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Noir. [Est. 2008]

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Tor Norman
The Scope
Gallente Federation
#321 - 2014-05-10 17:12:36 UTC
Dave Stark wrote:
if you've got to resort to literally making things up with "context" to justify your position, it should be obvious that you're wrong.


I know it's hard to admit when you're wrong but don't worry about it, it happens to everyone. No one will think less of you for it. It's better than divorcing your posts from reality altogether.

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if he was in any doubt about the service he was purchasing then he should have clarified the terms and conditions before the event. noir. aren't mind readers, they weren't to know he was asking, and paying for service X but was instead expecting service Y.

That's the problem, though and ultimately why I'm taking part in this conversation. As far as the customer was concerned, there was no doubt what he was getting simply because Aleks never rejected his request. This isn't helped by the fact Aleks confirmed Gevlon's request by saying he'd prefer to use EAFs. Had I been in Gevlon's shoes, I'd find myself in a similar predicament as he is in now. This isn't exactly reassuring to a potential customer.

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Dave Stark
#322 - 2014-05-10 17:28:46 UTC  |  Edited by: Dave Stark
Tor Norman wrote:
the fact Aleks confirmed Gevlon's request


by "confirmed gevlon's request" you mean, propose a totally different deal that gevlon agreed to?
you're literally lying and contradicting the evidence that YOU presented. although, i did point this out a page ago.

edit: in fact, looking at it, he does the very opposite of confirmed gevlon's request. he flat out rejects it saying jamming with blackbirds and scorpions isn't what they do... if you interpret "we don't do that" as "yes, i agree" then i honestly don't know what to say to you.
Tor Norman
The Scope
Gallente Federation
#323 - 2014-05-10 17:46:20 UTC
Dave Stark wrote:
by "confirmed gevlon's request" you mean, propose a totally different deal that gevlon agreed to?

Confirming that EAFs aren't ECM boats and suggesting you will use them means you reject the use of ECM outright.

I talk about EVE trading and general space violence in my blog.

For the ISK and the yarr!

Dave Stark
#324 - 2014-05-10 17:50:17 UTC  |  Edited by: Dave Stark
actually, i don't care. you've already admitted you and goblin can't understand the english language.
Tor Norman
The Scope
Gallente Federation
#325 - 2014-05-10 17:58:34 UTC
Dave Stark wrote:
actually, i don't care. you've already admitted you and goblin can't understand the english language.

It bears repeating: When you realise you're wrong, you're better off admitting your mistakes than divorcing your posts from reality.

I talk about EVE trading and general space violence in my blog.

For the ISK and the yarr!

Dave Stark
#326 - 2014-05-10 18:02:14 UTC
Tor Norman wrote:
Dave Stark wrote:
actually, i don't care. you've already admitted you and goblin can't understand the english language.

It bears repeating: When you realise you're wrong, you're better off admitting your mistakes than divorcing your posts from reality.

except i'm not wrong; i just realised that no matter what i post when you don't have a grasp of basic english it's going to fall on deaf ears.

your own evidence contradicts your entire argument, the fact that you can't see that you've already proved yourself wrong yet continue to post really does highlight that nobody is going to be able to enlighten you to your own contradictions.
Fayral
Nano Currency
Yeet. Pray. Love.
#327 - 2014-05-10 18:17:53 UTC
Maybe we should just keep this discussion to G's blog and the comments on it.


TLDR for potential employers. Goblin is not happy with our performance. He believes we scammed him. Some readers agree with him, some agree with Noir.

There is a saying that the squeaky wheel gets the grease. Well you can check out our Hundreds of contracts that ended with no squeaks. Or you can follow This blog and see for yourself just how squeaky this conspiracy theorist can be.
Tor Norman
The Scope
Gallente Federation
#328 - 2014-05-10 19:15:44 UTC
Dave Stark wrote:
except i'm not wrong

OK dear.

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For the ISK and the yarr!

Seraph IX Basarab
Outer Path
Seraphim Division
#329 - 2014-05-11 03:33:49 UTC
Weighing the two sides after more of the debate has been had, I've come to the conclusion that neither side is really faultless here. It may not be a popular conclusion to have but both sides are speaking past each other. Both simply assumed the other side knew what they meant and in some cases both sides should have known better.

Goblin DID say "can you ECM Goon ships." Alek replied by suggesting EWAR frigs but then turned from the conversation about that to a pay per kill discussion. Goblin failed to insist on the topic and Alek failed to give a definitive "no" to the suggestion. They both spoke too vaguely and from that, misunderstandings arose. When a client comes to a merc, they need to detail exactly what they want done, how they want it done and all parameters. Goblin failed to do that. Likewise as a merc, you need to ask every little detail possible about the contract so that both sides understand what is to be expected. Alek failed to do that. And to wrap it up (at least how I always did it) is you wrote up a "contract mail" with all of these details together and both sides agree to those specific terms. Only then do you go to work.

No one can be perfect. Sometimes the client can't think of all of the details and possibilities of the contract. Sometimes the merc will fail to grasp all aspects of what the client once. By both sides of the relationship trying their best to ensure that they communicate, misunderstandings can be minimized. Unfortunately this was a case where both sides failed to do what they were suppose to do in their respective cases, and the mass backlash (both for and against) is the result.

Of course Goblin should have insisted on his specifications and not agreed to anything until he knew what he was buying. If I go into a store and just nod and take whatever is handed to me and buy it after only a vague conversation with the store keeper, i'm at fault. At the same time Alek should have known that taking a wardec to fight whoever was attacking the GSF would bother Goblin. Both sides should have simply known better.

Now the question remains, where do we go from here? Goblin cannot afford to waste time and resources fighting Noir if his goal is to go after the CFC. It isn't in his interest to waste resources over this sort of thing. At the same time, regardless of how one may feel about Goblin, Noir has a reputation to uphold. Even if your client isn't completely specific with their desires, there's a level of interest that is expected and should be shown from a mercenary group such as Noir. I think both sides need to seek terms with one another as to solve this problem or it will persist. Neither side has anything to gain from making the other side unhappy. Nor does it help with either side's goals. Both sides need to realize their fault and move forward. Obviously the next time they negotiate a contract (if they ever do again) they'll both need to be much more aware of the other's needs and goals and what parameters need to exist.

I'm sincerely open to speak with both parties privately either 1 on 1 or all together. I think the initial situation was handled poorly. There's no need to have it echo like this.


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Gevlon Goblin
Science and Trade Institute
Caldari State
#330 - 2014-05-11 07:03:38 UTC
Seraph IX Basarab wrote:
Weighing the two sides after more of the debate has been had, I've come to the conclusion that neither side is really faultless here. It may not be a popular conclusion to have but both sides are speaking past each other. Both simply assumed the other side knew what they meant and in some cases both sides should have known better.

When a client comes to a merc, they need to detail exactly what they want done, how they want it done and all parameters. Goblin failed to do that.

And if the story ended here, I would have just eat some loss. I mean on Friday the misunderstandings would have been noticed and talked out by something like "OK, I pay for the Friday kills, but from now on, only for ECM kills and non-concord kills". After all, I was interested in upkeeping a cooperation.

While believing that "Concord whoring counts" can be considered a honest mistake, joining as ally of the target and actively defending it from wartargets cannot. That's an obviously hostile act and from that point any further discussion with them is just "providing tears". Please note that killing my own alt - while being a good catchphrase - is irrelevant. Shooting anyone who is shooting X is "defending X" by definition.

I believe that - while I negotiated dumbly - no amount of negotiation would have helped me. For example I could write in my last mail "so, you run a 15 man ECM fleet to jam CFC gankers and attack nobody else during Burn Jita, yes or no?", it would have been perfectly clear. The answer would have been "yes" and the action would have been the very opposite, since Noir was already hired by Goons for this exact purpose. If they reject my contract, I just find another mercs.

The crucial point is that neither Goons themselves, nor any merc could defend them against out-of-war ECM-ers, as attacking gankers is allowed in highsec, and ganker-attackers don't become suspects or anything. Even if the Goons/mercs have a full fleet on grid, anyone can go and freely ECM gankers as the fleet is not allowed to engage and gets concorded if it does. The only way to stop my ECM fleet is to prevent their formation, and the only way to achieve that is to make me believe that I already have it. This was the job Noir was hired for by Goons. They knew that my first merc idea will be Noir, so they hired them to scam me.

The only honest mistake Noir made was believing that I'll be too ashamed of being outplayed by Goons so I keep my mouth shut and even pay them according to their interpretation of the contract, just to keep this under the carpet.

My blog: greedygoblin.blogspot.com

Gin Alley
#331 - 2014-05-11 07:06:35 UTC
So get your peons and lemmings to run ecm next year and see how useless it is you big dummy.
Seraph IX Basarab
Outer Path
Seraphim Division
#332 - 2014-05-11 07:23:36 UTC
Gevlon Goblin wrote:
Seraph IX Basarab wrote:
Weighing the two sides after more of the debate has been had, I've come to the conclusion that neither side is really faultless here. It may not be a popular conclusion to have but both sides are speaking past each other. Both simply assumed the other side knew what they meant and in some cases both sides should have known better.

When a client comes to a merc, they need to detail exactly what they want done, how they want it done and all parameters. Goblin failed to do that.

And if the story ended here, I would have just eat some loss. I mean on Friday the misunderstandings would have been noticed and talked out by something like "OK, I pay for the Friday kills, but from now on, only for ECM kills and non-concord kills". After all, I was interested in upkeeping a cooperation.

While believing that "Concord whoring counts" can be considered a honest mistake, joining as ally of the target and actively defending it from wartargets cannot. That's an obviously hostile act and from that point any further discussion with them is just "providing tears". Please note that killing my own alt - while being a good catchphrase - is irrelevant. Shooting anyone who is shooting X is "defending X" by definition.

I believe that - while I negotiated dumbly - no amount of negotiation would have helped me. For example I could write in my last mail "so, you run a 15 man ECM fleet to jam CFC gankers and attack nobody else during Burn Jita, yes or no?", it would have been perfectly clear. The answer would have been "yes" and the action would have been the very opposite, since Noir was already hired by Goons for this exact purpose. If they reject my contract, I just find another mercs.

The crucial point is that neither Goons themselves, nor any merc could defend them against out-of-war ECM-ers, as attacking gankers is allowed in highsec, and ganker-attackers don't become suspects or anything. Even if the Goons/mercs have a full fleet on grid, anyone can go and freely ECM gankers as the fleet is not allowed to engage and gets concorded if it does. The only way to stop my ECM fleet is to prevent their formation, and the only way to achieve that is to make me believe that I already have it. This was the job Noir was hired for by Goons. They knew that my first merc idea will be Noir, so they hired them to scam me.

The only honest mistake Noir made was believing that I'll be too ashamed of being outplayed by Goons so I keep my mouth shut and even pay them according to their interpretation of the contract, just to keep this under the carpet.



I really don't see Alek actually scamming you. I can see the GSF hiring him to use him for their meta purposes but Alek's not really the meta gaming type and he thinks too highly of Noir and his own reputation to risk that over isk. I do think he should have known better but scamming is a little too far for me to believe.
Alekseyev Karrde
Noir.
Shadow Cartel
#333 - 2014-05-11 09:31:12 UTC  |  Edited by: Alekseyev Karrde
I like how all of Gevlon's excuses now boil down to "Noir. had a secret contract from Goons to accept any contract I gave them so I could scam them"

What it REALLY boils down to is you never want to admit when you're wrong. Even at the very basic idea of your ECM fleet; it just doesn't work. Anyone with knowledge of suicide gank mechanics knows it doesnt work. That's why I said we'd prefer to do it our own way and agreed to your pay per kill counter offer.

But you don't want to accept that anyone knows something you don't, so instead of going "yeah I didn't think about the fact they'd already be done shooting when the jams activate" you stand by your ignorance of how the game works and blame everyone else for undermining your genius plan.

Obviously any mistakes you made negotiating the contract or in handling simple conversation with the mercs in your employ are inconsequential, because secretly Goons hired us to be hired by you so you could... not pay us anything after we do the work? I'm not clear on my end of the plan, sorry.

If your ECM fleet was such a great concept, why didn't Darwin's Lemmings which you were still secretly directly running and flying with use it? Can you point to any example in your EVE or personal life when you took responsibility for your own actions and outcomes? By crap posting against Seraph are you determined to systematically alienate everyone remotely sympathetic to you? Do you understand you can't scam someone when they haven't given you any money or services?

Alek the Kidnapper, Hero of the CSM

Seraph IX Basarab
Outer Path
Seraphim Division
#334 - 2014-05-11 17:32:53 UTC
Well with all due respect he's not the only one at fault here. I think I outlined a fair middle ground perspective of the issue. And the good news is at this point you guys are still in the portion of the disagreement before someone says something they can't take back. You guys can continue to bicker back and forth but I think it's more beneficial for both sides to realize that there were mistakes made all around. It's hard to be the bigger person and be the first to admit to this but I think it will be better that way. Now it can be scary being the first to say "ok I did this wrong" because the assumption often is the other side will quickly capitalize on that and say "see I was right!" But in most situations like this I believe that if the other person does that, they just look like a bigger tool. If people want to hold on to their grudge and disagreement even more so.

There you go, I've given both of you a way "out." I highly recommend you talk it out, realize both of your own mistakes and move on.
Gevlon Goblin
Science and Trade Institute
Caldari State
#335 - 2014-05-11 18:37:39 UTC
I can accept responsibility for the "ECM - kill" misunderstanding. But it's a side issue that could have been solved on the first day.

The elephant in the room is Noir working for both sides of a conflict and I can't even imagine that being a honest mistake.

My blog: greedygoblin.blogspot.com

Gin Alley
#336 - 2014-05-11 21:54:40 UTC  |  Edited by: Gin Alley
Gevlon Goblin wrote:
The elephant in the room is Noir working for both sides of a conflict and I can't even imagine that being a honest mistake.


This is a complete non-issue unless Marmite and Lemmings are afraid of Noir and spent the weekend in Amarr instead of Jita fighting goons because of Noir.

Your insistence that this was a major problem leads us all to believe that Marmite were completely shut down and unable to function because of the 10 or so dudes Noir had in Jita. Maybe pay someone to train those guys??

For all the billions you have funneled into them they have zero pvp confidence in highsec.
Seraph IX Basarab
Outer Path
Seraphim Division
#337 - 2014-05-11 23:34:03 UTC
Gin Alley wrote:
Gevlon Goblin wrote:
The elephant in the room is Noir working for both sides of a conflict and I can't even imagine that being a honest mistake.


This is a complete non-issue unless Marmite and Lemmings are afraid of Noir and spent the weekend in Amarr instead of Jita fighting goons because of Noir.

Your insistence that this was a major problem leads us all to believe that Marmite were completely shut down and unable to function because of the 10 or so dudes Noir had in Jita. Maybe pay someone to train those guys??

For all the billions you have funneled into them they have zero pvp confidence in highsec.



That sort of backbiting doesn't further the discussion nor does it do you any credit. Let's focus on the issue.

Gevlon Goblin wrote:
I can accept responsibility for the "ECM - kill" misunderstanding. But it's a side issue that could have been solved on the first day.

The elephant in the room is Noir working for both sides of a conflict and I can't even imagine that being a honest mistake.



Ok this is very true. This could have been solved. I think Alek made a mistake in the manner in which he communicated as much as you. But I don't think Alek really meant to scam anyone out of anything. We also don't actually have proof that the GSF hired him. As far as we know "someone" did. In all likely cases it is GSF via alt, but we can't be sure.
Alekseyev Karrde
Noir.
Shadow Cartel
#338 - 2014-05-12 01:12:17 UTC  |  Edited by: Alekseyev Karrde
Seraph IX Basarab wrote:
OK this is very true. This could have been solved. I think Alek made a mistake in the manner in which he communicated as much as you.

I'm the first to say this could have been easily solved. If Gevlon hadn't blocked me straight away. And blocked every character from Noir. that attempted to reach out to him.

It could have been handled differently had Goblin and I been able to talk to each other, but Goblin repeatedly took active steps to ensure that was not the case. It's a what-if that presupposes Goblin had any desire to see it played out differently when no action he took or has taken since indicates that to be the case.

As for moving on, someone and his altpets keep bumping our thread to the top of the page. Lol I appreciate the gesture though Seraph.

Alek the Kidnapper, Hero of the CSM

Ynot Eyob
Nisroc Angels
The Obsidian Front - Reborn
#339 - 2014-05-12 06:41:30 UTC  |  Edited by: Ynot Eyob
Alekseyev Karrde wrote:

As for moving on, someone and his altpets keep bumping our thread to the top of the page. Lol I appreciate the gesture though Seraph.


Turning into another Marmite thread, but hey, bad adviticement is better than none.

Im stunned its the same discussion going on still.

EDIT:

Awesome podcast btw +1

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Lucas Kell
Solitude Trading
S.N.O.T.
#340 - 2014-05-12 15:24:07 UTC
Gevlon Goblin wrote:
joining as ally of the target and actively defending it from wartargets cannot. That's an obviously hostile act and from that point any further discussion with them is just "providing tears". Please note that killing my own alt - while being a good catchphrase - is irrelevant. Shooting anyone who is shooting X is "defending X" by definition.
Incorrect.
If you had hired them to specifically prevent goons from being able to gank, and that was the actual aim of the contract, you might be right, but all you did was provide them a bounty on the goons they can kill. You didn't ask them to not shoot any specific people. So shooting people that are shooting goons AND shooting goons means they get more targets to claim bounties on. If they left everyone else to also shoot goons, they'd have less goons to kill themselves.

So again, this comes down to you failing to specify a contract. You didn't hire them to stop Burn Jita and help out your buddies, you hired them to kill/jam goons that were trying to execute ganks and nothing more. Let's face it, what you are annoyed about is that Noir aren't your mercs. Because they take contracts from all sides and don't spend all of their time thinking about your agenda, you consider them part of the enemy so you'll make up whatever pathetic reasons you can to avoid having to pay them. Why don't you stick with Marmite, who can only jokingly be called mercs. Nobody else is likely to hire them so you don't have to worry about them going away from your agenda.

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