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So yeah can I have a moan about my life please?

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TheSpamMan Doshu
My Pen Is Huge
#1 - 2011-10-11 22:47:19 UTC
as the title suggests, I want to have a little moan. I've been up since 6am GMT so excuse the grammar etc. Bullet point form. If you wish to add your own to the list please do.

-My Job, I ******* hate it. I work for local government in the UK. They call it a customer service centre, it's just a ******* call centre.
-The people I have to speak to, all old / unemployed people with nothing better to do than complain about streetlights, potholes and how sad their lives are.
-The senior managers, most likely the same for everyone.... ever get the feeling your being **** on at every turn.
-Being thrown out of my house because my girlfriend dropped weed in my bedroom.... yeah got alot of sex after that to make up for it.
-Clinical Depression, says it all to be honest ( am under treatment for this )
-Working in a environment that's so political...
-The drive from a small town in Oxfordshire to Oxford Monday - Friday....


Im sure I could go on for ever but over to you my lovely people!
Christopher AET
Federal Navy Academy
Gallente Federation
#2 - 2011-10-11 23:29:59 UTC
It's on you to change your circumstances if you so wish

I drain ducks of their moisture for sustenance.

TheSpamMan Doshu
My Pen Is Huge
#3 - 2011-10-11 23:38:32 UTC
Christopher AET wrote:
It's on you to change your circumstances if you so wish



Indeed it is. Only problem is my mood and life would improve if i could find a different job, one to further myself. Just a shame the world is in a **** state. If you want it you got to to go out and get it!!!!!
Ludi Tomina
Aliastra
Gallente Federation
#4 - 2011-10-12 09:44:12 UTC
TheSpamMan Doshu wrote:

-Being thrown out of my house because my girlfriend dropped weed in my bedroom.... yeah got alot of sex after that to make up for it.


I'm not sure what you meant with this, can you explain a bit? I recognized words "weed" and "sex" so I'm curious now...
AlleyKat
The Unwanted.
#5 - 2011-10-12 12:11:00 UTC
TheSpamMan Doshu wrote:

-The drive from a small town in Oxfordshire to Oxford Monday - Friday....


Bicester? That place would make anyone crazee...as would the traffic along that road to Oxford.

Usta live in a peaceful Oxonian village several years ago - some of the best days of my life, but Oxford gets old after a while.

I don't envy you, taking calls from inbreds living in Blackbird Leys is certainly one persons definition of hell.

If you don't want to move, I can recommend talking a long walk around Shotover Country Park - clears the head and at this time of the year is a sight for sore eyes.

You might even be lucky enough to see a red squirrel...

This space for rent.

Adunh Slavy
#6 - 2011-10-12 12:17:57 UTC
So let's see, you have a job, some people don't and have no food.
Your job seems to carry no real responsibility at all, meaning when you go home, you can leave your job at the office.
You have crappy managers, welcome to real life.
You have extra money to spend on weed and get laid because of it, the horror.
Clinical depression eh? Well, not sure why you have that, but you have the NHS so you're getting free happy pills from the government.
Working in an environment where decisions are based on which idiot is in office is always good for a laugh.
Don't know about your drive, but likely a walk in the park for most Yanks.


Can't say I feel sorry for ya.

Necessity is the plea for every infringement of human freedom. It is the argument of tyrants; it is the creed of slaves.  - William Pitt

Kitaywa
Native Freshfood
Minmatar Republic
#7 - 2011-10-12 13:58:16 UTC
Adunh Slavy wrote:
So let's see, you have a job, some people don't and have no food.
Your job seems to carry no real responsibility at all, meaning when you go home, you can leave your job at the office.
You have crappy managers, welcome to real life.
You have extra money to spend on weed and get laid because of it, the horror.
Clinical depression eh? Well, not sure why you have that, but you have the NHS so you're getting free happy pills from the government.
Working in an environment where decisions are based on which idiot is in office is always good for a laugh.
Don't know about your drive, but likely a walk in the park for most Yanks.


Can't say I feel sorry for ya.




QFT.

Do you want an "I win" button in RL too?

I'm pretty sure a lot of ppl would like to be in your position. Steady income, weed and sex, living in a nice country.

So you deal with pin-heads and the shallow end of the gene pool in your work, welcome to the rest of society. At least you only have to deal with customer service over the phone. I feel a lot more sorry for the people that have to deal with it face to face and still keep smiling.

Try and look at the bright side of things eh?
Zagam
Caldari Provisions
Caldari State
#8 - 2011-10-12 14:26:24 UTC
Kitaywa wrote:
Adunh Slavy wrote:
So let's see, you have a job, some people don't and have no food.
Your job seems to carry no real responsibility at all, meaning when you go home, you can leave your job at the office.
You have crappy managers, welcome to real life.
You have extra money to spend on weed and get laid because of it, the horror.
Clinical depression eh? Well, not sure why you have that, but you have the NHS so you're getting free happy pills from the government.
Working in an environment where decisions are based on which idiot is in office is always good for a laugh.
Don't know about your drive, but likely a walk in the park for most Yanks.


Can't say I feel sorry for ya.




QFT.

Do you want an "I win" button in RL too?

I'm pretty sure a lot of ppl would like to be in your position. Steady income, weed and sex, living in a nice country.

So you deal with pin-heads and the shallow end of the gene pool in your work, welcome to the rest of society. At least you only have to deal with customer service over the phone. I feel a lot more sorry for the people that have to deal with it face to face and still keep smiling.

Try and look at the bright side of things eh?


Along the same lines, there is a LOT worse out there.

My dad has been out of work for 5-1/2 months. He was laid off not because his numbers sucked, or because of anything he did. He just made too much and was expendable to the company.

There are thousands of people out there who don't have a job, car, house, girlfriend, or medical treatment available. You do - be thankful for that.

You don't like what you do or how far you have to drive to do it? Have you tried looking for another job? Have you tried to find the good things about your job? Have you made it your goal to try and make one person smile every hour/day?

Not to be crass or harsh, but if you are looking for sympathy, the forums for an internet spaceship game is not the place. Try to make something out of what you have, before you cry into your spilled milk.
Astenion
University of Caille
Gallente Federation
#9 - 2011-10-12 19:43:36 UTC
Adunh Slavy wrote:
So let's see, you have a job, some people don't and have no food.
Your job seems to carry no real responsibility at all, meaning when you go home, you can leave your job at the office.
You have crappy managers, welcome to real life.
You have extra money to spend on weed and get laid because of it, the horror.
Clinical depression eh? Well, not sure why you have that, but you have the NHS so you're getting free happy pills from the government.
Working in an environment where decisions are based on which idiot is in office is always good for a laugh.
Don't know about your drive, but likely a walk in the park for most Yanks.


Can't say I feel sorry for ya.


So true. Not to be cold or heartless, but this man has a point.

As an aforementioned Yank, I live in Europe, however. I can tell you the European thought process of driving distance is laughable at best and simple sniveling at worst. I know people back home who DRIVE an hour and a half one way to their job in traffic, work 12 hours a day, then drive another hour and a half to make it home. They're so tired they only have enough time to wolf down leftovers, take a shower, possibly watch an hour of television/internet/video games and then go to bed, rinse, repeat. Oh, and did I mention that they work between 6-7 days a week sometimes? Sure, they make tons of money doing it but they have to take a vacation to spend it, IF they can get a vacation. If they're lucky enough to have a job that gives vacations, the maximum they can look forward to is two weeks PER YEAR.

Meanwhile, you don't have to support yourself because you were living with your parents so all that money I can assume went to hobbies and weed. The job you have is eye-stabbingly boring, yes, but would I be correct in thinking you get government benefits, which includes at least 30 days a year paid vacation, state benefits including retirement, and a 40-hour workweek (at most) with weekends off? Are you complaining that it doesn't come with backrubs and blow jobs or something?

In a time where former CEOs are delivering pizza to make ends meet, stop being a whiner and suck it up. Apologize to your parents, stop smoking weed, take your meds, and kwitcherbitchin'.
Zagam
Caldari Provisions
Caldari State
#10 - 2011-10-12 19:53:13 UTC
Astenion wrote:
Adunh Slavy wrote:
So let's see, you have a job, some people don't and have no food.
Your job seems to carry no real responsibility at all, meaning when you go home, you can leave your job at the office.
You have crappy managers, welcome to real life.
You have extra money to spend on weed and get laid because of it, the horror.
Clinical depression eh? Well, not sure why you have that, but you have the NHS so you're getting free happy pills from the government.
Working in an environment where decisions are based on which idiot is in office is always good for a laugh.
Don't know about your drive, but likely a walk in the park for most Yanks.


Can't say I feel sorry for ya.


So true. Not to be cold or heartless, but this man has a point.

As an aforementioned Yank, I live in Europe, however. I can tell you the European thought process of driving distance is laughable at best and simple sniveling at worst. I know people back home who DRIVE an hour and a half one way to their job in traffic, work 12 hours a day, then drive another hour and a half to make it home. They're so tired they only have enough time to wolf down leftovers, take a shower, possibly watch an hour of television/internet/video games and then go to bed, rinse, repeat. Oh, and did I mention that they work between 6-7 days a week sometimes? Sure, they make tons of money doing it but they have to take a vacation to spend it, IF they can get a vacation. If they're lucky enough to have a job that gives vacations, the maximum they can look forward to is two weeks PER YEAR.

Meanwhile, you don't have to support yourself because you were living with your parents so all that money I can assume went to hobbies and weed. The job you have is eye-stabbingly boring, yes, but would I be correct in thinking you get government benefits, which includes at least 30 days a year paid vacation, state benefits including retirement, and a 40-hour workweek (at most) with weekends off? Are you complaining that it doesn't come with backrubs and blow jobs or something?

In a time where former CEOs are delivering pizza to make ends meet, stop being a whiner and suck it up. Apologize to your parents, stop smoking weed, take your meds, and kwitcherbitchin'.


and here I was, thinking I was being too blunt.

Well said, and very true.
Astenion
University of Caille
Gallente Federation
#11 - 2011-10-12 19:56:57 UTC
Again, not trying to be rude or anything. Sometimes being blunt will jar someone awake. It works for me, at least.

I would like to say that I hope his life gets better, but from the sound of it, I honestly can't see how it's bad in the slightest.
Zagam
Caldari Provisions
Caldari State
#12 - 2011-10-12 20:00:18 UTC
Astenion wrote:
Again, not trying to be rude or anything. Sometimes being blunt will jar someone awake. It works for me, at least.

I would like to say that I hope his life gets better, but from the sound of it, I honestly can't see how it's bad in the slightest.


Oh, I know that sometimes bluntless is the best medicine. There are times when the cold, hard slap of reality is best delivered via 2x4.

I hope his life gets better too, but I honestly think that the "problems" that are being complained about are due to his own perception, rather than being an actual problem.
Herzog Wolfhammer
Sigma Special Tactics Group
#13 - 2011-10-12 21:55:22 UTC
Thorough said "Simplify".


Bring back DEEEEP Space!

KaarBaak
Squirrel Team
#14 - 2011-10-12 22:17:09 UTC
Two weeks ago my company announced that it was unlikely to finish out the year solvent.

That night I went home and responded to 7 posts on Craigslist with my resume.

Last week I went on three interviews

Today I was offered a job doing nearly the exact same thing I was doing before with a slightly higher salary.

I am waiting to hear back on the other interview which will be about a 25% raise if I get it.

Just sayin'....the jobs are out there.

I was worried those first couple of days after hearing so many horror stories about people exhausting 99 weeks of benefits, etc. Now, I'm not sure what all of the hubbub is about. I know there are people who are unemployed...and I know companies are closing and laying off people. But my anecdotal case refutes what I'm reading in the paper. I don't understand it.



Dum Spiro Spero

LordArioch
Ansum
#15 - 2011-10-12 23:05:29 UTC
Lucky for you you don't get to wear the horrific orange uniform that us lowly oxford council street cleaners wear.

You laugh at me because I am different. I laugh at you because you are all the same.

RubenX
The Drifters
#16 - 2011-10-12 23:35:00 UTC
It could be worst, lots worst. Hope it helps.
Headerman
Native Freshfood
Minmatar Republic
#17 - 2011-10-12 23:53:51 UTC
It could be way better too.

To the OP, having lived int he UKs south for 20 months i certainly know what ur going through. I worked at the Dorset County Council for 6 months as well as spending 5 weeks at the Poole council... man that was ****. crappy money, ridiculous PC, stupid co-workers and way too many employees to take work away from you.

I moved out of there and back to Australia in September 2008 to work in Sydney for a semi decent wage, but got sick of that about 12 months ago. After changing jobs to something better with a small company (as opposed to a huge one), it is nicer here.

I just applied for and got a job with BHP Billiton though, up in Queensland. my wage is gonna be quadrupled, will be working harder though. My missus is English, she is still living in the UK but will be here early next year so we both may work in the mines and make a fortune.

There is a cost though, 12 hour days, the mine being about 2 hours from the nearest city (there is an on-site village to stay at though), and pretty desolate conditions.

I don't think anyone should be happy when they have only enough to just get by... but that's just me.

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Propaganda Kitten
Imperial Academy
Amarr Empire
#18 - 2011-10-13 02:14:31 UTC
A least you can listen to Chris Moyles in the morning. Big smile
Headerman
Native Freshfood
Minmatar Republic
#19 - 2011-10-13 03:22:02 UTC
Propaganda Kitten wrote:
A least you can listen to Chris Moyles in the morning. Big smile


/wrists

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Jada Maroo
Native Freshfood
Minmatar Republic
#20 - 2011-10-13 03:46:44 UTC
I see a lot of "it could be worse" nonsense in this thread. I honestly can't imagine a worse existence than having to talk to geezers on the phone all day about their problems.

Well except for maybe doing tech support for geezers over the phone. Have you ever had to talk your parents through computer problems over the phone? It's the second definition of HELL in the dictionary.

"I'm trying to check my email but forgot how!"

"Okay click on the start menu."

"I don't see a start menu."

"It's the green button we talked about last time."

"I don't see it. It's not there."

"Buttom left hand side of the screen."

"It's not there!"

"IT IS!"

"NO IT'S NOT! STOP YELLING AT ME!"

"IT ******* IS! IT ALWAYS IS! READ THE SCREEN!"

"Is it green?"

"I SAID IT WAS GREEN!"

"Is it in the corner?"

"BOTTOM. LEFT. CORNER. GREEN. LOOK. WITH YOUR EYES. THE SCREEN IS ONLY 17 INCHES!!!"

"Does it say Start?"

"YES! CLICK IT! CLICK IT NOW GOD DAMMIT!"

"My email didn't come up."

"Click on Windows Mail."

"I don't see it...."
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