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Remiel Pollard
Aliastra
Gallente Federation
#121 - 2013-07-29 02:45:39 UTC
S Byerley wrote:
Kaarous Aldurald wrote:
Save that Malyasian standards of beauty aren't on the menu here. This is a game largely played by Western countries. That standard of beauty is the topic of discussion, not whatever third world anthropological study you can conjure.


Which might be a valid criticism if the other three studies weren't from France, England, and New Zealand.

It's also worth noting that the study in question tried to differentiate between their hypothesis and potential cultural differences in a second study with university students. (I'm guessing you didn't read the full thing though)

On a side note: While I've never been to the city in the study, it doesn't strike me as very third world: http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Kota_Kinabalu


Well, I did read your studies. All of them. Considering my unrestricted access to JSTOR and many other academic databases, I was able to find a dozen more studies, and guess what? There is only one out of all those studies that might suggest any link between what men find attractive and sexism. It was the third one you posted, the one with the biased title and premise. As a scientist yourself (or so you claim) you should already know that stating a premise on which to base your argument around requires the premise to be proven, and they have not cited a single source that demonstrates that "Men's Oppressive Beliefs" are oppressive at all, nor does it explore beyond a very simplistic generalisation of "Men's Beliefs".

That one article is poor. It doesn't discredit the others at all, but the others don't suggest that what men find attractive can be linked to sexism. I strongly suggest, if you have the access I do, as a real scientist, that you continue your research and re-evaluate the conclusions you established previously, because there is no scientific or sociopolitical evidence that suggests that what men find attractive is related to sexism.

If that's the case, based on the argument of that one article, then what is what women find attractive based on? The majority of women are searching for men with stable jobs and income, and many women will admit that what they want in a man is based on money. Therefore, it could be argued, from the biased point of view of a man who's angry at the world, that women are no more than common whores. But we know this is simply not the case, because we know why women are interested in men who "do" as opposed to men being attracted to women because they "are". And it's based on evolution, which is why those capable of birthing offspring are more attractive, more emotional, more protective, and more caring than men, who are strong, calculating, and predatory by nature.

Which is not to say that men and women HAVE to conform to those evolutionary roles, of course, but that's a digression for another discussion. What you're claiming is that it's sexism that determines what men find attractive. It's not, it's nature. Some women, for example, prefer a guy with big abs and lots of money. I'm poor and small, so where does that leave me? Certainly not bitter and jealous enough to get mad and call it 'sexism' just because even if she tried, she probably simply wouldn't find herself attracted to me any more than an atheist that tried to believe in God would suddenly just start believing. And have you ever tried to have a relationship with someone you just weren't attracted to? Can you say "epic fail"?

No, sorry, only one study concluded sexism, and if you were to conduct a proper contextual literary review, as someone looking for a conclusion rather than someone who's already determined one and is looking for the evidence, you would find the same thing. I'm not saying sexism doesn't exist, but it doesn't determine what people are attracted to in the least. On the other hand, it may occasionally determine what people claim they are attracted to in order to impress their inner circle, but that is something else entirely, isn't it.

“Some capsuleers claim that ECM is 'dishonorable' and 'unfair'. Jam those ones first, and kill them last.” - Jirai 'Fatal' Laitanen, Pithum Nullifier Training Manual c. YC104

S Byerley
The Manhattan Engineer District
#122 - 2013-07-29 05:36:46 UTC
Just a head's up before I start: your post was very painful to read; extremely rambling and repetitive.

Remiel Pollard wrote:
and they have not cited a single source that demonstrates that "Men's Oppressive Beliefs" are oppressive at all, nor does it explore beyond a very simplistic generalisation of "Men's Beliefs".


What? They state very clearly that they are drawing on feminist psychology for their survey and definitions, citing something like 10+ sources to that effect.

Unless you're referring to other sources you haven't mentioned, none of the other studies look at the correlation. So... it doesn't have to discredit anything, it's just exploring new research.

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I strongly suggest, if you have the access I do, as a real scientist, that you continue your research and re-evaluate the conclusions you established previously, because there is no scientific or sociopolitical evidence that suggests that what men find attractive is related to sexism.


I'm not sure why you're so proud of having access to academic databases. That probably makes you... a college student, or a college employee, or at a library, or somewhere within wifi range of a college/library, or someone with any amount of googling ability. In any case, I just linked you scientific evidence. While it admittedly depends on how you define sexism, sexism itself is not a particularly scientific concept.

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If that's the case, based on the argument of that one article, then what is what women find attractive based on? The majority of women are searching for men with stable jobs and income, and many women will admit that what they want in a man is based on money. Therefore, it could be argued, from the biased point of view of a man who's angry at the world, that women are no more than common whores. But we know this is simply not the case, because we know why women are interested in men who "do" as opposed to men being attracted to women because they "are". And it's based on evolution, which is why those capable of birthing offspring are more attractive, more emotional, more protective, and more caring than men, who are strong, calculating, and predatory by nature.


Uh... ok?

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What you're claiming is that it's sexism that determines what men find attractive.


I claimed nothing of the sort. I merely referenced a study which found they are correlated.

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No, sorry, only one study concluded sexism, and if you were to conduct a proper contextual literary review, as someone looking for a conclusion rather than someone who's already determined one and is looking for the evidence, you would find the same thing.


My search was literally for "breast size preference". Psychology is very influenced by philosophy and bias in general, but that's not particularly my fault.
Flamespar
WarRavens
#123 - 2013-07-29 06:01:55 UTC
According to science. 64% of men have man boobs.

CCP please add this option to the character creator.

Also neck beards.
Linna Excel
Center for Advanced Studies
Gallente Federation
#124 - 2013-07-29 06:11:19 UTC
My characters epic breasts are camouflaged by the background so no one will ever see them coming.
Remiel Pollard
Aliastra
Gallente Federation
#125 - 2013-07-29 06:15:23 UTC
S Byerley wrote:
Just a head's up before I start: your post was very painful to read; extremely rambling and repetitive.



Not my problem.

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What? They state very clearly that they are drawing on feminist psychology for their survey and definitions, citing something like 10+ sources to that effect.


Which makes it bias, therefore, inconclusive.

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Unless you're referring to other sources you haven't mentioned, none of the other studies look at the correlation. So... it doesn't have to discredit anything, it's just exploring new research.


It's exploring nothing that hasn't been asserted before in feminist literature.

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I'm not sure why you're so proud of having access to academic databases. That probably makes you... a college student, or a college employee, or at a library, or somewhere within wifi range of a college/library, or someone with any amount of googling ability. In any case, I just linked you scientific evidence. While it admittedly depends on how you define sexism, sexism itself is not a particularly scientific concept.


In an earlier post, you claimed to be a scientist. My point was that it doesn't matter what you claim to be, what matters is the evidence you can provide to back it up. The post in which you linked the studies, you alluded to a link between attraction and sexism as if it was an established fact based on what you'd posted. I was merely pointing out that the correlation only existed in one study you had posted, and I couldn't find it in any legitimate sources elsewhere, and if you were going to assert a conclusion based on real research, being a real scientist, you should have known to check legitimate sources and how to distinguish them from illegitimate ones.

“Some capsuleers claim that ECM is 'dishonorable' and 'unfair'. Jam those ones first, and kill them last.” - Jirai 'Fatal' Laitanen, Pithum Nullifier Training Manual c. YC104

Remiel Pollard
Aliastra
Gallente Federation
#126 - 2013-07-29 06:17:47 UTC  |  Edited by: Remiel Pollard
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What you're claiming is that it's sexism that determines what men find attractive.


I claimed nothing of the sort. I merely referenced a study which found they are correlated.




Don't lie. The evidence is in your post. You asserted it after posting the studies, but nowhere in your assertion did you state, "according to this research", or try to justify the research as legitimate. This was a statement made by you, as if it was a well established fact, when it is nothing of the sort.

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Psychology is very influenced by philosophy and bias in general, but that's not particularly my fault.


This is how I know you're not a scientist, at least, not one qualified in psychology. This statement is utter rubbish.

Do not compound this. Most of what you provided was scientifically literate, but I'm merely pointing out what is wrong with your assertion that attraction has anything to do with sexism. This has simply not been demonstrated by anything you've posted, and even the crap study you put up is incredibly inconclusive. The other reason why I stated I had access to these databases was to indicate that I've been able to read more of the studies than just the abstracts, which is all you have provided. An abstract is a good way to find out what an article is about, but it's no way to determine its methodology or many other aspects of its accuracy or the author's expertise on the matter.

I have done you the courtesy of explaining what was wrong with that assertion, instead of just saying, "that's wrong, you're an idiot". Do me the courtesy of at least providing a legitimate argument with merit and citations or evidence in response, or conceding the point. Stating something like "psychology is based in philosophy and bias in general" without demonstrating how or why that is the case is merely an assertion without evidence, and it will be dismissed as such.

“Some capsuleers claim that ECM is 'dishonorable' and 'unfair'. Jam those ones first, and kill them last.” - Jirai 'Fatal' Laitanen, Pithum Nullifier Training Manual c. YC104

S Byerley
The Manhattan Engineer District
#127 - 2013-07-29 06:50:17 UTC
Remiel Pollard wrote:
Which makes it bias, therefore, inconclusive.


I fail to see how clearly stating your definitions regarding an inherently subjective topic is either biased or inconclusive. If you're more interested in the results under a different set of assumptions, by all means do your own study.

If you want to discredit their results you have to repeat the study and get different results; that's how science works. What you're doing is whining.

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Don't lie. The evidence is in your post. You asserted it after posting the studies, but nowhere in your assertion did you state, "according to this research", or try to justify the research as legitimate. This was a statement made by you, as if it was a well established fact, when it is nothing of the sort.


Are you sure? Perhaps go back and look at the part where I preface everything with "Based on the only relevant studies I could easily find:"

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The other reason why I stated I had access to these databases was to indicate that I've been able to read more of the studies than just the abstracts, which is all you have provided. An abstract is a good way to find out what an article is about, but it's no way to determine its methodology or many other aspects of its accuracy or the author's expertise on the matter.


Well, those links provide the full article on my network, but when someone gives you the full bibliographic information for an article, it's generally expected that you'll go out and read it.

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I have done you the courtesy of explaining what was wrong with that assertion, instead of just saying, "that's wrong, you're an idiot". Do me the courtesy of at least providing a legitimate argument with merit and citations or evidence in response, or conceding the point. Stating something like "psychology is based in philosophy and bias in general" without demonstrating how or why that is the case is merely an assertion without evidence, and it will be dismissed as such.


The courtesy of a rambling wall of text? Also kindly refrain from misquoting me; it's obnoxious.

In any case, Psychology is a soft science. If you don't like more formal fields looking down on its integrity, tough ****.
Remiel Pollard
Aliastra
Gallente Federation
#128 - 2013-07-29 07:24:22 UTC
I'm over this quoting nonsense, and you are being deliberately obtuse. So I'm just going to address your points without quoting them, and be done with it.

1. By basing those definitions on the premise that the topic is subjective and bias without justifying what makes it so, makes the premise false and therefore, the definitions are irrelevant. The topic is not subjective, the paper is utter rubbish.

2. The results are already discredited by a) the bias, and b) the myriad of studies that already exist using more substantial methodology that present results to the contrary. Why should I do research that has already been done? You're a 'scientist' aren't you? You should already be capable enough of finding the articles in Nature or The Lancet yourself. (FYI, those are hints on where to start your research if you're actually man enough to admit we all have more to learn). You presented a fallacious study. I told you what's wrong with that study. It's not up to me then to prove it, when no proof has been offered from your side to begin with, it is up to you to either prove what makes the study conclusive, or continue your research, or just cover your ears and cry "lalalalala" deny deny deny.

3. Preface that point when you make the claim, not after the fact when you get called out on it, then we'll talk.

4. That's all well and good for people that have access to the databases where that information is stored, but when you only link to an abstract without providing some discussion of the paper and just establishing the conclusions with nothing in between, you are not making a case worthy of discussion.

5. I didn't misquote you, I copied and pasted your words directly, and even provided a link to where it can be found. This is your second obvious lie, and your intentions to save face rather than man up and concede on one small point are becoming more and more obvious. I have no stomach for intellectual dishonesty.

6. If you can't handle reading through my explanations, or you can't understand them, then why should I believe that you can understand a single one of those papers you posted to begin with? Why should I believe that you've read them through? My posts have been less than 10% of the total word count of each one of those papers. You call it rambling, but I'll bet you the majority of people reading it won't have a problem with it, only those that either refuse to accept rational explanation in lieu of preconceived and biased notions of sexuality.

7. "More formal fields" is a laugh coming from you. You've demonstrated the kind of scientific illiteracy and ignorance and/or denial of discussion I expect from a Playboy Playmate by the name of Jenny McCarthy, or her idiot ex Jim Carrey. Your first failure is that you think psychology is a field unto itself. There are many fields of psychological science, and it is far from a 'soft' science. It's actually a common trait of creatards to dismiss psychology as a 'soft science', but there isn't a real scientist on the face of the planet that dismisses it so easily. There are certainly fields of psychology in their infancy, but don't think for one second they haven't garnered considerable scientific interest. In fact, biologists have worked very closely with psychological researchers on a number of occasions to make some incredible findings.

However, I'm not being paid for this, I don't have to try to help indicate where you went wrong, so yes, I'm doing you a courtesy. You COULD have, at any point, checked on MY assertions and provided arguments against them. So far, you haven't. Just assertions. And yes, just stating "psychology is a soft science" is an assertion without evidence, and could have just been dismissed without evidence. But, now it's up to you to consider what I have told you and decide for yourself whether or not you want to check the facts and find out what's true, or continue to think your own opinion is more relevant, ignore the facts, and keep yourself in the dark on the topic, in which case, you'll probably never be taken very seriously on it, or if you are a scientist, which I know you aren't, laughed out of academia.

“Some capsuleers claim that ECM is 'dishonorable' and 'unfair'. Jam those ones first, and kill them last.” - Jirai 'Fatal' Laitanen, Pithum Nullifier Training Manual c. YC104

Myriad Blaze
Common Sense Ltd
Nulli Secunda
#129 - 2013-07-29 07:29:15 UTC
Azami Nevinyrall wrote:

No oversized rack.
No cleavage.
Decent and realistic body type/size.
Looks more like a badass, not a *****.
Male player.

I don't know about the rest of the player base, but I made and RP this character as the exact opposite of myself IRL.


Ok, so you are a male player and made your character the exact opposite of your RL self.
And you emphasize that your character has no oversized rack, no cleavage, a decent body size and that she looks badass.

Are you sure you meant to say what you said here? Twisted
Remiel Pollard
Aliastra
Gallente Federation
#130 - 2013-07-29 07:39:54 UTC  |  Edited by: Remiel Pollard
Here's what confuses me the most, though. Everything else you claimed was fine, and supported by plenty of research. I'm only pointing out one claim you made that was fallacious, and you're throwing a tantrum about it. What's wrong with, "Oh, well, I guess I'd better check it out then," at the very least. I don't even expect you to admit you were wrong, or concede defeat, I'm not trying to compete, just establish the facts. You seem to be having trouble with accepting the facts, and I wouldn't have a problem with that, but using the excuse that I'm rambling is offensive, especially considering the irony you show in such an incoherent defence with zero merit of a single point of contention.

And then, you go and claim you're a scientist, as if an argument from authority will do the trick? Mate, I'm a science writer, I do this **** for a living and I don't get my material from the Australian Science Media Centre (which isn't a terrible resource for less scientifically literate journalists, like those just starting out), I get it from the scientists and the journals. I'm telling you now, if you are a scientist, then whoever gave you your PhD was drunk. Anyway, I wouldn't care if you were a hairdresser, the fact is, you still got most of what you said right. I'm talking about one little thing you got wrong. And you're kicking up a stink as if I insulted your mother.

Bottom line is, there is nothing BUT subjective reasoning linking what a male perceives as attractive to sexism. What about all those men that find other men attractive? What about all those men who are asexual? ****, the article is titled with and filled with assertions that male thinking is oppressive by nature, and that there is no exception. This is the premise on which its arguments are based, and they have not justified the premise. This is the primary reason why that article is just terrible, and along with its citations, suggests a radical feminist agenda. If you're going to base your conclusions on that, go for it. Fortunately, for the rest of us, your assertions, and your opinion, are not supported by the facts, so we can continue to enjoy life and learn from it while you carry on about sexism and the false notion that it is the cause of anything.

It's quite simply not the cause of anything. Sexism is the effect, of which there are MANY causes. But it is not a cause itself, and it in no way determines who or what men or women find attractive. It can certainly determine what men or women might CLAIM to be attractive for the sake of social acceptance, but that is as far is it goes.

“Some capsuleers claim that ECM is 'dishonorable' and 'unfair'. Jam those ones first, and kill them last.” - Jirai 'Fatal' Laitanen, Pithum Nullifier Training Manual c. YC104

Linna Baresi
#131 - 2013-07-29 08:30:03 UTC
Ciyrine wrote:
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And in reality not all woman have big breasts and are skinny. I am not a fan of this ideal of beauty. So this was the main intention of this thread, maybe. Will lead to some replies I guess.


In reality some woman are skinny with big breasts after having implants usually. These woman are considered beautiful because being fat is sloppy and unhealthy. And big breasts is good for babies. This is whats beautiful though any ugly chick can find a guy that will get horny for her.

U are not a fan of this ideal probably because u dont match it. But theres no denying thats whats lusted after. I believe we have answered ur question that we like boobs and skinny. Ur not going to make some realize they actually like flabby chicks with flat chest so might as well move on



Uhm... no, big breasts have nothing whatsoever to do with feeding babies. The milk glands work just fine, even for women where barely anything shows before pregnancy. During pregnancy, they'll grow, only to slink again once the baby is weaned.
Don't believe me? Look it up...

And incidentally: a big rack is a complete pain. Literally. Many women who are 'stacked' develop severe back issues, some to the point of needing surgery.

Member of since 2003 fated.europefreeforum.com

Caitlyn Tufy
Perkone
Caldari State
#132 - 2013-07-29 08:35:59 UTC
Aya Shinomiya wrote:
But I ask myself is this the imagination you have how a woman should be?


There's so much more to a woman than the size of her rack and so much more you can express with the character creator.
Aya Shinomiya
Promethean Ascension
#133 - 2013-07-29 08:48:27 UTC
Akirei Scytale wrote:
Aya Shinomiya wrote:
Dear EVE Online players,


When I am bored a little bit I often click around and look at the characters you guys have created. One thing according to the female characters is very ... prominent: It seems you guys mostly like big racks and half naked, skinny bodies.

I know that with a probability of 80 to 90% a man created the character. I am not a feminist. I think this a firstly a questions of aesthetics which of course depends on personal views. But I ask myself is this the imagination you have how a woman should be? This is not an attack on you guys. And I do not want to start a discussion of what you all thing is beautiful. I only wanted to show a conspicuity.

I do not tell you what to do. EVE Online is a free game for which you all pay. You can do what you want. I only wanted to give my opinion.


Regards.


Not everyone is a 16 year old boy. Honestly Akirei isn't very feminine.


Seems we like the same typ of character.


Mara Rinn
Cosmic Goo Convertor
#134 - 2013-07-29 09:15:51 UTC
As far as skinny goes, it's hard to make a decent looking obese character using the character creator. Women just get bigger butts and chunkier arms, but there are no apple shapes.
Aya Shinomiya
Promethean Ascension
#135 - 2013-07-29 09:24:53 UTC
Here are many replies which show that the male opposite of a skinny woman with a big rack is a fat man with acne and neck beard. Which indicates that beeing skinny and have a big rack etc. is the extremum of female beauty. The problem with extremums in nature is that they are unstable. Nature prefers balance. A diamond made of pure crystal is unstable and breakable. Only the impurities in the crystal structure of the diamond make him so hard. (Studied materials science.) In the case of women with big breasts we have heard that they have neck problems.

Someone mentioned that the imagination of a beautiful women these days comes not from Hollywood. Yes and no I would say. Many girls and women today orientate themself on so called "stars" and their imagination of beauty. Sure, Hollywood look what men like and try to find the matching women. Because every actress wants to be this women they starve themself slim or doing sport or go to the chirug. Girls and women watch the movies and think they must look like this to be successful. I have seen 14 years old US American girls with breast implants.

Today everything is focused on appearance of people. They define themselfs through appearance. Cloth, body etc. to fit into the current beauty ideal. Maybe to fit into some (girls) group or to be recognized in a world of adaptation/exclusion or only to have sex. In my opinion there is a difference between a girl or a women which watch on her appearance and one which only try to fit into men's imagination of beauty. I have another theory from which this all come but this would be too off topic.

I personally have no strict imagination of beauty and I do not reduce a women to her breasts or body. I like women which watch on their appearance but do not use it offensive or exxagerate it. More important for me is the women itself, her character. In my whole life I have never said to a girl that she is ugly. At most she is not my type.

I (26) come from Germany. Here many people which I haven spoken to including my parents know that these "beauty trends" and imagination of it mostly come from the USA/ Hollywood and the model stages (e.g. "size zero").
Naburi NasNaburi
Doomheim
#136 - 2013-07-29 09:25:49 UTC
Is it just me or is this a Hey Im a girl thread in disguise ?
Aya Shinomiya
Promethean Ascension
#137 - 2013-07-29 09:30:09 UTC
Mara Rinn wrote:
As far as skinny goes, it's hard to make a decent looking obese character using the character creator. Women just get bigger butts and chunkier arms, but there are no apple shapes.


This is what I mean with "limitations". You can adjust the body and face only in limits. There are some fix parameters you cannot change. So you must create around them so to speak.
Aya Shinomiya
Promethean Ascension
#138 - 2013-07-29 09:34:15 UTC
Naburi NasNaburi wrote:
Is it just me or is this a Hey Im a girl thread in disguise ?


No. This was not my intention. Although EVE Online is a mostly men dominated game I very appreciate the opionions of the girls/women playing EVE Online to have also the "other (gender-) side".
Naburi NasNaburi
Doomheim
#139 - 2013-07-29 10:02:14 UTC
Aya Shinomiya wrote:
Naburi NasNaburi wrote:
Is it just me or is this a Hey Im a girl thread in disguise ?


No. This was not my intention. Although EVE Online is a mostly men dominated game I very appreciate the opionions of the girls/women playing EVE Online to have also the "other (gender-) side".



I tried playing a male toon once.. and was instantly asked if I am gay.. :P
Aya Shinomiya
Promethean Ascension
#140 - 2013-07-29 10:16:36 UTC  |  Edited by: Aya Shinomiya
Naburi NasNaburi wrote:
Aya Shinomiya wrote:
Naburi NasNaburi wrote:
Is it just me or is this a Hey Im a girl thread in disguise ?


No. This was not my intention. Although EVE Online is a mostly men dominated game I very appreciate the opionions of the girls/women playing EVE Online to have also the "other (gender-) side".



I tried playing a male toon once.. and was instantly asked if I am gay.. :P


Without defame our gay community I am totally hetero but I prefer female characters in games. I would say 30% of all male EVE Online players play a female character. It would be a completly new thread to ask why male player prefer female characters. But why should female players not play male characters. But this would lead us back to the topic. Would female players playing a male character create it in their imagination of beauty... and from where comes this imagination ... and is it likewise stereotype like that from the men ... ? There was one reply about that.