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Kara Vix
Perkone
Caldari State
#181 - 2012-11-14 06:34:01 UTC
BoSau Hotim wrote:
Remiel Pollard wrote:
I see this term get thrown around a lot, more often as a pejorative for players that play the game a certain way - I'm not sure I understand what that certain way is, though, so I would appreciate it if someone explained. I know I'm going to get a few people who just say "carebears are the scum of highsec" and that's it, but that's not a definition, is it. I *don't* want to know WHY they're scum - or why they're NOT scum... in fact, I'd rather a definition, properly delivered without bias, not include the word scum at all. An explanation would be nice, not more accusations, pejoratives and condemnations. I just want to know what it means, not how you feel about it - although I'm sure some of you will tell me anyway.



IMO

1. a Carebear is someone who wants to live in high sec with absolutely no possible way for them to get ganked/bumped/can flipped/war dec'd/ninja salvaged or have any other player's actions negatively affect them. They don't PvP. They live in a magical world until they are introduced to the realities of EvE and then you find them on these forums raging.

2. Some use the term to refer to anyone who lives in hi sec (PvPing or not)


I am not a carebear by most definitions, am by some since I live mostly in Hi. But honestly on these forums I see 95 percent of the rage coming from low and null, not by these mystical space ursidae that everyone wants to hunt. Every hi sec dweller I know realizes that can flippers, etc are a part of the game and none think it need be removed. But it is amusing seeing the propaganda machine at work on the forums.
Remiel Pollard
Aliastra
Gallente Federation
#182 - 2012-11-14 06:34:09 UTC  |  Edited by: Remiel Pollard
BoSau wrote:


IMO

1. a Carebear is someone who wants to live in high sec with absolutely no possible way for them to get ganked/bumped/can flipped/war dec'd/ninja salvaged or have any other player's actions negatively affect them. They don't PvP. They live in a magical world until they are introduced to the realities of EvE and then you find them on these forums raging.

2. Some use the term to refer to anyone who lives in hi sec (PvPing or not)


I liked your post because of the video - it's sad, but I grew up with that show, and that was very nostalgic.

“Some capsuleers claim that ECM is 'dishonorable' and 'unfair'. Jam those ones first, and kill them last.” - Jirai 'Fatal' Laitanen, Pithum Nullifier Training Manual c. YC104

BoSau Hotim
Uitraan Diversified Holdings Incorporated
#183 - 2012-11-14 07:02:31 UTC
Kara Vix wrote:
BoSau Hotim wrote:
Remiel Pollard wrote:
I see this term get thrown around a lot, more often as a pejorative for players that play the game a certain way - I'm not sure I understand what that certain way is, though, so I would appreciate it if someone explained. I know I'm going to get a few people who just say "carebears are the scum of highsec" and that's it, but that's not a definition, is it. I *don't* want to know WHY they're scum - or why they're NOT scum... in fact, I'd rather a definition, properly delivered without bias, not include the word scum at all. An explanation would be nice, not more accusations, pejoratives and condemnations. I just want to know what it means, not how you feel about it - although I'm sure some of you will tell me anyway.



IMO

1. a Carebear is someone who wants to live in high sec with absolutely no possible way for them to get ganked/bumped/can flipped/war dec'd/ninja salvaged or have any other player's actions negatively affect them. They don't PvP. They live in a magical world until they are introduced to the realities of EvE and then you find them on these forums raging.

2. Some use the term to refer to anyone who lives in hi sec (PvPing or not)


I am not a carebear by most definitions, am by some since I live mostly in Hi. But honestly on these forums I see 95 percent of the rage coming from low and null, not by these mystical space ursidae that everyone wants to hunt. Every hi sec dweller I know realizes that can flippers, etc are a part of the game and none think it need be removed. But it is amusing seeing the propaganda machine at work on the forums.



hmm, i dont' think 95% of rageposts come from lo/null. I.E. posts on: CCP stop the ice interdiction, CCP stop hulkageddon, CCP stop ninja salvagers, CCP stop ganks, CCP Stop James315 from bumping me... etc etc etc.

Honestly, you'd be surprised how many hi sec dwellers think it's unfair that all this action can happen to them. Please don't misunderstand me, I am not anti-carebear. I just find some of their posts either amusing or repetitive

On the other hand, yes I agree there are rageposts from lo/null crying to turn off the so called 'isk faucet' and other 'nerf hi sec' posts. I would like some more originality :)

I'm not a carebear... I'm a SPACE BARBIE!  Now... where's Ken?

Remiel Pollard
Aliastra
Gallente Federation
#184 - 2012-11-14 07:08:52 UTC
BoSau Hotim wrote:



hmm, i dont' think 95% of rageposts come from lo/null. I.E. posts on: CCP stop the ice interdiction, CCP stop hulkageddon, CCP stop ninja salvagers, CCP stop ganks, CCP Stop James315 from bumping me... etc etc etc.

Honestly, you'd be surprised how many hi sec dwellers think it's unfair that all this action can happen to them. Please don't misunderstand me, I am not anti-carebear. I just find some of their posts either amusing or repetitive

On the other hand, yes I agree there are rageposts from lo/null crying to turn off the so called 'isk faucet' and other 'nerf hi sec' posts. I would like some more originality :)


Originality??

NERF CCP!!! Lol

Has that been done yet??

“Some capsuleers claim that ECM is 'dishonorable' and 'unfair'. Jam those ones first, and kill them last.” - Jirai 'Fatal' Laitanen, Pithum Nullifier Training Manual c. YC104

Kara Vix
Perkone
Caldari State
#185 - 2012-11-14 07:21:39 UTC
BoSau Hotim wrote:
Kara Vix wrote:
BoSau Hotim wrote:
Remiel Pollard wrote:
I see this term get thrown around a lot, more often as a pejorative for players that play the game a certain way - I'm not sure I understand what that certain way is, though, so I would appreciate it if someone explained. I know I'm going to get a few people who just say "carebears are the scum of highsec" and that's it, but that's not a definition, is it. I *don't* want to know WHY they're scum - or why they're NOT scum... in fact, I'd rather a definition, properly delivered without bias, not include the word scum at all. An explanation would be nice, not more accusations, pejoratives and condemnations. I just want to know what it means, not how you feel about it - although I'm sure some of you will tell me anyway.



IMO

1. a Carebear is someone who wants to live in high sec with absolutely no possible way for them to get ganked/bumped/can flipped/war dec'd/ninja salvaged or have any other player's actions negatively affect them. They don't PvP. They live in a magical world until they are introduced to the realities of EvE and then you find them on these forums raging.

2. Some use the term to refer to anyone who lives in hi sec (PvPing or not)


I am not a carebear by most definitions, am by some since I live mostly in Hi. But honestly on these forums I see 95 percent of the rage coming from low and null, not by these mystical space ursidae that everyone wants to hunt. Every hi sec dweller I know realizes that can flippers, etc are a part of the game and none think it need be removed. But it is amusing seeing the propaganda machine at work on the forums.



hmm, i dont' think 95% of rageposts come from lo/null. I.E. posts on: CCP stop the ice interdiction, CCP stop hulkageddon, CCP stop ninja salvagers, CCP stop ganks, CCP Stop James315 from bumping me... etc etc etc.

Honestly, you'd be surprised how many hi sec dwellers think it's unfair that all this action can happen to them. Please don't misunderstand me, I am not anti-carebear. I just find some of their posts either amusing or repetitive

On the other hand, yes I agree there are rageposts from lo/null crying to turn off the so called 'isk faucet' and other 'nerf hi sec' posts. I would like some more originality :)


Yes I agree, 95 percent was a bit much. But the rage from low null outweights the other group. Those isk faucet posts you mentioned are just ridiculous. Both groups need to take a pill and tone it down. And on a side note /cheer Space Barbies!
Luc Chastot
#186 - 2012-11-14 08:15:23 UTC  |  Edited by: Luc Chastot
Remiel Pollard wrote:
stoicfaux wrote:
Remiel Pollard wrote:

how do you know who to "hate" on if you can't define them?

Exactly! Now you understand how it works.


No, I don't. I'll simplify it for you. Do try to keep up.

WHAT is a carebear? What kind of player is a carebear? What is it that they do to earn this term?



"Carebear" is a common term used by people who do not identify themselves as such to index their feelings towards a certain style of playing they find annoying for no particular reason. The word does not have any specific meaning related to EVE, it's just a repository with some connotations shared by all individuals/parties who use it, one of those being "inhabitant of highsec". You won't get an exact definition of it because there is no such thing.

Also, stop being a douche, people are trying to help you.

stoicfaux wrote:
Real World Example:
If you ask certain people what a [N-word] is, they will say it's a person of color. If you ask a person of color if they're a [N-word], they will tell you no, they're not a [N-word]. Ergo, the [N-word] isn't a noun/object/person. Instead the N-word is the belief that [N-words] exist. someone is inherently inferior based solely on cosmetic differences.


You're slightly wrong here. "Nig-ger" is a real term, albeit a pejorative one. The word has a very specific meaning, it just denotes a characteristic; however, when a black person tells you he is not a nig-ger, he's not telling you his skin is not black, what he means is that he does not identify himself with the necessary negative connotations of the word. Everyone who speaks English has agreed on both, the denotation and connotations of the word, and they are inseparable.

Let's use "b-itch", for example. It's meaning is very simple; a b-itch is a female dog, and some are dams. On the other hand we have sires, which are male dogs. Those are terms used in dog breeding, but the laymen/society in general has altered the connotation of the former to have a very different, although somewhat related meaning; this to the point where the word now has taken on a new denotation: that of its pejorative implication.

Make it idiot-proof and someone will make a better idiot.

Remiel Pollard
Aliastra
Gallente Federation
#187 - 2012-11-14 08:48:28 UTC
Luc Chastot wrote:

Also, stop being a douche, people are trying to help you.


People are misunderstanding me, so I keep having to explain myself over and over. It's rather annoying.

“Some capsuleers claim that ECM is 'dishonorable' and 'unfair'. Jam those ones first, and kill them last.” - Jirai 'Fatal' Laitanen, Pithum Nullifier Training Manual c. YC104

BoSau Hotim
Uitraan Diversified Holdings Incorporated
#188 - 2012-11-14 09:22:49 UTC
Luc Chastot wrote:
Remiel Pollard wrote:
stoicfaux wrote:
Remiel Pollard wrote:

how do you know who to "hate" on if you can't define them?

Exactly! Now you understand how it works.


No, I don't. I'll simplify it for you. Do try to keep up.

WHAT is a carebear? What kind of player is a carebear? What is it that they do to earn this term?



"Carebear" is a common term used by people who do not identify themselves as such to index their feelings towards a certain style of playing they find annoying for no particular reason. The word does not have any specific meaning related to EVE, it's just a repository with some connotations shared by all individuals/parties who use it, one of those being "inhabitant of highsec". You won't get an exact definition of it because there is no such thing.

Also, stop being a douche, people are trying to help you.

stoicfaux wrote:
Real World Example:
If you ask certain people what a [N-word] is, they will say it's a person of color. If you ask a person of color if they're a [N-word], they will tell you no, they're not a [N-word]. Ergo, the [N-word] isn't a noun/object/person. Instead the N-word is the belief that [N-words] exist. someone is inherently inferior based solely on cosmetic differences.


You're slightly wrong here. "Nig-ger" is a real term, albeit a pejorative one. The word has a very specific meaning, it just denotes a characteristic; however, when a black person tells you he is not a nig-ger, he's not telling you his skin is not black, what he means is that he does not identify himself with the necessary negative connotations of the word. Everyone who speaks English has agreed on both, the denotation and connotations of the word, and they are inseparable.

Let's use "b-itch", for example. It's meaning is very simple; a b-itch is a female dog, and some are dams. On the other hand we have sires, which are male dogs. Those are terms used in dog breeding, but the laymen/society in general has altered the connotation of the former to have a very different, although somewhat related meaning; this to the point where the word now has taken on a new denotation: that of its pejorative implication.



Do you talk like that in real life? Shocked

I'm not a carebear... I'm a SPACE BARBIE!  Now... where's Ken?

baltec1
Bat Country
Pandemic Horde
#189 - 2012-11-14 09:50:10 UTC
Kara Vix wrote:


Yes I agree, 95 percent was a bit much. But the rage from low null outweights the other group. Those isk faucet posts you mentioned are just ridiculous. Both groups need to take a pill and tone it down. And on a side note /cheer Space Barbies!


95% of our posts are to correct and counter carebear nerf demands. We have learned to our cost that if we dont smack them down swiftly and with no mercy we end up with bad balance passes. The barge changes being a fine example of this.
Jonah Gravenstein
Machiavellian Space Bastards
#190 - 2012-11-14 10:10:20 UTC
By it's broadest definition I'm a carebear, I mine, I mission, I trade etc, however just because that's the way I choose to play doesn't mean that I'm immune from the charms of the odd bit of nefarious activity.

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baltec1
Bat Country
Pandemic Horde
#191 - 2012-11-14 10:18:37 UTC
Jonah Gravenstein wrote:
By it's broadest definition I'm a carebear, I mine, I mission, I trade etc, however just because that's the way I choose to play doesn't mean that I'm immune from the charms of the odd bit of nefarious activity.



Then you arn't a bear. A bear is someone who avoids and hates anything bad that might happen to them, moreso if another player is behind it.
Jonah Gravenstein
Machiavellian Space Bastards
#192 - 2012-11-14 10:30:29 UTC
baltec1 wrote:

Then you arn't a bear. A bear is someone who avoids and hates anything bad that might happen to them, moreso if another player is behind it.


lol, I don't avoid it, sometimes I go looking for it. Still get called a bear though because PvE is my primary activity, and I choose to do it in highsec and the occasional unoccupied/wrong TZ wh.

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Mara Rinn
Cosmic Goo Convertor
#193 - 2012-11-14 11:32:26 UTC
Remiel Pollard wrote:
ISD TYPE40 wrote:
To assume that rationality is objective, and not subjective would be to assume that everyone shares an equal sense of reason. History shows that this is not the case, where some groups of people may have a shared sense of reason within their own boundaries, that particular definition may not be equal to that of another group of people.


As for rationality - I've always equated it with reason and logic. I don't believe that anything can be justified as rational without there being 1) a reason, and 2) a logical series of events that lead to the final decision. Otherwise, a word like "irrational" wouldn't exist - logically speaking.


Reason and logic are not the same thing. Logic is a system for formal thinking. Reason is a system of applying rules to thinking, some of which include logic, heuristics or rules of thumb. Not all rational decisions are logical, and not all logical decisions are rational.

Rational thinking will include influences such as politics: for example it is perfectly logical that given the situation of the world's food supply being more than enough to feed the entire population of the world, that it should be possible to feed everyone. However it is irrational to attempt to feed everyone in the world since the food supply is distributed unevenly, and the process of distribution of food would involve starting wars, stopping wars, countering racial hatred, and basically solving the ages old problem of world peace.

Even your attempt at an objective definition of rational is subjective. What counts as a reason for killing someone? In some jurisdictions, it's perfectly reasonable to execute a woman who looked at a man who was not her husband: logically, the law was broken, the law prescribes a certain punishment, thus the punishment must be dealt. In other jurisdictions it is not reasonable to kill anyone, even if your own life was at risk (though during the sentencing the Judge might give you a lenient sentence since you were acting in self defence).
Auric Veldfinger
Doomheim
#194 - 2012-11-14 11:44:51 UTC  |  Edited by: Auric Veldfinger
Some Rando wrote:
Auric Veldfinger wrote:
How long until we hear that nostrum about "getting into pvp from day one, here's an 8 hour skill queue to get you into a pvp corp", like abstinence it works in theory but rarely happens in reality.

Jesus, you and OP have some sort of aversion to reading, Google, and practice it seems.

You have two choices:
1. Nut up and shut up.
a. Find some friends and learn with them.
b. Put some coins in, choose "hard mode", and learn solo.

2. Whine like a little ***** about how hard **** is and how mean people are.


I have no aversion to reading and google, since that is how I learned, but, I realise everyone is not like me, this is a basic human skill called empathy. If the game wants the prevent carebearism then pvp must be encouraged to others who do not want to trawl google for weeks. If the devs or player base do not wish to so this, then the rate of Carebears will remain what it is.

You have two choices.
Do something or support changes to prevent people becoming bears. (Thank god some people do this in game, they are also the ones least likely to whine about bears I find)
Stop whining like a little ***** about care bears.

This is a PVP game, if you have a problem then come up with a PVP solution. You think there are too many carebears, come up with a PVP solution to stopping carebearism. Calling on ccp to "nerf this, nerf that, get rid of hi sec" = NOT PvP. Exactly the same goes for whiners about afk cloaking, too many blues and so on. Solve it, or shut up.

What is that definition of insanity, expecting things to change while doing still the same things over and over?

You learn while managing people this fear of mistakes and fear of failing is soo pathological in everyone, and the same in game applies, I mean even in a fleet asking some a question or a volunteer and you get...total silence. Something has come to me in fact, if we are using the definition of carebear as risk averse, well then EVERYONE is a carebear, because certainly everyone is risk averse to something.

Can you walk out in front of 3000 people and give a presentation with confidence and eloquence?
Walk into a bar and approach the most beautiful woman there and start conversation?
Quit your job and retrain or mortgage the house to start a business, rather than staying the the same saaafe position forever?
Join the gym and lose the 50 lbs?

This is of course going to be replied to by the athletic millionaire playboys of eve LOL. I mean sure, I suppose it is gratifying to have made it to big fish in the little internet pond, and whine about the other fishes being too averse or lazy if they want to swim in the pond as well.
Aineko Macx
#195 - 2012-11-14 13:09:22 UTC
stoicfaux wrote:
Jack Miton wrote:
carebear = anyone who actively avoids PVP

Except that anyone who participates in the Eve market engages in market PvP. Which makes 99.999+% of Eve players non-carebears.

Just like with the definition of "blob", It lies in the eye of the beholder: A carebear is someone less pvp-oriented than yourself.

But generally its a matter of attitude. A carebear is risk averse, sometimes to the point of denying at all cost the fact that risk is integral part of the eve experience.
Jenn aSide
Worthless Carebears
The Initiative.
#196 - 2012-11-14 13:25:42 UTC
Kara Vix wrote:
BoSau Hotim wrote:
Remiel Pollard wrote:
I see this term get thrown around a lot, more often as a pejorative for players that play the game a certain way - I'm not sure I understand what that certain way is, though, so I would appreciate it if someone explained. I know I'm going to get a few people who just say "carebears are the scum of highsec" and that's it, but that's not a definition, is it. I *don't* want to know WHY they're scum - or why they're NOT scum... in fact, I'd rather a definition, properly delivered without bias, not include the word scum at all. An explanation would be nice, not more accusations, pejoratives and condemnations. I just want to know what it means, not how you feel about it - although I'm sure some of you will tell me anyway.



IMO

1. a Carebear is someone who wants to live in high sec with absolutely no possible way for them to get ganked/bumped/can flipped/war dec'd/ninja salvaged or have any other player's actions negatively affect them. They don't PvP. They live in a magical world until they are introduced to the realities of EvE and then you find them on these forums raging.

2. Some use the term to refer to anyone who lives in hi sec (PvPing or not)


I am not a carebear by most definitions, am by some since I live mostly in Hi. But honestly on these forums I see 95 percent of the rage coming from low and null, not by these mystical space ursidae that everyone wants to hunt. Every hi sec dweller I know realizes that can flippers, etc are a part of the game and none think it need be removed. But it is amusing seeing the propaganda machine at work on the forums.


This is an example of a person seeing what they want to see rather than what is actually there. The truth is lots of different peopel complain about lots of different things, if you don't see the loads and loads of (for example )"EVE would get so many more subs if [insert anti-EVE idea here]" posts by people who self identify as living in high sec (and usually in an npc corp), then you're being willfully blind.

The subject of carebearism (which is just communisim, but slighty more fluffy LOL) does come up a lot, mainly because people like to ridicule others who are doing DUMB things.....

DUMB things like spending the time to download, install and log in to a game ADVERTIZED as cold, harsh, dark ,PVP centered and with THE harshest death penalty in the mmo world, created by mostly Icelandic psychopaths who do NOT like the "orthodox" MMO gaming represents 99+% off the mmo market......when you don't like games that are cold, harsh and dark made by Icelandic sociopaths

TLDR of above, If you don't like Icelandic Psychopathy, playing EVE is dumb and makes you a carebear...
Auric Veldfinger
Doomheim
#197 - 2012-11-14 13:27:58 UTC  |  Edited by: Auric Veldfinger
Remiel Pollard wrote:
I tried low-sec missioning when I was about 3-months into the game - undocked for my first mission and got ganked instantly without so much as a "lol u suck" from my assailant. Those were his exact words. If you want to encourage players to engage in more PvP, then the more experienced players are going to have to start treating the noobs better - nothing about that experience made me want to try low or nul again, and I'm getting my SP up before I venture back out there, it's that simple. I'm getting very close now, though - I already have access to .


This is unfortunate. It does happen though, that after something like this, the initiator will message you with some advice or point you in the direction of a training corp. Sometimes even invite you to reship and come back to train again, and stop when into hull. This is one of many things that PVPers will do to help people into combat. The "lol u suck" guy probably continues to whine on the forums about carebears and wonders why there are so many.
Remiel Pollard
Aliastra
Gallente Federation
#198 - 2012-11-14 13:32:20 UTC
Jenn aSide wrote:

... a game ADVERTIZED as cold, harsh, dark ,PVP centered and with THE harshest death penalty in the mmo world, created by mostly Icelandic psychopaths who do NOT like the "orthodox" MMO gaming represents 99+% off the mmo market......when you don't like games that are cold, harsh and dark made by Icelandic sociopaths

TLDR of above, If you don't like Icelandic Psychopathy, playing EVE is dumb and makes you a carebear...


I think you missed some of their advertising, to be honest.

Here's some more you missed.

I don't know about you.... but it doesn't look all that cold, harsh, or dark or even PVP-centric from those advertising perspectives. Maybe you're seeing something I'm not.... or something that just isn't there.

“Some capsuleers claim that ECM is 'dishonorable' and 'unfair'. Jam those ones first, and kill them last.” - Jirai 'Fatal' Laitanen, Pithum Nullifier Training Manual c. YC104

Remiel Pollard
Aliastra
Gallente Federation
#199 - 2012-11-14 13:36:34 UTC
Auric Veldfinger wrote:
Remiel Pollard wrote:
I tried low-sec missioning when I was about 3-months into the game - undocked for my first mission and got ganked instantly without so much as a "lol u suck" from my assailant. Those were his exact words. If you want to encourage players to engage in more PvP, then the more experienced players are going to have to start treating the noobs better - nothing about that experience made me want to try low or nul again, and I'm getting my SP up before I venture back out there, it's that simple. I'm getting very close now, though - I already have access to .


This is unfortunate. It does happen though, that after something like this, the initiator will message you with some advice or point you in the direction of a training corp. Sometimes even invite you to reship and come back to train again, and stop when into hull. This is one of many things that PVPers will do to help people into combat. The "lol u suck" guy probably continues to whine on the forums about carebears and wonders why there are so many.


I did try to fight him - I was on less than 5mil skill points at the time, in an Exequror. I had little chance, and I knew that the moment I hit F1.

I have no doubt there are plenty of PvPers who will happily rip your hull out from under you one minute, and then give you some good advice to prevent it from happening again. I've met a fair few myself, most of them were with Gallente militia. However, I wasn't complaining about this experience - this experience taught me something about EVE which I have learned from. I never whined about this experience, I personally grew from it.

But is the sort of behaviour that nobody should expect the victims NOT to whine about.

“Some capsuleers claim that ECM is 'dishonorable' and 'unfair'. Jam those ones first, and kill them last.” - Jirai 'Fatal' Laitanen, Pithum Nullifier Training Manual c. YC104

Jenn aSide
Worthless Carebears
The Initiative.
#200 - 2012-11-14 13:59:28 UTC
Remiel Pollard wrote:
Jenn aSide wrote:

... a game ADVERTIZED as cold, harsh, dark ,PVP centered and with THE harshest death penalty in the mmo world, created by mostly Icelandic psychopaths who do NOT like the "orthodox" MMO gaming represents 99+% off the mmo market......when you don't like games that are cold, harsh and dark made by Icelandic sociopaths

TLDR of above, If you don't like Icelandic Psychopathy, playing EVE is dumb and makes you a carebear...


I think you missed some of their advertising, to be honest.

Here's some more you missed.

I don't know about you.... but it doesn't look all that cold, harsh, or dark or even PVP-centric from those advertising perspectives. Maybe you're seeing something I'm not.... or something that just isn't there.


yea, you're reading all of that wrong. EVE has lots of things to do, that doesn't mean it's not what it is and has always been, which is basically a game about space-murder (and/or buliding things that help people space-murder others).

This is what i don't get about folks like you. It was obvious to me what EVE was before I D/L'd it, how is it not obviouls to you, unless your very good at seeing only things you want to see.