Out of Pod Experience

some of my guy friends refer to this phenomenon as N.A.R.Bs

"no apparent reason boners"

You mean that's not normal?

It is normal. And I'm sick of women believing they can read my mind by the state of my pénis. The two are completely separate and if at any time they are in agreement, it is entirely coincidental. That's not to say it doesn't happen a lot, just that an erection is not an indicator of sexual readiness or desire in a man, nor is a lack of an erection an indication of a lack of desire.

I've never faked an orgasm, but if I did, I don't think she would realize I was faking it, since I don't think very many women would even notice it happening in the first place. That being said, I have kept going after orgasm and I saw no indication in the women I was with that they even cared if I came or not. I didn't really care either so I guess that worked out pretty well. =)

Yep, believe it or not, men can have intercourse without actually enjoying it, or for show.

Ejaculation is not orgasm, please research Ejaculation Anhedonia (as one of the MANY examples in Medical Literature), and despite what some MD´s try with the label, it´s not, in my own research, tied to a hypoactive disorder per se (I sometimes hate the regulatory and constraining shell standards try to encase everything in, yet I recognize their effectiveness)

It´s not necessarily chronic, can be episodic and like all human nuances of behavior tied to several states of "mood" (for lack of a better term in this informal discussion)

Also some men penetrate others without the need to ejaculate and "pretend" they are enjoying it.

It´s not so occult to try to pin on certain group of men, it happens to a lot of them, and occurs regardless of gender attraction and sexual orientation

But as usual, this is the internet, and my experience is not quantified in hard data willing to be tested using the scientific method, but in my experience dealing with several sexual dysfunctions I even noticed some men under vasoregulators of varied labs/brands, experience erections that were totally out of sync with their "emotions" , and by consequence, the act, even when it finished in a very visual ejaculation and release of genetic material that didnt qualify for rigid standards of labeling, so there´s that too.

So here I have given you my experience and I hope it helps as an answer.

This discussion is going places.

So men...

I'll just come out and say it:

Ever fake an orgasm?