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A question about the Eve Culture

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Sombre Asesinos
Doomheim
#1 - 2011-09-10 18:08:42 UTC
Nothing in this post will be aimed at insulting anyone so please keep that in mind as you read (if you read).

I've played MMOs since June 6, 2001 when World War II Online was released. WWII Online was 100% pvp, you couldn't speak to the enemy, etc. However, the overall culture was still fairly open and neutral.

Most of the MMOs out there are the same game just with different skins attached to stuff. When I read the description of Eve I had fond memories of Starflight (from the late 1980s), exploring the unknown, discovering planets, running into new species, etc.

I fully understood that unlike most MMOs you cannot avoid PvP in Eve. I've never liked PvP because you have to completely change everything you do for PvP. PvP has always meant paying huge sums of money for the slightest increase in the quality of the smallest part of your gear. That all fine for those that like to PvP. Anyway, I understood I'd have to learn to deal with Pvp if I wanted to experience Eve.

I first started playing Eve in May when SOE lost all of its web services. Since then I've fallen victim to can flipping once (the guy picked up the can, then as if to say "oops I sorry put it back and started to move off"), I stumbled into a 0.4 system before I knew what that meant, my noobie ship was obliterated with the 1st shot, my pod with the 2nd. I've not repeated either of those mistakes. I ventured through a wormhole once, I started exploring, I got jumped by a group of five T3 cruisers that made quick work of my brutix.

I've listened to players talking to each other, I've read some posts in the forums, the trolls usually manage to drown out anything of value, so I don't come here often.

There is a significant percentage of established Eve players that seem to absolutely Hate new players and view them as tresspassers. These players also do everything within their power to make new players so miserable that they leave. I've heard the phrase "Eve isn't a nice place.". Well no it isn't. These established players do everything within their power to run off new players.

While this sadistic behavior may be fun, at some point Eve as a whole will begin to suffer. A number of my SWG friends came to Eve, some of them were Avid pvpers. They have all left not because they don't like pvp, not because they didn't like Eve, not because they couldn't learn, but because of the absolutely hateful treatment they received. I've been lucky, I'm met some really helpful people that have helped me learn to stay out of trouble. Well more trouble anyway.

Why are the Veteran players so Resentful of the new players? I would think they would be glad for new players, that they might even try to recruit and train new players...

Sorry, I'm just extremely puzzled.

Poetic Stanziel
The Scope
Gallente Federation
#2 - 2011-09-10 18:15:04 UTC  |  Edited by: Poetic Stanziel
If you are looking for carebear compadres, then head to http://www.eveuniversity.org

I'm not slamming them. They will freely admit that they are a carebear corporation. They are there to serve the new player in a gentle, as free of pvp as you can get environment. Many of the players there never set foot in lowsec.

If that's the type of game you want, you'll find plenty of people who share that view in EVE University.

You still can't escape PvP entirely, but they'll teach you how best to avoid it 95% of the time.
Kilrayn
Caldari Provisions
#3 - 2011-09-10 18:17:52 UTC
Firstly yes, EvE has griefers, and it is a part of the game. However, those people who grief have almost zero way to identify your character as a new player, or someone who's been playing for years and just made a new character. Don't think that they are singling out 'new eve players'. What is most likely the case is that they are picking on young characters (who don't have many skillpoints compared to them), but like I said, being young does not mean being new.

It is indeed an issue for new players, I agree, but honestly aside from the tutorials, there isn't much FOR new players. Most of your learning has to be done you own with both research and trial-error. I'm honestly not sure how to remedy that exactly, but that goes back to EvE having one of (if not the) steepest learning curves on the market.

Basically, we don't hate new players. It's just hard for new players to catch up.

"Music is a mysterious thing. Sometimes it makes people remember things they do not expect. Many thoughts, feelings, memories... things almost forgotten... Regardless of whether the listener desires to remember or not." - Citan Uzuki, Xenogears

Mehrdad Kor-Azor
Doomheim
#4 - 2011-09-10 18:35:13 UTC
It's less about hatred, and more about the 'business' of destroying people weaker than you. A common phrase in EVE PvP is "If it's a fair fight, you're doing something wrong." Most of these incidents aren't aimed at trying to annihilate new players, but, in the case of the wormhole and lowsec incidents, it's just a matter of asserting superiority.

However, the ones that I think really do seem to dislike new players are the hisec griefers. They're a whole breed of their own, and have adopted the philosophy of "This isn't real, therefore my real-life morals have no meaning and I can do whatever I want." They're a part of EVE, just like any other profession, they're just a tad more sadistic than usual. Of course, this is a gross generalization, but in my experience it's been true.

TL;DR - For most of the EVE population, it's business and not personal.
Demon Azrakel
Garoun Investment Bank
Gallente Federation
#5 - 2011-09-10 18:39:11 UTC
wrote decent reply, hit post, it erased everything, back button does nothing

Love the new forums...
Sombre Asesinos
Doomheim
#6 - 2011-09-10 18:42:56 UTC
Demon Azrakel wrote:
wrote decent reply, hit post, it erased everything, back button does nothing

Love the new forums...


They've apparently bought SOE's forums. I learned the hard way to always have a complete copy of a post in notepad or at least the clipboard.
Prince Kobol
#7 - 2011-09-10 18:47:13 UTC
I have to agree with the OP.

Many people I know who have tried Eve and left because they hated the community and not the game.

What can make a MMO succussful is by having a good community.

Lotro is a average MMO, but it had a fantastic community that was very helpful, especially to new players.

Eve has a difficult learning curve as it is, it doesn't help that new players get constantly griefed, laughed at, told to GTFO from the community both in game and on the forums.

For what ever reason a lot of players seem want to keep Eve for themselves and do not want new players which is strange to say the least.

Rico Minali
Federal Navy Academy
Gallente Federation
#8 - 2011-09-10 19:05:26 UTC
In some ways I agree with the OP, and to quote so many Eve is HARSH, it isnt just hard, it punishes every single mistake you make and sometimes punishes you just becasue it can. That is the nature of the game.

However, what makes a huge difference is who you get involved with, there are alot of really decent people who play Eve, some of whom I have had the pleasure of flying with or against. What you need to do is find them, but first off you have to toughen up and learn the first rule of Eve: Your ship is gone the moment you undock it. Treat it as an asset already lost and work towards your next investement.

But most of all, find a decent crew, be loyal and reap the rewards of that loyalty. I have taken on low sp guys sometimes, some have worked out to be great pilots, some have fallen at the roadside unable to take teh harsh reality of Eve and some I have booted the hell out for being dicks. But once you find a good crew, you will find the love for Eve, she is a harsh mistress and we love her all the more for it.

Trust me, I almost know what I'm doing.

Vin Hellsing
#9 - 2011-09-10 19:07:17 UTC
Prince Kobol wrote:
I have to agree with the OP.

Many people I know who have tried Eve and left because they hated the community and not the game.

What can make a MMO succussful is by having a good community.

Lotro is a average MMO, but it had a fantastic community that was very helpful, especially to new players.

Eve has a difficult learning curve as it is, it doesn't help that new players get constantly griefed, laughed at, told to GTFO from the community both in game and on the forums.

For what ever reason a lot of players seem want to keep Eve for themselves and do not want new players which is strange to say the least.




I agree with that. I've a character from 2004, but he only has around 25 million skill points because I spent more time offline, than online. The cause? The community.

It was hard to find a place where I felt comfortable, and it's STILL difficult to find that comfortable spot. Nullsec is unappealing because of the cutthroat nature of the large alliances, lowsec is too dangerous and unprofitable because of the pirates, and highsec seems to be full of suicide gankers and ninja-salvagers.

I'm still here, though. Not because I appreciate those people's actions, but because I'm waiting for the real bulk of Incarna to come out. Essentially, I am probably one of the target audiences for CCP's new strategy with Incarna - sure, get mad at me if you want, but if you do, you're validating the OP's argument.
Lushan Galindo
State War Academy
Caldari State
#10 - 2011-09-10 19:07:23 UTC
Personally, I have found a decent bunch of people in this game. But, I think as a new player, one has to have a bit of a masochistic streak in order to make it through the initial learning curve.
Henry Haphorn
Killer Yankee
#11 - 2011-09-10 19:12:32 UTC
PvP in Eve will always come in many forms. You can't avoid 100% of the time. I remember being attacked in my Hulk and survived on more than a few occasions. Of course, I do tend to participate in pvp directly if I get bored or if I wanted to test out a fit.

In regards to the community, yeah... there will be douche bags where ever you go. But it's how you cope with them that determines how you enjoy the community. After all, if the community was never like this then a lot of people will never have learned how to deal with the consequences of either their actions or that of others.

As for some of your friends who quit Eve because of the community, then it's obvious Eve was not for them. Eve is for those who can live in a world of danger, deception, and outright greed and spite. As my father once told me: 'it's not how you fall, but how you get up after that fall that matters'.

Adapt or Die

Abdiel Kavash
Deep Core Mining Inc.
Caldari State
#12 - 2011-09-10 19:18:53 UTC
Sombre Asesinos wrote:
Nothing in this post will be aimed at insulting anyone so please keep that in mind as you read (if you read).


You need to make the same assumption yourself. Nobody picks fights with you because you are new. They try to pick a fight because you are in a defenseless ship, ergo easy target. If you had played for 3 years and made the same mistakes, you would get killed just the same.
T' Elk
Strategically Bad
Goonswarm Federation
#13 - 2011-09-10 19:19:27 UTC
I hate new players because I am a bittervet... They're not even very fun to kill, and I dislike having too many in a corp I'm in. They ask too many questions and are so.. innocent.

~Badposter since FOOOOREEEEEVAAAAAR~ I come back after 2 years to THIS? ~Now 4 years apparently

Prince Kobol
#14 - 2011-09-10 19:20:30 UTC
This is unfortunately is one of the reasons why (personally i think a major one) why Eve has had difficulty growning and has always stayed as a niche mmo instead of becoming mainstream.

Now I know lots of people want it to stay as a niche mmo and do not want hoards of new players but without those new players Eve will stagnet and die.

You need a constant flux of new players to keep any MMO active.

I see many people leaving Eve not because of what has gone on in the last few months but because just by the passage of time they have grown tired and what something new.

As time goes on more and more people will leave for the same reason so you need those new players to replace them and to add to the current numbers.

People are attracted to MMO's that had a good healthy player base and that are growning.

I think that is why CCP are developing Incarna, unfortunately CCP made a complete mess of it.
Feligast
Brutor Tribe
Minmatar Republic
#15 - 2011-09-10 19:41:13 UTC
Sombre Asesinos wrote:
While this sadistic behavior may be fun, at some point Eve as a whole will begin to suffer.


People have been saying this exact same thing for 8 years now. Yet, Eve is still here.

Again, this sounds like a lot of your friends had expectations on what Eve was, and when they found out their assumptions were wrong, instead of adapting, they quit. Sounds like you need smarter friends.
T'Laar Bok
#16 - 2011-09-10 19:43:07 UTC
Rico Minali wrote:
dicks


You said dicks! Shocked

Amphetimines are your friend.

http://eveboard.com/pilot/T'Laar_Bok

Karn Dulake
Doomheim
#17 - 2011-09-10 19:54:07 UTC
Fella there are a lot of people who are just fine in EVE and live decent normal lives.

But

this game is as gay as it comes. you have lots of internet shutin who play this game 24 hours a day and its becomes there social life as well as there gaming life. Go to nullsec and have a group of unemployed people shouting at you for having a job and a family and not being able to commit time to gaming.

Most people are normal here, but with MMOs the people who normally do not exist in polite society have a voice in this world.

(accepting wardecs from the shutins, naturally)
I dont normally troll, but when i do i do it on General Discussion.
Prince Kobol
#18 - 2011-09-10 20:01:14 UTC
Feligast wrote:
Sombre Asesinos wrote:
While this sadistic behavior may be fun, at some point Eve as a whole will begin to suffer.


People have been saying this exact same thing for 8 years now. Yet, Eve is still here.

Again, this sounds like a lot of your friends had expectations on what Eve was, and when they found out their assumptions were wrong, instead of adapting, they quit. Sounds like you need smarter friends.


Yet we see PCU Dropping and Eve's highest PCU was what.. 63k in January this year?

So in 8 Years the highest Eve has hit is 63k user logged on at once.

World of Tanks record is 93k... how long has WoT been out for.. 2 year, less now?

On top of that we even have the CSM saying that subs are flat lining.

So yeah.. I would say Eve needs a new in flux of players and it has nothing to of people perception of the game.

Hell everybody and his dog knows what Eve is all about.. CCP advertise the fact

Krixtal Icefluxor
INLAND EMPIRE Galactic
#19 - 2011-09-10 20:02:40 UTC
Karn Dulake wrote:
Fella this game is as gay as it comes.



Did it try to suck you off or something ? My download didn't do that. Darn.

Do you REALLY know how dumb it sounds to use 'gay' as a perjorative (if you even know what that is. Doubt it.).

"He has mounted his hind-legs, and blown crass vapidities through the bowel of his neck."  - Ambrose Bierce on Oscar Wilde's Lecture in San Francisco 1882

Levarris Hawk
Republic Military School
Minmatar Republic
#20 - 2011-09-10 20:36:57 UTC
Krixtal Icefluxor wrote:
Karn Dulake wrote:
Fella this game is as gay as it comes.



Did it try to suck you off or something ? My download didn't do that. Darn.

Do you REALLY know how dumb it sounds to use 'gay' as a perjorative (if you even know what that is. Doubt it.).



EvE has never once complimented my tan, or told me my shoes are fabulous, or asked me to go get pedicures and a facial.
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