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Playing EVE with my girl

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Happiesgoeslucky
Doomheim
#1 - 2013-03-14 07:15:18 UTC  |  Edited by: Happiesgoeslucky
How do I go about enjoying this game with my girlfriend?

We just got done playing borderlands 2 for like 5 hours. (Yeah I know I"m lucky)

We enjoy this game, but I'm just unsure on how we're supposed to play this together....its not like other MMO's where we can share a quest and go explore the world together.

The way missions work seem weird. We have to both accept them and then do them separately if we fleet up?

Is there something we are missing?

I suppose my question is this: How do you play eve with your SO or friends?
Talisa Latarien
Dark Tempest Enterprises
#2 - 2013-03-14 07:32:39 UTC  |  Edited by: Talisa Latarien
The answer is simple. If you plan to do missions together, then be in fleet, one of you takes the mission. Then you do it, and split the rewards when the one of you, who took the mission, reports on its completion.

Edit: starter missions and epic arcs will have to be done for each of your chars, but you can still split cash and standings rewards.
ShahFluffers
Ice Fire Warriors
#3 - 2013-03-14 07:55:25 UTC
Like the above posted said... you can do missions together by being in a fleet. However one of you need to be in the mission area first before the other can warp to them.

Other fun things you can do together include, but are not limited to...

- exploration: one person probes down anomaly sites in space and loots, salvages, hacks, analyzes... meanwhile the other is the damage dealer that clears the site of any NPCs.

- PvP: there are plenty of "duo" setups that are very effective, even at the newbie level.

- Industry: each of you specialize in different things ranging from mining, processing ores, researching blueprints, manufacturing items from minerals, hauling, to starbase management.

- scam people: get into corps, work your angles, steal everything when you get access... or one of you play the "fool" in need of help, the other as the "bully," and then wipe out any fool gullible enough to believe your act... etc.
Inxentas Ultramar
Ultramar Independent Contracting
#4 - 2013-03-14 08:45:13 UTC
Look up your GF in local / corp chat / private chat.

Right Click > Form Fleet With

Go from there! A tip about missions: each do a mission for an NPC corp of your choice. Then, help one another on subsequent missions. You will both gain standings as a Fleet for missions the other person completes. Mission givers will also ask you if you want to share ISK rewards with your Fleet.
Drago Shouna
Doomheim
#5 - 2013-03-14 08:55:24 UTC
The only way to enjoy EVE with your girlfriend is by turning it off, going to the pub, then partake in other nocturnal activities Big smile have fun.

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NightCrawler 85
Phoibe Enterprises
#6 - 2013-03-14 09:01:15 UTC
Wow this is a question i have actually never seen here before, but a very good one Smile

Me and my better half actually met in EVE and one living in Norway and another one in US really does not make things like "dating" easy, thus we tried to find ways in EVE to be together. I will admit that we failed miserably at this one.

Dont take me wrong, EVE is a great game but it does not allow you the same sense of.. togetherness as other games where you have more interaction does. In general i have found that couples that play EVE does not actually play together. They will sit in the same room and talk to eachother but their ingame activeties will be completely different. As an example he will be off in a WH with someone else, she will be running missions with someone completely different. In many cases people arent even in the same corp.

So here is my advice to the both of you... Keep playing EVE, join the same corp if you wish, do things together once in a while (missions,pvp, mining,scout for eachother and so on) but understand the fact that with so many options and interests EVE provides (combined with the fact that "a ship" really dosent add to you feeling close to someone, and yes i know i will get some comments on that statment Lol ) you will end up finding different enjoyable aspects of the game that you dont have in common.

Also, before the idea even can occur to you.. Be very casius of running off and starting a corp together!
In EVE ,like with any game, running a corp/guild/cabal/clan is rough because it takes so much time. In EVE its taken to a new level and its very easy to have ingame arguments transfer to your real life. And trust me sometimes i wish i dident have to sit and try to explain what my plans are for recruiting over the dinner table while listening to my better half trying to figure out how to word a post about the new ROE policy Lol

I wish you both the best of luck tho and hope you will be able to find a way to play EVE as a couple Smile
Bret Crendraven
Doomheim
#7 - 2013-03-14 10:00:44 UTC
All I'm going to say is... I wish my partner was as interested in games as yours are... Shocked
Xscape
Jonas Virpio Corporation
#8 - 2013-03-14 12:54:01 UTC  |  Edited by: Xscape
Bret Crendraven wrote:
All I'm going to say is... I wish my partner was as interested in games as yours are... Shocked


+1 all my gf plays is facebook games....Ugh
Lost Greybeard
Drunken Yordles
#9 - 2013-03-14 14:34:23 UTC
Side note: if you're hoping that Eve holds up to Borderlands in the side-by-side co-op sense, you're setting the bar a leeeeeeetle bit too high. Borderlands and Borderlands II are essentially the best co-op games published in the last decade. No quantity of internet spaceships can ever hold up to Butt Stallion or Dr. Ned Who Is Definitely Not Doctor Zed In A Mask.

That said, like all the above posters have noted, you can fleet up or form a corp (or just a chat channel) for essentially anything you could do single-player. The most comparable experience to blasting midgets across a map with an exploding shotgun where the gun also explodes like a grenade when the clip runs out is probably signing up for Faction Warfare, coming up with literally the cheapest frigate build you think you have any chance of killing anything with, and going forth to get blown up.

However, I DO have just one question for you:

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... EXPLOSIONS!?!?!?!
Kyra Quinn
Garoun Investment Bank
Gallente Federation
#10 - 2013-03-14 15:48:21 UTC
Find a goal you both agree to, in a shooter the goal is obvious and in your face making the choice easy (and actually non-existent). In EVE having the same goal doesn't necessarily mean doing the same thing at the same time. Missions are very straight forward, boring and linear. Try something more diverse and interesting, something that actually requires teamwork.

Oh and don't think in stereotypes or make suggestions based on them, that's a good way to have it go sour.
Ovv Topik
Sebiestor Tribe
Minmatar Republic
#11 - 2013-03-14 16:01:32 UTC
Happiesgoeslucky wrote:
How do I go about enjoying this game with my girlfriend?


Dude! Don't be using the GF word on here!!!
You'll give the rest of the players ideas!
Then EvE really will be dead!
Surely the explicit language filter should check for this kind of subversive content.

"Nicknack, I'm in a shoe in space, on my computer, in my house, with a cup of coffee, in't that something." - Fly Safe PopPaddi. o7

Kahega Amielden
Rifterlings
#12 - 2013-03-14 16:18:11 UTC  |  Edited by: Kahega Amielden
Missions are the shittiest game mechanic by a wide margin that CCP has ever come up with. Almost every other activity will reward you for doing stuff with other people. So, find something cool that isn't missions (there's a lot), and do that.
Vortexo VonBrenner
Doomheim
#13 - 2013-03-14 17:02:08 UTC
Happiesgoeslucky wrote:
I suppose my question is this: How do you play eve with your SO or friends?


Easily done - just do the same things together, no big trick to it at all - and in fact EVE is more fun if you do things with others. Even sometimes more boring tasks such as mining are made much better if you are on voice chat with others (mining fleets are sometimes called "chatrooms with lasers" for a reason). There are as many ways to play this game with others as there are ways to play this game...



Happiesgoeslucky wrote:
The way missions work seem weird. We have to both accept them and then do them separately if we fleet up?


No. Not sure how the tutorial/career missions work, but regular missions don't work that way




Happiesgoeslucky wrote:

Is there something we are missing?


Yes, seems so. Just don't miss out on the potential fun of playing EVE together, which is very easy to do
Daniel Plain
Doomheim
#14 - 2013-03-14 17:38:43 UTC
it's hard to say what you should do as different people enjoy different parts of EVE. if my significant other was interested in the game, i would probably try to run some duo lowsec roams in cheap ships. unfortunately, not only is she not interested in EVE, she is even less interested in pvp in general.
you both should take some time to look around and find out what each of you enjoys about eve and then try to find some synergy. if for example you are interested in running missions and she enjoys doing farmvilley stuff, you could leave salvaging, converting LP and selling stuff on the market to her. if one of you likes pvp and the other one likes mining, you could set up a retriever trap in lowsec and smack wannabe gankers in the face.

i could go on but you probably get my point.

I should buy an Ishtar.

Andres Talas
Center for Advanced Studies
Gallente Federation
#15 - 2013-03-14 21:37:56 UTC
Happiesgoeslucky wrote:
How do I go about enjoying this game with my girlfriend?

We just got done playing borderlands 2 for like 5 hours. (Yeah I know I"m lucky)

We enjoy this game, but I'm just unsure on how we're supposed to play this together....its not like other MMO's where we can share a quest and go explore the world together.

The way missions work seem weird. We have to both accept them and then do them separately if we fleet up?

Is there something we are missing?

I suppose my question is this: How do you play eve with your SO or friends?


Things I'd think about include

- exploration sites ... one of you deals with the rats, while the other one unlocks the boxes, salvages or whatever

- blitzing missions/combat sites ... something thats tough for a solo pilot will be blitzed by two players

- PvP ... fighting as a pair is more effective than fighting as individuals. Note one of you could be in a "specialty" ship like an ECM Blackbird or a Logistics space healer

- trade ... one of you scouts the route while the other follows in the slow, vulnerable cargo ship

If one of you really likes, say, the scanning minigame, then they can be finding something while the other one belt rats or something.
Sabriz Adoudel
Move along there is nothing here
#16 - 2013-03-15 05:34:39 UTC
Set traps for each other.

Go roaming together in lowsec, hunting random people, and if you can't find prey, shoot each other.

I support the New Order and CODE. alliance. www.minerbumping.com

Happiesgoeslucky
Doomheim
#17 - 2013-03-15 13:09:03 UTC
Thanks for the replies, lots of good information here for us.

She is not really into pvp all that much, but one thing that we do enjoy is exploration. It seems like 9/10 sites you find are wormholes so what the hell, we'll start there.

Being two low skilled and knowledge challenged individuals, is going into wormholes worthwhile at all?

As a team, what the hell do we do when we get into one?

Thanks.
Jonah Gravenstein
Machiavellian Space Bastards
#18 - 2013-03-15 13:27:01 UTC
Happiesgoeslucky wrote:
Thanks for the replies, lots of good information here for us.

She is not really into pvp all that much, but one thing that we do enjoy is exploration. It seems like 9/10 sites you find are wormholes so what the hell, we'll start there.

Being two low skilled and knowledge challenged individuals, is going into wormholes worthwhile at all?

As a team, what the hell do we do when we get into one?

Thanks.


Wormholes are tough on newbies, the NPCs are nasty and they hit hard, the residents can be even nastier, and they will send you home via the podgoo express. If you venture into them my main advice would be bookmark, bookmark, bookmark.

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Xercodo
Cruor Angelicus
#19 - 2013-03-15 15:34:08 UTC
Got mine hoked on BL2 too.

For a week she was obsessed with trying to kill terramorphus xD

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Doomheim
#20 - 2013-03-15 19:30:25 UTC
Shoot her ship!
Loot her wreck!
Yarr all the goodies!
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