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Krixtal Icefluxor
INLAND EMPIRE Galactic
#21 - 2012-12-15 17:23:02 UTC
So................you and your boyfriend had met PRIOR to playing EVE together.

Had you found EVE yourself, and seen the player behaviors and local chat and forum posts, would you even have bothered looking for someone here ?

"He has mounted his hind-legs, and blown crass vapidities through the bowel of his neck."  - Ambrose Bierce on Oscar Wilde's Lecture in San Francisco 1882
The Protato
Deep Core Mining Inc.
Caldari State
#22 - 2012-12-15 17:34:48 UTC
Feiryred wrote:
Its all genuine my friends. I am indeed the proud owner of 2 X chromosomes. I am a certified membetrof the Women Gamers of Eve channel & The CFCNPA jabber channel. & I still want your stories! Big smile


You might have one too many chromosomes if you think that this entitles you to any kind of pride. Chance does not equal achievement.
Feiryred
House Singularity
Sixth Empire
#23 - 2012-12-15 17:39:34 UTC
Krixtal Icefluxor wrote:
So................you and your boyfriend had met PRIOR to playing EVE together.

Had you found EVE yourself, and seen the player behaviors and local chat and forum posts, would you even have bothered looking for someone here ?


Who are you referring to? If its me? I believe I mentioned an ex bf lol. I've never played Eve in order to snag another one-Never entered my head as it happens-but we're all humans here doing human things-& getting an insight to how people interact? Can't see what's wrong with that.

I do not spew forth profanities, I enunciate them clearly-like a f*cking lady!
Krixtal Icefluxor
INLAND EMPIRE Galactic
#24 - 2012-12-15 17:42:07 UTC
Feiryred wrote:
Krixtal Icefluxor wrote:
So................you and your boyfriend had met PRIOR to playing EVE together.

Had you found EVE yourself, and seen the player behaviors and local chat and forum posts, would you even have bothered looking for someone here ?


Who are you referring to? If its me? I believe I mentioned an ex bf lol. I've never played Eve in order to snag another one-Never entered my head as it happens-but we're all humans here doing human things-& getting an insight to how people interact? Can't see what's wrong with that.



You just did a spectacular job of not answering my question...at all.

"He has mounted his hind-legs, and blown crass vapidities through the bowel of his neck."  - Ambrose Bierce on Oscar Wilde's Lecture in San Francisco 1882
Phil Da Agony
KarmaFleet
Goonswarm Federation
#25 - 2012-12-15 17:42:40 UTC
So your bf introduced you to EVE and you introduced yourself to a rich Caldari businessman and now your bf is your ex-bf huh?

I love this game
Feiryred
House Singularity
Sixth Empire
#26 - 2012-12-15 17:52:43 UTC
Krixtal Icefluxor wrote:
Feiryred wrote:
Krixtal Icefluxor wrote:
So................you and your boyfriend had met PRIOR to playing EVE together.

Had you found EVE yourself, and seen the player behaviors and local chat and forum posts, would you even have bothered looking for someone here ?


Who are you referring to? If its me? I believe I mentioned an ex bf lol. I've never played Eve in order to snag another one-Never entered my head as it happens-but we're all humans here doing human things-& getting an insight to how people interact? Can't see what's wrong with that.



You just did a spectacular job of not answering my question...at all.


I wish I had found Eve a lot sooner, but there you go. Answering your question? You seem to be implying that I'm here looking for a relationship? I mean huh? What? I'm looking to write an article my friend. I'm very well aware how people can be on the forums-I see nothing wrong however in looking into aspects of the game other people don't look at.

I do not spew forth profanities, I enunciate them clearly-like a f*cking lady!
Krixtal Icefluxor
INLAND EMPIRE Galactic
#27 - 2012-12-15 17:55:55 UTC
Feiryred wrote:
Krixtal Icefluxor wrote:
Feiryred wrote:
Krixtal Icefluxor wrote:
So................you and your boyfriend had met PRIOR to playing EVE together.

Had you found EVE yourself, and seen the player behaviors and local chat and forum posts, would you even have bothered looking for someone here ?


Who are you referring to? If its me? I believe I mentioned an ex bf lol. I've never played Eve in order to snag another one-Never entered my head as it happens-but we're all humans here doing human things-& getting an insight to how people interact? Can't see what's wrong with that.



You just did a spectacular job of not answering my question...at all.


I wish I had found Eve a lot sooner, but there you go. Answering your question? You seem to be implying that I'm here looking for a relationship? I mean huh? What? I'm looking to write an article my friend. I'm very well aware how people can be on the forums-I see nothing wrong however in looking into aspects of the game other people don't look at.


No. No. No.

Read my question.

I am asking, if you had found EVE on your own, and experienced the chat, forums, and behaviors, especially in Fleet Comms and stuff, would you have bothered to look for a partner here yourself ? Which you are indeed asking for stories about from other.

I don't know how to phrase it any simpler.

"He has mounted his hind-legs, and blown crass vapidities through the bowel of his neck."  - Ambrose Bierce on Oscar Wilde's Lecture in San Francisco 1882
Feiryred
House Singularity
Sixth Empire
#28 - 2012-12-15 18:07:55 UTC
I very much doubt anyone plays this game in order to find a partner-but yet...it still happens...& hearing the stories is a different slant on things.

I do not spew forth profanities, I enunciate them clearly-like a f*cking lady!
Krixtal Icefluxor
INLAND EMPIRE Galactic
#29 - 2012-12-15 18:11:13 UTC
Feiryred wrote:
I very much doubt anyone plays this game in order to find a partner-but yet...it still happens...& hearing the stories is a different slant on things.



You still have not answered tha question as to if you would have bothered even looking here if you found the game on your own.

I give up.

You are not real, and are Trolling. And are appearing not too intelligent either tbh.

End of that discussion.

You basically outed yourself as such.

Good bye.

"He has mounted his hind-legs, and blown crass vapidities through the bowel of his neck."  - Ambrose Bierce on Oscar Wilde's Lecture in San Francisco 1882
Feiryred
House Singularity
Sixth Empire
#30 - 2012-12-15 18:18:24 UTC
Krixtal Icefluxor wrote:
Feiryred wrote:
I very much doubt anyone plays this game in order to find a partner-but yet...it still happens...& hearing the stories is a different slant on things.



You still have not answered tha question as to if you would have bothered even looking here if you found the game on your own.

I give up.

You are not real, and are Trolling. And are appearing not too intelligent either tbh.

End of that discussion.

You basically outed yourself as such.

Good bye.


Bye bye & have a lovely Xmas :)

I do not spew forth profanities, I enunciate them clearly-like a f*cking lady!
Deacon Abox
Black Eagle5
#31 - 2012-12-15 18:19:01 UTC  |  Edited by: Deacon Abox
Feiryred wrote:
Its all genuine my friends. I am indeed the proud owner of 2 X chromosomes. I am a certified membetrof the Women Gamers of Eve channel & The CFCNPA jabber channel. & I still want your stories! Big smile

They have certificates of membership? Sort of an oxymoronP. But anyway, if so, please post them, so we can be sure of your bona fides.Smile

As to your question. You should lobby the forums for new WIS content. When that comes there might be more, or even some, data for you to work with.

CCP, there are off buttons for ship explosions, missile effects, turret effects, etc. "Immersion" does not seem to be harmed by those. So, [u]please[/u] give us a persisting off button for the jump gate and autoscan visuals.

Eurydia Vespasian
Storm Hunters
#32 - 2012-12-15 18:34:46 UTC
personally, i don't play online games to meet guys. in fact, i do my best to try and keep things as level and straightforward as possible. there have been awkward situations in the past and i'd rather experience as little of that as possible ever again.

i might sit and talk in voice here and there if a convo is fun or has bearing on what's going on in the groups i mingle with. i might even share a pic or two with people i feel comfortable having those details about me. but i really try and steer clear of romantic advances.

i play games to relieve stress and have fun. i'd much rather not have an activity i enjoy turn into an avenue for uncomfortable weirdness. nor do i feel like i should have to hide who i am in order to enjoy my playing time. i realize that sometimes it is a lot to expect maturity and respect from my fellow gamers but with a little discretion (and a bit of a thicker skin) I find much of the unpleasant experience can be avoided lol Smile
Feiryred
House Singularity
Sixth Empire
#33 - 2012-12-15 19:00:31 UTC
Eurydia Vespasian wrote:
personally, i don't play online games to meet guys. in fact, i do my best to try and keep things as level and straightforward as possible. there have been awkward situations in the past and i'd rather experience as little of that as possible ever again.

i might sit and talk in voice here and there if a convo is fun or has bearing on what's going on in the groups i mingle with. i might even share a pic or two with people i feel comfortable having those details about me. but i really try and steer clear of romantic advances.

i play games to relieve stress and have fun. i'd much rather not have an activity i enjoy turn into an avenue for uncomfortable weirdness. nor do i feel like i should have to hide who i am in order to enjoy my playing time. i realize that sometimes it is a lot to expect maturity and respect from my fellow gamers but with a little discretion (and a bit of a thicker skin) I find much of the unpleasant experience can be avoided lol Smile


Nicely put! I play games for relaxation too. I do respect people like their privacy-but those people won't talk anyway lol-which is fine :)

I do not spew forth profanities, I enunciate them clearly-like a f*cking lady!
Darth Khasei
Wavestar Business Ventures Inc.
#34 - 2012-12-15 19:04:39 UTC
Krixtal Icefluxor wrote:
Well, it wasn't a 'relationship' certainly, but when things got bad for me in RL my former Alliance Leader whom I had voice comms with for around 2 years, flew me across the country to stay for 6 months while things were gotten back in order for me.

That can happen.


Respect.Cool

Just wanted to pop in and say that I repeatedly have told people that this is a social game first. I will include this story in my future discussions about the value of social play in this game.

Peace.
Susannah Johnson
Department of Defence
Get Off My Lawn
#35 - 2012-12-15 21:07:19 UTC
Krixtal Icefluxor wrote:
Feiryred wrote:
Krixtal Icefluxor wrote:
Feiryred wrote:
Krixtal Icefluxor wrote:
So................you and your boyfriend had met PRIOR to playing EVE together.

Had you found EVE yourself, and seen the player behaviors and local chat and forum posts, would you even have bothered looking for someone here ?


Who are you referring to? If its me? I believe I mentioned an ex bf lol. I've never played Eve in order to snag another one-Never entered my head as it happens-but we're all humans here doing human things-& getting an insight to how people interact? Can't see what's wrong with that.



You just did a spectacular job of not answering my question...at all.


I wish I had found Eve a lot sooner, but there you go. Answering your question? You seem to be implying that I'm here looking for a relationship? I mean huh? What? I'm looking to write an article my friend. I'm very well aware how people can be on the forums-I see nothing wrong however in looking into aspects of the game other people don't look at.


No. No. No.

Read my question.

I am asking, if you had found EVE on your own, and experienced the chat, forums, and behaviors, especially in Fleet Comms and stuff, would you have bothered to look for a partner here yourself ? Which you are indeed asking for stories about from other.

I don't know how to phrase it any simpler.

hmm, my post got removed, humbug
kennethmild
Native Freshfood
Minmatar Republic
#36 - 2012-12-16 00:24:39 UTC
I started to play Eve in order to relieve the soul-crushing loneliness when my fiance left me at the altar.
It was when my second fiance left me at the altar I started making this kind of gloomy posts.
Seven Koskanaiken
Shadow Legions.
SONS of BANE
#37 - 2012-12-16 00:41:39 UTC
no but im open to offers
Alavaria Fera
GoonWaffe
#38 - 2012-12-16 01:08:47 UTC
kennethmild wrote:
I started to play Eve in order to relieve the soul-crushing loneliness when my fiance left me at the altar.
It was when my second fiance left me at the altar I started making this kind of gloomy posts.

Why would you come to a cold and harsh place, then?

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Mallak Azaria
Caldari Provisions
Caldari State
#39 - 2012-12-16 02:09:59 UTC
My best-friend while growing up met a girl online 4 years ago. He was 23, she was 13. I can't tell you how it turned out because I severed all contact from the flithy pedophile.

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Xercodo
Cruor Angelicus
#40 - 2012-12-16 03:24:38 UTC
Love finds itself in unexpected places, it is not something you seek out, but something that comes to you naturally.

Truest and deepest quote to ever come out of RvB:
"Great love is a lot like a good memory, when it's there, and you know it's there, but it's just out of your reach, it can be all you can think about. And you can focus on it and try to force it, but the more you do the more you seem to push it away.... But if you're patient and you hold still.... well maybe.....just maybe....It'll come to you"
-Leonard Church

I'll leave it at that.

hehe

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