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A Reminder Regarding Real Life Harassment

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Indahmawar Fazmarai
#181 - 2014-09-11 08:51:56 UTC
Destiny Corrupted wrote:
Indahmawar Fazmarai wrote:
Destiny Corrupted wrote:
Ilaister wrote:
I'd say you missed it entirely.

Maybe. Which is why I'm asking a CCP employee for clarification on the matter.


It is simple. When in doubt, stay on the safer side, or just stop it. If you do it and you cross the line, HTFU and learn some empathy.

This is a game, not a place to harrass people in real life. If you think that there is a line, you're expected to stop and not get any closer. If you don't know where is the line, or can't judge yourself, stop playing EVE or face the consequences of any potential misjudgement.

Now, if you are asking where the line is in order to get as close to it as possible and discuss whether you crossed it or don't, I'd suggest you to biomass all your chars and remove yourself from EVE Online and its community.

So if a player tells me that unless I remove a war declaration on his corporation, he will probably become agitated and beat his wife and children, should I remove the war declaration on his corporation?


It is your call to take responsability of your actions. If you think that it is somebody else's job to judge your behavior on your behalf, maybe you should just resign from being (or becoming) an adult.
CALDARI CITIZEN 14330909
The Conference Elite
Safety.
#182 - 2014-09-11 08:54:55 UTC
Mira Robinson wrote:
Oh, I can't wait for the Minerbumping entry on this.

It's gonna be delicious.

It's gonna be all "grrrr emergent gameplay" and "grrr content creators".



I know! It would be horrible for subscribers of this game to engage in and add content outside of what CCP wants! I mean just think of what would happen if... wait. Hold one. Phone.

Yeah.
There is?
No really?
I posted there?
On these forums?
GET OUT!
In Game Content!
REALLY!
WOW!
Oh yeah!
Thanks!
Tell her thanks, I like the muffins.
Sure thing.
Ok. At eight, I can do that.
I need to pick up my dry cleaning.


Sorry the forums called and I had to take it.
So to conclude, I am just stating that everyone hates loosing a ship... but it's part of EVE. The question REALLY is, what should I wear at 8?

The Artist Formerly Known As AC. 

The terminal end of the digestive system. 

The Best CSM Candidate

Remiel Pollard
Aliastra
Gallente Federation
#183 - 2014-09-11 08:55:04 UTC  |  Edited by: Remiel Pollard
Destiny Corrupted wrote:
Remiel Pollard wrote:
I know that RL harassment via someone's RL email containing carefully dug-up personal information about a real person in the game and including threats against named RL family members is allowed, because CCP did nothing about it when exactly that happened to me.

What kind of player are you? PvP? Carebear?

I have a feeling that the answer would have something in common with your results.


I don't actually know what the point is that you're trying to make. My point is the lack of consistency. Is that your point too? It seems to be but for the record, I'm not any kind of player really, I just do whatever the **** I want. Sometimes I fly 1 bil officer fit Ishkurs in PVP. Whatever, I do what I want. Sometimes, I sit on stargates in Talwars and pretend to hump them. Whatever, I do what I want. Sometimes, I chase lost newbies through wormholes while yelling "NOMNOMNOMNOMNOMNOMNOMNOMNOMNOM" in local. Whatever, I do what I want.

What I don't do is break the rules or harass anyone in the real world. Never have. Jump on coms with me and all you're gonna get is, "If you've never tried Crown Lager, you've never liv..... wait, did you just call me a drunk? I swear to drunk I'm not god, and you can't prove I'm not god!!!!"

And you know, other general silliness. That's what kind of player I am I guess, one trying to have fun.

“Some capsuleers claim that ECM is 'dishonorable' and 'unfair'. Jam those ones first, and kill them last.” - Jirai 'Fatal' Laitanen, Pithum Nullifier Training Manual c. YC104

evepal
Scholar of Rationality
#184 - 2014-09-11 08:55:42 UTC
Steppa Musana wrote:
Herr Wilkus wrote:
'Real life' harassment can't even occur unless you know who the hell is on the other side of the EVE account.

Anything that occurred between Ero 1 and Sohkar happened behind the veil of internet anonymity - by definition 'not real life'.

People get their fricken ships popped all the time, and some low-functioning people get mad/cut themselves/kick the dog/beat their wife. Doesn't mean you ban the guy that popped him for 'crossing lines'. We aren't responsible for doing a damn psychoanalysis of everyone we encounter online. And seriously, 'empathy'? Its not a scammers business to give a crap about your personal problems - they just want you to hand over your ISK and your dignity as a bonus.

Shouldn't be CCPs either; even if they seem to want to assign themselves the role of emotion cop. Not a good strategy, and disingenuous too. Should someone REALLY get killed or kill themselves over EVE and lawsuits fly, CCP will back away from that **** and run for cover like a pack of rats. Better to stand on principle now, and accept that trying to regulate RL feelings when they provide 'avatars' to shield them from RL consequences - is just a dead end.

The BR amounts to two goddamn anonymous avatars scamming and willingly being scammed.

Let me illustrate: (and forgive me, Monk, if I'm misremembering this episode....)
Psychotic Monk at one point a couple years ago was actually doxed and telephoned at his home by an angry AWOX victim.
THAT is real life harassment. I'm not even sure if that particular AH got banned. After all, that was a couple years ago and CCP's joke rules are fluid things these days.

Sohkar, to you, me and everyone else is just Sohkar. His humiliation is limited to his fake-ass EVE in-game persona, and will not affect his 'real life' one whit beyond what he allows. He's said as much, himself. And in that sense, he is far more clear-thinking than the GMs. Scary, no?

It's funny, when I first heard about the sohkar incident and read all the threads, I assumed going in that it would be very, very bad. My mentality was, "let's hear a sociopath absolutely degrade another human being".

What I heard completely shocked me. Not only did the scammers say exactly 0 things that are insulting or personal, but I was laughing my ass off nearly the entire time. It saddens me to think those bonus rooms won't happen again.

They are literally no different than prank calls. It is in fact the best analogy to use.
For instance: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Q8w8vlECpVw&index=3&list=PL8ACD12CADB4A1ABC

I guess those radio hosts are also sociopaths, and clearly have tortured poor Mr. Bergis.


It's funny you link to a "prank call" that is considered fake on snopes. Of course, you're not trying to mislead anyone there...
Noriko Mai
#185 - 2014-09-11 08:56:19 UTC
Destiny Corrupted wrote:
CCP Falcon wrote:
Titus Tallang wrote:
can we expect some clear-cut rules on what you would classify as 'real life harassment'?


It isn't our job to dictate to people how to maintain a base standard of human decency toward one another, and we're not going to do so.
...
Cut and dried, that's all we have to say on the matter.

No, it kind of is your job to do this.

Case in point: if I am ransoming someone, and they tell me that while they're going to pay the ransom, this will also cause them to cut back on their food expenditures for the month and/or skip meals, does this constitute as harassing someone out of the game? Is this something that can get me punished, were my victim to make such a claim in a support petition?

Because I don't see any better example of affecting someone's real-life well-being than this. Causing someone to do something detrimental to their health as a result of my in-game actions appears to be as much of a real-life effect as something can be.

Really? Are you twelve or what? For the case your are. Ask your mom, she knows.

"Meh.." - Albert Einstein

Destiny Corrupted
Deadly Viper Kitten Mitten Sewing Company
Senpai's Afterschool Anime and Gaming Club
#186 - 2014-09-11 08:59:31 UTC
My mom doesn't get to decide whether or not I get banned from EVE; CCP does.

I wrote some true EVE stories! And no, they're not of the generic "my 0.0 alliance had lots of 0.0 fleets and took a lot of 0.0 space" sort. Check them out here:

https://truestories.eveonline.com/users/2074-destiny-corrupted

Remiel Pollard
Aliastra
Gallente Federation
#187 - 2014-09-11 09:01:40 UTC
I asked my mum how she thinks I should behave in EVE. She just said,

"What the **** is EVE? Are you on drugs again?"

“Some capsuleers claim that ECM is 'dishonorable' and 'unfair'. Jam those ones first, and kill them last.” - Jirai 'Fatal' Laitanen, Pithum Nullifier Training Manual c. YC104

Dave stark
#188 - 2014-09-11 09:02:32 UTC
Remiel Pollard wrote:
I asked my mum how she thinks I should behave in EVE. She just said,

"What the **** is EVE? Are you on drugs again?"


paracetamol, one hell of a drug.
CALDARI CITIZEN 14330909
The Conference Elite
Safety.
#189 - 2014-09-11 09:04:13 UTC
flower pot wrote:
I QUOTED STUFF


so what you are saying is you´re not going to tell ppl how to behave, you´re just gonna ban them when they dont behave and not even let us know where the line is drawn?
That is a LARGE grey area my friends, one im not sure i want to be a part of.[/quote]

Sure.

It's like a strip bar. You know what you're running and you know that while most customers are fine there's going to be a lot of creepers and pervs in the mix. It's too much hassle to sort out at the door so you just let them all in. When the pervs start whipping it out or saying disgusting things and upsetting the girls, then the bouncer comes over and throws them out. Or maybe not, maybe the perv is actually a celebrity or something, maybe he's just got one of those faces that fit, then you tell the girls to go back and and cool down and forget what happened.

The difference is the guy who owns the strip club knows (or at least, admits) what he's doing. If he really had a problem with the girls being harassed, well, why doesn't he just shut the place down and open a tea shop or something.[/quote]

This is completely wrong! I have found out that going to a venue as you have mentioned with a score card and judging said performances such as an Olympic gymnastic event... is frowned on. (I am sorry Cherry, you didn't hit the landing, so it's just a 7.3)
[/quote]

so what you are saying let ppl do the "crime" that isn´t even clear what it is and then handle/deal with it? why not just have a clear rule and ppl that don´t like the rule can go and play something else[/quote]


I am just stating that if there isn't a clear line of said 'crime' then there is no clear nor present danger (had to slip this in sorry) So due to the vagueness of this definition, because I lost a ship I flew that I could not afford to fly/replace, it hurt me. Hence out of game harassment. So I guess we need to ask everyone from now on if they are able to afford the ship/pod/POS/Mod that is being used before engaging in the spaceship shooting of said spaceships. I'd had to cause someone some loss sleep because they lost a faction fit T3 or an incursion ship.

Now as to define as you stated the 'crime' yes. Even something as a clarification instead of this generic 'THE FLOOR IS LAVA!' phrasing that is currently being use would be fantastic. This case by case basis I feel might end up being a little biased. While yes, there will always be grey areas, there needs to be at least some semblance of the line drawn, rather than just stating that there is a line. And make sure you don't scuff said line, touch said line, look at said line, or cross said line. Because even if you can't see said line, said line can affect you. And on a case by case basis, said line can be moved.


The Artist Formerly Known As AC. 

The terminal end of the digestive system. 

The Best CSM Candidate

Remiel Pollard
Aliastra
Gallente Federation
#190 - 2014-09-11 09:12:09 UTC
Dave Stark wrote:
Remiel Pollard wrote:
I asked my mum how she thinks I should behave in EVE. She just said,

"What the **** is EVE? Are you on drugs again?"


paracetamol, one hell of a drug.


Pfft, real men take codeine, which is legal in Australia without a prescription Lol

“Some capsuleers claim that ECM is 'dishonorable' and 'unfair'. Jam those ones first, and kill them last.” - Jirai 'Fatal' Laitanen, Pithum Nullifier Training Manual c. YC104

evepal
Scholar of Rationality
#191 - 2014-09-11 09:13:22 UTC
Crumplecorn wrote:
Pointing out the flaws in flawed views is itself a contribution. As for 'attack', really? Do you really not get that in this context an argument is not a shouting match and an attack is not a physical altercation?


Except you've already stated you have no fault with the conclusion, so there's no contribution to be made on the view - as evidenced of your points being contrary to that.

What I don't get is how you believe it's an argument and not a discussion. That's an astonishing insight. When you use the word "attack", you set the context to heated, as there's no place for "attack" within the realms of rational discussion. There's no definition of the word 'attack' that could allow for the context to be any other way. It's clearly just a Freudian slip of your intent. HTFU.
Mira Robinson
#192 - 2014-09-11 09:18:24 UTC
CALDARI CITIZEN 14330909 wrote:
Mira Robinson wrote:
Oh, I can't wait for the Minerbumping entry on this.

It's gonna be delicious.

It's gonna be all "grrrr emergent gameplay" and "grrr content creators".



I know! It would be horrible for subscribers of this game to engage in and add content outside of what CCP wants! I mean just think of what would happen if... wait. Hold one. Phone.

Yeah.
There is?
No really?
I posted there?
On these forums?
GET OUT!
In Game Content!
REALLY!
WOW!
Oh yeah!
Thanks!
Tell her thanks, I like the muffins.
Sure thing.
Ok. At eight, I can do that.
I need to pick up my dry cleaning.


Sorry the forums called and I had to take it.
So to conclude, I am just stating that everyone hates loosing a ship... but it's part of EVE. The question REALLY is, what should I wear at 8?

I guess CCP doesn't like some of your content.

Sucks to be you.

Earlier today, the Dixon Mining Guild and the Butz Manufacturing Corporation formed a coalition.

It's hard to tell if there is a light at the end of the tunnel for the Dixon-Butz Alliance.

evepal
Scholar of Rationality
#193 - 2014-09-11 09:18:29 UTC
I will donate 100,000,000 ISK to the first person that can present a reasonable argument here, that doesn't contain at least one logical fallacy. Reasonable is at my own discretion, because I can do that, and it's a term well used in legal precedent and business practice.
CALDARI CITIZEN 14330909
The Conference Elite
Safety.
#194 - 2014-09-11 09:20:08 UTC
evepal wrote:
I will donate 100,000,000 ISK to the first person that can present a reasonable argument here, that doesn't contain at least one logical fallacy. Reasonable is at my own discretion, because I can do that, and it's a term well used in legal precedent and business practice.


Because. (This appears to work for CCP so please deposit into my account ASAP)

The Artist Formerly Known As AC. 

The terminal end of the digestive system. 

The Best CSM Candidate

evepal
Scholar of Rationality
#195 - 2014-09-11 09:26:04 UTC
CALDARI CITIZEN 14330909 wrote:
evepal wrote:
I will donate 100,000,000 ISK to the first person that can present a reasonable argument here, that doesn't contain at least one logical fallacy. Reasonable is at my own discretion, because I can do that, and it's a term well used in legal precedent and business practice.


Because. (This appears to work for CCP so please deposit into my account ASAP)



Sorry, can't, contains a logical fallacy.
Mira Robinson
#196 - 2014-09-11 09:27:51 UTC
CALDARI CITIZEN 14330909 wrote:
evepal wrote:
I will donate 100,000,000 ISK to the first person that can present a reasonable argument here, that doesn't contain at least one logical fallacy. Reasonable is at my own discretion, because I can do that, and it's a term well used in legal precedent and business practice.


Because. (This appears to work for CCP so please deposit into my account ASAP)


I am sensing a pattern of you CODE folk imagining yourselves on equal footing with those of CCP.

You are not. "Because" works for them. Not for you. Nice try.

Earlier today, the Dixon Mining Guild and the Butz Manufacturing Corporation formed a coalition.

It's hard to tell if there is a light at the end of the tunnel for the Dixon-Butz Alliance.

Durzel
Questionable Ethics.
Ministry of Inappropriate Footwork
#197 - 2014-09-11 09:28:16 UTC  |  Edited by: Durzel
CCP Falcon wrote:
Titus Tallang wrote:
can we expect some clear-cut rules on what you would classify as 'real life harassment'?


It isn't our job to dictate to people how to maintain a base standard of human decency toward one another, and we're not going to do so.

The bottom line is that it's down to members of the community to know where the line crosses from common decency to harassment. We will not draw a line in the sand so that people can skirt on the edge of it and bend the rules as much as possible.

This isn't a debate about what constitutes "harassment". If you're not familiar with the word, find the definition in a dictionary and that will satisfy your question.

What we will do, is continue to use best judgement on a case by case basis to ensure that real life harassment is kept out of the game, and ensure that those who choose to involve themselves in such activities are no longer permitted to be part of our community.

Cut and dried, that's all we have to say on the matter.

What a fantastically well written post, which speaks to the heart of the matter very precisely.

It should be (and very probably is) blindingly obvious to any right minded individual when they are overstepping the mark, and I for one don't want to have to play the same game as people who honestly have sociopathic proclivities.
Destiny Corrupted
Deadly Viper Kitten Mitten Sewing Company
Senpai's Afterschool Anime and Gaming Club
#198 - 2014-09-11 09:36:30 UTC  |  Edited by: Destiny Corrupted
Anyone who compares real-life bullying to voluntary, anonymous actions performed to save and/or recover virtual assets from in game theft and violence that are legitimately allowed by the game's code of conduct, is sick in the head.

I wrote some true EVE stories! And no, they're not of the generic "my 0.0 alliance had lots of 0.0 fleets and took a lot of 0.0 space" sort. Check them out here:

https://truestories.eveonline.com/users/2074-destiny-corrupted

Crumplecorn
Eve Cluster Explorations
#199 - 2014-09-11 09:37:43 UTC
evepal wrote:
Crumplecorn wrote:
Do you really not get that in this context an argument is not a shouting match and an attack is not a physical altercation?
What I don't get is how you believe it's an argument and not a discussion.
Well, that clears that up.

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Not Liking this post hurts my RL feelings and will be considered harassment

CALDARI CITIZEN 14330909
The Conference Elite
Safety.
#200 - 2014-09-11 09:43:29 UTC
evepal wrote:
CALDARI CITIZEN 14330909 wrote:
evepal wrote:
I will donate 100,000,000 ISK to the first person that can present a reasonable argument here, that doesn't contain at least one logical fallacy. Reasonable is at my own discretion, because I can do that, and it's a term well used in legal precedent and business practice.


Because. (This appears to work for CCP so please deposit into my account ASAP)



Sorry, can't, contains a logical fallacy.


But... but... If there is a line that isn't able to be seen... then then... BECAUSE! I Say, because!

The Artist Formerly Known As AC. 

The terminal end of the digestive system. 

The Best CSM Candidate