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The 25 Most Annoying Things About Eve Gamers

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Remiel Pollard
Aliastra
Gallente Federation
#101 - 2013-11-30 19:43:51 UTC
Riot Girl wrote:
Lady Areola Fappington wrote:
It happens more along these lines: even with equal, and sometimes superior training and job skills, many employers will pick a male applicant over a female. This happens predominantly in career fields that people see as stereotypically "male" jobs. Somehow computer programming has ended up on the "boys" list.


I've had a few jobs where, on doing a little investigation, I've found that I was the lowest paid member on the team. The "off the record" reason given was, if I didn't pan out in the stereotypically "male" position, the company wouldn't be wasting as much money on me.

Some employers will also pay a woman less operating on the assumption that "She'll get pregnant and have to take time off". You honestly see most of this happen in the "small-business" world.

What you have shown is that in some smaller demographics, a gender pay-gap still exists due to discrimination. This doesn't reflect the whole business world, but tends to occur in smaller businesses. From your description, I could only guess the reason this discrimination exists is because women in positions such as yours aren't aware of their rights and are not pursuing legal action when their rights have been violated. In your case, where you claim to have found evidence, I certainly hope you sought legal advice to help prevent this from happening to others.


This is actually a very good point. While there is an equal pay issue between genders, it is not widespread, and women have the legal right and means to take individual action for themselves.

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Eurydia Vespasian
Storm Hunters
#102 - 2013-11-30 19:48:19 UTC
Solops Crendraven wrote:
Skeln Thargensen wrote:
Solops Crendraven wrote:
Josef Djugashvilis wrote:
Riot Girl wrote:
Which is fine in places like the Middle East where women really have no rights and are treated like animals. Tumblr feminists tend to focus more on women in media and spouting myths about unequal pay.


What myth about unequal pay?

Have women finally achieved pay parity with men and no one told me?

Good point! I would really would like also on this post a real womans point of view really.


Believe it or not there are women playing this game, i think there's even a chat channel for women of eve.

i doubt they post on the forums though. that would be like <1% of <10% of the player base, statistically.

EDIT: or the other way around. 'not many' is the point.
Why is that? How do we get more woman to play eve online and also post on forums or is that not a good idea kinda tricky when it comes to woman issues and gaming wouldnt you think?I really would like to know I just cant figure this one out.


there's been hundreds of threads about this.

how to get more of us to play? there is no simple answer. when I first started playing I didn't think I would stick with it long. but it grew on me. maybe eve could be more accessible. more engaging. less brainy and less macho. but if it weren't would it still be eve? I don't have an answer. not sure I even want more women around. I kind of like being a 5%er or whatever it is now.
James Amril-Kesh
Viziam
Amarr Empire
#103 - 2013-11-30 19:51:03 UTC
I don't deny that there are male feminists who do so for brownie points and don't actually care about equality. There are also feminists who completely misrepresent the issues, and others who are so radical and antagonistic they alienate potential supporters.

But there are also those who genuinely believe that there are important issues we still need to discuss and work on.

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Remiel Pollard
Aliastra
Gallente Federation
#104 - 2013-11-30 19:52:32 UTC
Eurydia Vespasian wrote:
Solops Crendraven wrote:
How do we get more woman to play eve online ...


there's been hundreds of threads about this.

how to get more of us to play? there is no simple answer. when I first started playing I didn't think I would stick with it long. but it grew on me. maybe eve could be more accessible. more engaging. less brainy and less macho. but if it weren't would it still be eve? I don't have an answer. not sure I even want more women around. I kind of like being a 5%er or whatever it is now.


It's a redundant question in any case. You create a game for a target interest group, not a target gender. If the interest group happens to be predominantly male, then the game will have mostly male players, and vice versa.

“Some capsuleers claim that ECM is 'dishonorable' and 'unfair'. Jam those ones first, and kill them last.” - Jirai 'Fatal' Laitanen, Pithum Nullifier Training Manual c. YC104

Lady Areola Fappington
#105 - 2013-11-30 19:53:06 UTC
Riot Girl wrote:
Lady Areola Fappington wrote:

I've had a few jobs where, on doing a little investigation, I've found that I was the lowest paid member on the team. The "off the record" reason given was, if I didn't pan out in the stereotypically "male" position, the company wouldn't be wasting as much money on me.

Some employers will also pay a woman less operating on the assumption that "She'll get pregnant and have to take time off". You honestly see most of this happen in the "small-business" world.

What you have shown is that in some smaller demographics, a gender pay-gap still exists due to discrimination. This doesn't reflect the whole business world, but tends to occur in smaller businesses. From your description, I could only guess the reason this discrimination exists is because women in positions such as yours aren't aware of their rights and are not pursuing legal action when their rights have been violated. In your case, where you claim to have found evidence, I certainly hope you sought legal advice to help prevent this from happening to others.



It's very, very difficult to prove such things, unless very blatant. Most people don't go back to rejected job applications, and ask "Hey, why didn't I get hired, and what credentials do the person you did hire hold?" In fact, the vast majority of companies will flat refuse to give you that sort of info, just because of the discrimination card.

And yeah, I agree, it's really not as widespread as before, but it does happen, too often IMHO. Here's a personal story.

Few years back when, I worked as a tech for a satellite TV company. Not a contractor, the actual company itself. In order to get promoted, you had to take on difficult installs and service calls. Said company had assigned metrics to all the work, and that's how they did promotions. The field manager was the one deciding who got what job.

Well, after a few months in, I noticed I was always getting super easy jobs that were worthless for points. I asked the field manager, and was told "Well, I don't want to give you any work you can't handle. Women lack the upper body strength needed to haul some of this gear onto a roof. Nothing personal."

Needless to say, when I complained, the discussion never happened. I was labeled as a "troublemaker", started getting assigned less jobs (less jobs=less hours). Ended up quitting not long after.

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James Amril-Kesh
Viziam
Amarr Empire
#106 - 2013-11-30 19:54:29 UTC
Na Und wrote:
James Amril-Kesh wrote:
Riot Girl wrote:
That article is awful. The writer is probably a male feminist.

What a bizarre attempt at an insult.


Perhaps you have the good fortune of never having met one.

I don't suppose I can say I've "met" myself

Enjoying the rain today? ;)

Solops Crendraven
University of Caille
Gallente Federation
#107 - 2013-11-30 20:00:55 UTC  |  Edited by: Solops Crendraven
Tippia wrote:
Riot Girl wrote:
Compelling argument.
Certainly more than yours. But if you want to dig up statistics that show every report on the subject matter published in the last decade to be wrong, or that the last 10–20% of the gap (and I'm being very generous against many western countries here) have really been slam shut in less than a year, then please do so.

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From your description, I could only guess the reason this discrimination exists is because women in positions such as yours aren't aware of their rights and are not pursuing legal action when their rights have been violated. In your case, where you claim to have found evidence, I certainly hope you sought legal advice to help prevent this from happening to others.
So, again, what you're saying is that you aren't familiar with how unequal pay plays out in practice.
statistics irelevant its the pretty girls who move up the corp ladder in eve or in the real world or virtual thats a fact unfortunate for the girl who is skilled and can do th job better corps dont recruit or hire smart people because they are a threat so they will recruit the dumb blonde in that mini thats how it works. Woman are aware of that and some use that to there advantage not all most become victims of discrimination or violation of there rights.

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James Amril-Kesh
Viziam
Amarr Empire
#108 - 2013-11-30 20:02:21 UTC
I think you're just proving his point.

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Riot Girl
You'll Cowards Don't Even Smoke Crack
#109 - 2013-11-30 20:07:27 UTC
Tippia wrote:
the last 10–20% of the gap

Is this a 10-20% gap in specific jobs where males and females are equally educated, have equal experience and working equal hours, or is this gap just a general statistic about average male wages vs average female wages? If it's the latter, it doesn't necessarily indicate discrimination. More evidence would need to be provided to make that assessment. In all likelihood, it's due to a difference in lifestyle choices between average men and women.
Solops Crendraven
University of Caille
Gallente Federation
#110 - 2013-11-30 20:08:09 UTC
James Amril-Kesh wrote:
I don't deny that there are male feminists who do so for brownie points and don't actually care about equality. There are also feminists who completely misrepresent the issues, and others who are so radical and antagonistic they alienate potential supporters.

But there are also those who genuinely believe that there are important issues we still need to discuss and work on.

Good Point.

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Eurydia Vespasian
Storm Hunters
#111 - 2013-11-30 20:08:23 UTC
Solops Crendraven wrote:
statistics irelevant its the pretty girls who move up the corp ladder in eve or in the real world or virtual thats a fact unfortunte for the girl who is skilled and can do th job better corps dont recruit or hire smart people because they are a threat so they will recruit the dumb blonde in that mini thats how it works. Woman are aware of that and some use that to there advantage not all most become victims of discrimination or violation of there rights.



sooo...errrhm. what? are you implying a woman can't be attractive and intelligent? I think that's a bit stereotypical lol to say the least.
Tippia
Sunshine and Lollipops
#112 - 2013-11-30 20:11:06 UTC  |  Edited by: Tippia
Riot Girl wrote:
Is this a 10-20% gap in specific jobs where males and females are equally educated, have equal experience and working equal hours, or is this gap just a general statistic about average male wages vs average female wages?
For most, it's just he former and then there are structural inequalities on top of that. For a select few, it's a combination of both. Either way, the myth is itself a myth, probably born out of people believing that it's just a matter of choice.

If I wanted to talk about averages, I would have said 20–40% instead…
Riot Girl
You'll Cowards Don't Even Smoke Crack
#113 - 2013-11-30 20:11:35 UTC
Lady Areola Fappington wrote:
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I'm not going to deny that discrimination exists. Of course it does and it always will, but laws are in place to prevent that. If those laws aren't doing what they're meant to do, we need to assess why. You say it's very difficult to prove and I believe you're right about that, so it would seem the problem lies with the courts and the methods with which the laws are enforced. It also indicates that perhaps people need to be more aware of what their rights are and when they are being violated.
Tippia
Sunshine and Lollipops
#114 - 2013-11-30 20:14:06 UTC
Riot Girl wrote:
I'm not going to deny that discrimination exists. Of course it does and it always will, but laws are in place to prevent that. If those laws aren't doing what they're meant to do, we need to assess why. You say it's very difficult to prove and I believe you're right about that, so it would seem the problem lies with the courts and the methods with which the laws are enforced. It also indicates that perhaps people need to be more aware of what their rights are and when they are being violated.

…and what you're effectively saying — “it doesn't exist because [laws]” — is why I'm jumping to the conclusion that you're not familiar with how it plays out in practice. Dismissing the facts as myth because those facts shouldn't exist is pretty naïve. What?
Skeln Thargensen
Doomheim
#115 - 2013-11-30 20:16:35 UTC
Solops Crendraven wrote:
Why is that? How do we get more woman to play eve online and also post on forums or is that not a good idea kinda tricky when it comes to woman issues and gaming wouldnt you think?I really would like to know I just cant figure this one out.


possibly threads that go off on tangents like this don't help, i don't know...

forums.  serious business.

Riot Girl
You'll Cowards Don't Even Smoke Crack
#116 - 2013-11-30 20:20:58 UTC
Tippia wrote:
Riot Girl wrote:
Is this a 10-20% gap in specific jobs where males and females are equally educated, have equal experience and working equal hours, or is this gap just a general statistic about average male wages vs average female wages?
For most, it's just he former and then there are structural inequalities on top of that. For a select few, it's a combination of both. Either way, the myth is itself a myth, probably born out of people believing that it's just a matter of choice.

If I wanted to talk about averages, I would have said 20–40% instead…

I see. I find it interesting that women are, on average, 20-40% cheaper to employ, and yet shrewd businessmen are not capitalising on that by firing all their male workers and employing women instead. I guess the discrimination really runs that deep.
Riot Girl
You'll Cowards Don't Even Smoke Crack
#117 - 2013-11-30 20:22:15 UTC
Tippia wrote:
and what you're effectively saying — “it doesn't exist because [laws]” — is why I'm jumping to the conclusion that you're not familiar with how it plays out in practice. Dismissing the facts as myth because those facts shouldn't exist is pretty naïve. What?

That's not what I said. I said laws have been made to protect people and if they're not working, we need to assess why.
James Amril-Kesh
Viziam
Amarr Empire
#118 - 2013-11-30 20:22:55 UTC
Riot Girl wrote:
If those laws aren't doing what they're meant to do, we need to assess why.

It's not just about law. It's about social attitudes and norms.

Enjoying the rain today? ;)

Solops Crendraven
University of Caille
Gallente Federation
#119 - 2013-11-30 20:22:55 UTC
Eurydia Vespasian wrote:
Solops Crendraven wrote:
statistics irelevant its the pretty girls who move up the corp ladder in eve or in the real world or virtual thats a fact unfortunte for the girl who is skilled and can do th job better corps dont recruit or hire smart people because they are a threat so they will recruit the dumb blonde in that mini thats how it works. Woman are aware of that and some use that to there advantage not all most become victims of discrimination or violation of there rights.



sooo...errrhm. what? are you implying a woman can't be attractive and intelligent? I think that's a bit stereotypical lol to say the least.
not at all I would hire the attractive and intelligent over the dumb blonde anyday I and my corp would never feel threaten with a asset like that i was just stating how the real works though to there demise.

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James Amril-Kesh
Viziam
Amarr Empire
#120 - 2013-11-30 20:32:10 UTC
Riot Girl wrote:
Tippia wrote:
the last 10–20% of the gap

Is this a 10-20% gap in specific jobs where males and females are equally educated, have equal experience and working equal hours, or is this gap just a general statistic about average male wages vs average female wages? If it's the latter, it doesn't necessarily indicate discrimination. More evidence would need to be provided to make that assessment. In all likelihood, it's due to a difference in lifestyle choices between average men and women.

Gee it's almost as if those who do studies know how to control for different factors.

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