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Bridgette d'Iberville
Better Killing Through Chemistry
#61 - 2013-02-05 19:28:07 UTC
Honestly, the only take away I have from this entire situation is that if I chose to be an internet spaceship *******, I better make sure to get a proxy host for my internet spaceship website.

"I considered a career in griefing, but then realized that I would never achieve the level of tear generation that CCP manages to do each and every expansion."

De'Veldrin
Republic University
Minmatar Republic
#62 - 2013-02-05 19:35:01 UTC
FloppieTheBanjoClown wrote:

If I call your mother fat and you can't think of a good verbal retort, it's not acceptable for you to respond by hitting me instead


Being from the South, I can assure you that calling someone's mother fat where I grew up was more than enough reason to get a mudhole stomped in your ass.

De'Veldrin's Corollary (to Malcanis' Law): Any idea that seeks to limit the ability of a large nullsec bloc to do something in the name of allowing more small groups into sov null will inevitably make it that much harder for small groups to enter sov null.

Anslo
Scope Works
#63 - 2013-02-05 19:36:31 UTC
De'Veldrin wrote:
FloppieTheBanjoClown wrote:

If I call your mother fat and you can't think of a good verbal retort, it's not acceptable for you to respond by hitting me instead


Being from the South, I can assure you that calling someone's mother fat where I grew up was more than enough reason to get a mudhole stomped in your ass.



^This. Big time. I mean I sort of get what you're saying, but bad analogy imo.

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De'Veldrin
Republic University
Minmatar Republic
#64 - 2013-02-05 19:40:26 UTC
Anslo wrote:
De'Veldrin wrote:
FloppieTheBanjoClown wrote:

If I call your mother fat and you can't think of a good verbal retort, it's not acceptable for you to respond by hitting me instead


Being from the South, I can assure you that calling someone's mother fat where I grew up was more than enough reason to get a mudhole stomped in your ass.



^This. Big time. I mean I sort of get what you're saying, but bad analogy imo.


Well, I get what he's saying, definitely. There are some lines you just don't cross. Real life stalking and harassment for a video game loss is way over the line. You want to follow me around in game and gank me every time I undock, I can understand, but this was way, way too far.

De'Veldrin's Corollary (to Malcanis' Law): Any idea that seeks to limit the ability of a large nullsec bloc to do something in the name of allowing more small groups into sov null will inevitably make it that much harder for small groups to enter sov null.

Unit CA108AF
Unit Commune
#65 - 2013-02-05 19:41:14 UTC  |  Edited by: Unit CA108AF
De'Veldrin wrote:
Normal people don't suffer emotional distress from losses in a video game. Sick people do.


Normal people don't like causing that distress in the first place. Fight and gank and scamming is one thing, but this culture of tear collection is nothing but cancer that needs purged from this game. PvP use to be about the fight and the fun. Scamming was about the rush of the action.

Now, it's all about enjoying someone elses suffering. I don't care if you think I'm nuts for my opinion. I'm frankly sick of this culture of tear collection and extreme griefing via verbal abuse (i.e. cyber bullying) rearing it's ugly head in Eve. And I will speak out against it.
Haedonism Bot
People for the Ethical Treatment of Rogue Drones
#66 - 2013-02-05 19:46:36 UTC
Unit CA108AF wrote:
Fabio Bittar wrote:
You are a very sick person, then.


Says the person who takes joy from people's pain in RL. Hypocrite.

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If somebody is crying over a videogame, this somebody is too involved with it, and probably needs counseling; which is why normal, healthy people find it so amusing and funny.


Normal people do not find causing someone pain amusing. Sick people do.

H.Y.P.O.C.R.I.T.E.


Wow, this thread is bringing out all the crazies.Shocked

First of all, congrats to my Skunkworks bros on eliciting some epic, career topping tears. You guys should write a book, "The Noob who Cried All the Way to Toronto," by Floppy and Monk (imagining that you guys live in Toronto for some inexplicable reason).

Second of all, to the rest of you - EVE is a role playing game. Some people choose to play the role of the bad guys. It would be a pretty boring game if nobody did so. It has absolutely no reflection on who they are or what they do in RL. If you are that emotionally wrapped up in your PVE boat, then you seriously need some kind of intervention. Go outside and get some fresh air, take a walk, and ask yourself seriously if some silly Internet spaceship game is really worth all that. In a way these "griefers" and "pirates" provide a service to the game community by bringing these stories out and giving us perspective on the game, reminding us that Eve isn't real after all.

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Fabio Bittar
The Scope
Gallente Federation
#67 - 2013-02-05 19:48:35 UTC
Haedonism Bot wrote:
Unit CA108AF wrote:
Fabio Bittar wrote:
You are a very sick person, then.


Says the person who takes joy from people's pain in RL. Hypocrite.

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If somebody is crying over a videogame, this somebody is too involved with it, and probably needs counseling; which is why normal, healthy people find it so amusing and funny.


Normal people do not find causing someone pain amusing. Sick people do.

H.Y.P.O.C.R.I.T.E.


Wow, this thread is bringing out all the crazies.Shocked

First of all, congrats to my Skunkworks bros on eliciting some epic, career topping tears. You guys should write a book, "The Noob who Cried All the Way to Toronto," by Floppy and Monk (imagining that you guys live in Toronto for some inexplicable reason).

Second of all, to the rest of you - EVE is a role playing game. Some people choose to play the role of the bad guys. It would be a pretty boring game if nobody did so. It has absolutely no reflection on who they are or what they do in RL. If you are that emotionally wrapped up in your PVE boat, then you seriously need some kind of intervention. Go outside and get some fresh air, take a walk, and ask yourself seriously if some silly Internet spaceship game is really worth all that. In a way these "griefers" and "pirates" provide a service to the game community by bringing these stories out and giving us perspective on the game, reminding us that Eve isn't real after all.


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Jonah Gravenstein
Machiavellian Space Bastards
#68 - 2013-02-05 19:50:39 UTC
Unit CA108AF wrote:
De'Veldrin wrote:
Normal people don't suffer emotional distress from losses in a video game. Sick people do.


Normal people don't like causing that distress in the first place. Fight and gank and scamming is one thing, but this culture of tear collection is nothing but cancer that needs purged from this game. PvP use to be about the fight and the fun. Scamming was about the rush of the action.

Now, it's all about enjoying someone elses suffering. I don't care if you think I'm nuts for my opinion. I'm frankly sick of this culture of tear collection and extreme griefing via verbal abuse (i.e. cyber bullying) rearing it's ugly head in Eve. And I will speak out against it.


It's a video game, if you have a grudge in game, you should keep it in game. Taking a video game grudge into the real world is just plain wrong, especially when it involves taking that grudge out on people that don't even play the video game in question. Someone obviously has a problem differentiating between a virtual world and the real world, a reality disconnect if you will. Griefing is defined by CCP, not the players, virtual tear collection is a valid gameplay option in Eve, if people didn't cry over their space pixel losses then the tear collection would stop.

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De'Veldrin
Republic University
Minmatar Republic
#69 - 2013-02-05 19:52:02 UTC
Unit CA108AF wrote:
De'Veldrin wrote:
Normal people don't suffer emotional distress from losses in a video game. Sick people do.


Normal people don't like causing that distress in the first place. Fight and gank and scamming is one thing, but this culture of tear collection is nothing but cancer that needs purged from this game. PvP use to be about the fight and the fun. Scamming was about the rush of the action.

Now, it's all about enjoying someone elses suffering. I don't care if you think I'm nuts for my opinion. I'm frankly sick of this culture of tear collection and extreme griefing via verbal abuse (i.e. cyber bullying) rearing it's ugly head in Eve. And I will speak out against it.

You know why it happens? Because the people that are the victims react the same way victims always react - by whining and crying about it. Please note, I am speaking directly about Eve online, not anything else - cyber bullying is a very real issue, but that's not what's happening in Eve (by and large - I am sure there is SOME, but not to the extent you seem to be trying to make it out be).

I've been ganked, asploded, podded, bubbled, and I am sure unspeakable things have been done to my corpses when I wasn't looking but, as far as I know, I have never been publicly raked over the coals because I don't turn into a green-skinned rage monster when I lose something in the game. It's a game for the love of God. Do you flip the table when you lose a game of monopoly? Do you punch your opponent in the face when you get beaten at Chess? Would you not be mocked and ridiculed if you did? I think you would - and rightly so.

Normally, if I get popped I don't say anything (I'm too busy trying to save my damned pod). Once I'm safe, I'll exchange a gf with my opponent - no different than shaking someone's hand after they best you in any other contest. If there's time, and they're interested, we might discuss tactics - how they caught me, what I could have done differently, that sort of thing.

If anything is a problem, it's the people who get so emotionally attached to video game that they have to throw their toys out of the pram when they lose some internet space pixels.

De'Veldrin's Corollary (to Malcanis' Law): Any idea that seeks to limit the ability of a large nullsec bloc to do something in the name of allowing more small groups into sov null will inevitably make it that much harder for small groups to enter sov null.

Unit CA108AF
Unit Commune
#70 - 2013-02-05 19:54:59 UTC
Haedonism Bot wrote:
First of all, congrats to my Skunkworks bros on eliciting some epic, career topping tears. You guys should write a book, "The Noob who Cried All the Way to Toronto," by Floppy and Monk (imagining that you guys live in Toronto for some inexplicable reason).


Case in point. The cancer killing Eve.

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Second of all, to the rest of you - EVE is a role playinggame. Some people choose to play the role of the bad guys.

And that's in your right. Scam or gank or whatever. It happens. But then people like you take it beyond that and just troll and engage in verbal abuse. Eve was not about that. It was about the PvP, the Ganks, the Scam, the Emergence, the epic.

It was NEVER about bullying. People like YOU facilitate it and then whine when RL consequences come back to bite you. Then all you gankers come together saying "oh it's a game it's a game." It was a game before you took it a step beyond.

Consequences happen. You are not invincible behind your computer. Act like a decent human being. Eve is not a pass to act like a jerk without consequence.

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It would be a pretty boring game if nobody did so. It has absolutely no reflection on who they are or what they do in RL.

Sorry but enjoying someone's pain and suffering says a lot for their real world personality.

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If you are that emotionally wrapped up in your PVE boat, then you seriously need some kind of intervention. Go outside and get some fresh air, take a walk, and ask yourself seriously if some silly Internet spaceship game is really worth all that.

The same goes for you. Go outside and and ask yourself why you enjoy causing other people grief and enjoying their tears. Are you really that wrapped up in being a l33t pee vee pee'r that you'd do anything to impress your interweb friends?

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In a way these "griefers" and "pirates" provide a service to the game community by bringing these stories out and giving us perspective on the game, reminding us that Eve isn't real after all.


It was like that. I remember some great stories. BoB's roaming cap fleet that just roflstomped everything. Epic GHSC scams making headlines, and even more. But in the end, they just played. They kept playing. They didn't go back and remind the victim every day that LOL U SUCK CRY MOAR NOOB GB2 WOW.

Back then, people used to actually help the victim learn and get better. Some still do thank Gods. Because of that, they're better players. This has changed, drastically. PLAY MY WAY OR I KEEP YOU FROM DOING YOUR THING U NOOB U SUCK GTFO LOLOL YOU FAIL YOU SHULD AN HERO.

I see this crap more and more and more, and I've had it. It needs ended. I don't have a problem with the seedier activities in Eve, I have a problem of how far the griefers are taking it now a days.
Tallian Saotome
Nuclear Arms Exchange Inc.
#71 - 2013-02-05 20:03:17 UTC
De'Veldrin wrote:
Nyla Skin wrote:
Yim Sei wrote:

I mean dude you griefed him, now hes griefing you - and doing a pretty good job of it if you ask me.


Dude, everything ingame is fair game. Outside of game is where it becomes serious.

I don't know about you, but I believe I would have grounds to call police in my country. (depending how bad this out of game 'harassment' is).


In the US (especially in Texas) you'd have grounds to shoot him on sight if it's bad enough.

Ah, Texas. The state where 'He needed killin' is a legitimate legal defense.

I love my crazy rednecked state.

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Fabio Bittar
The Scope
Gallente Federation
#72 - 2013-02-05 20:03:34 UTC
@Unit CA108AF

You are completely insane. And a very obvious alt, possible Theory666's.

First of all: PLEASE, STOP talking about Real-Life Consequences. There is no such thing as this is a GAME. Cause and Consequence is only acceptable WITHIN the game. Taking "consequences" to real-life is not only insane, IT IS A CRIME in many countries.

Please, GTFO.
Unit CA108AF
Unit Commune
#73 - 2013-02-05 20:08:43 UTC
Fabio Bittar wrote:
@Unit CA108AF

You are completely insane. And a very obvious alt, possible Theory666's.

First of all: PLEASE, STOP talking about Real-Life Consequences. There is no such thing as this is a GAME. Cause and Consequence is only acceptable WITHIN the game. Taking "consequences" to real-life is not only insane, IT IS A CRIME in many countries.

Please, GTFO.


Yes, I am Theory666, my plan has been foiled. How did you see through my guise? Was it my logical calling out of what is hypocritical behavior and voicing my opinion? Oh, woe is me. Ablu, ablublublu.

Say what you want, but cyber bullying has consequences. You can yell til you're blue in the face, but legislation doesn't get considered without reason on Capitol Hill. Laws aren't requested and entire research studies aren't done because "there is no consequence" for your actions against another online. That is an incredibly immature and stunted outlook you have.

As I said, if you bothered to READ; I have nothing against PvP, ganks, or scams. It's part of Eve, it makes it fascinating. I have a problem about what happens after. The egging on, the trolling, the continual taunts and abuse of the victim.

Just be a good sportsman, have a lol, and move on instead of focusing abusive behavior on the victim. THAT is my problem. If you bothered to read, you'd understand that. And if you still condone such behavior, you're a hypocrite and a psycho.
Psychotic Monk
Sebiestor Tribe
Minmatar Republic
#74 - 2013-02-05 20:08:44 UTC
Unit CA108AF wrote:
LOL U SUCK CRY MOAR NOOB GB2 WOW.

PLAY MY WAY OR I KEEP YOU FROM DOING YOUR THING U NOOB U SUCK GTFO LOLOL YOU FAIL YOU SHULD AN HERO.


I can't speak for everyone in my profession, but I'm on speaking terms with most of the best people in my in-game profession and I can tell you that outburts like the above are not the norm for us. And they certainly did not happen in this case. We were very civil. We were certainly firm in our positions, but very civil.

In fact, the sort of thing you used as an example above occasionally gets heaped upon us and we take it *as* tears.
Unit CA108AF
Unit Commune
#75 - 2013-02-05 20:10:50 UTC
Psychotic Monk wrote:
Unit CA108AF wrote:
LOL U SUCK CRY MOAR NOOB GB2 WOW.

PLAY MY WAY OR I KEEP YOU FROM DOING YOUR THING U NOOB U SUCK GTFO LOLOL YOU FAIL YOU SHULD AN HERO.


I can't speak for everyone in my profession, but I'm on speaking terms with most of the best people in my in-game profession and I can tell you that outburts like the above are not the norm for us. And they certainly did not happen in this case. We were very civil. We were certainly firm in our positions, but very civil.

In fact, the sort of thing you used as an example above occasionally gets heaped upon us and we take it *as* tears.


I apologize for the lack of specifics in terms of my grievances. Obviously the above terminology is not the norm, clearly. But my point still stands in terms of just how much taunting is too much taunting. How much do you have to egg someone on? That's my issue.

But thank you for being civil in your retort with me, unlike some people in this thread.
Tallian Saotome
Nuclear Arms Exchange Inc.
#76 - 2013-02-05 20:25:51 UTC
Unit CA108AF wrote:
Psychotic Monk wrote:
Unit CA108AF wrote:
LOL U SUCK CRY MOAR NOOB GB2 WOW.

PLAY MY WAY OR I KEEP YOU FROM DOING YOUR THING U NOOB U SUCK GTFO LOLOL YOU FAIL YOU SHULD AN HERO.


I can't speak for everyone in my profession, but I'm on speaking terms with most of the best people in my in-game profession and I can tell you that outburts like the above are not the norm for us. And they certainly did not happen in this case. We were very civil. We were certainly firm in our positions, but very civil.

In fact, the sort of thing you used as an example above occasionally gets heaped upon us and we take it *as* tears.


I apologize for the lack of specifics in terms of my grievances. Obviously the above terminology is not the norm, clearly. But my point still stands in terms of just how much taunting is too much taunting. How much do you have to egg someone on? That's my issue.

But thank you for being civil in your retort with me, unlike some people in this thread.

Dude, I have been watching Skunks for a couple years, as well as the rest, and even been on the receiving end of one of their wardecs. They only taunt those who come crying about it.

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Unit CA108AF
Unit Commune
#77 - 2013-02-05 20:28:09 UTC
Tallian Saotome wrote:
Dude, I have been watching Skunks for a couple years, as well as the rest, and even been on the receiving end of one of their wardecs. They only taunt those who come crying about it.


Then lol back at them a bit. If they continue, just cancel the conversation. One does not abstain personal responsibility for causing someone more and more grief by egging them on. If it's getting out of control after a few lines, close the convo and block. Don't troll back hard enough to make people feel that bad in the first place.
Tallian Saotome
Nuclear Arms Exchange Inc.
#78 - 2013-02-05 20:34:36 UTC
Unit CA108AF wrote:
Tallian Saotome wrote:
Dude, I have been watching Skunks for a couple years, as well as the rest, and even been on the receiving end of one of their wardecs. They only taunt those who come crying about it.


Then lol back at them a bit. If they continue, just cancel the conversation. One does not abstain personal responsibility for causing someone more and more grief by egging them on. If it's getting out of control after a few lines, close the convo and block. Don't troll back hard enough to make people feel that bad in the first place.

Don't cry about pixels, and this won't be an issue. I have gotten mad about losing my pixels once or twice. First time I took an eve break because I was so emotionally invested it was bad for me, and the second time, well, I saw what I was doing and just started laughing.

Haven't had a problem since I realized they were just pixels tho.

Part of trolling people who do that is to make it clear that those people need to stop playing. Being that invested in an imaginary world is not a good thing, and if you are that invested, you need to get away from it. Sadly, you won't get away from it until you are made to feel absolutely awful about it.

Not saying thats why people do it, but that is the usual effect of it, which is a good thing.

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Tah'ris Khlador
Space Ghosts.
Break-A-Wish Foundation
#79 - 2013-02-05 20:37:12 UTC  |  Edited by: Tah'ris Khlador
Everyone in EVE is my opponent. I will taunt them as I choose.

This is not soccer. I am not here to simply "play the game." I am here to destroy people, destroy corporations, and yes, to reap tears at the destruction I wage.

I expect my opponent to do no less with me.

EDIT: All in game of course. I could care less about their real lives, though I do find it funny when they use it as an excuse to being bad.

EDIT2: Typo.

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Unit CA108AF
Unit Commune
#80 - 2013-02-05 20:40:36 UTC  |  Edited by: Unit CA108AF
Tallian Saotome wrote:
Don't cry about pixels, and this won't be an issue. I have gotten mad about losing my pixels once or twice. First time I took an eve break because I was so emotionally invested it was bad for me, and the second time, well, I saw what I was doing and just started laughing.


Then don't make them cry about the bloody pixels. What's so hard to understand about this? Is civility really so alien to the PvP community now? And why can't people read? Ganking is not my problem, it's the trolling and verbal abuse that continues AFTER the fact.

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Part of trolling people who do that is to make it clear that those people need to stop playing. Being that invested in an imaginary world is not a good thing, and if you are that invested, you need to get away from it. Sadly, you won't get away from it until you are made to feel absolutely awful about it.

Who are you to not only abuse them verbally, but tell them not to play? And look who's talking. Griefers who troll in an extreme manner are wrapped up in their own little imaginary world that they must beat their virtual chest against their victim JUST to get a reaction. That is sick, plain and simple. I don't care how much you people hide behind "ccp's definition." The world and people see it as abuse. And guess what? You're not pod pilots, you're people. Clearly messed up people at that.

Leave the tear collection culture behind.[/quote]

Tah'ris Khlador wrote:
Everyone in EVE is my opponent. I will taunt them as I choose.

This is not soccer. I am not here to simply "play the game." I am here to destroy people, destroy corporations, and yes, to reap tears at the destruction I wage.

I expect my opponent to do no less with me.

EDIT: All in game of course. I could careless about their real lives, though I do find it funny when they use it as an excuse to being bad.


See, right there. That's what's wrong. He even had to edit his comment because he didn't want to have people know what he really is; a psycho.

It's about the tears? It's about inflicting grief? Give me a break "tough guy."