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Frying Doom
#1501 - 2012-03-27 10:34:58 UTC  |  Edited by: Frying Doom
Elena Melkan wrote:
Mecinia Lua wrote:
Sometimes the few or even the one must be sacrificed to serve a greater good. I didn't watch the alliance roundtable because in the beginning many of them were clearly drunk thus I do believe it was the alcohol talking. I didn't think anything good would come of listening to a bunch of drunks is why I didn't listen to it, I have though seen the snippet in question since. If CCP doesn't remove him from the CSM they'll be crucified by the overly liberal media. EVE could become the Dungeons & Dragons of the 21st century, where D&D was largely preached against etc in the later part of the 20th century, because of a few. That damage could undo the good they've done since Crucible.

What is the 'greater good' you speak about? Griefing happens everyday in EVE, in different levels. It is because CCP has taken different approach than other MMO's: they have allowed it in their game, while in some other games you would be banned right away when calling someone 'stupid'. I'm 100% sure that many of these posters who come here to cry about The Mittani and his actions have actually done similar things themselves. That is hypocrisy, my friend.

The Mittani has done well in CSM and was re-elected with massive amount of votes. Serving the 'greater good' in this case would mean him continuing in his position. Everyone does mistakes, everyone slips at some point, but one certainly shouldn't be crucified for that. Especially if he can make many other things better for a big bunch of people.

Sorry I'm getting lost. What does how many votes he gets in an election for a game have to do with him trying to get people to harass a player into killing himself in real life?

Any spelling, grammatical and punctuation errors are because frankly, I don't care!!

Lenrir Andven
Republic Military School
Minmatar Republic
#1502 - 2012-03-27 10:35:16 UTC
Edit: the hell it broke my post
Sugar Von MurdererTits
Weaponised Vegemite
Flying Dangerous
#1503 - 2012-03-27 10:36:12 UTC
Mara Rinn wrote:
Well written, Alex.

You're still a terrible person, and an excellent candidate for Chairman for Life. You should be chained to that Chair position as punishment for being such a wanker. No, I didn't vote for you so feel free to ignore everything I say. The Mittani is the type of sadistic megalomaniac that every fiction universe needs as a common enemy to fight against, or the common great leader to ally under. I appreciate The Mittani as the villain of the piece, and I appreciate Alexander Gianturco a committed participant in our game.
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Congratulations on most sensible post in this horrible thread.

Obviously Confidential
#1504 - 2012-03-27 10:36:54 UTC
The End.

Nothing more to see, move along now and leave quietly while the end credits scroll...

Fenris Deka
Imperial Academy
Amarr Empire
#1505 - 2012-03-27 10:37:20 UTC
baltec1 wrote:
Kaivar Lancer wrote:
baltec1 wrote:

Christ whats wrong with you people?

He made a bad joke that has been said a thousand times everywhere in game, on these forums and on outside forums. This is exactly the same thing as what happened to Clarkson from top gear when he made a joke about strikers needing to be shot.


The Mittani prescribed SPECIFIC actions to provoke a SPECIFIC player to kill himself. Anyway, I don't know why people continue to defend him. The guy admitted his mistake and it is now in CCP's court.


He made a bad joke. Why are you taking a bad joke said at the alliance panel of all places seriously?

I got it, everyone at fanfest understood it so why can't you?


Probably because he as many others are butt hurt that he won the CSM chair again, and that he had so much support in his campaign for it. There is also a large dose of jealousy in this thread because he got where he is because of the people putting him there, and are using this to try and get him deposed.
Thorn Galen
Bene Gesserit ChapterHouse
The Curatores Veritatis Auxiliary
#1506 - 2012-03-27 10:38:40 UTC
Good grief.

The man was hammered. He has apologised profusely. Real arrogance would have been not to do so.
Quite a few of you here are are doing exactly what you accuse The Mittens of doing, right here in these forums, in your own way.
The Judge, Jury and Executioner.

What The Mittens said was a terrible thing. He admits that, he apologises and there's more that has happened in the background to remedy the situation between him and the victim than you will ever see in these forums.

But he cannot really apologise, can he ? If he does, he's just covering his backside. If he does, he's just trying to save his Chairmanship. There's nothing he can do or say in these forums that will please those of you seeking blood, is there ? Oh wait, you want him to resign, or to be banned. Yeah, let's destroy another life whilst the opportunity exists. Afterall, it's his own fault is it not ?

Shame on you. Those of you with those thoughts are sober, well, most of you are. The Mittens was not, that was blatantly evident. That's not an excuse, it's part of the situation leading-up to this incident.

Here you are though, beying for blood, for "justice". Shame on you. I'm sober, sound of mind and lived long enough during hard times to say this to you who are crying from the rafters :-

Judge not lest ye be Judged.

God loves you all.

Prince Kobol
#1507 - 2012-03-27 10:38:55 UTC  |  Edited by: Prince Kobol
Elena Melkan wrote:
Mecinia Lua wrote:
Sometimes the few or even the one must be sacrificed to serve a greater good. I didn't watch the alliance roundtable because in the beginning many of them were clearly drunk thus I do believe it was the alcohol talking. I didn't think anything good would come of listening to a bunch of drunks is why I didn't listen to it, I have though seen the snippet in question since. If CCP doesn't remove him from the CSM they'll be crucified by the overly liberal media. EVE could become the Dungeons & Dragons of the 21st century, where D&D was largely preached against etc in the later part of the 20th century, because of a few. That damage could undo the good they've done since Crucible.

What is the 'greater good' you speak about? Griefing happens everyday in EVE, in different levels. It is because CCP has taken different approach than other MMO's: they have allowed it in their game, while in some other games you would be banned right away when calling someone 'stupid'. I'm 100% sure that many of these posters who come here to cry about The Mittani and his actions have actually done similar things themselves. That is hypocrisy, my friend.

The Mittani has done well in CSM and was re-elected with massive amount of votes. Serving the 'greater good' in this case would mean him continuing in his position. Everyone does mistakes, everyone slips at some point, but one certainly shouldn't be crucified for that if he could make many other things better for a big bunch of people.


Whilst all very true, the problem is that his comments were made out of game at a official CCP Event.

An Official Event being transmitted live to thousands of people with CCP employees present,

I'm no expert but something tells those people who have millions of dollars invested in CCP would not appreciate the amount of negativity publicity currently on the internet, neither would CCP partners such as Sony and Nvidia, especially considering the topic in question is so prevalent in today's media and with the growing band wagon of people who are trying to blame computer games for kids running riot.

Why do you think CCP has a rule that you can not post kill mails, eve mails and chat logs for the sole purpose to mock and humiliate people?

CCP know there is a line that can not be crossed, unfortunately for Alex he did cross this line.

I do have a lot of sympathy for Alex, He does not deserves the amount of real life vilification he has received. It was a dumb misguided action made worse due to him being drunk.

I have no sympathy for CCP as I can not believe that somebody didn't think of just giving the presentation slides a quick once over just to make sure they were no crossing any lines, considering the reputation that some of the alliance members leaders have and also that they were stinking drunk as well.
baltec1
Bat Country
Pandemic Horde
#1508 - 2012-03-27 10:39:45 UTC
Fenris Deka wrote:


Probably because he as many others are butt hurt that he won the CSM chair again, and that he had so much support in his campaign for it. There is also a large dose of jealousy in this thread because he got where he is because of the people putting him there, and are using this to try and get him deposed.


I find myself having to agree with you. Its the only thing which makes any sense in this and quite frankly, this is far more disgusting than anything that was said at fanfest.
Yugo Reventlov
Keeping Up Appearances
#1509 - 2012-03-27 10:40:22 UTC
The karma part of this whole thing is that this will also have real-life repercussions on The Mittani in the future.

I imagine when he goes looking for his next job, his future employers will launch a google search on his name, and when this pops up, he'll at least have some explaining to do.

Which is why I believe this apology is sincere :)
tengen san
Triton-TC
#1510 - 2012-03-27 10:40:29 UTC
The Mittani wrote:


................. I put myself in that compromised mental state, and the guilt of that is entirely mine.

If I could go back in time and not have included the slide mentioning the miner, I would do so. While the Eve Online character "The Mittani" would never apologize for any sort of villany in game, I myself, as Alex Gianturco, feel utterly ashamed and sickened by my behavior.


Too little, too late! If alcohol lifts the border of the two, it’s time to leave for your own good. What damage could be done to yourself next time you might not remember?

So who shall it be you will give up, the mittens or yourself?

Too bad, I liked some of the stuff you set up in Game but it’s your choice now.
Xander Riggs
Slamtown Federation
#1511 - 2012-03-27 10:40:31 UTC
Thorn Galen wrote:
Good grief.

The man was hammered. He has apologised profusely. Real arrogance would have been not to do so.
Quite a few of you here are are doing exactly what you accuse The Mittens of doing, right here in these forums, in your own way...l.



This guy gets it.

"A man with a drone-boat has nothing but time on his hands."

Fenris Deka
Imperial Academy
Amarr Empire
#1512 - 2012-03-27 10:40:44 UTC
Thorn Galen wrote:
Good grief.

The man was hammered. He has apologised profusely. Real arrogance would have been not to do so.
Quite a few of you here are are doing exactly what you accuse The Mittens of doing, right here in these forums, in your own way.
The Judge, Jury and Executioner.

What The Mittens said was a terrible thing. He admits that, he apologises and there's more that has happened in the background to remedy the situation between him and the victim than you will ever see in these forums.

But he cannot really apologise, can he ? If he does, he's just covering his backside. If he does, he's just trying to save his Chairmanship. There's nothing he can do or say in these forums that will please those of you seeking blood, is there ? Oh wait, you want him to resign, or to be banned. Yeah, let's destroy another life whilst the opportunity exists. Afterall, it's his own fault is it not ?

Shame on you. Those of you with those thoughts are sober, well, most of you are. The Mittens was not, that was blatantly evident. That's not an excuse, it's part of the situation leading-up to this incident.

Here you are though, beying for blood, for "justice". Shame on you. I'm sober, sound of mind and lived long enough during hard times to say this to you who are crying from the rafters :-

Judge not lest ye be Judged.

God loves you all.



This is now the most sensible post in this entire thread, besides the OP.
Ganagati
Perkone
Caldari State
#1513 - 2012-03-27 10:42:02 UTC
The dude is resigning. It doesn't matter what CCP does or doesn't do, he already gave his word that he was leaving his post.

http://www.eurogamer.net/articles/2012-03-27-eve-online-council-chairman-announces-intent-to-resign-apologises-to-the-community

/thread

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Khorian
The Scope
Gallente Federation
#1514 - 2012-03-27 10:43:46 UTC
baltec1 wrote:


He made a bad joke. Why are you taking a bad joke said at the alliance panel of all places seriously?

I got it, everyone at fanfest understood it so why can't you?



He made a bad joke, he crossed a fine line with it. He apologised for it. Just because you think something is funny doesn't mean that it is allright to do.

So by apologising and not trying to rationalize the bad thing he did he showed that he actually appears to have a spine. Its much harder to admit that you were wrong than to keep on defending your (or his) wrong position.

What he did was out of line. He got it, he acted on it. Stop defending him for his "bad joke". Take of your pink internet spaceship glasses and stfu before you make yourself look even more stupid.

I will try to make it as short and blunt as possible for you. YOU ARE WRONG. The end.

PS: Grow a spine
Zombatar
Vectors of Virtue
#1515 - 2012-03-27 10:43:54 UTC
Thorn Galen wrote:
Good grief.

The man was hammered. He has apologised profusely. Real arrogance would have been not to do so.
Quite a few of you here are are doing exactly what you accuse The Mittens of doing, right here in these forums, in your own way.
The Judge, Jury and Executioner.

What The Mittens said was a terrible thing. He admits that, he apologises and there's more that has happened in the background to remedy the situation between him and the victim than you will ever see in these forums.

But he cannot really apologise, can he ? If he does, he's just covering his backside. If he does, he's just trying to save his Chairmanship. There's nothing he can do or say in these forums that will please those of you seeking blood, is there ? Oh wait, you want him to resign, or to be banned. Yeah, let's destroy another life whilst the opportunity exists. Afterall, it's his own fault is it not ?

Shame on you. Those of you with those thoughts are sober, well, most of you are. The Mittens was not, that was blatantly evident. That's not an excuse, it's part of the situation leading-up to this incident.

Here you are though, beying for blood, for "justice". Shame on you. I'm sober, sound of mind and lived long enough during hard times to say this to you who are crying from the rafters :-

Judge not lest ye be Judged.

God loves you all.



Any action has a consequence. At this rate The MIttani will have many problems in life. His apology is a good step forward for him to avoid that, but I suspect that will not change his behaviour. The actions of the past still have to catch up with him, so he will get more of this.

IMO his position as CSM chair is unacceptable after this event, banning him from EVE would be too much also.

He has to become responsible, accept his mistake, resign and play like a good puppy for a while. He will rise again if he is smart enough, second time, maybe even better than now, in a good way. lol
Fenris Deka
Imperial Academy
Amarr Empire
#1516 - 2012-03-27 10:45:35 UTC
Ganagati wrote:
The dude is resigning. It doesn't matter what CCP does or doesn't do, he already gave his word that he was leaving his post.

http://www.eurogamer.net/articles/2012-03-27-eve-online-council-chairman-announces-intent-to-resign-apologises-to-the-community

/thread


Only if the rest of council agrees with the resignation, which they won't and will want him to stay in the position. If the resignation stands as he plans, it will be sad because the situation has no real bearing on the CSM.

No real politician would have been deposed of his Senatorial seat if he made a comment while drunk. To my knowledge, there has been none that was deposed because of this.
Dusty Meg
Echelon Research
Goonswarm Federation
#1517 - 2012-03-27 10:46:03 UTC
The pople out for blood took soo long to actually act on this shows they didnt care before the news that The Mitanni was actually chairman again. If possible these threads started before the news then it would simply be because of the drunken words said (And who doesnt say stupid things while drunk) they are simply after kicking him off the chair and for some stupid reason wanting him banned which are both stupid things.

For me he has appologised and that is enough for me, keep the best CSM chairman we have had so far in the chairmans seat.

Creater of the EVE animated influence map http://www.youtube.com/user/DustMityEVE

baltec1
Bat Country
Pandemic Horde
#1518 - 2012-03-27 10:46:17 UTC
Khorian wrote:
baltec1 wrote:


He made a bad joke. Why are you taking a bad joke said at the alliance panel of all places seriously?

I got it, everyone at fanfest understood it so why can't you?



He made a bad joke, he crossed a fine line with it. He apologised for it. Just because you think something is funny doesn't mean that it is allright to do.

So by apologising and not trying to rationalize the bad thing he did he showed that he actually appears to have a spine. Its much harder to admit that you were wrong than to keep on defending your (or his) wrong position.

What he did was out of line. He got it, he acted on it. Stop defending him for his "bad joke". Take of your pink internet spaceship glasses and stfu before you make yourself look even more stupid.

I will try to make it as short and blunt as possible for you. YOU ARE WRONG. The end.

PS: Grow a spine


So are you now going to wage war on Crime and punishment?

Because this kind of thing happens all the time in there.
Professor Alphane
Les Corsaires Diable
#1519 - 2012-03-27 10:48:55 UTC
baltec1 wrote:
Khorian wrote:
baltec1 wrote:


He made a bad joke. Why are you taking a bad joke said at the alliance panel of all places seriously?

I got it, everyone at fanfest understood it so why can't you?



He made a bad joke, he crossed a fine line with it. He apologised for it. Just because you think something is funny doesn't mean that it is allright to do.

So by apologising and not trying to rationalize the bad thing he did he showed that he actually appears to have a spine. Its much harder to admit that you were wrong than to keep on defending your (or his) wrong position.

What he did was out of line. He got it, he acted on it. Stop defending him for his "bad joke". Take of your pink internet spaceship glasses and stfu before you make yourself look even more stupid.

I will try to make it as short and blunt as possible for you. YOU ARE WRONG. The end.

PS: Grow a spine


So are you now going to wage war on Crime and punishment?

Because this kind of thing happens all the time in there.


Would you like me too, this battle is over bar the shouting


[center]YOU MUST THINK FIRST....[/center] [center]"I sit with the broken angels clutching at straws and nursing our scars.." - Marillion [/center] [center]The wise man watches the rise and fall of fools from afar[/center]

Kara Roideater
#1520 - 2012-03-27 10:48:57 UTC
David Cedarbridge wrote:
Kara Roideater wrote:
David Cedarbridge wrote:


You might be shocked, but your morals are not the morals of those around you and (shock incoming) they aren't superior to those of others simply because they're yours.


Actually, I don't believe in morals


See, now you're not even trying to be consistent.


I'm sorry if you can't see how a moral nihilist position is compatible with one that invokes social relationships and their interactions as grounds for assessing behaviour. Perhaps further thought is necessary on your part as this position is the natural and logical conclusion of your own run at moral relativism. You see, something doesn't have to be 'morally wrong' to be worthy of criticism and nor do I have to think that something is 'objectively bad' for me to want to prevent such things happening in the future. Social game rules involve an ongoing negotiation amongst the parties involved. Where the Goons have ****** up here is in taking their own communal social game rules and bringing them into the public gaze of the wider community. Given that the Goons explicitly self-identify as a sub-culture and put themselves outside normal societal norms it just bemuses me completely that they react with shock and outrage when they find that, yes indeed the outside world does find their mode of social interaction to be highly offensive.

So, what I'm trying to tell you is my own morals or lack thereof are neither here nor there. I have opinions about what things should and should not happen in a society that I would be happy living in and the Mittani's actions fall into the category of things I would prefer not to happen. However, most of the rest of society will conflate their personal view on that with 'moral wrongdoing' and will, quite reasonably, then go looking for the head of the 'wrongdoer'. And their society is bigger and more influential than your sub-culture. This is just a mirror of the approach the Goon's took to the Wis. He offended your sense of propriety with his mail so he was mocked and publicly pilloried because he was sufficiently weak to be targeted in that way. Mainstream society just has slightly different forms for handling such things and frequently not forms I agree with either.

Finally, I have to say that I will indeed feel genuinely sorry for the RL Alex if this stuff gets picked up by the mainstream press as I wouldn't wish that on anyone. Indeed, I will feel more sorry for him than the player he mocked. However, I will also think he has more personal responsibility for landing himself in that situation and I don't think that these potential unfortunate consequences should be used to argue that he shouldn't have been criticised in the first place.