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Allyria Kylari
Blue asteroids
#101 - 2013-02-05 22:01:45 UTC
Well that de-escalated quickly.
Psychotic Monk
Sebiestor Tribe
Minmatar Republic
#102 - 2013-02-05 22:14:53 UTC
Sorry, Ally. I'll try to get murdered next time.
Allyria Kylari
Blue asteroids
#103 - 2013-02-05 22:26:44 UTC
Don't get me wrong, I'm very glad it's over. I went through this getting increasingly worried and pissed until I read your reddit post.
AkJon Ferguson
JC Ferguson and Son Ltd
Ferguson Alliance
#104 - 2013-02-05 22:31:35 UTC
The giving of corp roles was arguably lame/douchey, but I can also see how it could be used as an additional enticement (to trick the victim into letting his guard down) so I consider it legitimate.

The tears were priceless. I don't grief or scam (I've tried suicide ganking twice, was successful once) but it's still funny to see grown men cry (like the 'this is my last post in this thread' guy, for another example.) EVE is a harsh game. When you **** up (and we all do) don't say a word. If you react emotionally you are merely compounding your error and victimizing yourself again.

The RL intimidation/harassment was totally unacceptable.

As to the separate issue of whether people who spend hundreds of hours a year being in-game sociopaths are likely sociopaths irl, I tend to agree with Unit CA. (You wouldn't spend the bulk of your free time making other people miserable if you didn't REALLY enjoy making other people miserable.) But this isn't the place to make that argument because it makes it look like you're trying to justify the rl harassment, and that behavior is inexcusable.
Fabio Bittar
The Scope
Gallente Federation
#105 - 2013-02-05 23:13:26 UTC  |  Edited by: Fabio Bittar
AkJon Ferguson wrote:
The giving of corp roles was arguably lame/douchey, but I can also see how it could be used as an additional enticement (to trick the victim into letting his guard down) so I consider it legitimate.

The tears were priceless. I don't grief or scam (I've tried suicide ganking twice, was successful once) but it's still funny to see grown men cry (like the 'this is my last post in this thread' guy, for another example.) EVE is a harsh game. When you **** up (and we all do) don't say a word. If you react emotionally you are merely compounding your error and victimizing yourself again.

The RL intimidation/harassment was totally unacceptable.

As to the separate issue of whether people who spend hundreds of hours a year being in-game sociopaths are likely sociopaths irl, I tend to agree with Unit CA. (You wouldn't spend the bulk of your free time making other people miserable if you didn't REALLY enjoy making other people miserable.) But this isn't the place to make that argument because it makes it look like you're trying to justify the rl harassment, and that behavior is inexcusable.


Heh. You are funny. Trying to throw ball in the wrong court, tho. Only reason I left the thread is because I realized 'Unit' is either a troll or a very stupid person, and I wasn't interested in feeding it any further. I personally (in real life) don't feel comfortable dealing with ****** up people.

I'll say that you're fundamentally wrong about calling players sociopaths in real-life for doing evil deeds in a make-believe fantasy world. It's like saying Ray Liotta is evil based on the characters he usually plays in the movies.

PS: Haven't I told you like..twice, for you to fix your character's portrait? Your duckface is offensive to my visual organs. :P
FloppieTheBanjoClown
Arcana Imperii Ltd.
#106 - 2013-02-05 23:28:01 UTC
Unit CA108AF wrote:
Consequences happen. You are not invincible behind your computer. Act like a decent human being. Eve is not a pass to act like a jerk without consequence.


In-game actions should have in-game consequences.

I've gotten mad about video games before. My reaction? I walked away from them, calmed down, and plotted my revenge. That revenge has come in the form of infiltrations, ganks, wars...I once collapsed a 500-person alliance out of spite. But I did it in the game.

Unit CA108AF wrote:
Sorry but enjoying someone's pain and suffering says a lot for their real world personality.


Some of my compatriots play for tears. I don't. They might confirm what I already know, but they are not my motivation.

Unit CA108AF wrote:
Back then, people used to actually help the victim learn and get better. Some still do thank Gods. Because of that, they're better players.


Actually, The Skunkworks has helped quite a few people learn how to avoid the mistakes they made before. We give fitting advice, teach them to scout, whatever it was that cost them their ship. So why didn't we help Theory666? Because there are two types of victims in Eve Online:

1) "Oh god I lost my ship. I need to figure out why and not make that mistake again." These people sometimes will ask us questions. Other times we'll point out some mistake they made.

2) "Oh god I lost my ship. YOU ARE A HORRIBLE PERSON AND I HATE YOU!" These people can't be taught. They think they should be able to play Eve however they want and not be bothered by the presence of others. We make no attempt to help these people.

Theory666 is the epitome of number 2. Not only did he think his loss was unavoidable, he then went out and lost another ship and blamed that on us as well. Then rather than look for a way to seek revenge in Eve, he took it to the real world.

Founding member of the Belligerent Undesirables movement.

FloppieTheBanjoClown
Arcana Imperii Ltd.
#107 - 2013-02-05 23:36:48 UTC
As to those people trying to define my motivations for me, here's my first post to the blog Monk and I share.

http://belligerentundesirables.wordpress.com/2013/01/02/i-promise-not-to-paraphrase-churchill/

Founding member of the Belligerent Undesirables movement.

Vegine
Sphere Foundation
#108 - 2013-02-06 01:53:52 UTC  |  Edited by: Vegine
eve is part of the real world , and just 'cause you are abide to play by the "dark" side of even apart from everything else doesnt obligate everyone else to do the same for your sake.

Face it, everything has risk (and if your instinctive reaction is still restricted to eve then maybe you dont have as much rl as you think). Inherently nutty people exists, and perfectly normal people can someimes goes nuts on most trivial of the issues. This is a surprise?

Be able to be "bad" is an interesting aspect this game can offer, but as times pass I've also noticed some people have grown entitled as in everyone else should just also abide to the same sets of limits they play with- ironically thats much the same as the very carebare they make fun of, just in a relative bigger scale than they could comprehend it seems. Lol

As for the griefing community's perspective its funny when the people they grief throws a fit , here's another perspective that I'll jam down your throat here in hope it can provoke some thoughts from you: You got into a real life situation and had to call the cops and everything because of an internet GAME??? LOL!
Wescro
Deep Core Mining Inc.
Caldari State
#109 - 2013-02-06 02:03:39 UTC  |  Edited by: Wescro
Fabio Bittar wrote:

I don't know what country you live in, but in mine he's committed a crime, alright. Calling somebody on the phone to demand ISK is quite enough. Harassment is not funny, nor legal.


If the country you live in construes harassment so broadly that simply asking for money on the phone is illegal, then it will much more readily see the in-game actions against Theory666 as harassment as well. The "what happens in EVE, stays in EVE" is a great player-ethic, and while it's reinforced by the EVE EULA, it is not recognized by a court of law, at least none that I know of.

On a side note, are there debt collections agencies and insurance companies in your country? Or any businesses at all? It must be hard to operate when sending someone a bill is harassment!

That said as I read more of Floppies account I'm starting to see the legal line being crossed. Attempting to access your e-mail is definitely a crime.
Eve Terrorist
Viziam
Amarr Empire
#110 - 2013-02-06 02:35:54 UTC
And the, of course, the guy "likes" the Skunkworks Facebook page which gave us all of his personal information in case the authorities are in need of it. O_o
Eve Terrorist
Viziam
Amarr Empire
#111 - 2013-02-06 02:39:33 UTC
Unit CA108AF wrote:

Hope for the best, expect the worst.


That just happens to be one of the "favorite" quotes on this peron's Facebook page.... Curiouser and curiouser.
FloppieTheBanjoClown
Arcana Imperii Ltd.
#112 - 2013-02-06 03:33:58 UTC
This entire thread is beginning to give me the opinion that Eve's bad guys are among the better human beings playing the game. It's appalling how many of you online do-gooders are leaping to defend the actions of a person who took a game so seriously that he set out to harass them in real life AND INVOLVE OTHER PEOPLE IN HIS STUNTS.

Founding member of the Belligerent Undesirables movement.

FloppieTheBanjoClown
Arcana Imperii Ltd.
#113 - 2013-02-06 03:37:58 UTC
Eve Terrorist wrote:
Unit CA108AF wrote:

Hope for the best, expect the worst.


That just happens to be one of the "favorite" quotes on this peron's Facebook page.... Curiouser and curiouser.


Oh god, I didn't even notice that. Excellent find!

Also, it seems he's retracted his like since we made our knowledge of it public. Don't worry dude, I've got your profile bookmarked. It's called "THIS GUY MIGHT HAVE KILLED ME". You know...just in case.

Founding member of the Belligerent Undesirables movement.

Eve Terrorist
Viziam
Amarr Empire
#114 - 2013-02-06 03:40:53 UTC
FloppieTheBanjoClown wrote:
Eve Terrorist wrote:
Unit CA108AF wrote:

Hope for the best, expect the worst.


That just happens to be one of the "favorite" quotes on this peron's Facebook page.... Curiouser and curiouser.


Oh god, I didn't even notice that. Excellent find!

Also, it seems he's retracted his like since we made our knowledge of it public. Don't worry dude, I've got your profile bookmarked. It's called "THIS GUY MIGHT HAVE KILLED ME". You know...just in case.



No, I banned him from the page permanently. I didn't want him being able to grab any info on any other Skunks.
Vegine
Sphere Foundation
#115 - 2013-02-06 04:28:19 UTC  |  Edited by: Vegine
FloppieTheBanjoClown wrote:
This entire thread is beginning to give me the opinion that Eve's bad guys are among the better human beings playing the game. It's appalling how many of you online do-gooders are leaping to defend the actions of a person who took a game so seriously that he set out to harass them in real life AND INVOLVE OTHER PEOPLE IN HIS STUNTS.


you just dont get it dont you? most of their arguments boils down NOT about defending the reaction this person had, but YOUR OWN part in which caused this whole fiasco in the 1st place. Its undefinable YOUR OWN actions directly attributed to outcome, however outrageous it is. Get this through that thick skull of yours thats filled with useless defense "but this is a game that guy should know better". Stuff like this happens in real world,. Get over it learn from it and move on. Or are you living in an even bigger hello kitty world than those crazy carebears?
Eve Terrorist
Viziam
Amarr Empire
#116 - 2013-02-06 04:30:13 UTC
Vegine wrote:
FloppieTheBanjoClown wrote:
This entire thread is beginning to give me the opinion that Eve's bad guys are among the better human beings playing the game. It's appalling how many of you online do-gooders are leaping to defend the actions of a person who took a game so seriously that he set out to harass them in real life AND INVOLVE OTHER PEOPLE IN HIS STUNTS.


you just dont get it dont you? most of their arguments boils down NOT about defending the reaction this person had, but YOUR part in which caused this whole fiasco in the 1st place. Its undefinable YOUR OWN actions directly attributed to outcome, however outrageous it is. Get this through that thick skull of yours thats filled with useless defense "but this is a game that guy should know better". Stuff like this happens in real world,. Get over it learn from it and move on. Or are you living in an even bigger hello kitty world than those crazy carebears?


You realize that Floppy wasn't even involved in the incident right? He wasn't there, he was just involved in a later conversation.... do you people not have any reading comprehension?!
Ifly Uwalk
Perkone
Caldari State
#117 - 2013-02-06 04:33:11 UTC
FloppieTheBanjoClown wrote:
It's appalling how many of you online do-gooders are leaping to defend the actions etc pp.

Oh? How many are there? I've read through the entire thread and couldn't find one. And before you start typing "RAAEEEGE! Unitwhatever said I'm a bad!!1!eleven" might I direct your attention to post number 103.
Vegine
Sphere Foundation
#118 - 2013-02-06 04:40:37 UTC  |  Edited by: Vegine
You realize that Floppy wasn't even involved in the incident right? He wasn't there, he was just involved in a later conversation.... do you people not have any reading comprehension?![/quote]


I read it thank you very much. Do you know pointing this out doesnt help his 'position' even one bit? He managed to get himself take the big boot even though he wasn't originally involved? LOL
Eve Terrorist
Viziam
Amarr Empire
#119 - 2013-02-06 04:46:20 UTC
Vegine wrote:

I read it thank you very much. Do you know pointing this out doesnt help his 'position' even one bit? He managed to get himself take the big boot even though he wasn't originally involved? LOL



I have absolutely no idea what you are trying to say there....
holding pattern58
Science and Trade Institute
Caldari State
#120 - 2013-02-06 05:00:35 UTC
I love this thread.