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Naomi Anthar
#21 - 2013-10-11 12:08:59 UTC
Rhivre wrote:
Mra Rednu wrote:

But you really think they took offence at being called fags or just butthurt the target was smart enough to get out as the Keres came in ?

At times the GM's really just got to tell people to HTFU about name calling, sure if it was getting racist or really abusive then give them a warning but just calling someone a *** when in ths case it was obvious it not even used in context of them actually being gay.

Besides if they were homosexual and were called fags would they take offence at that ? it is a widely used term and none of the gay people that I do know take offence and even use the term themselves.



Wait...so, racist terms would be bad, but homophobic ones are not? And can I use racist terms if I then go "The people of X race that I know do not find it offensive and even use it themselves?


Because basically most of people saying "***" are not homophobs in fact. It's just become random badass word that people use in diffrent contest - usually fully aware that noone is homosexual around ? Really stop being so sensitive ...
Ramona McCandless
Silent Vale
LinkNet
#22 - 2013-10-11 12:10:40 UTC
Naomi Anthar wrote:
Maximilian Akora wrote:
What are the chances the OP described what happened 100% truthfully and not at all omitting other, more damaging, statements and/or conveniently left out parts of the story that wouldn't really help his case.


Yeah.


And why not ? I'm not banned. I'm just shocked a bit by GMs reaction ? I'm trying to warn you - so you are not getting banned yourself for one little word.

It's general discussion and we generally discuss if GMs should be so serious about such things or they should just talk to player that he should improve or they will do somthing about it. Going straight with warning to permanently ban account is a bit much.


Thats why we are callin you a liar


In that you are lying


We are saying it did not happen as you describe


Pics or logs or whatever or it didnt happen

You saavy?

"Yea, some dude came in and was normal for first couple months, so I gave him director." - Sean Dunaway

"A singular character could be hired to penetrate another corps space... using gorilla like tactics..." - Chane Morgann

Christopher AET
Federal Navy Academy
Gallente Federation
#23 - 2013-10-11 12:21:40 UTC
The gm was WRONG to admonish you as he did. This sort of reaction is only appropriate for protracted abuse

I drain ducks of their moisture for sustenance.

Chance Harper
Doomheim
#24 - 2013-10-11 12:25:12 UTC
Yuix Grislin wrote:
You used an offensive homophobic word in a public channel.

It would have been the same had you used a racist word.

The GM acted appropriatly and you absolutly deserve your warning.

If you want to talk like that do it in a private channel where by passers don;t have to hear it.

EDIT: And your an idiot for posting this on GD.


exactly this!

and @OP next time just say "coward" cuz that would have been a more fitting word for the described situation.
Jint Hikaru
OffWorld Exploration Inc
#25 - 2013-10-11 12:26:39 UTC
Yuix Grislin wrote:
You used an offensive homophobic word in a public channel.

It would have been the same had you used a racist word.

The GM acted appropriatly and you absolutly deserve your warning.

If you want to talk like that do it in a private channel where by passers don;t have to hear it.

EDIT: And your an idiot for posting this on GD.


I also fully agree with Yuix here.

Jint Hikaru - Miner / Salvager / Explorer / SpaceBum In the beginning the Universe was created. This has made a lot of people very angry and been widely regarded as a bad move.

Prince Kobol
#26 - 2013-10-11 12:27:14 UTC
Naomi Anthar wrote:
So basically i got quiet big problem. And it is a bit wall of text incoming. Sorry for my so-so english in advance.

Yes it is big problem.

So here is story:

I was deplexing one system with dragoon , hopefully looking for fight aswell.
And the opportunity arised - other dragoon - neutral one did appear and i took the fight. It was close fight , but then when we both were close to dying ... suddenly i see keres on d-scan aswell. Of course i did recall my drones and just left - thankfully it was me who sucked other dragoon. I was right they were from one alliance/corp.

After that i left - not mad at all - as my ship was still alive. I said it could be good fight , even fight with equall ships and probably similar fits there. Then i said : but keres had to come and interrupt. A bit disapointed i said also"you fags". But thats it i left minding my own bussines to repair ship and find other stuff to do.

Yes this is important part of all that ... nothing else. completly nothing else offensive was said there. And i got logs to prove it.
Suddenly the keres pilot - obiviously disapointed that their terribad trap did not work out there - said "it deserves to be reported". I was like - ok it's not like i was harrassing them 24/7 or went full ****** ... all i said was "you fags". Sure it was offensive , but it's EvE online not My little pony online. Words like that do appear , and noone cries around about it.

Then ... that guy did mail me asking for "apologize" ... i did not take a bait here. I did not started swearing on him. I'm not that stupid. I told him that in this game - he may hear randomly words like that time to time. And he shouldn't take those too seriously. Especially that it was single word not followed by any other harrasement out there. I basically told him to report me - because if he takes single "you fags" so serious he needs to make report - then by all means he needs to do so and he will need to do this VERY OFTEN IN THIS GAME. Report many people no doubt.

Let's be honest ... it's not like i did worst thing in this game. Sure i wasnt particulary nice here - but wasnt THAT BAD. Essentialy in fair fights even when i lose i say gf and i don't offend my opponent. I'm sure my opponents can confirm that.
Sometimes when you get blobbed you can get little upset. I wasn't even mad at all - as i said i never lost ship there. I was more disapointed that this nice fight was interrupted.


NOW what happens then is a diffrent story. VERY Quickly i get message from GM Rust that i violated EULA 6.c and other stuff. No log to what i said exactly - but i figured out it's about that terribly offensive word exchange with "you fags".
He warned me and claimed that i will get banned if i will do this again.

I do agree it could be against EULA ... and honestly i won't do this anymore. But really ? They threat me to cancel my account for saying "you fags" ?? It's not like there wasn't worse words in diffrent channels out there more than once per 5 minutes all day long.

Now don't get me wrong - if i went full ****** and swear this guy hard, his parents. I would understand , damn i would even be sorry after all. This is not how i should behave as mature person. But all it was random "screw you" like saying ("you fags"). more offensive , but nothing personal - just "badass" saying in internet.

I was very worried ... that they go straight and fast to me with saying that i may get banned for that. Especially that it's my first warning. So i petitioned ... not the fact that i violated EULA - but the fact that it's not THAT hard violation of game rules to get such fast and brutal attention from GM. I would understand if GM told me to calm down and behave or else they will have to deal with me. But going straight to threat me with permanent ban for saying "you fags" ?

I think it's big ... not because it's my account. I hear words like that all the time in diffrent channels - starting with corp/alliance/miltia/ local. Noone reports anyone for this. Yet here i'm victim.

I was planning to play World Of Darkness CCP game ... but here i'm not sure anymore. Maybe it will be like EvE - Ponies and Friends online.

I do think that people should behave. I'm not ideal myself. But it should be kept in mind that in CCP games - you will not hear only "i love you" "thank you for fantastic fight friends, even tho you 1 vs 100 me" phrases.
Going straight to warn players that often invested hella lot of time into this game to cancel his account , because they said "you fags" is going too far.

GMs calm down ...

I admit i could be more cool myself more often aswell. But goddamit with that threat to ban permanently account ....

And i got another message from GM with same message. Give me a break guys - start chasing out abusers , RMTers and other more problematic people.


So let me get this straight..

You call somebody a name that you admit is not nice and then complain that you get a warning about said word that you admit is not nice?
Naomi Anthar
#27 - 2013-10-11 12:28:37 UTC
Ramona McCandless wrote:
Naomi Anthar wrote:
Maximilian Akora wrote:
What are the chances the OP described what happened 100% truthfully and not at all omitting other, more damaging, statements and/or conveniently left out parts of the story that wouldn't really help his case.


Yeah.


And why not ? I'm not banned. I'm just shocked a bit by GMs reaction ? I'm trying to warn you - so you are not getting banned yourself for one little word.

It's general discussion and we generally discuss if GMs should be so serious about such things or they should just talk to player that he should improve or they will do somthing about it. Going straight with warning to permanently ban account is a bit much.


Thats why we are callin you a liar


In that you are lying


We are saying it did not happen as you describe


Pics or logs or whatever or it didnt happen

You saavy?


I said i got logs , i said it happend. But yet i never said who reported me . Why ? Because i did not get banned ... i dont want to harass this guy. If i would post who did this i would not be better than him. I don't go with tears to mom if something bad happens. I'm here to discuss overral state of GMs attitude toward situation like this.

Don't make it as my personal case. It could happend to anyone. As many already claimed i'm not the only one who said such words in this game in local. Read this topic please. It's my warning to others - what people can do for one single bad word out there.

If you don't want believe me - by all means don't. It's internet - people lie and make up stories all the time. And logs can be make up aswell...

I hope this story will really make people alert how easy they can lose thier account. And hopefully noone will for thing like that. BUT BE WARNED.
Naomi Anthar
#28 - 2013-10-11 12:32:23 UTC
Prince Kobol wrote:
Naomi Anthar wrote:
So basically i got quiet big problem. And it is a bit wall of text incoming. Sorry for my so-so english in advance.

Yes it is big problem.

So here is story:

I was deplexing one system with dragoon , hopefully looking for fight aswell.
And the opportunity arised - other dragoon - neutral one did appear and i took the fight. It was close fight , but then when we both were close to dying ... suddenly i see keres on d-scan aswell. Of course i did recall my drones and just left - thankfully it was me who sucked other dragoon. I was right they were from one alliance/corp.

After that i left - not mad at all - as my ship was still alive. I said it could be good fight , even fight with equall ships and probably similar fits there. Then i said : but keres had to come and interrupt. A bit disapointed i said also"you fags". But thats it i left minding my own bussines to repair ship and find other stuff to do.

Yes this is important part of all that ... nothing else. completly nothing else offensive was said there. And i got logs to prove it.
Suddenly the keres pilot - obiviously disapointed that their terribad trap did not work out there - said "it deserves to be reported". I was like - ok it's not like i was harrassing them 24/7 or went full ****** ... all i said was "you fags". Sure it was offensive , but it's EvE online not My little pony online. Words like that do appear , and noone cries around about it.

Then ... that guy did mail me asking for "apologize" ... i did not take a bait here. I did not started swearing on him. I'm not that stupid. I told him that in this game - he may hear randomly words like that time to time. And he shouldn't take those too seriously. Especially that it was single word not followed by any other harrasement out there. I basically told him to report me - because if he takes single "you fags" so serious he needs to make report - then by all means he needs to do so and he will need to do this VERY OFTEN IN THIS GAME. Report many people no doubt.

Let's be honest ... it's not like i did worst thing in this game. Sure i wasnt particulary nice here - but wasnt THAT BAD. Essentialy in fair fights even when i lose i say gf and i don't offend my opponent. I'm sure my opponents can confirm that.
Sometimes when you get blobbed you can get little upset. I wasn't even mad at all - as i said i never lost ship there. I was more disapointed that this nice fight was interrupted.


NOW what happens then is a diffrent story. VERY Quickly i get message from GM Rust that i violated EULA 6.c and other stuff. No log to what i said exactly - but i figured out it's about that terribly offensive word exchange with "you fags".
He warned me and claimed that i will get banned if i will do this again.

I do agree it could be against EULA ... and honestly i won't do this anymore. But really ? They threat me to cancel my account for saying "you fags" ?? It's not like there wasn't worse words in diffrent channels out there more than once per 5 minutes all day long.

Now don't get me wrong - if i went full ****** and swear this guy hard, his parents. I would understand , damn i would even be sorry after all. This is not how i should behave as mature person. But all it was random "screw you" like saying ("you fags"). more offensive , but nothing personal - just "badass" saying in internet.

I was very worried ... that they go straight and fast to me with saying that i may get banned for that. Especially that it's my first warning. So i petitioned ... not the fact that i violated EULA - but the fact that it's not THAT hard violation of game rules to get such fast and brutal attention from GM. I would understand if GM told me to calm down and behave or else they will have to deal with me. But going straight to threat me with permanent ban for saying "you fags" ?

I think it's big ... not because it's my account. I hear words like that all the time in diffrent channels - starting with corp/alliance/miltia/ local. Noone reports anyone for this. Yet here i'm victim.

I was planning to play World Of Darkness CCP game ... but here i'm not sure anymore. Maybe it will be like EvE - Ponies and Friends online.

I do think that people should behave. I'm not ideal myself. But it should be kept in mind that in CCP games - you will not hear only "i love you" "thank you for fantastic fight friends, even tho you 1 vs 100 me" phrases.
Going straight to warn players that often invested hella lot of time into this game to cancel his account , because they said "you fags" is going too far.

GMs calm down ...

I admit i could be more cool myself more often aswell. But goddamit with that threat to ban permanently account ....

And i got another message from GM with same message. Give me a break guys - start chasing out abusers , RMTers and other more problematic people.


So let me get this straight..

You call somebody a name that you admit is not nice and then complain that you get a warning about said word that you admit is not nice?


Yes as it happens every 10 seconds in this game and i dont see reports going on. Don't be stupid mate , please don't . If they would kill my dragoon out there , there would be no report - hell they would even go with "you mad bro?" in local... if you cannot figure out they are griefers ... then sorry. They couldnt kill my ship , so they try to hit my account. One way or another they are hatters there - not me.
Charles Panzram
Doomheim
#29 - 2013-10-11 12:35:27 UTC
OP behaved naughty in a public channel, got caught, got scolded for it and now cries about it.
This sounds like my 10 year old nephew.

People received warnings for calling someone a jew in local.
It´s within the GM`s range of rights so what are you crying about? You got a warning no ban, big deal, so HTFU and get over it yourself instead of crying about it like a baby.

Ramona McCandless
Silent Vale
LinkNet
#30 - 2013-10-11 12:36:22 UTC
Naomi Anthar wrote:

people lie and make up stories all the time. And logs can be make up aswell...

I hope this story will really make people alert how easy they can lose thier account. And hopefully noone will for thing like that. BUT BE WARNED.



But you admit you DIDNT lose your account


So how does this story warn that they will?


Sounds like more CCP bashing to me


Because basically most of the people saying "liar" are not Naomiophobs in fact.

It's just the word that people use to call you out on your BS

Really stop being so needy

"Yea, some dude came in and was normal for first couple months, so I gave him director." - Sean Dunaway

"A singular character could be hired to penetrate another corps space... using gorilla like tactics..." - Chane Morgann

Naomi Anthar
#31 - 2013-10-11 12:38:06 UTC
Charles Panzram wrote:
OP behaved naughty in a public channel, got caught, got scolded for it and now cries about it.
This sounds like my 10 year old nephew.

People received warnings for calling someone a jew in local.
It´s within the GM`s range of rights so what are you crying about? You got a warning no ban, big deal, so HTFU and get over it yourself instead of crying about it like a baby.



Crying ? More like warning to you and others. Take it or not. I don't care. I'm trying to show you that 999 out of 1000 cases like that will never be reported - but once you hit one griefer it's on.

I'm more here to prevent situation like this to happen to anyone in this game. It would suck to lose account because someone got upset over single bad word in internet. And it's often much time invested into account.
Lugalbandak
Doomheim
#32 - 2013-10-11 12:41:02 UTC
Meta anno 2013

The police horse is the only animal in the world that haz his male genitals on his back

Naomi Anthar
#33 - 2013-10-11 12:46:02 UTC
I won't response to this topic anymore.

Bash me if you want, hate on me. Be my guest.

I will keep it as it is : as warning what some angry people can do to ruin your day.

Feel free to disagree, feel free to do what you want. This is my version of story, believe or not.
And by all means feel free to disagree with my point of view. I see things that way.
I never said that i'm perfect, all i said is that reaction of GM was pretty hardcore out there.
So yeah watch out for sensitive people.
Ramona McCandless
Silent Vale
LinkNet
#34 - 2013-10-11 12:50:28 UTC

I dont hate you dear, I just feel sorry for you that you have to make up unbelievable BS like this



Try something with a hint of "likely" to it next time

"Yea, some dude came in and was normal for first couple months, so I gave him director." - Sean Dunaway

"A singular character could be hired to penetrate another corps space... using gorilla like tactics..." - Chane Morgann

Obunagawe
#35 - 2013-10-11 12:50:40 UTC
EVE is a cold harsh universe BUT YOU'RE NOT ALLOWED TO HURT ANYONE'S FEELINGS OR THEY WILL BE SAD!!! SadSadSadSadSadSadSadSadSadSadSadSadSadSadSadSadSadSadSadSadSadSad
Bounty Setter
Royal Amarr Institute
Amarr Empire
#36 - 2013-10-11 12:56:36 UTC
So you broke the ToS

"You may not use any abusive, defamatory, ethnically or racially offensive, harassing, harmful, hateful, obscene, offensive, sexually explicit, threatening or vulgar language. (Alternate spelling or partial masking of such words will be reprimanded in the same manner as the actual use of such words.)"

Got reported for doing so and then complain when you got a warning.

Most people won't report you for it, but if someone does then you are held accountable to the ToS.

If you repeatedly don't abide by the terms of service then they will simply stop providing you with a service.
Mayhaw Morgan
State War Academy
Caldari State
#37 - 2013-10-11 12:57:33 UTC
**** those ****, and **** that GM, too. He's a ***** and so is the ************ that reported you.
Setsune Rin
Ministry of War
Amarr Empire
#38 - 2013-10-11 13:08:50 UTC
i cant count the amount of times i've called my adversaries a bunch of faggots for whatever ligitimate strategy they choose to attack me with.

if i might refer to a south park episode that perfectly illustrates the argument: http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/The_F_Word_%28South_Park%29

****** is not a homophobic slur, its just trashtalk

Ramona McCandless
Silent Vale
LinkNet
#39 - 2013-10-11 13:11:27 UTC


It is true that we live in a world where the abuser gets to decide what constitutes abuse and not the victim




Thank God




VICTORY AMARR ONCE AGAIN

"Yea, some dude came in and was normal for first couple months, so I gave him director." - Sean Dunaway

"A singular character could be hired to penetrate another corps space... using gorilla like tactics..." - Chane Morgann

James Amril-Kesh
Viziam
Amarr Empire
#40 - 2013-10-11 13:20:05 UTC
Uses heterosexist slur, cries on getting called out on it.
lol

Enjoying the rain today? ;)