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Am I too stupid to play EVE?

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Herr Esiq
Viziam
#101 - 2013-04-16 11:17:09 UTC
Rocketfeller wrote:
Oracle of Machina wrote:
...The most valuable commodity in this game is trust, not ISK. Don't trust anyone completely...


There are so many contradictions in EVE. I am trying to reconcile not trusting people with joining a corp. I don't know anyone in RL who plays EVE. Any corp I join will be total strangers, and I won't trust them, nor will I expect them to trust me. Now I guess this is another case of taking a limited risk in order to gain. I should probably stop thinking about it so much and jump in. I am a loner by nature, both in RL and in game, and that can be costly in both places.


I am going to nitpick on this part. When you join a older more set corp that fits your needs there are different levels of trust. Obvious scams of them moving your stuff is a obvious scam but there are lot of corps that expect you to do some lifting without handing all personal assets over so 'one member can have a supercarrier for the greater good of the corp'.

Doing things solo is way more difficult then doing them in a group. And there are things that even after playing for 5 years i havent dealt with before. Then asking questions to your corp is a good way to migrate some risk without risking things.

In all my EVE time i've only been in 2 corps and even though they are completely different, the thing that helped me the most in all my playing time was my bond with my corp.
Cryxx Nadoa
Doomheim
#102 - 2013-04-16 11:19:17 UTC
Just remember the mistakes you've made and you wont make em again...hopefully.

You're not to stupid to play the game, not by a long shot...being to stupid would have, as already mentioned, been blaming the game mechanics.

I think it's safe to say that most people playing this game have screwed up at one point or another, it happens, the best you can do is keep going.
Just remember that EVE is a very different game, it plays in a different way and it takes time getting used to that.
Aracimia Wolfe
Imperial Academy
Amarr Empire
#103 - 2013-04-16 11:25:50 UTC
Personally I think the OP has done a sterling job, by getting back up and carrying on going.

All of us have had stupid moments, or had New Eden lay the smackdown on us (Anyone who says otherwise is either lying or in for a really nasty shock)

The fact that you can carry on and keep striving despite the setbacks and learn from those experiences is the mark of a true eve player

Kill it with Fire!

I Love Boobies
All Hail Boobies
#104 - 2013-04-16 11:46:49 UTC
Glad to see you aren't letting your bad experiences turn you completely away from Eve, but are working to make your Eve life better. And no, you aren't too stupid to play EVE, you are actually quite intelligent because you are using your experiences as learning. I have always said your EVE knowledge is the most important aspect of playing EVE. Anyway, good luck in your future endeavors OP.
Macnowus
Doomheim
#105 - 2013-04-16 12:50:30 UTC
WOW! Nice story OP - I see so many similarities to my adventures, that at some point I thought you were writting about me ;))
Currently I'm at the stage that I have almost no money at all (left with like 2 mlns....and to think, I still had more than 1bil isks 3 weeks ago...). I am writting this post and asking myself - should I try again? Should I get back? But...well, to what? I have nothing. Nothing means I can't do a thing, so what's the point in getting back? Anyone got any ideas? :(
Jenn aSide
Worthless Carebears
The Initiative.
#106 - 2013-04-16 12:50:40 UTC
Valkyria Nova wrote:
An intelligent man will question if he is intelligent.
A stupid man will never realize that he is stupid.


Gonaa tattoo that to my left arse cheek, thanks for the inspiration :) .
Anunzi
Solace Corp
#107 - 2013-04-16 13:02:08 UTC
Rocketfeller wrote:


So I'm back to square one. Again. Because of repeatedly making expensive mistakes. Don't get me wrong - I am not crying about the losses. Well, I guess in a way I am, but I don't blame anyone for where I am except me, and I accept that newbies will make expensive mistakes. The question is whether this is an unusual level of stupidity, and whether I should try once more or am I likely to keep repeating my failures?



This one line puts you leagues ahead of most newbies. You accept responsibility for your own actions instead of crying to CCP to fix the game to your liking. You’ll do just fine.

As to the mistakes, we all made them. As long as you don’t make the same mistakes again, then you are not back to square one.

Fly safe and stay frosty bro o7

"It was the way she said it, Rimmer, to rhyme with scum"

Malcanis
Vanishing Point.
The Initiative.
#108 - 2013-04-16 14:09:05 UTC
Anunzi wrote:
[quote=Rocketfeller]



As to the mistakes, we all made them.


Let me tell you about getting my first ever CNR with painfully and slowly acquired LP, and then getting the Damsel mission, deciding to just torp my way through the pleasure hub, grab the damsel and run. And getting stuck on the structure. And not knowing how to cancel warp. And watching my last few shreds of hull melt away... Sad

"Just remember later that I warned against any change to jump ranges or fatigue. You earned whats coming."

Grath Telkin, 11.10.2016

Lara Dantreb
Reisende des Schwarzschild Grenze
#109 - 2013-04-16 14:26:52 UTC
Chandaris wrote:

9 years in, i still make stupid mistakes, and learn new things almost every day.


So do I ! Big smile

---   Buying T2 ship bpos since 2005  ---

Georgina Parmala
Science and Trade Institute
Caldari State
#110 - 2013-04-16 16:43:43 UTC
Macnowus wrote:
WOW! Nice story OP - I see so many similarities to my adventures, that at some point I thought you were writting about me ;))
Currently I'm at the stage that I have almost no money at all (left with like 2 mlns....and to think, I still had more than 1bil isks 3 weeks ago...). I am writting this post and asking myself - should I try again? Should I get back? But...well, to what? I have nothing. Nothing means I can't do a thing, so what's the point in getting back? Anyone got any ideas? :(

Having nothing means you have nothing holding you back Blink

Beg borrow or steal your way into some startup capital and get to work on something you want to try. Having a zero balance wallet and no assets is hardly the end of the world, unless you also happened to get yourself podded a few hundred times without upgrading your clone. If being in such a position bothers you, it's probably a good idea to seed some recovery tools for the future, before you go balls deep into another adventure.

Science and Trade Institute [STI] is an NPC entity and as such my views do not represent those of the entity or any of its members

https://forums.eveonline.com/default.aspx?g=posts&t=276984&p=38

Rocketfeller
Sebiestor Tribe
Minmatar Republic
#111 - 2013-04-16 17:24:11 UTC
Georgina Parmala wrote:
Having nothing means you have nothing holding you back Blink...

At first glance that sounds like a platitude intended to make someone feel better about their misfortune. But I really think there is a fundamental truth to it. If I had been wiser, and risked (and lost) less each time, I would almost certainly not have gone in an entirely new direction. But because I have started from nearly nothing each time, I have been free to experiment without clinging to the past. After all, what is an absolute, worst-case loss in EVE? You don't die. Your family doesn't go hungry. You aren't left with crippling debt. You are gently placed back at the starting gate, but with more skills and more experience than a new player has. The pain of a loss is emotional and self-inflicted. It's all in your head. Of course, that pain is an important part of the game, for it provides contrast for the successes. Because they are all in your head, too.
Unsuccessful At Everything
The Troll Bridge
#112 - 2013-04-16 17:28:52 UTC
When I first started playing Eve, I struggled a bit to find my place. If it wasnt for the first player corp I joined, I probably wouldnt have found my calling in Eve.

Since the cessation of their usefulness is imminent, may I appropriate your belongings?

DarthNefarius
Minmatar Heavy Industries
#113 - 2013-04-16 17:42:07 UTC
The margin trading scam is a broken mechanic... 90+% of margin trades are the scam don't let any1 fool ya into believeing its used as intended for a majority of the time. I you rage quit please tell CCP the reason you quit was because of the margin trading scam
An' then Chicken@little.com, he come scramblin outta the    Terminal room screaming "The system's crashing! The system's    crashing!" -Uncle RAMus, 'Tales for Cyberpsychotic Children'
Haulie Berry
#114 - 2013-04-16 17:48:39 UTC
DarthNefarius wrote:
...90+% of margin trades are the scam...


I actually agree that the margin trading scam is a broken mechanic, but this statement is utterly ********.

Any serious trader will train margin trading. That makes for TONS of margin trade orders, only a small handful of which are scam-related.
DarthNefarius
Minmatar Heavy Industries
#115 - 2013-04-16 18:31:24 UTC
Haulie Berry wrote:
DarthNefarius wrote:
...90+% of margin trades are the scam...


I actually agree that the margin trading scam is a broken mechanic, but this statement is utterly ********.

Any serious trader will train margin trading. That makes for TONS of margin trade orders, only a small handful of which are scam-related.


Still there are more scammers then serious traders
An' then Chicken@little.com, he come scramblin outta the    Terminal room screaming "The system's crashing! The system's    crashing!" -Uncle RAMus, 'Tales for Cyberpsychotic Children'
Vanria Vexed
Caldari Provisions
Caldari State
#116 - 2013-04-16 19:00:58 UTC
The only time my buy orders exceed market prices is when I would like someone else to deliver the item I desire to the high sec island I reside upon. I rarely exceed 30% depending on the item in question and they are usually items I cannot stick in a blockade runner.

But to avoid thread de-railment, the OP definitely has the right attitude for this game. You know how to start over, and are willing to work at it. There is a great amount of space out there, DOTLAN helped me find my current home. If you find your current home unpleasant, you are free to move, and don't worry about taking everything with you, you've proved that you can rebuild.

Exploring beyond the rookie constellations is the best thing I did for myself.

**Playing EVE at times feels like putting a 10000 piece puzzle together, enjoying the accomplishment of succedding in completing it, then having some random stranger walk by and flip your table over. **

Herzog Wolfhammer
Sigma Special Tactics Group
#117 - 2013-04-16 19:31:38 UTC
Rocketfeller wrote:
I seriously need to know if EVE is beyond my capabilities. I have been playing for several hours each week for three months now, and I currently have almost nothing to show for it. I am trying to find my niche in the game, but so far the only thing I am good at is losing. I do want to like the game, but I can't help thinking that I am "doing it wrong" and I'm not so sure I can be cured.

How long does it generally take to get the hang of the game?

I started out well enough, running all the tutorial missions and getting the free ships. Then I stupidly lost my destroyer in a mission, sold my other ships to replace it, and then lost that one as well. Maybe I could have done better with practice. Since I had to start over, I thought I'd give mining a try, as even though it is boring, it seemed safer. That went slowly, but I kept at it and managed to make a little ISK, and eventually worked my way into a retriever, which cost me everything I had. I was much more productive, but within a few days I was blown up by a ganker (in high sec), and lost the ship and my pod. All I had left was a few days worth of ore I had mined before losing the ship. I know, I know, don't fly what you can't afford to lose. But moving into a mining barge as quickly as possible seemed like an intelligent decision for a miner, except in hind sight. I was upset at myself for risking and losing everything I had - for the second time - and didn't play again for a week.

I decided to try a more peaceful career as a trader. I scraped together all the money I could and started looking for items I could buy cheaper and sell higher. I found that I could pretty easily make a little profit of 5 or 10%, but soon ran out of capital and order slots. The stuff that I could afford to buy was not very expensive, so even a 10% return wasn't giving me as much as I had been making mining. I decided that was just a temporary problem, and that once I accumulated more capital I would be able to make bigger trades with my limited slots for more profit. So I kept working at it, and also started moving items between stations to take advantage of price differences. I discovered Eve Central, which let me find the best deals and the best markets. I thought I had figured out how to play, and was making a more decent amount of money. Within a month I had a wallet with over 400 million in it. And then I found a trade that beat all the trades before by turning my 400 million into 500 million - 25% in one trip. If you know how this part of the story is going to end, then congratulations to you, because I did not. It turns out the 500 million buy order was a fake. When I tried to sell, the order was immediately deleted. Only then did I find out there were no other buy orders for even 10 million. After doing a little research, I found out this is a common scam made possible by the fact that the market allows orders to remain visible even after the money put up to fill them is gone. I fully accept that the loss is on me, because I stupidly overpaid for the item. But it was an expensive way to learn that the EVE markets contain fake orders. I knew I had to watch out for other players, whether in ships or on the other side of trades and contracts. I just didn't know that the market mechanism couldn't be trusted, either.

So I'm back to square one. Again. Because of repeatedly making expensive mistakes. Don't get me wrong - I am not crying about the losses. Well, I guess in a way I am, but I don't blame anyone for where I am except me, and I accept that newbies will make expensive mistakes. The question is whether this is an unusual level of stupidity, and whether I should try once more or am I likely to keep repeating my failures?

I know I'll probably get replies that say "Yes. You are too stupid to play Eve." And to be fair, I asked for it. But if what I have experienced is par for the course and is just part of the learning curve, please let me know that, too. I know how to start over and I am willing to do it, but only if I think I have a chance to keep what I earn.

All criticism is accepted. Constructive criticism is appreciated.



If you are jumping around your skills, then you won't have much to show for it. This means that you have 120 DPS and go up against people with the same time in game and they smoke you like a fish.

You would also lack the skills to run missions as effectively to earn ISK.


So don't cross train and don''t spread out your SP. I have an alt with around 5000 SP that can deliver some heinous damage with a rifter, and that's only because I knew what NOT to do with the training choices.

On my main here I have almost 64 million SP and can fly shield or armor tank all T2 fit from frigates to BCs. But guess what? I can only fly one ship at a time.

Some players using separate-account alts will have them dedicated to certain roles, like a scanning alt, hauling alt, etc. This is a choice you have to make. My same-account alt is for PVP in frigates.

One thing you could try, and they didn't have this when I started, is to look at the forums regarding skills and see where you can go. There are enough experienced people now who can guide you, and you have to decide what you want to do from the start, then specialize your skills to that end. It won't take as long as you think and in around a month or two you will have something to show for it.

Bring back DEEEEP Space!

Frank Millar
The Scope
Gallente Federation
#118 - 2013-04-16 19:44:47 UTC
Huh.

This one time, I sent my alt on a shopping trip for some skillbooks in his Impairor.

There were some skills he couldn't inject immediately, so he had to take them home in his ship.
Back at base, he jumped in his PvE frigate, and trashed the Impairor. Without unloading those skillbooks...

Mind you, I was sleepy.

Just now. Shocked
Wolf Silentheart
Federal Federation
#119 - 2013-04-16 20:05:38 UTC
I had a lot of trouble starting out too. I think you would do well if you joined a smaller corporation with some more experienced pilots willing to help you out. Sometimes all you need is someone in game to answer questions and give you advice.
Georgina Parmala
Science and Trade Institute
Caldari State
#120 - 2013-04-16 20:07:19 UTC  |  Edited by: Georgina Parmala
Herzog Wolfhammer wrote:

One thing you could try, and they didn't have this when I started, is to look at the forums regarding skills and see where you can go. There are enough experienced people now who can guide you, and you have to decide what you want to do from the start, then specialize your skills to that end. It won't take as long as you think and in around a month or two you will have something to show for it.

To do that, first you need to try various things and figure out what you want to do in the game. There is nothing wrong with fumbling all over the place from the start. Have fun first, min max once you know what you want to do (if you're into that sort of thing).

OP already has something to "show for it". He has three months of varied experiences under his belt. The game is about having fun, not a SP treadmill or becoming spacerich. Unless of course, those are your ideas of fun.

Science and Trade Institute [STI] is an NPC entity and as such my views do not represent those of the entity or any of its members

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