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some things are better left private

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Gully Alex Foyle
The Scope
Gallente Federation
#61 - 2014-07-02 16:51:31 UTC
Jenn aSide wrote:
Anslo wrote:
Jenn aSide wrote:
Anslo wrote:
Then why are you red carding your own player you scrub?


Because I hate Americans. Go Germany!


You are everything wrong with our country. Go salute the American flag for 3 hours straight and chant 'USA' the entire time lest I call the NSA.


You don't have to 'call' the NSA, they are already Listening, just pick any phone and say hi Big smile
Someone once told me that they heard from someone that at least one of the ISDs is an NSA alt.

Make space glamorous! Is EVE dying or not? Ask the EVE-O Death-o-meter!

Ralph King-Griffin
New Eden Tech Support
#62 - 2014-07-02 16:51:46 UTC
LUMINOUS SPIRIT wrote:
To me its normal to keep personal issues to myself, and I find contrary behavior crass and heartless.

likewise, currently going through a rough patch myself, However havent been a massive bellend about it.

Boom McCondor
Doomheim
#63 - 2014-07-02 16:52:08 UTC  |  Edited by: Boom McCondor
LUMINOUS SPIRIT wrote:
Anslo wrote:
LUMINOUS SPIRIT wrote:
Anslo wrote:
Ok then if Tippia is pissed off then you've REALLY dun goofed.


Meh. Blocked him a while ago and feel better not having to read his posts. He can do likewise. Tool exists for this exact purpose.


Then why didn't you do the same with the thread you didn't like?


why would i block that thread? i simply told the OP to keep personal stuff to himself and thats that.

Because what he did is digital equivalent of standing on a busy intersection downtown and yelling to everyone and noone in particular about something, does not matter what.

And when you do that, others have a right to either support you, or tell you to take it someplace else. Which I did. Crass and heartless someone said - that's subjective. To me its normal to keep personal issues to myself, and I find contrary behavior crass and heartless. Who is to say which is right and which is wrong?

I don't disagree with the notion of private stuff remaining private. Obviously this person feels comfortable, though, with sharing deeply personal information, and there must a reason for doing so. Maybe sharing such information with us is easier than sharing with other folks, and it might be a way to gain a little control over a seemingly uncontrollable situation. You don't have to agree with the poster, but you don't have to call them out, either. However, that's your opinion, and you have every right to express it, but don't put it out there without expecting some negative feedback. This is still EVE; you don't know when players are going to have a sudden attack of compassion!
Anslo
Scope Works
#64 - 2014-07-02 16:59:11 UTC
Jenn aSide wrote:
Anslo wrote:
Jenn aSide wrote:
Anslo wrote:
Then why are you red carding your own player you scrub?


Because I hate Americans. Go Germany!


You are everything wrong with our country. Go salute the American flag for 3 hours straight and chant 'USA' the entire time lest I call the NSA.


You don't have to 'call' the NSA, they are already Listening, just pick any phone and say hi Big smile


Just did that. They said you owe them $15 for some tax thing. What should I say?

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Gully Alex Foyle
The Scope
Gallente Federation
#65 - 2014-07-02 17:03:50 UTC
Anslo wrote:
Jenn aSide wrote:
Anslo wrote:
Jenn aSide wrote:
Anslo wrote:
Then why are you red carding your own player you scrub?


Because I hate Americans. Go Germany!


You are everything wrong with our country. Go salute the American flag for 3 hours straight and chant 'USA' the entire time lest I call the NSA.


You don't have to 'call' the NSA, they are already Listening, just pick any phone and say hi Big smile


Just did that. They said you owe them $15 for some tax thing. What should I say?
Would they accept a PLEX instead?

Make space glamorous! Is EVE dying or not? Ask the EVE-O Death-o-meter!

Anslo
Scope Works
#66 - 2014-07-02 17:04:56 UTC
I dunno, but I heard some yelling and van engines starting up. I think Jenn might have gone to call them. I'm sure it's nothing major.

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LUMINOUS SPIRIT
Caldari Provisions
Caldari State
#67 - 2014-07-02 17:05:58 UTC
Anslo wrote:


EDIT: Sorry but my immature side needs to add this...
Get rekt, nerd.



"Get rekd, nerd?" I haven't heard that phrase since university, and first or second term at that. What are you, 19?
Anslo
Scope Works
#68 - 2014-07-02 17:06:51 UTC  |  Edited by: Anslo
LUMINOUS SPIRIT wrote:
Anslo wrote:


EDIT: Sorry but my immature side needs to add this...
Get rekt, nerd.



"Get rekd, nerd?" I haven't heard that phrase since university, and first or second term at that. What are you, 19?


I like how you avoided every other point in my previous post. But hey, had to throw you a bone I suppose.

I'll take you ignoring my counter points and going pure ad hominem instead as a sign of your surrender.

EDIT: Here's another bone for you since I feel bad; GET DUNKT.
COME AND
SLAM
AND WELCOME TO THE
JAM

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Jake Warbird
Republic Military School
Minmatar Republic
#69 - 2014-07-02 17:09:06 UTC
Inxentas Ultramar
Ultramar Independent Contracting
#70 - 2014-07-02 17:09:06 UTC
Smart move OP. Didn't want to discuss cancer. Decided to light up GD with an offensive post about the very subject.

No offense, but apart from a terribly egotistical human being I'm afraid you are also not the brightest of the bunch. Sad

Sad day for GD.
LUMINOUS SPIRIT
Caldari Provisions
Caldari State
#71 - 2014-07-02 17:11:03 UTC
Anslo wrote:
LUMINOUS SPIRIT wrote:
Anslo wrote:


EDIT: Sorry but my immature side needs to add this...
Get rekt, nerd.



"Get rekd, nerd?" I haven't heard that phrase since university, and first or second term at that. What are you, 19?


I like how you avoided every other point in my previous post. But hey, had to throw you a bone I suppose.

I'll take you ignoring my counter points and going pure ad hominem instead as a sign of your surrender.


Counter-points that begin with an insult and end with "Get rekd, nerd" tend to get discounted as trolling.

You might want to notice that out of respect for that cancer dude i left his tread and created this one, and that I havent insulted anyone here, even known trolls. A courtesy which is not reciprocated.
LUMINOUS SPIRIT
Caldari Provisions
Caldari State
#72 - 2014-07-02 17:12:40 UTC
Inxentas Ultramar wrote:
Smart move OP. Didn't want to discuss cancer. Decided to light up GD with an offensive post about the very subject.

No offense, but apart from a terribly egotistical human being I'm afraid you are also not the brightest of the bunch. Sad

Sad day for GD.


Subject is keeping personal stuff, personal, and off the EVE GD Forums at least. Cancer or not, does not matter.
Anslo
Scope Works
#73 - 2014-07-02 17:13:46 UTC  |  Edited by: Anslo
LUMINOUS SPIRIT wrote:
Counter-points that begin with an insult and end with "Get rekd, nerd" tend to get discounted as trolling.

Except it didn't start with get rekt, as anyone can see who looks at my post. So no, you're wrong.

Quote:
You might want to notice that out of respect for that cancer dude i left his tread and created this one

Which is even more insulting as you call him out without directly naming him.

Quote:
and that I havent insulted anyone here, even known trolls. A courtesy which is not reciprocated.

Odd, I've seen no trolling here. I simply see facts being stating about how the Eve Community would be better off without you. You don't care about its members, we the members surely do not care about you.

The door to the CQ may be locked, but the door to unsubscribe is quite open. Please see yourself out.

EDIT: Note that I really haven't ever condoned someone quitting Eve, because I want more people to play and enjoy it. Making an exception for you though. That should say something.

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Ralph King-Griffin
New Eden Tech Support
#74 - 2014-07-02 17:14:17 UTC
LUMINOUS SPIRIT wrote:
Anslo wrote:
LUMINOUS SPIRIT wrote:
Anslo wrote:


EDIT: Sorry but my immature side needs to add this...
Get rekt, nerd.



"Get rekd, nerd?" I haven't heard that phrase since university, and first or second term at that. What are you, 19?


I like how you avoided every other point in my previous post. But hey, had to throw you a bone I suppose.

I'll take you ignoring my counter points and going pure ad hominem instead as a sign of your surrender.


Counter-points that begin with an insult and end with "Get rekd, nerd" tend to get discounted as trolling.

You might want to notice that out of respect for that cancer dude i left his tread and created this one, and that I havent insulted anyone here, even known trolls. A courtesy which is not reciprocated.

yes you have and you know you have.
Tippia
Sunshine and Lollipops
#75 - 2014-07-02 17:16:04 UTC  |  Edited by: Tippia
LUMINOUS SPIRIT wrote:
Counter-points that begin with an insult and end with "Get rekd, nerd" tend to get discounted as trolling.
So why did you discount his counter-point?

Quote:
You might want to notice that out of respect for that cancer dude i left his tread and created this one
Yes. Bitching someone out for posting a health update, refusing to even referencing Remiel by name, and then creating an egotistic whine thread when you got called out on it. Respectful as hell. Roll

Again, sod off.
Anslo
Scope Works
#76 - 2014-07-02 17:17:05 UTC
You also know you've dun goofed when Tippia and I, of all people, start posting against you together, in the exact same manner, and liking each others posts.

This just doesn't happen in nature. Look what you've done, you fool.

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LUMINOUS SPIRIT
Caldari Provisions
Caldari State
#77 - 2014-07-02 17:19:09 UTC
Ralph King-Griffin wrote:

yes you have and you know you have.


Whom? link post.
Jonah Gravenstein
Machiavellian Space Bastards
#78 - 2014-07-02 17:20:12 UTC  |  Edited by: Jonah Gravenstein
Anslo wrote:
You also know you've dun goofed when Tippia and I, of all people, start posting against you together, in the exact same manner, and liking each others posts.

This just doesn't happen in nature. Look what you've done, you fool.

+++ Divide By Cucumber Error. Please Reinstall Universe And Reboot +++

Truth, OP has accidentally the whole universe.

In the beginning there was nothing, which exploded.

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Anslo
Scope Works
#79 - 2014-07-02 17:20:21 UTC  |  Edited by: Anslo
LUMINOUS SPIRIT wrote:
Ralph King-Griffin wrote:

yes you have and you know you have.


Whom? link post.


See that top post on the first page? And all the one's from the same poster?

Those.

EDIT: Oh, and by the way; Sol may not enter lowsec or lolsec.

But I do.

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Caviar Liberta
The Scope
Gallente Federation
#80 - 2014-07-02 17:26:24 UTC  |  Edited by: Caviar Liberta
Jenn aSide wrote:
LUMINOUS SPIRIT wrote:
Who do some people have the need to to post the most private details of their personal life on public forums?

I notice this a lot especially in north American culture - every little detail, first thing a lot of people do is post on all the forums about it. Never mind that a lot of people dont care, or dont want to know, or it might bring up unwanted memories.

What happened to notions of privacy and friends? If you got married, sick, cured, divorced, whatever, tell your friends about it by all means - but why tell strangers? And why do it on a computer game forum of all places?

I mean there are mailing lists, tools to manage friends, corp, alliance mails, regular emails, facebook - use those, its not that hard.

For example - the post here about someone having cancer surgery. Thats great, best of luck to that guy, but do I want to know about it? My grandma has cancer, my friend has cancer, and my best friends mom had breast cancer surgery recently - I do NOT want to be reminded about 3 people I know that might still die. And I do not go asking for support of random people on a computer game forum either - its my details, I do not go burdening others with them.

This is a forum for a computer game, not a board for cancer support. This is best done on facebook or some such.

It may sound harsh, but public means respecting other's right NOT to be informed of personal details of certain nature. Im not being hateful or anything, I just dont want to know about certain things. And there is a reason why certain topics are off limits in the EULA.

Please keep topics here in general direction of EVE.


So this morning I was taking this MASSIVE bowel movement (Pad Thai is delicious, but boy do you pay for it). Now I know what you are thinking, what does this have to do with EVE?



Well, when I finished, I got up, turned a round and realized that the thing i just dropped looked just like this.



exit cyno?