was 14.

I think the Walkman had just come out when I was 14, if I recall correctly!